Excited!

[katslover]

I’ve been on this site for years. I’ve mainly used it to follow the fun others are having, as well as learn from their successes and failures. I’ve also enjoyed the Hotties section! lol! My wife is gorgeous and has known for 15+ years that I would love for her to explore hotwifing. Initially, she was like most, shocked, hurt, suspicious, didn’t want to hear about it. After around a decade later, she was willing to role play it with me, but it didn’t turn her on. It stopped turning her off, so I was happy. A few years ago, I texted a couple naughty stories starring her, doing some light hotwife stuff to read right before tanning before a trip. The first was her flashing a hot guy and letting him touch her bare breast. She made herself cum while tanning, then came and wanted sex from me. Super hot, especially since she very rarely masturbates. The second one had her mixing a drink away from our group, a hot stranger she’d seen eyeing her follows her and hits on her. I provided 2 endings, a mild one and one where he was behind her, rubbing her clit and breast, while she stroked him. She didn’t cum while tanning, but came home wanting to role play it with me. She came while imaging him. So hot!! Things kinda died down for a couple years on that front. However, she started wearing thong bikinis on our trips with another couple (no, not swingers, just really good friends). She also started wearing really low cut shirts, often with no bra, on date nights and trips with our friends. A couple weeks ago I needed to go to the hardware store, invited her along, and suggested she go with the pads removed from her athletic top so her nipples would protrude. I was floored when she agreed! I pointed out a couple guys I saw checking her out. She didn’t respond much, just smiled. When we got home, she was super horny! After just a minute of passionate kissing, I felt to see if she was wet. She was wettest she’s ever been that early into foreplay!!
So that’s the quick background. We are upper 40’s, though she routinely gets told that she looks 10 years younger than she is. We will be empty nesters in a few months when our youngest moves out. The older child moved away a few years ago. I asked my wife to read “The Faithful Hotwife.” Afterwards I asked her about. I think she appreciated the explanation of hotwife desires within the husband’s mind. What blew me away, and thus why I’m excited, is when I asked if she was willing to try any of the recommendations for how to play with things, she gave 2. Being blindfolded and pretending I was someone else AND… letting me post hot pics of her on here! I was floored! We had sex right after, but after she said she didn’t want every time to be about hotwife stuff. So I didn’t bring it up during our play. After asking me to fuck her as hard as I could, she still hadn’t cum. Then she she started talking about guys wanting to see her pussy, them getting turned on from it, and then she came hard! As the song goes, “I’m so excited! And I just can’t hide it! I’m about to lose control and I think I like it!” Wisely, she said absolutely no pics of her face or anything that might give away our identities.

I need some help. I’ve spent a long time this morning trying to shrink iPhone pics down to a size that this site requires. I have not been able to get them small enough via my iPhone. So I can’t post pics until I solve that issue. Help!!

[MartasBoy]

I’ve been on this site for years. I’ve mainly used it to follow the fun others are having, as well as learn from their successes and failures. I’ve also enjoyed the Hotties section! lol! My wife is gorgeous and has known for 15+ years that I would love for her to explore hotwifing. Initially, she was like most, shocked, hurt, suspicious, didn’t want to hear about it. .....


.....I need some help. I’ve spent a long time this morning trying to shrink iPhone pics down to a size that this site requires. I have not been able to get them small enough via my iPhone. So I can’t post pics until I solve that issue. Help!!

I have had the same problems. I am following this, to see what Solutions people offer.

[pixmangurn]

Look at the top of the Hotties thread. There is a chain of messages there on how to post pictures.

[katslover]

Look at the top of the Hotties thread. There is a chain of messages there on how to post pictures.

I got a pic to post in the bikinis thread, even though when I tried I was told “I didn’t have access to the file.” I still can’t get an avatar to stick. I didn’t know it posted until I logged in again and saw I had a comment.

[Fearlesspain]

I’ve been on this site for years. I’ve mainly used it to follow the fun others are having, as well as learn from their successes and failures. I’ve also enjoyed the Hotties section! lol! My wife is gorgeous and has known for 15+ years that I would love for her to explore hotwifing. Initially, she was like most, shocked, hurt, suspicious, didn’t want to hear about it. After around a decade later, she was willing to role play it with me, but it didn’t turn her on. It stopped turning her off, so I was happy. A few years ago, I texted a couple naughty stories starring her, doing some light hotwife stuff to read right before tanning before a trip. The first was her flashing a hot guy and letting him touch her bare breast. She made herself cum while tanning, then came and wanted sex from me. Super hot, especially since she very rarely masturbates. The second one had her mixing a drink away from our group, a hot stranger she’d seen eyeing her follows her and hits on her. I provided 2 endings, a mild one and one where he was behind her, rubbing her clit and breast, while she stroked him. She didn’t cum while tanning, but came home wanting to role play it with me. She came while imaging him. So hot!! Things kinda died down for a couple years on that front. However, she started wearing thong bikinis on our trips with another couple (no, not swingers, just really good friends). She also started wearing really low cut shirts, often with no bra, on date nights and trips with our friends. A couple weeks ago I needed to go to the hardware store, invited her along, and suggested she go with the pads removed from her athletic top so her nipples would protrude. I was floored when she agreed! I pointed out a couple guys I saw checking her out. She didn’t respond much, just smiled. When we got home, she was super horny! After just a minute of passionate kissing, I felt to see if she was wet. She was wettest she’s ever been that early into foreplay!!
So that’s the quick background. We are upper 40’s, though she routinely gets told that she looks 10 years younger than she is. We will be empty nesters in a few months when our youngest moves out. The older child moved away a few years ago. I asked my wife to read “The Faithful Hotwife.” Afterwards I asked her about. I think she appreciated the explanation of hotwife desires within the husband’s mind. What blew me away, and thus why I’m excited, is when I asked if she was willing to try any of the recommendations for how to play with things, she gave 2. Being blindfolded and pretending I was someone else AND… letting me post hot pics of her on here! I was floored! We had sex right after, but after she said she didn’t want every time to be about hotwife stuff. So I didn’t bring it up during our play. After asking me to fuck her as hard as I could, she still hadn’t cum. Then she she started talking about guys wanting to see her pussy, them getting turned on from it, and then she came hard! As the song goes, “I’m so excited! And I just can’t hide it! I’m about to lose control and I think I like it!” Wisely, she said absolutely no pics of her face or anything that might give away our identities.

I need some help. I’ve spent a long time this morning trying to shrink iPhone pics down to a size that this site requires. I have not been able to get them small enough via my iPhone. So I can’t post pics until I solve that issue. Help!!

First off... I saw your pictures and she's very sexy. I'm happy for you brother!
Second... If it would help your wife, I can confirm that at least one other man besides yourself has stroked his cock while looking at her in the black bikini bottoms.
Third... Email the pictures to yourself on a computer and the screenshot them and save them as a jpeg. The take up much less room but don't lose quality. As far as the avatar. You can go to https://imresizer.com/resize-image-to-200x200 and make the image then post it to https://imgbb.com/ and give the link to OHW for your avatar and it should work. That's what I did.

Congratulations on your journey. I love that you love your wife so much and want her to enjoy herself. I'm glad she's opening up to some adventure and is finding it enjoyable as well!

[joe111]

She is stunning

[aztd]

Following

[katslover]

Thanks for the responses! I appreciate it! Hopefully I will have some time soon to reduce file sizes on her pics.

[rascalnvixen]

Katslover, You can use a free program that is very powerful for images. It's called Paint.net. It is a open source program and is used by a LOT of people. I've used it for years and I've never had any problems with it. It is constantly updated and I've not seen anything unusual about it. I've checked it several times to see if there was anything malicious about it and found none. It might take a little getting used to but you will be happy with it. Just google it to find it's d/l page. Good luck and I'm looking to seeing more of your sexy wife!!!!!!

Rascal

[Wifepleaser510]

If you email the photos to yourself, your iPhone will give you the option to choose a size for the photos. Essentially small, medium large, and I believe it will tell you what the file size is.

Then you can save that photo from your email, and post it here. Also, if you have a Mac, you can open the photo in the Preview app, then export the image. There’s an options feature in the save window that will allow you to choose the file format and file size.

[BallSpanking]

Everything in your account speaks to your wife being curious, but hesitant. You have been pleasantly surprised by her acquiescence of small sensual requests, like removing the pads from her sports top, etc. Now she has made two proactive proposals, allowing you to post her pics (she is beautiful, BTW), and blindfold fantasy play. Both, safe, not venturing out of the house, akin to virtual/fantasy play.

So, you can see her state of mind is migrating toward a greater acceptance of HotWifing, but still has trepidations about it, hence her 'safe' choices of play. Be mindful of this, as you want her to feel comfortable as she dips a toe in the fantasy. Steps like these bring that fantasy into 3D reality, making it real (albeit held close to the vest, non-public), but this is exactly what is needed for her to feel comfortable with that aspect of herself, normalizing the thought, stimulating her curiosity.

Perhaps additional tiny steps are in order, You already noticed her willingness to discard bras and wear a thong bikini ... Now if you could engage her in a game, for example, where she is encouraged to flirt with sexy guys she sees during the day, then re-telling the experiences and outcomes to hubby in bed. All agreed to and encouraged.
Eventually these types of exchanges will yield perhaps a fateful one that really rattles her tree. You have seen the way men react to her, she is easily able to attract fit Alpha specimens in droves, she can have her pick of the endowment she'd prefers. But still, at her speed, in her control (unless she asks you to take some control, like perhaps curating her AFF queries).

You are correct that she deserves to experience the best sexual experiences she could have, but has barely scratched the surface.
She's a babe!

[katslover]

Thank you all for your replies! I believe I have the picture downsizing figured out. I sincerely hope that this is the start of a very fun journey. My wife is very slow in admitting something naughty is good. It took her almost 20 years to admit to me she really likes anal. Now, she encourages her gf’s to try it and provides them with advice on how best to do it! It took her 15 years to admit she waxes her pussy bald because she prefers it that way. With both, she would say she was only obliging me with those, that it was only for me and she didn’t really care for it. So she has a long history of hiding her naughty likes. It’s just how she moves through her journey. She says that the posting of her pics are just to oblige my desires to share her. That could be true. It could be like other naughty things in the past. Only time will tell!

She was a bit shocked that I posted her pics without her express consent on each pic. She expresses shock as anger. She was only upset at her lack of control over pics. I explained why I didn’t know she felt that need, apologized, and we’re back on track. Moving forward, I’ll get her approval on my pics, but I believe she will send me selfies to post too. We’ll also do photo sessions with the intent of posting. If there was a way to monetize her pics, I think she’d be all in. We are both adamant about not showing her face. We don’t want to “go public”, especially since we have 2 kids!

[BallSpanking]

I think she would enjoy the comments on her pics from the husbands here ...

[katslover]

I wrote down the ones that were posted, made a list of them, and sent them to her via text. She was at work so I don’t know how much they sunk in. Hopefully she will reread them after work or later.

[Fearlesspain]

I think all of the photos you posted were tasteful, yet alluring. The fact that she's willing to do photo sessions for the explicit purpose of sharing speaks volumes to where she is. I would argue that posting what you already have would be obliging you, but planning to take photos just to post shows she's somewhat into it as well. I think you're spot on with hiding her naughty side.

You could probably monetize it with sites like onlyfans, but I'd argue you'd be opening yourself up to a world of degenerates who would not be kind and it may be counterproductive to your goals.

I would keep in mind what you post, because she could very well create an account and might not like everything said, even if it's true. Best to clean that up with edits before hand.

Her wanting to have approval could also work in your favor! You could casually review you previous posts with her and allow her to see all of the positive feedback she's receiving. Her body is marvelous!

Regardless, the fact that she's planning to do more is exciting, because I can't wait to see more of her beautiful body! I'm subscribed!!!

[katslover]

My biggest challenge, if I’m being honest, is myself. I can hyper focused on things that I want to happen. In my professional and academic life, that has served me well. With this desire, it doesn’t work well. So I’m trying really hard to not cover my wife up with my excitement for sharing her on here. I believe she has hit a short pause button as she acclimates to this new experience. As she says, “It’s me, not you, that people are seeing.” I totally respect that, though my excitement is my enemy on that. That’s my burden to manage and the better I control myself, the better this journey will go.

[Fearlesspain]

My biggest, if I’m being honest, is myself. I can hyper focused on things that I want to happen. In my professional and academic life, that has served me well. With this desire, it doesn’t work well. So I’m trying really hard to not cover my wife up with my excitement for sharing her on here. I believe she has hit a short pause button as she acclimates to this new experience. As she says, “It’s me, not you, that people are seeing.” I totally respect that, though my excitement is my enemy on that. That’s my burden to manage and the better I control myself, the better this journey will go.

I completely understand! You're very wise. It's a marathon not a sprint and respecting her decisions and desires in this is the most important thing.

She's doing amazing. She's wearing more revealing clothing, read the book, AND implementing things by her own decision.

When my wife and I take road trips I just want to get there, but she always encourages me to enjoy the ride and not fixate on the destination.

Just enjoy the ride on this one!

Maybe take a chance to reassure her that you appreciate everything she's opened herself up to doing for you in this area and that even if she never does another thing, you are glad she tried and you really just want her to enjoy it.

Ignore me if I'm being too forward with my recommendations. I'm just trying to be encouraging and supportive. I know you know how much she'd enjoy it if she'd embrace this side of herself. I want this for both of you!!!

[katslover]

My biggest, if I’m being honest, is myself. I can hyper focused on things that I want to happen. In my professional and academic life, that has served me well. With this desire, it doesn’t work well. So I’m trying really hard to not cover my wife up with my excitement for sharing her on here. I believe she has hit a short pause button as she acclimates to this new experience. As she says, “It’s me, not you, that people are seeing.” I totally respect that, though my excitement is my enemy on that. That’s my burden to manage and the better I control myself, the better this journey will go.

I completely understand! You're very wise. It's a marathon not a sprint and respecting her decisions and desires in this is the most important thing.

She's doing amazing. She's wearing more revealing clothing, read the book, AND implementing things by her own decision.

When my wife and I take road trips I just want to get there, but she always encourages me to enjoy the ride and not fixate on the destination.

Just enjoy the ride on this one!

Maybe take a chance to reassure her that you appreciate everything she's opened herself up to doing for you in this area and that even if she never does another thing, you are glad she tried and you really just want her to enjoy it.

Ignore me if I'm being too forward with my recommendations. I'm just trying to be encouraging and supportive. I know you know how much she'd enjoy it if she'd embrace this side of herself. I want this for both of you!!!

I recognize where you’re coming from and I appreciate it! I think you provide sage advice. Thank you!

[katslover]

Everything in your account speaks to your wife being curious, but hesitant. You have been pleasantly surprised by her acquiescence of small sensual requests, like removing the pads from her sports top, etc. Now she has made two proactive proposals, allowing you to post her pics (she is beautiful, BTW), and blindfold fantasy play. Both, safe, not venturing out of the house, akin to virtual/fantasy play.

So, you can see her state of mind is migrating toward a greater acceptance of HotWifing, but still has trepidations about it, hence her 'safe' choices of play. Be mindful of this, as you want her to feel comfortable as she dips a toe in the fantasy. Steps like these bring that fantasy into 3D reality, making it real (albeit held close to the vest, non-public), but this is exactly what is needed for her to feel comfortable with that aspect of herself, normalizing the thought, stimulating her curiosity.

Perhaps additional tiny steps are in order, You already noticed her willingness to discard bras and wear a thong bikini ... Now if you could engage her in a game, for example, where she is encouraged to flirt with sexy guys she sees during the day, then re-telling the experiences and outcomes to hubby in bed. All agreed to and encouraged.
Eventually these types of exchanges will yield perhaps a fateful one that really rattles her tree. You have seen the way men react to her, she is easily able to attract fit Alpha specimens in droves, she can have her pick of the endowment she'd prefers. But still, at her speed, in her control (unless she asks you to take some control, like perhaps curating her AFF queries).

You are correct that she deserves to experience the best sexual experiences she could have, but has barely scratched the surface.
She's a babe!

I think you’re spot with your analysis of my wife. I posted another hot pic in the Hotties that she approved. I was shocked that she chose the naughtiest of the 3 options I sent to her. Yet, she felt 3 pics were too much for her comfort level. I definitely need to respect her decision and try my hardest to understand her feelings. It’s a challenge for me given how erotic it is to finally be able to share her in a sexual way, albeit online only. Additionally , I don’t understand the difference between 3 pics and 1, but to her there’s a difference.

I have encouraged her for many years to flirt with guys, just for fun, but she’s just not comfortable with that. I’ve tried making it a game, but that doesn’t make it comfortable for her. So I need to respect her feelings on that. She knows how I feel and what I want, but it’s absolutely on her terms. I’m hoping the next pic I post will be one she sends to me with the sole purpose of sharing it on here. What she needs is a confident guy to flirt with her to break the ice. Unlikely, but given her hesitancy, it’s what it would take.

[katslover]

Just posted another hot pic! Last time we had sex, I made sure to not bring up anything hotwife related. It was about 1 day after I posted her last pic. My wife will have lots of orgasms from clitoral stimulation, but is usually 1 and done with PIV. She had her PIV orgasm while on her back and me standing next to the bed. I figured she was done and I was close myself. I don’t know if the following was just to get me to finish, or if it was because she wasn’t quite finished. She looked at me and said, “so guys like seeing my picture?” I said, “They love it. They love seeing you squeezing your nipple while you were playing with yourself.” She said, “Do they wish they were doing me like you are right now?” I came replying, “Most of them want to do you just like this!” I figured that was the end but she said “stay in me, I’m going to cum again!” So I carefully kept doing her, making sure my shrinking cock didn’t come out, and said “you like that they want to fuck you?” “Yeeesss,” she said as she came again.

On the one hand, I can see that she said what she said out of ambivalence to the subject and wanting to please me. On the other hand, I can see what she said as honesty with a new confidence that those feelings are acceptable and good. Once again, only time will tell! She can be as convoluted and confusing as she is beautiful!

[katslover]

My biggest, if I’m being honest, is myself. I can hyper focused on things that I want to happen. In my professional and academic life, that has served me well. With this desire, it doesn’t work well. So I’m trying really hard to not cover my wife up with my excitement for sharing her on here. I believe she has hit a short pause button as she acclimates to this new experience. As she says, “It’s me, not you, that people are seeing.” I totally respect that, though my excitement is my enemy on that. That’s my burden to manage and the better I control myself, the better this journey will go.

I completely understand! You're very wise. It's a marathon not a sprint and respecting her decisions and desires in this is the most important thing.

She's doing amazing. She's wearing more revealing clothing, read the book, AND implementing things by her own decision.

When my wife and I take road trips I just want to get there, but she always encourages me to enjoy the ride and not fixate on the destination.

Just enjoy the ride on this one!

Maybe take a chance to reassure her that you appreciate everything she's opened herself up to doing for you in this area and that even if she never does another thing, you are glad she tried and you really just want her to enjoy it.

Ignore me if I'm being too forward with my recommendations. I'm just trying to be encouraging and supportive. I know you know how much she'd enjoy it if she'd embrace this side of herself. I want this for both of you!!!

I appreciate your advice and the advice of others. I haven’t agreed with all the advice I’ve received, but it’s better to have some “bad” advice than no advice at all. Actually, I plan to implement your advice this by buying my wife flowers. Sometimes the most basic advice is the best advice!

[The Owl]

“you like that they want to fuck you?” “Yeeesss,” she said as she came again.

The fact that she (and you) paired her cumming with her saying "Yeeesss" is a very good sign that she will find a man to have sex with her.

Do you two talk about whether you will be present or would she prefer to be alone when having sex with another man?

Sounds like this has been your fantasy. As it becomes hers, she will define it more and more.

[katslover]

We usually talk about it as though I’m watching, however, the short erotic stories I sent to her, that turned her on, did not have me present while she was doing naughty things. She knows I want to watch, but also knows I’d like to hear about. It’s about her doing enjoyable naughty things, not so much about me. Hopefully that makes sense. Outside of sex, she rarely admits to liking anything sexual, as she has responsive desire. So it’s challenging identifying what she likes given her Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde sexual thinking. I think that’s common among women, but it sure doesn’t make it easy.

[Wantsomefunto]

May e ask her if she was ever to play with another man or woman, who would it be? Stranger? Friend? Age?

[katslover]

May e ask her if she was ever to play with another man or woman, who would it be? Stranger? Friend? Age?

I’ve never phrased it like that. I’ll try to remember and see how it goes.