My Birthday Wish?

[nostringsorworries]

Can’t believe it is almost a year since she first played with her lover. It doesn’t happen very often. It’s always thrilling for me. He does a great job of befriending both of us, calling each to chat etc. I don’t feel like an outsider at all and it turns me on, but she still won’t have sex with me the same day/night that she’s played and I really want to try that. I’m always nearby, occasional glimpse and she will talk with me about details later on, so it’s hot for me. He called me to visit the other day and mentioned he’d like to really do something nice for me on my birthday since I’ve been so generous. I don’t even know what that means exactly, but if it comes to it I’d really like to sleep with her right after. He and I have talked about why that is natural and hot and he’s chatted with her a bit about it as well, so maybe it’s not out of the question. I think he was talking more in terms of an evening out/dinner etc, but in the end that would be the best if I can get it to happen.

[Flint]

Let's hope her lover has enough influence to sway her and grant your wish; good luck for your birthday.

[Very Hot Wife]

Some friends of ours are in a similar situation.

She won't have sex with her husband after playtime with a lover. She has told my wife that it's simply because they have backback sex and she feels uncomfortable knowing that her husband will be second.

For some husbands, that will be a turn on and she knows that.

But for her, it's a no-no.

If your wife is not using condoms with her lover, maybe that's the reason...?

[nostringsorworries]

It’s always been bareback from the beginning. That was one of his priorities. I have another post on here somewhere from last year. He’s a professional and doesn’t have much free time for a true girlfriend or even our get togethers. But his vision and now ours is genuine 3 way friendship. We’ve all become friends. Nothing goes on behind anybody’s back. Yes, she isn’t crazy about the idea of 2 men the same time. She likes things separate. But may be softening a bit on that now that it feels more natural all around

[Long Lurker 34]

It’s always been bareback from the beginning. That was one of his priorities. I have another post on here somewhere from last year. He’s a professional and doesn’t have much free time for a true girlfriend or even our get togethers. But his vision and now ours is genuine 3 way friendship. We’ve all become friends. Nothing goes on behind anybody’s back. Yes, she isn’t crazy about the idea of 2 men the same time. She likes things separate. But may be softening a bit on that now that it feels more natural all around

NSW
- You could try asking Admin to combine the two threads.
- On the other thread I think you mentioned they have gone 'out' a few times. If he ever has a function to attend, do you think she might be ok going as his 'plus one'?

[nostringsorworries]

It’s not worth trying to combine threads. One or both will trail off.

She’s already been his plus one at his company Christmas party last year. That was kind of how it got going. He needs a date for stuff like that. Doesn’t want people wondering or trying to set him up, but he doesn’t have the time for a full relationship. And he keeps it private beyond that and avoids socializing where it’s required. He needs discretion more than we do so it’s worked well. Not threatening to anybody and hot!