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Possiblyso2025
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Best dildo for wife
Hey everyone. I’ve been enjoying this site for a while. The Hotwife scenario is very exciting. My wife is very reserved and I’m 99.9999% sure she’d never entertain the idea of being with someone else. Plus, I’m not sure how I’d feel about it either. We’ve been married for 20 years with, I’d say, above average sex life. There’s been a few rare occasions, years ago, when I used a dildo quite a bit larger than me. I’m average length and girth. I loved being second. But the problem is she says she doesn’t enjoy the dildos because they don’t feel real. Over the years I’ve tried different ones, different sizes, different materials, etc. she’s not been keen on any of them. My question is, are there any out there you’d recommend? Thanks!
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Adam and ever have one that is realistic and 2 inches across
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Real cock 2. They are the most realistic ones made, little pricey but absolutely feel real
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Definitely choose a black one 

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lol, of course!
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Any recommendations?
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Possiblyso2025
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Their website is information overload. Do you have a link?Wantsomefunto wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 6:44 amAdam and ever have one that is realistic and 2 inches across
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Possiblyso2025
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Is this the one you’re referring to? https://www.realdoll.com/product/rc2-jones/Idahostagnvixenlkn wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 9:41 amReal cock 2. They are the most realistic ones made, little pricey but absolutely feel real
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I have had good success with Amazon and EBay. I love the 8" realistic ones with veins and balls. Husband loves to watch me playing with one ! Real ones too 

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Throughout the years, I’ve tried different ones. She’s never acted like she’s cared much for any of them. She can orgasm with them, but says she prefers the body contact during regular sex. I understand where’s she’s coming from and that she enjoys the physical contact that she doesn’t get from a dildo. I’ve tried sleeves, but the ones I fit in seem to be a bit too large for her.FrenchTrix wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 4:12 pmI have had good success with Amazon and EBay. I love the 8" realistic ones with veins and balls. Husband loves to watch me playing with one ! Real ones too![]()
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What sleeves have you tried with her? My wife wants me to get a sleeve. What sleeve maker (company) did you get yours from? ThanksPossiblyso2025 wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 4:43 pmThroughout the years, I’ve tried different ones. She’s never acted like she’s cared much for any of them. She can orgasm with them, but says she prefers the body contact during regular sex. I understand where’s she’s coming from and that she enjoys the physical contact that she doesn’t get from a dildo. I’ve tried sleeves, but the ones I fit in seem to be a bit too large for her.FrenchTrix wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 4:12 pmI have had good success with Amazon and EBay. I love the 8" realistic ones with veins and balls. Husband loves to watch me playing with one ! Real ones too![]()
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RX SleeveMy60ishWife wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 9:03 pmWhat sleeves have you tried with her? My wife wants me to get a sleeve. What sleeve maker (company) did you get yours from? ThanksPossiblyso2025 wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 4:43 pmThroughout the years, I’ve tried different ones. She’s never acted like she’s cared much for any of them. She can orgasm with them, but says she prefers the body contact during regular sex. I understand where’s she’s coming from and that she enjoys the physical contact that she doesn’t get from a dildo. I’ve tried sleeves, but the ones I fit in seem to be a bit too large for her.FrenchTrix wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 4:12 pmI have had good success with Amazon and EBay. I love the 8" realistic ones with veins and balls. Husband loves to watch me playing with one ! Real ones too![]()
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Thanks. Do the RX Sleeve feel real to her and does she like it?Possiblyso2025 wrote: ↑Tue Oct 21, 2025 3:00 amRX SleeveMy60ishWife wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 9:03 pmWhat sleeves have you tried with her? My wife wants me to get a sleeve. What sleeve maker (company) did you get yours from? ThanksPossiblyso2025 wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 4:43 pmThroughout the years, I’ve tried different ones. She’s never acted like she’s cared much for any of them. She can orgasm with them, but says she prefers the body contact during regular sex. I understand where’s she’s coming from and that she enjoys the physical contact that she doesn’t get from a dildo. I’ve tried sleeves, but the ones I fit in seem to be a bit too large for her.FrenchTrix wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 4:12 pmI have had good success with Amazon and EBay. I love the 8" realistic ones with veins and balls. Husband loves to watch me playing with one ! Real ones too![]()
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Yes but the premium ones. On their original site they didn’t have an option for premium or not. It looks like they have them in stock. It took months to get each one when I orderedPossiblyso2025 wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 3:30 pmIs this the one you’re referring to? https://www.realdoll.com/product/rc2-jones/Idahostagnvixenlkn wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 9:41 amReal cock 2. They are the most realistic ones made, little pricey but absolutely feel real
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I believe I was too aggressive and purchased one that’s too large. I’m considering getting a smaller one.My60ishWife wrote: ↑Tue Oct 21, 2025 4:32 amThanks. Do the RX Sleeve feel real to her and does she like it?Possiblyso2025 wrote: ↑Tue Oct 21, 2025 3:00 amRX SleeveMy60ishWife wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 9:03 pmWhat sleeves have you tried with her? My wife wants me to get a sleeve. What sleeve maker (company) did you get yours from? ThanksPossiblyso2025 wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 4:43 pm
Throughout the years, I’ve tried different ones. She’s never acted like she’s cared much for any of them. She can orgasm with them, but says she prefers the body contact during regular sex. I understand where’s she’s coming from and that she enjoys the physical contact that she doesn’t get from a dildo. I’ve tried sleeves, but the ones I fit in seem to be a bit too large for her.
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Depending on the size, I was unable to locate the one I though would be best for her in the premium.Idahostagnvixenlkn wrote: ↑Tue Oct 21, 2025 6:41 amYes but the premium ones. On their original site they didn’t have an option for premium or not. It looks like they have them in stock. It took months to get each one when I orderedPossiblyso2025 wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 3:30 pmIs this the one you’re referring to? https://www.realdoll.com/product/rc2-jones/Idahostagnvixenlkn wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 9:41 amReal cock 2. They are the most realistic ones made, little pricey but absolutely feel real
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My wife enjoys a larger penis. I went to the RX Sleeve site and it looks like Beth wants the "Bliss' model". 8" Insertable with circumference of 6" at the top to 6.5" at the base. It has a girth hole for your penis of 4.5" with a length of 6.5" long that has a filler if needed, which in my case I do. I also went to the Dildo site and will get her the "Dirk", its 8" insertable and 6" circumference.Possiblyso2025 wrote: ↑Tue Oct 21, 2025 7:08 amI believe I was too aggressive and purchased one that’s too large. I’m considering getting a smaller one.My60ishWife wrote: ↑Tue Oct 21, 2025 4:32 amThanks. Do the RX Sleeve feel real to her and does she like it?Possiblyso2025 wrote: ↑Tue Oct 21, 2025 3:00 amRX SleeveMy60ishWife wrote: ↑Mon Oct 20, 2025 9:03 pm
What sleeves have you tried with her? My wife wants me to get a sleeve. What sleeve maker (company) did you get yours from? Thanks
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I forgot about a Vixen Creation silicon toy I had purchased. Tried something different with it a couple of nights ago, it seemed to go very well. I haven’t brought it up since that night. I wanted to wait a few days, then if she doesn’t, I will.
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The max is good too. We have the premium Dirk and max. Max gets used the most.
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The Max 7-1/2" Length with 6.4" Circumference vs. The Dirk 8-1/2" Length with the 6.0" Circumference:Idahostagnvixenlkn wrote: ↑Wed Oct 29, 2025 7:53 amThe max is good too. We have the premium Dirk and max. Max gets used the most.
Does she like the extra girth of 6.4"of The Max compared to the 6.0" girth of The Dirk with the 1" in Length difference or does the length difference not even matter? Thanks, I look forward to your reply.
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She likes the extra girth. The max is about 3/4” longer than I am give or take. She enjoys the Dirks length and girth but the max just has it. And I’m sure everyone is different but she can’t take the Dirk full depth for as long as she can the Max. We have gotten rid of all other plastic/rubber dildos. These real cocks just make everything else feel even more fake.My60ishWife wrote: ↑Wed Oct 29, 2025 1:04 pmThe Max 7-1/2" Length with 6.4" Circumference vs. The Dirk 8-1/2" Length with the 6.0" Circumference:Idahostagnvixenlkn wrote: ↑Wed Oct 29, 2025 7:53 amThe max is good too. We have the premium Dirk and max. Max gets used the most.
Does she like the extra girth of 6.4"of The Max compared to the 6.0" girth of The Dirk with the 1" in Length difference or does the length difference not even matter? Thanks, I look forward to your reply.
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My wife really likes both length and girth. She has an 8" Long with 6" girth dildo that she's had for years that she likes but she complains it just isn't like the real thing. Usually she wants me to warm her up then we use the dildo on her and after she cums she wants me to go inside her to cum. We might look into getting "The Dirk" and then getting "The Max". Sounds like these maybe as close to the real thing as they make. Thank you. She has been a hot wife (not as active as she has been) and really liked the guys that had girth and length, so me being small, she wants me to look into wearing a sleeve. I'll be interested to see how that goes.
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I have a pair of boxer briefs that you can use as a harness and wear the max or Dirk. We do that quite a bit just switching around. Or if I get off early I’ll put one on and keep goingMy60ishWife wrote: ↑Wed Oct 29, 2025 7:18 pmMy wife really likes both length and girth. She has an 8" Long with 6" girth dildo that she's had for years that she likes but she complains it just isn't like the real thing. Usually she wants me to warm her up then we use the dildo on her and after she cums she wants me to go inside her to cum. We might look into getting "The Dirk" and then getting "The Max". Sounds like these maybe as close to the real thing as they make. Thank you. She has been a hot wife (not as active as she has been) and really liked the guys that had girth and length, so me being small, she wants me to look into wearing a sleeve. I'll be interested to see how that goes.
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How does that work. Does it get in the way of your penis? I'd like to try that with my wife.Idahostagnvixenlkn wrote: ↑Thu Oct 30, 2025 9:29 amI have a pair of boxer briefs that you can use as a harness and wear the max or Dirk. We do that quite a bit just switching around. Or if I get off early I’ll put one on and keep goingMy60ishWife wrote: ↑Wed Oct 29, 2025 7:18 pmMy wife really likes both length and girth. She has an 8" Long with 6" girth dildo that she's had for years that she likes but she complains it just isn't like the real thing. Usually she wants me to warm her up then we use the dildo on her and after she cums she wants me to go inside her to cum. We might look into getting "The Dirk" and then getting "The Max". Sounds like these maybe as close to the real thing as they make. Thank you. She has been a hot wife (not as active as she has been) and really liked the guys that had girth and length, so me being small, she wants me to look into wearing a sleeve. I'll be interested to see how that goes.
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Look up strap on harness shorts for sex on Amazon. You’ll have to get vaculok to put in the toy to be able to wear it.