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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by havingfun740 » Sun Oct 19, 2025 10:16 am

Thanks for sharing your journey W! Ignore the noise!

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Unread post by Hzt554 » Mon Oct 20, 2025 5:44 am

Dude, you're a pretty good science fiction writer.

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Unread post by complexity » Mon Oct 20, 2025 5:13 pm

Love the updates W. Thanks for sharing!

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Unread post by Anonimoose » Mon Oct 20, 2025 9:38 pm

w770 wrote:
Tue Oct 14, 2025 9:58 am
Hi everyone,

Sorry it's been a minute. Life has been incredibly busy with the new house, being parents, having an elderly dog, and especially work. I wanted to directly reply to people that wrote comments but of course time is limited as always so I'll have to do a quick list of bulletpoints again.

- Conner and I talked and I played up the angle of being the husband that was cheated on.
- He got me to the point where I "confessed" that it turned me on.
- He explained how he's been a bull for a few couples in the past and would love to have the arrangement with Lana and myself.
- We went over limits, things that Lana really likes, humiliation, participation, boundaries, etc.
- We stayed at the bar until Lana texted me that the kid was asleep. I called to tell her about my conversation with Conner, and we all ended up in our bedroom that night.
- His body looks like something generated out of AI. Almost in an intimidating way as he's about 6'4, handsome as a devil, and a cock that doesn't even look real sometimes.
- As humiliation was a part of our arrangement, Conner was very vocal, telling Lana to show me what they did that night of the bachelorette party while I was at home, clueless.
- He dominated Lana on our bed, having her scream his name as she came while telling me to show him how much I liked watching him take her, basically "forcing me" in a way to strip down and stroke to their fucking.
- The contrast in his prowess and stamina had an effect on me that I didn't expect, which was that after he had cum and told me to feel for myself how stretched out Lana's pussy was, I lost my erection with a complete inability to get it back up. After a few minutes of trying, Conner nudged me aside as he was already able to get his cock hard again and made love to Lana, slowly and making out with her, kissing her lips the entire time until they both finished. After which, and without much being said, he just continued to lay with her, her legs still wrapped around him as they continued to kiss until they fell asleep. Just before the room went silent, I heard Conner tell me to close the door behind me as he wanted some privacy with Lana.
- I woke up the next morning to the sounds of the headboard hitting up against the wall to a steady beat, eventually culminating in her screams and his grunting. About 20 minutes later and after Lana texted me asking if the kid was still asleep, they both emerged from the room, her in her silk robe and him stark naked. "Morning Will! Man that wife of yours...."
-He noticed that my eyes kept looking at his cock, which honestly, it was a bit impossible not to notice, which led to him giving me a smirk and saying, "yeah... that's right..."
- That was the only night we've had since my last update as schedules have been a bit hectic for us and Conner, but we plan to hopefully have fun this weekend as well.
- Sorry I'm cutting this short. Meeting in a half hour that I need to prep for.

Hope everyone is well.
How did he start the conversation? Did he direct the conversation to you "accepting" the fact he will be the bull? Can you elaborate more on the talk he had with you prior to both you going back to your plave and officially him consummating with Lana in front of you

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Tue Oct 21, 2025 12:48 pm

Anonimoose wrote:
Mon Oct 20, 2025 9:38 pm
w770 wrote:
Tue Oct 14, 2025 9:58 am
Hi everyone,

Sorry it's been a minute. Life has been incredibly busy with the new house, being parents, having an elderly dog, and especially work. I wanted to directly reply to people that wrote comments but of course time is limited as always so I'll have to do a quick list of bulletpoints again.

- Conner and I talked and I played up the angle of being the husband that was cheated on.
- He got me to the point where I "confessed" that it turned me on.
- He explained how he's been a bull for a few couples in the past and would love to have the arrangement with Lana and myself.
- We went over limits, things that Lana really likes, humiliation, participation, boundaries, etc.
- We stayed at the bar until Lana texted me that the kid was asleep. I called to tell her about my conversation with Conner, and we all ended up in our bedroom that night.
- His body looks like something generated out of AI. Almost in an intimidating way as he's about 6'4, handsome as a devil, and a cock that doesn't even look real sometimes.
- As humiliation was a part of our arrangement, Conner was very vocal, telling Lana to show me what they did that night of the bachelorette party while I was at home, clueless.
- He dominated Lana on our bed, having her scream his name as she came while telling me to show him how much I liked watching him take her, basically "forcing me" in a way to strip down and stroke to their fucking.
- The contrast in his prowess and stamina had an effect on me that I didn't expect, which was that after he had cum and told me to feel for myself how stretched out Lana's pussy was, I lost my erection with a complete inability to get it back up. After a few minutes of trying, Conner nudged me aside as he was already able to get his cock hard again and made love to Lana, slowly and making out with her, kissing her lips the entire time until they both finished. After which, and without much being said, he just continued to lay with her, her legs still wrapped around him as they continued to kiss until they fell asleep. Just before the room went silent, I heard Conner tell me to close the door behind me as he wanted some privacy with Lana.
- I woke up the next morning to the sounds of the headboard hitting up against the wall to a steady beat, eventually culminating in her screams and his grunting. About 20 minutes later and after Lana texted me asking if the kid was still asleep, they both emerged from the room, her in her silk robe and him stark naked. "Morning Will! Man that wife of yours...."
-He noticed that my eyes kept looking at his cock, which honestly, it was a bit impossible not to notice, which led to him giving me a smirk and saying, "yeah... that's right..."
- That was the only night we've had since my last update as schedules have been a bit hectic for us and Conner, but we plan to hopefully have fun this weekend as well.
- Sorry I'm cutting this short. Meeting in a half hour that I need to prep for.

Hope everyone is well.
How did he start the conversation? Did he direct the conversation to you "accepting" the fact he will be the bull? Can you elaborate more on the talk he had with you prior to both you going back to your plave and officially him consummating with Lana in front of you
It was rather professional for lack of a better word. He didn't necessarily seem apologetic, but more of a person that's seen this scenario play out before, and knew that he could direct it in a way where it could be a bull/cuckold arrangement. People have asked about this conversation before, so I thought I would expand on it.

The interesting context of it is his age, and not to put too many assumptions onto Conner with his age, but I didn't expect him to show the level of maturity that he did. It was a bit odd, in a way that I could best analogize by saying to imagine seeing a psychologist but that the psychologist was almost half your age. Strange. Anyway, the conversation started off mainly with him telling me that as a part of his job as a stripper, he is no stranger to women, especially married ones, crossing the line with him to the point where nothing really surprises him anymore. He went into generalities and percentages of women from the bride to be to married women that inevitably cheat on their boyfriends, fiance', and husbands at these sorts of parties, and then he framed the night of the bachelorette party as "pretty standard" and that Lana acted in line with what hundreds of women have done before. It then turned to him asking me how I felt, how it felt as he described the events of that night, how I've been feeling since I discovered her "infidelity," which he calmly let me know that he's seen the same reaction from countless husbands and how he's played bull to a number of couples before.

We asked me about my kinks and affirmed the normality of those as well, and then we went into a discussion on boundaries and things I wanted and the exploration that Lana wanted to partake in if we moved forward. Like I said, it was oddly professional and almost purely transactional in an emotionless way.

The other thing I want to note out are some seemingly negative comments lately. It might seem like a strange analogy to make but bear with me. About 10 years ago, Lana and I saw a UFO. I'm very aware of how that makes me sound, but I'm 100% sure that it was not of earthly origins. Whenever I describe it to people, I'm met with a range of reactions, from those that believe me and ask questions out of curiosity, to those that think it's just funny, to those that discount my story outright. Lana and I both know what we saw, and those that immediately turn to disbelief whenever I would go into that story hasn't ever impacted us in any way. I've been called a liar because of it, accused of just wanting attention by having some unbelievable story of little green men and have even generated some anger from it. It's always been more interesting than offensive when people react in that way, but I've never given it much energy at trying to prove our sighting because we never saw the point in trying to convince people that didn't believe. I pretty much look at that situation in the same vein as me documenting our story here. I don't mind those that don't believe any more than I don't bemoan people that don't believe us when we talk about the UFO we saw. We're all just flying around in that blue and green organic spaceship through the galaxy anyway, so there's not much point to putting energy into a wasted space.

Update: I'll have to keep it short as I have a train to catch. But our arrangement with Conner might be a short lived experience. Last weekend, Conner mentioned how he had a show on Friday night and Lana had acted out in a way that I could tell she was jealous and upset about "sharing" him, even though she knew how ridiculous it was. She would say that it didn't make sense, and it was ultimately stupid for her to feel that way given that she knew of his profession from the beginning, but she maintains that her feelings are what they are. So to avoid going in deeper, we've decided to end things with him. Which might be all as well anyway since we are planning on making our attempt at a second child in a few months.

I would love to go into more detail but I really can't miss my train. Hope everyone is well.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by AZPainter » Tue Oct 21, 2025 1:54 pm

Thank you, W. I really appreciate your updates and I also understand how inexperienced in this lifestyle might doubt anything written about it, by anyone of us. I personally just ignore them as wasting time trying to convince will not be successful. Having lived in the life many years ago myself, I know well how chaotic and crazy some things sound to outsiders at times and to some all might sound crazy. I was stunned hurt, angry and yet very excited and turned on when we had those first talks with my wife about her still having sex with other men after we married. We came to an agreement and I never regretted it. It was a very exciting time in both of our lives and I also learned a lot about myself and her.

So I wil continue to read and enjoy al your updates when you post them Good luck to you and Lana a you move forward.

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Unread post by coastalkid » Tue Oct 21, 2025 2:02 pm

Thanks for the update. What an experience to have the conversation with Conner in such a business like way. In many ways his reassurance of your kinks as being not unusual had to be comforting. He sounded like he was an ideal candidate in terms of qualifications and temperament. It sounds like the deal breaker was Lana more than anything. She couldn't wrap her head around not being exclusive even though she herself knew it was a ridiculous expectation. It does lead me to wonder if Lana will need that exclusivity in the future with other bfs/bulls.

As to whether people believe you or not, I'm glad you have the attitude that you do. The UFO analogy was spot on for me. People are going to project their bias. That's become the nature of things these days. Even with proof or evidence some people will refute the veracity or explain it away like people do with UFO's. FWIW, I choose to believe you.

Good luck with the second child attempt. It's just my opinion, but it should be good to have both your kids closer together in age. They share more of a life together that way.
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by leander99 » Tue Oct 21, 2025 2:15 pm

Maybe Connor can help finding Lana a better man, who also gets the "game". If he is not too upset about him losing out that is.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by william70 » Tue Oct 21, 2025 3:50 pm

UFO's are definitely real.

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Unread post by Jujube » Tue Oct 21, 2025 3:58 pm

As someone who watched a group of UFOs out my window at prep school for about an hour many years ago, I know where you’re coming from. Too bad about Conner, that could have turned into something longer term, and hot. I was surprised that Lana, in such a short time, could develop what seems like some dangerous feelings for him. The only guy that really had that effect on her was Shawn, and that developed over many months and many trysts. I think she was smart to nip this in the bud. I don’t count her (or you) out in continuing to push the envelope! Don’t work too hard, stress is not good for you!

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by Rogueuser1 » Tue Oct 21, 2025 5:16 pm

Glad you are still posting - sorry things didn't work out longer with conner though if she was getting that attached then maybe it is for the best.

Good luck when you guys do try for another kid --- hopefully she can keep things under control and not end up giving in to the breeding frenzy ;)
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by DoctorLuv » Wed Oct 22, 2025 4:46 am

It’s great to learn that you are able to recognize small, irrelevant people & ignore their harping and passive aggression. It really is a talent to ignore ignorant, small people. Typically passive aggression is a technique for those to use who are afraid of expressing the more overt hostility they wish they could instead be expressing.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by eventfire » Wed Oct 22, 2025 7:51 am

eventfire wrote:
Wed Oct 01, 2025 1:53 pm
I can see Conner's profession becoming a real problem for Lana.
Did I call this one, or what?

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by readyy2009 » Wed Oct 22, 2025 4:40 pm

Impressive that you and Lana were able to recognize those feelings and act on them quickly...It also must make you feel good knowing her priorities are you and the family

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by GuruTravelMonkey » Thu Oct 23, 2025 6:09 am

Prediction: Lana’s emotions will cool off regarding her jealousy. She will desire Connor back. She has her obedient cuckold. She deserves to have her cake and eat it too. Connor will hopefully give her assurances so they can continue their relationship. And you, the man of service, can enjoy the ache and the thrill of service to your goddess. Best of luck to you all. May your cool head prevail, and your commitment to bear witness to her evolution prove true.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by readyy2009 » Thu Oct 23, 2025 8:15 am

Or does this turn into the cheating kink they both like?

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Thu Oct 23, 2025 11:55 am

AZPainter wrote:
Tue Oct 21, 2025 1:54 pm
Thank you, W. I really appreciate your updates and I also understand how inexperienced in this lifestyle might doubt anything written about it, by anyone of us. I personally just ignore them as wasting time trying to convince will not be successful. Having lived in the life many years ago myself, I know well how chaotic and crazy some things sound to outsiders at times and to some all might sound crazy. I was stunned hurt, angry and yet very excited and turned on when we had those first talks with my wife about her still having sex with other men after we married. We came to an agreement and I never regretted it. It was a very exciting time in both of our lives and I also learned a lot about myself and her.

So I wil continue to read and enjoy al your updates when you post them Good luck to you and Lana a you move forward.
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Tue Oct 21, 2025 2:02 pm
Thanks for the update. What an experience to have the conversation with Conner in such a business like way. In many ways his reassurance of your kinks as being not unusual had to be comforting. He sounded like he was an ideal candidate in terms of qualifications and temperament. It sounds like the deal breaker was Lana more than anything. She couldn't wrap her head around not being exclusive even though she herself knew it was a ridiculous expectation. It does lead me to wonder if Lana will need that exclusivity in the future with other bfs/bulls.

As to whether people believe you or not, I'm glad you have the attitude that you do. The UFO analogy was spot on for me. People are going to project their bias. That's become the nature of things these days. Even with proof or evidence some people will refute the veracity or explain it away like people do with UFO's. FWIW, I choose to believe you.

Good luck with the second child attempt. It's just my opinion, but it should be good to have both your kids closer together in age. They share more of a life together that way.
leander99 wrote:
Tue Oct 21, 2025 2:15 pm
Maybe Connor can help finding Lana a better man, who also gets the "game". If he is not too upset about him losing out that is.
Jujube wrote:
Tue Oct 21, 2025 3:58 pm
As someone who watched a group of UFOs out my window at prep school for about an hour many years ago, I know where you’re coming from. Too bad about Conner, that could have turned into something longer term, and hot. I was surprised that Lana, in such a short time, could develop what seems like some dangerous feelings for him. The only guy that really had that effect on her was Shawn, and that developed over many months and many trysts. I think she was smart to nip this in the bud. I don’t count her (or you) out in continuing to push the envelope! Don’t work too hard, stress is not good for you!
GuruTravelMonkey wrote:
Thu Oct 23, 2025 6:09 am
Prediction: Lana’s emotions will cool off regarding her jealousy. She will desire Connor back. She has her obedient cuckold. She deserves to have her cake and eat it too. Connor will hopefully give her assurances so they can continue their relationship. And you, the man of service, can enjoy the ache and the thrill of service to your goddess. Best of luck to you all. May your cool head prevail, and your commitment to bear witness to her evolution prove true.
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Thu Oct 23, 2025 8:15 am
Or does this turn into the cheating kink they both like?
Thank you. The UFO story is something I love talking about because it's endlessly interesting to me, but I felt like this wasn't the appropriate forum and I don't want it to detract from the purpose of this page. But if people want to hear about it and the mods are okay with it, I would gladly entertain it.

And thank you for the well wishes as it pertains to growing our family. I think we want to just do one more and if it happens, it happens. One kid seems to take up all of our time, so I can't imagine how we would even continue in the lifestyle should we be blessed with another baby.

In regards to Conner - honestly, it would be my preference for us to continue with him , but Lana is had apprehension surrounding it as she's aware of how far and fast she can get "too deep" into her possessiveness. We made love last night and I could tell her mind was elsewhere, not surprisingly. We talked afterwards, and I suggested everything from multiple guys so that her attention and attraction wouldn't be centered on Conner alone, to past guys (Giovanni's name came up, even Evan - Adam's friend) to random new guys. None of them necessarily resulted in any definitive answer. the heart of it though, is that she's particularly keen on Conner, but she realizes that she has a weakness as it pertains to him and she is weary of that.

As it goes, I was doing my morning routine today, Lana's alarm on her phone was going off, and after about a minute, it was still ringing. I figured that she had been up late as it wasn't waking her up. So I took it upon myself to turn it off myself, and noticed that after I turned her alarm off that she had been up way past after I had fallen asleep texting with Conner. A lot of back and forth relating to her feelings and he ultimately got her to admit that she wanted him but didn't want to want him. Their conversation ended with him telling her that he'd see her soon. Not that they had made any plans, but rather, what seemed to be a tone of arrogant confidence that he'd be between her legs again at some point.

So far, she hasn't mentioned anything about their texting, which is a bit surprising.

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Unread post by Jujube » Thu Oct 23, 2025 12:49 pm

Hmm, maybe her “cheating game” is bubbling up about Conner. If she just could accept being one of his harem, this could really work. She obviously realizes they’ll never enter into “matrimony”, so maybe she could eroticize his promiscuity like you do for hers. But girls gotta be girls!

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by readyy2009 » Thu Oct 23, 2025 3:01 pm

W770...What are your thoughts on Lana's feelings? Have you seen this before with any of the others? (Other than the time with Shawn) I know you are not immune to pangs of jealousy but I feel you guys are so secure that is why this works so well...Sorry don't mean to focus on the feelings so much but I find it so interesting

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Unread post by Jujube » Thu Oct 23, 2025 6:48 pm

I find the feelings, emotions, teasing, and the relatively mild humiliations just as compelling as the acts themselves. In fact, I think Lana pushes his cuck buttons a lot harder than he is letting on. The pregnancy fetish about Shawn long ago was over the top hot!

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Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Fri Oct 24, 2025 6:10 am

w770 wrote:
Thu Oct 23, 2025 11:55 am
AZPainter wrote:
Tue Oct 21, 2025 1:54 pm
Thank you, W. I really appreciate your updates and I also understand how inexperienced in this lifestyle might doubt anything written about it, by anyone of us. I personally just ignore them as wasting time trying to convince will not be successful. Having lived in the life many years ago myself, I know well how chaotic and crazy some things sound to outsiders at times and to some all might sound crazy. I was stunned hurt, angry and yet very excited and turned on when we had those first talks with my wife about her still having sex with other men after we married. We came to an agreement and I never regretted it. It was a very exciting time in both of our lives and I also learned a lot about myself and her.

So I wil continue to read and enjoy al your updates when you post them Good luck to you and Lana a you move forward.
coastalkid wrote:
Tue Oct 21, 2025 2:02 pm
Thanks for the update. What an experience to have the conversation with Conner in such a business like way. In many ways his reassurance of your kinks as being not unusual had to be comforting. He sounded like he was an ideal candidate in terms of qualifications and temperament. It sounds like the deal breaker was Lana more than anything. She couldn't wrap her head around not being exclusive even though she herself knew it was a ridiculous expectation. It does lead me to wonder if Lana will need that exclusivity in the future with other bfs/bulls.

As to whether people believe you or not, I'm glad you have the attitude that you do. The UFO analogy was spot on for me. People are going to project their bias. That's become the nature of things these days. Even with proof or evidence some people will refute the veracity or explain it away like people do with UFO's. FWIW, I choose to believe you.

Good luck with the second child attempt. It's just my opinion, but it should be good to have both your kids closer together in age. They share more of a life together that way.
leander99 wrote:
Tue Oct 21, 2025 2:15 pm
Maybe Connor can help finding Lana a better man, who also gets the "game". If he is not too upset about him losing out that is.
Jujube wrote:
Tue Oct 21, 2025 3:58 pm
As someone who watched a group of UFOs out my window at prep school for about an hour many years ago, I know where you’re coming from. Too bad about Conner, that could have turned into something longer term, and hot. I was surprised that Lana, in such a short time, could develop what seems like some dangerous feelings for him. The only guy that really had that effect on her was Shawn, and that developed over many months and many trysts. I think she was smart to nip this in the bud. I don’t count her (or you) out in continuing to push the envelope! Don’t work too hard, stress is not good for you!
GuruTravelMonkey wrote:
Thu Oct 23, 2025 6:09 am
Prediction: Lana’s emotions will cool off regarding her jealousy. She will desire Connor back. She has her obedient cuckold. She deserves to have her cake and eat it too. Connor will hopefully give her assurances so they can continue their relationship. And you, the man of service, can enjoy the ache and the thrill of service to your goddess. Best of luck to you all. May your cool head prevail, and your commitment to bear witness to her evolution prove true.
readyy2009 wrote:
Thu Oct 23, 2025 8:15 am
Or does this turn into the cheating kink they both like?
Thank you. The UFO story is something I love talking about because it's endlessly interesting to me, but I felt like this wasn't the appropriate forum and I don't want it to detract from the purpose of this page. But if people want to hear about it and the mods are okay with it, I would gladly entertain it.

And thank you for the well wishes as it pertains to growing our family. I think we want to just do one more and if it happens, it happens. One kid seems to take up all of our time, so I can't imagine how we would even continue in the lifestyle should we be blessed with another baby.

In regards to Conner - honestly, it would be my preference for us to continue with him , but Lana is had apprehension surrounding it as she's aware of how far and fast she can get "too deep" into her possessiveness. We made love last night and I could tell her mind was elsewhere, not surprisingly. We talked afterwards, and I suggested everything from multiple guys so that her attention and attraction wouldn't be centered on Conner alone, to past guys (Giovanni's name came up, even Evan - Adam's friend) to random new guys. None of them necessarily resulted in any definitive answer. the heart of it though, is that she's particularly keen on Conner, but she realizes that she has a weakness as it pertains to him and she is weary of that.

As it goes, I was doing my morning routine today, Lana's alarm on her phone was going off, and after about a minute, it was still ringing. I figured that she had been up late as it wasn't waking her up. So I took it upon myself to turn it off myself, and noticed that after I turned her alarm off that she had been up way past after I had fallen asleep texting with Conner. A lot of back and forth relating to her feelings and he ultimately got her to admit that she wanted him but didn't want to want him. Their conversation ended with him telling her that he'd see her soon. Not that they had made any plans, but rather, what seemed to be a tone of arrogant confidence that he'd be between her legs again at some point.

So far, she hasn't mentioned anything about their texting, which is a bit surprising.
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Unread post by GuruTravelMonkey » Fri Oct 24, 2025 11:02 am

Her concern then is that she’ll be too jealous of other ladies? Or that she’s got such strong emotions and desires for him? I’m not sure I understand her main concern.

I hope she and you find your way through her fears to a place of love and support.

No doubt she knows you’re at her whim, come what may.

Hope you have fun and keep pushing into new frontiers (the best of this short ride called life).

And, Connor too. May you serve him well (-;

Anonimoose
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by Anonimoose » Fri Oct 24, 2025 9:13 pm

w770 wrote:
Thu Oct 23, 2025 11:55 am
AZPainter wrote:
Tue Oct 21, 2025 1:54 pm
Thank you, W. I really appreciate your updates and I also understand how inexperienced in this lifestyle might doubt anything written about it, by anyone of us. I personally just ignore them as wasting time trying to convince will not be successful. Having lived in the life many years ago myself, I know well how chaotic and crazy some things sound to outsiders at times and to some all might sound crazy. I was stunned hurt, angry and yet very excited and turned on when we had those first talks with my wife about her still having sex with other men after we married. We came to an agreement and I never regretted it. It was a very exciting time in both of our lives and I also learned a lot about myself and her.

So I wil continue to read and enjoy al your updates when you post them Good luck to you and Lana a you move forward.
coastalkid wrote:
Tue Oct 21, 2025 2:02 pm
Thanks for the update. What an experience to have the conversation with Conner in such a business like way. In many ways his reassurance of your kinks as being not unusual had to be comforting. He sounded like he was an ideal candidate in terms of qualifications and temperament. It sounds like the deal breaker was Lana more than anything. She couldn't wrap her head around not being exclusive even though she herself knew it was a ridiculous expectation. It does lead me to wonder if Lana will need that exclusivity in the future with other bfs/bulls.

As to whether people believe you or not, I'm glad you have the attitude that you do. The UFO analogy was spot on for me. People are going to project their bias. That's become the nature of things these days. Even with proof or evidence some people will refute the veracity or explain it away like people do with UFO's. FWIW, I choose to believe you.

Good luck with the second child attempt. It's just my opinion, but it should be good to have both your kids closer together in age. They share more of a life together that way.
leander99 wrote:
Tue Oct 21, 2025 2:15 pm
Maybe Connor can help finding Lana a better man, who also gets the "game". If he is not too upset about him losing out that is.
Jujube wrote:
Tue Oct 21, 2025 3:58 pm
As someone who watched a group of UFOs out my window at prep school for about an hour many years ago, I know where you’re coming from. Too bad about Conner, that could have turned into something longer term, and hot. I was surprised that Lana, in such a short time, could develop what seems like some dangerous feelings for him. The only guy that really had that effect on her was Shawn, and that developed over many months and many trysts. I think she was smart to nip this in the bud. I don’t count her (or you) out in continuing to push the envelope! Don’t work too hard, stress is not good for you!
GuruTravelMonkey wrote:
Thu Oct 23, 2025 6:09 am
Prediction: Lana’s emotions will cool off regarding her jealousy. She will desire Connor back. She has her obedient cuckold. She deserves to have her cake and eat it too. Connor will hopefully give her assurances so they can continue their relationship. And you, the man of service, can enjoy the ache and the thrill of service to your goddess. Best of luck to you all. May your cool head prevail, and your commitment to bear witness to her evolution prove true.
readyy2009 wrote:
Thu Oct 23, 2025 8:15 am
Or does this turn into the cheating kink they both like?
Thank you. The UFO story is something I love talking about because it's endlessly interesting to me, but I felt like this wasn't the appropriate forum and I don't want it to detract from the purpose of this page. But if people want to hear about it and the mods are okay with it, I would gladly entertain it.

And thank you for the well wishes as it pertains to growing our family. I think we want to just do one more and if it happens, it happens. One kid seems to take up all of our time, so I can't imagine how we would even continue in the lifestyle should we be blessed with another baby.

In regards to Conner - honestly, it would be my preference for us to continue with him , but Lana is had apprehension surrounding it as she's aware of how far and fast she can get "too deep" into her possessiveness. We made love last night and I could tell her mind was elsewhere, not surprisingly. We talked afterwards, and I suggested everything from multiple guys so that her attention and attraction wouldn't be centered on Conner alone, to past guys (Giovanni's name came up, even Evan - Adam's friend) to random new guys. None of them necessarily resulted in any definitive answer. the heart of it though, is that she's particularly keen on Conner, but she realizes that she has a weakness as it pertains to him and she is weary of that.

As it goes, I was doing my morning routine today, Lana's alarm on her phone was going off, and after about a minute, it was still ringing. I figured that she had been up late as it wasn't waking her up. So I took it upon myself to turn it off myself, and noticed that after I turned her alarm off that she had been up way past after I had fallen asleep texting with Conner. A lot of back and forth relating to her feelings and he ultimately got her to admit that she wanted him but didn't want to want him. Their conversation ended with him telling her that he'd see her soon. Not that they had made any plans, but rather, what seemed to be a tone of arrogant confidence that he'd be between her legs again at some point.

So far, she hasn't mentioned anything about their texting, which is a bit surprising.
When you say in regards to Connor it would be your preference to continue with him, out of the bulls that Lana has had in the past, is he your favourite so far? And why?

Can you describe what is it so far in cuckoldry that just makes it hot for you and any particular "scenes" so far that has happened is the most "cuckiest(?)" that made you say "yes this is why i love this lifestyle".

iwish
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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by iwish » Tue Oct 28, 2025 6:43 am

I'd like to see Lana view his profession and resulting access to woman as a challenge. To keep him interested she has to earn his attention. She's competing with the other women. At least that's how I imagine my wife acting if we ever went down this road and she found the guy that she just had to have more of. Again and again and again. It would be so out of character for her. But, isn't that part of the experience?

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