Advice on how to get my wife's BF to breed me, too? HELP!
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ohtobecucked
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Advice on how to get my wife's BF to breed me, too? HELP!
Hi all,
I mentioned on my own thread a fair while back that my wife now has a BF and they've been exclusive to each other since. Even at the very start, I had asked my wife to make me a part of their love-making, particularly me sucking him off / getting fucked by him, etc, if my wife is tired from getting fucked and gives her a ten minute break and allows me to keep him turned on and enjoying my holes.
The problem, as you may have guessed, is that he has never been hugely keen (I've never met him but my wife has said it back to me when she has asked him if it would be ok). I think with the right amount of persuasion I could get him onside, but if any of you have tips /suggestions / solutions for me, I'd be very grateful.
Thanks!
EDIT: I was thinking cuckold porn, but with the wife filming and the bull pounding the cuck, but I am struggling to find any. Any links or names welcome!!
I mentioned on my own thread a fair while back that my wife now has a BF and they've been exclusive to each other since. Even at the very start, I had asked my wife to make me a part of their love-making, particularly me sucking him off / getting fucked by him, etc, if my wife is tired from getting fucked and gives her a ten minute break and allows me to keep him turned on and enjoying my holes.
The problem, as you may have guessed, is that he has never been hugely keen (I've never met him but my wife has said it back to me when she has asked him if it would be ok). I think with the right amount of persuasion I could get him onside, but if any of you have tips /suggestions / solutions for me, I'd be very grateful.
Thanks!
EDIT: I was thinking cuckold porn, but with the wife filming and the bull pounding the cuck, but I am struggling to find any. Any links or names welcome!!
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ucaneffher
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Re: Advice on how to get my wife's BF to breed me, too? HELP!
It sounds like your wife is loving playing solo with her boyfriend. Seeing that you haven't met him, perhaps you can tell her that you want to meet the man who is making love to your wife. It doesn't have to be anything sexual and should probably be over dinner and drinks.
Did your wife know you were bisexual before getting her boyfriend or is this new after she started? Quite frankly most straight men wouldn't want to do anything with a man, I wouldn't. If he isn't big curious, you may have to settle for hoping to watch instead of having sex with him.
Still, I suspect she hasn't said anything to him and she probably shouldn't until you two have met and until you see how you two get along. Who knows maybe you'll become friends and one thing will lead to another.
Did your wife know you were bisexual before getting her boyfriend or is this new after she started? Quite frankly most straight men wouldn't want to do anything with a man, I wouldn't. If he isn't big curious, you may have to settle for hoping to watch instead of having sex with him.
Still, I suspect she hasn't said anything to him and she probably shouldn't until you two have met and until you see how you two get along. Who knows maybe you'll become friends and one thing will lead to another.
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It seems like you have some submissive bisexual interests or fantasies. Is your wife at all interested in seeing him do that to you, to put you in a submissive or subordinate role to him? If she has any interest in that, she could ask him. She could tell him that she is beginning to see him as more of the man in her life. She can tell him that she thought she was happy to be married too amor passive beta man, but now, being with him, she realizes that she is more turned on by a real manly man or Alpha man. She could tell him that she is getting more and more excited to be with him, and view him the dominant manly alpha male in her life. She could tell him that it would make her even more excited, to see him as the ultimate dominant Alpha Man, to see him put her submissive beta boy husband in his place. If she told him that it would really turn her on to see him dominate you, to essentially make you his second little bitch, that might help him accept the idea more.ohtobecucked wrote: ↑Wed Oct 22, 2025 10:09 amHi all,
I mentioned on my own thread a fair while back that my wife now has a BF and they've been exclusive to each other since. Even at the very start, I had asked my wife to make me a part of their love-making, particularly me sucking him off / getting fucked by him, etc, if my wife is tired from getting fucked and gives her a ten minute break and allows me to keep him turned on and enjoying my holes.
The problem, as you may have guessed, is that he has never been hugely keen (I've never met him but my wife has said it back to me when she has asked him if it would be ok). I think with the right amount of persuasion I could get him onside, but if any of you have tips /suggestions / solutions for me, I'd be very grateful.
Thanks!
EDIT: I was thinking cuckold porn, but with the wife filming and the bull pounding the cuck, but I am struggling to find any. Any links or names welcome!!
A lot of men are afraid of male on male contact, fearing that it will make them look gay. But if she were willing to reframe it for him, that it wouldn't be him appearing gay, it would be him asserting himself as the most dominant Alpha One among the three of you. He would be claiming her as his woman, with him as the primary and dominant man in her life, and putting you in your place as someone who is subordinate to him.
If she told him, "My husband is willing to be put in his place that way, and I don't think he realizes, that I don't think I would ever see him the same way again. I would never be able to view him as a real man again. I can't imagine myself ever wanting to have sex with him if I saw him face down on the bed with you taking him from behind, or him on his knees sucking you. I think my husband might be surprised when he finds out that you would be the only one I would ever want to have sex with again, after seeing him emasculated in that way."
If she is willing to say something like that to him, that would take away any fear that it would be a homosexual act on his part. There are men who will have sex with other men, like many men in prison, who do not consider themselves gay, because they are always on the giving side of male to male sexual interaction, never the receiving side, so they view therir heterosexual manhood as still being intact.
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Re: Advice on how to get my wife's BF to breed me, too? HELP!
It was the same with my wife's boyfriend. He would never think about having a guy suck his dick or fucking a guy. One day when he came over to our home to have sex with my wife she wasn't feeling good and not in the mood for sex so she told him I could come in and give him a blow job. He was totally against it. Then she told him that if he was blind folded he wouldn't no the difference who was sucking his dick. He was really horny and agreed to let me suck his dick. I was called into the bedroom and my wife ordered me to suck his dick. I got on my knees and unzipped his pants and took his dick out and began sucking it. Within about a minute or two he started moaning then he grabbed my head and held it while he pumped mu mouth with a huge load of cum. I left the room and I heard him say I was really good and my wife told him he could use me anytime he wanted.
It wasn't long after that when he did fuck me in the ass when he was over and my wife was sick and he really needed it. Now every once in a while he will have me give him a BJ and he will fuck me and I love it.
It wasn't long after that when he did fuck me in the ass when he was over and my wife was sick and he really needed it. Now every once in a while he will have me give him a BJ and he will fuck me and I love it.
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Odds are, that your wife's bf is nether gay nor bi-sexual, so if he is approached with suggestions of gay sex, he might well run a mile from your wife, thinking naturally, that this was yours and her plan all along. If I was in the bf's shoes (and being straight), I would definitely call a halt to the whole thing. Is this a risk your wife is willing to take?
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She can gently suggest, and see his reaction. If she tells him that it's all about a fantasy of hers, to see her husband emasculated and humiliated, he might get into it. If he isn't, he'll decline.hwc wrote: ↑Sun Oct 26, 2025 2:10 pmOdds are, that your wife's bf is nether gay nor bi-sexual, so if he is approached with suggestions of gay sex, he might well run a mile from your wife, thinking naturally, that this was yours and her plan all along. If I was in the bf's shoes (and being straight), I would definitely call a halt to the whole thing. Is this a risk your wife is willing to take?
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Agreed MB, my observation (as a straight man), was only that once the 'bottle is opened' you cannot put the jeannie back into it. A wish stated for a homosexual twist might just scare him off and a decision has to be made if this is acceptable to both before-hand. This was never going to be just a two-way thing, there are three players in the game. I'm all for everyone being themselves, whatever their orientation (my wife's son from previous marriage is gay and we all get along really well, including his husband).She can gently suggest, and see his reaction. If she tells him that it's all about a fantasy of hers, to see her husband emasculated and humiliated, he might get into it. If he isn't, he'll decline.
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I'm curious to know if you have pursued this any further with your wife, or if you decided on any plan of action and what you think of the suggestions you have received.ohtobecucked wrote: ↑Wed Oct 22, 2025 10:09 amHi all,.....
I had asked my wife to make me a part of their love-making, particularly me sucking him off / getting fucked by him, etc, ...... and enjoying my holes.
The problem, as you may have guessed, is that he has never been hugely keen......
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Re: Advice on how to get my wife's BF to breed me, too? HELP!
Just ask the guy to fuck you silly..... that's it
Re: Advice on how to get my wife's BF to breed me, too? HELP!
Maybe you missed some of the discussion. The wife's boyfriend is not gay or bisexual and the cuck husband has information that leads him to believe that asking him directly may cause him to want to quit seeing the wife.
The boyfriend does not want to do anything that might make him seem gay.
He is letting his wife handle it, so she can ease into the discussion in such a way that it doesn't scare the boyfriend off. That is why I suggested that the wife characterize it to her boyfriend, as merely a form of domination in his role of her rightful Man of the House, dominating and humiliating her submissive husband.
That way the boyfriend will be less likely to think of it as a homosexual act, but more of an act of manly domination over a weaker man.
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Re: Advice on how to get my wife's BF to breed me, too? HELP!
I totally agree. The wife will have to drive this idea to get her BF on board. She will need to frame it as totally her idea and her desire for him. Maybe even tell him that her husband is against it but she is also demanding it of him.MartasBoy wrote: ↑Fri Oct 31, 2025 9:30 amMaybe you missed some of the discussion. The wife's boyfriend is not gay or bisexual and the cuck husband has information that leads him to believe that asking him directly may cause him to want to quit seeing the wife.
The boyfriend does not want to do anything that might make him seem gay.
He is letting his wife handle it, so she can ease into the discussion in such a way that it doesn't scare the boyfriend off. That is why I suggested that the wife characterize it to her boyfriend, as merely a form of domination in his role of her rightful Man of the House, dominating and humiliating her submissive husband.
That way the boyfriend will be less likely to think of it as a homosexual act, but more of an act of manly domination over a weaker man.
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I believe that this might be a little over the top and put him off, using porn. That would be you suggesting a particular scene that is someone else's fantasy. I reiterate my suggestion that I have stated previously, that you let your wife request it of him. He is more likely to be willing to do it, to please her. If you seem too eager, it is more likely to trigger his homophobic fears. He will likely fear that you are attracted to him which will make it more uncomfortable.ohtobecucked wrote: ↑Wed Oct 22, 2025 10:09 amHi all,
EDIT: I was thinking cuckold porn, but with the wife filming and the bull pounding the cuck, but I am struggling to find any. Any links or names welcome!!
I would love to hear an update on whether or not you have made any progress with this.
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Re: Advice on how to get my wife's BF to breed me, too? HELP!
This is how one cuck tactfully eased into being bred by me. He explained he wanted his hotwife to get cunnilingus while I was filling her. He said to sit on a chair, deeply inside her, with her facing away from me, and he would give her head.
He explained inevitably, his tongue would touch me, and if I was ok with that. Upon a positive yes from me, he said my cock might even pop and the head be licked or pop on his mouth. I said no problem, it's all good to give your wife a stronger orgasm. I got locked and he suckled me briefly a couple of times.
The previous went well. On our next meet, while I gave his wife cunnilingus, I motioned for him to suck my cock. He was delighted.
Before our next meet, I asked him if he would like to be fucked, and if his wife would be alright with knowing I had fucked him. He said he would give her cunnilingus while on all fours, and I should take him. I gave him a good fuck for 10 minutes and a reach around, got him to cum, then I showered, washed my cock, and proceeded to fuck her. I saved my cum for her.
I saw his wife solo many times after that. I was very surprised, she thanked me for letting her husband have his unfulfilled desire in her controlled presence. I had shared tests with her before we stopped condoms. Thereafter, in threesome meets, I would cum in both of them.
He explained inevitably, his tongue would touch me, and if I was ok with that. Upon a positive yes from me, he said my cock might even pop and the head be licked or pop on his mouth. I said no problem, it's all good to give your wife a stronger orgasm. I got locked and he suckled me briefly a couple of times.
The previous went well. On our next meet, while I gave his wife cunnilingus, I motioned for him to suck my cock. He was delighted.
Before our next meet, I asked him if he would like to be fucked, and if his wife would be alright with knowing I had fucked him. He said he would give her cunnilingus while on all fours, and I should take him. I gave him a good fuck for 10 minutes and a reach around, got him to cum, then I showered, washed my cock, and proceeded to fuck her. I saved my cum for her.
I saw his wife solo many times after that. I was very surprised, she thanked me for letting her husband have his unfulfilled desire in her controlled presence. I had shared tests with her before we stopped condoms. Thereafter, in threesome meets, I would cum in both of them.