Pussyfree?

[Ready2StartAgain]

It has been a couple of months since I was in my wife. We talked about it yesterday and she said "I know", I really don't miss it. We do have sex in other ways, finger and oral.
I asked her if she thought I would be in her during this year, 2025 (2 months) and she told me right away - no, I don't think so. I was a bit surprised but asked her when she thought it will be the next time. She said at her birthday- in February. In that case I would have been pussyfree for 6-7 months.

To night we had sex and I was hard and quite near her pussy and she was really horny but told me anyway- to bad you're not allowed in there you know. You can only watch others be there (that's nothing that's happened yet but we talked about it and maybe maybe it will happen in the future)

My question is, we haven't been talked about this but she seems to made a decision about make me pussyfree. Is this something that will be permanent or will she change her mind - what do you think?

Is she an active hotwife? Was this 100% her idea or did the bull coax her into making you pussy free?!

[mfmfantasy50]

It has been a couple of months since I was in my wife. We talked about it yesterday and she said "I know", I really don't miss it. We do have sex in other ways, finger and oral.
I asked her if she thought I would be in her during this year, 2025 (2 months) and she told me right away - no, I don't think so. I was a bit surprised but asked her when she thought it will be the next time. She said at her birthday- in February. In that case I would have been pussyfree for 6-7 months.

To night we had sex and I was hard and quite near her pussy and she was really horny but told me anyway- to bad you're not allowed in there you know. You can only watch others be there (that's nothing that's happened yet but we talked about it and maybe maybe it will happen in the future)

My question is, we haven't been talked about this but she seems to made a decision about make me pussyfree. Is this something that will be permanent or will she change her mind - what do you think?

Speaking ONLY for myself, if you offer and your wife accepts ownership of your cock and your sexual satisfaction, and she further decides she prefers being totally free of your cock and/or your cum, then you cannot with any certainty predict when you will be allowed penetration with her; whether that penetration occasion is for some special occasion or whether it become never again.

After all, that uncertainty is part of the power you've offered her, right? And, once given, it may not ever be returned to you...

I last penetrated Muffin, my wife, in December of 2024. I wish it had gone better. My performance was dismal...

Rock

[Swe_male]

It has been a couple of months since I was in my wife. We talked about it yesterday and she said "I know", I really don't miss it. We do have sex in other ways, finger and oral.
I asked her if she thought I would be in her during this year, 2025 (2 months) and she told me right away - no, I don't think so. I was a bit surprised but asked her when she thought it will be the next time. She said at her birthday- in February. In that case I would have been pussyfree for 6-7 months.

To night we had sex and I was hard and quite near her pussy and she was really horny but told me anyway- to bad you're not allowed in there you know. You can only watch others be there (that's nothing that's happened yet but we talked about it and maybe maybe it will happen in the future)

My question is, we haven't been talked about this but she seems to made a decision about make me pussyfree. Is this something that will be permanent or will she change her mind - what do you think?

Is she an active hotwife? Was this 100% her idea or did the bull coax her into making you pussy free?!

No, she is not an active hotwife but we have spoken about it and she know that's one of my fantasies. Her being with someone else, not turning me pussyfree. I don't know how and why she start telling me this things. Like it doesn't matter to me, I don't need you in me, I rather don't have you in me. And when I told her, it was quite long time since we had PIV she said, I know and I don't miss it. That's when I asked her if she thought I'll enter her this year as I wrote earlier. She teases me that just others are allowed to get inside and maybe I could watch.

[Ready2StartAgain]

It has been a couple of months since I was in my wife. We talked about it yesterday and she said "I know", I really don't miss it. We do have sex in other ways, finger and oral.
I asked her if she thought I would be in her during this year, 2025 (2 months) and she told me right away - no, I don't think so. I was a bit surprised but asked her when she thought it will be the next time. She said at her birthday- in February. In that case I would have been pussyfree for 6-7 months.

To night we had sex and I was hard and quite near her pussy and she was really horny but told me anyway- to bad you're not allowed in there you know. You can only watch others be there (that's nothing that's happened yet but we talked about it and maybe maybe it will happen in the future)

My question is, we haven't been talked about this but she seems to made a decision about make me pussyfree. Is this something that will be permanent or will she change her mind - what do you think?

Is she an active hotwife? Was this 100% her idea or did the bull coax her into making you pussy free?!

No, she is not an active hotwife but we have spoken about it and she know that's one of my fantasies. Her being with someone else, not turning me pussyfree. I don't know how and why she start telling me this things. Like it doesn't matter to me, I don't need you in me, I rather don't have you in me. And when I told her, it was quite long time since we had PIV she said, I know and I don't miss it. That's when I asked her if she thought I'll enter her this year as I wrote earlier. She teases me that just others are allowed to get inside and maybe I could watch.

I hope you enjoy the teasing and certainly watch! You should still be able to lick her though!

[Swe_male]

It has been a couple of months since I was in my wife. We talked about it yesterday and she said "I know", I really don't miss it. We do have sex in other ways, finger and oral.
I asked her if she thought I would be in her during this year, 2025 (2 months) and she told me right away - no, I don't think so. I was a bit surprised but asked her when she thought it will be the next time. She said at her birthday- in February. In that case I would have been pussyfree for 6-7 months.

To night we had sex and I was hard and quite near her pussy and she was really horny but told me anyway- to bad you're not allowed in there you know. You can only watch others be there (that's nothing that's happened yet but we talked about it and maybe maybe it will happen in the future)

My question is, we haven't been talked about this but she seems to made a decision about make me pussyfree. Is this something that will be permanent or will she change her mind - what do you think?

Speaking ONLY for myself, if you offer and your wife accepts ownership of your cock and your sexual satisfaction, and she further decides she prefers being totally free of your cock and/or your cum, then you cannot with any certainty predict when you will be allowed penetration with her; whether that penetration occasion is for some special occasion or whether it become never again.

After all, that uncertainty is part of the power you've offered her, right? And, once given, it may not ever be returned to you...

I last penetrated Muffin, my wife, in December of 2024. I wish it had gone better. My performance was dismal...

Rock

Sure did give her a finger and she took the whole hand. I'm not sure I will get her in February though.

So, you are soon one year pussyfree. Does she tease you about it or doesn't she mention it at all. Do you talk about it?

[Swe_male]

It has been a couple of months since I was in my wife. We talked about it yesterday and she said "I know", I really don't miss it. We do have sex in other ways, finger and oral.
I asked her if she thought I would be in her during this year, 2025 (2 months) and she told me right away - no, I don't think so. I was a bit surprised but asked her when she thought it will be the next time. She said at her birthday- in February. In that case I would have been pussyfree for 6-7 months.

To night we had sex and I was hard and quite near her pussy and she was really horny but told me anyway- to bad you're not allowed in there you know. You can only watch others be there (that's nothing that's happened yet but we talked about it and maybe maybe it will happen in the future)

My question is, we haven't been talked about this but she seems to made a decision about make me pussyfree. Is this something that will be permanent or will she change her mind - what do you think?

Is she an active hotwife? Was this 100% her idea or did the bull coax her into making you pussy free?!

No, she is not an active hotwife but we have spoken about it and she know that's one of my fantasies. Her being with someone else, not turning me pussyfree. I don't know how and why she start telling me this things. Like it doesn't matter to me, I don't need you in me, I rather don't have you in me. And when I told her, it was quite long time since we had PIV she said, I know and I don't miss it. That's when I asked her if she thought I'll enter her this year as I wrote earlier. She teases me that just others are allowed to get inside and maybe I could watch.

I hope you enjoy the teasing and certainly watch! You should still be able to lick her though!

Actually I love the teasing. She once asked me if she would fuck someone if I would lick her before or after - told her I would like to lick her after and she seems fine with that. But yesterday she told me I might could watch her and not that I should, so I'm not sure I will be there when it happens. But I would probably be licking her when I meet her again after her little journey.

[ohtobecucked]

Not too far off 12 years, still happily married, BF gets the pussy and I’m a PF cuck. Love it!

[Debbies cuck]

Eight years September 2017, and She still firmly believes more than ever that a cuckold should never be allowed penetration.

[Debbies cuck]

Eight years September 2017, and She still firmly believes more than ever that a cuckold should never be allowed penetration.

[Bull4Oldrwives]

Caged or pussy free offers a BF a blank canvas to create a deep no limits relationship with the wife and develop all the erotic potential of the marital triad. Doesn't get any better than that.

[masculinecuck]

My cock hasn't been in my wife in 5 YEARS last time we fucked she hopped off and said I'll just blow ya little did I know that would be the last time.
My job now is basically cleaning her/lover.......I got FIVE bj's last year...........I initiated this lifestyle and love it but must admit I truly miss having intercourse with my wife. She has told me her pussy/mouth is strictly reserved for BIG cock only, my skinny 5" does NOTHING for her....

[ohtobecucked]

Caged or pussy free offers a BF a blank canvas to create a deep no limits relationship with the wife and develop all the erotic potential of the marital triad. Doesn't get any better than that.

Very good point and well said

[ucaneffher]

Caged or pussy free offers a BF a blank canvas to create a deep no limits relationship with the wife and develop all the erotic potential of the marital triad. Doesn't get any better than that.

Truer words could not be said! I personally lived this in my early 20s when my girlfriend made the decision to go exclusive with her lover turned boyfriend and made me go 100% pussy-free while she gave herself to him entirely.

At the beginning of her cutting me off in March, it was just sex but the more time that passed, the more that he made her his especially when she was at his place every single day and refused to be intimate with me. It was only a matter of time, he was having my girlfriend every single evening after work 7 days a week and she absolutely refused to let me reclaim her .

Just as you said, as a result of that blank canvas which resulted from her being with him everyday and refusing me access afterwards or anytime, by May/June, my girlfriend told me that she was in love with him and that all those nights with him were not just having sex but them making love and feeling and immense connection with him that made her feel his.

This was only 2-3 months into their sexual exclusivity which resulted in them being in love and making love instead of just fucking. I remained completely pussy free for another 5ish months which allowed that blank canvas to remain entirely for him. He used those 8 months productively by giving her attention and making love to her every single day, there wasn't a day where my girlfriend did not come home without him finishing inside of her. I'm sure that him always finishing inside her strengthened their intimacy and connection/bond because she kept insisting she was his and only for him when she came home and I would try to reclaim her despite being officially cut off for months.

Long story short, I was getting antsy and after 8 months she finally lifted the block. I finally had sex with her and I was in heaven. We started having sex again but she clarified that it was just sex when she was with me but she was his and when she was with him, she made love to him. Probably a month or so later, she transitioned from being my girlfriend to publicly being his. We didn't break up but I had to accept her officially and publicly being his while she made me her secret fuck buddy while everyone acknowledged him as her partner.

Being pussy free and allowing another man full unrestricted access to a completely blank canvas for him to use and create a beautiful story can be a risk for the cuckold. In the beginning I was in favor of him taking over as her man because he had already been solely having her and dating her so it didn't hit me as hard but I did have to get used to seeing her being fully his for nearly 3 years before I started getting tired of just being her fuck buddy when she had time for me. It was intense no longer being acknowledged or recognized as her partner by anyone despite her family seeing us together when her boyfriend wasn't around.

It has been well over a decade since she made me go pussy free, provide an unrestricted blank canvas for her lover to take over and mark, and eventually began her transition to let her lover ultimately become her the one who claims her.

Unfortunately I didn't learn my lesson and want a second try at giving another man a blank canvas for him to have a chance with my current girlfriend. There would obviously be rules/prerequisites this time. He and I would need to get along very well, have chemistry and become best of friends before I surrender another partner to another man. If I do it again it's because I like him And respect him as a person and vice versa. Only then it's when I go pussyfree and let him work on making my woman his, that's the moment where he moves in to our home , I move out of the master bedroom to make room for him, and once he is living with us, he takes over my role entirely inside of our home. We have our little celebration party where we have a threesome and the three of us agree that from that moment on he takes over and becomes her man and she acknowledges that she wants him to her primary man while making me witness everything under the same roof. Fucked up right? Lol

[Ijustloveher]

It has been a couple of months since I was in my wife. We talked about it yesterday and she said "I know", I really don't miss it. We do have sex in other ways, finger and oral.
I asked her if she thought I would be in her during this year, 2025 (2 months) and she told me right away - no, I don't think so. I was a bit surprised but asked her when she thought it will be the next time. She said at her birthday- in February. In that case I would have been pussyfree for 6-7 months.

To night we had sex and I was hard and quite near her pussy and she was really horny but told me anyway- to bad you're not allowed in there you know. You can only watch others be there (that's nothing that's happened yet but we talked about it and maybe maybe it will happen in the future)

My question is, we haven't been talked about this but she seems to made a decision about make me pussyfree. Is this something that will be permanent or will she change her mind - what do you think?

Likely permanent. Why would she change her mind? And even if she does, she's likely to be disappointed right? It's probably for the best that you talk to her and offer her that you surrender, don't you think?

[Swe_male]

Well, I guess you're right. I don't think she will enjoy PIV more now then before and she also seems to like the power of saying no to me. Maybe I should talk to her so I give her my consent of being pussyfree. I actually don't know if the female wants the male to surrender in this way or if she wants to deny? Maybe someone here who could give their point of view?

[Ijustloveher]

Well, I guess you're right. I don't think she will enjoy PIV more now then before and she also seems to like the power of saying no to me. Maybe I should talk to her so I give her my consent of being pussyfree. I actually don't know if the female wants the male to surrender in this way or if she wants to deny? Maybe someone here who could give their point of view?

Oh come on, why would someone else here still have to give their point of view? It is crystal clear, so obvious and we all agree, you don't deserve pussy any longer, duh, you are totally overdue. So, talk to wifey, hand her the keys, then report back.

[Ijustloveher]

jeez...

[HusbandX]

Does "no sex because the wife just doesn't give a shit any more" count as "pussy-free?"

Doesn't want to hear about it. Doesn't want to think about it. Doesn't care. Problem solved, permanently, apparently.

[coastalkid]

Does "no sex because the wife just doesn't give a shit any more" count as "pussy-free?"

Doesn't want to hear about it. Doesn't want to think about it. Doesn't care. Problem solved, permanently, apparently.

Denial the "old fashioned way"! Get ready. She may do what wife did. For the longest time it was exactly like what your situation is/was for me. My wife has discovered that her attitude towards sex had resulted in me not expecting her to want sex either. Once I gave up on instigating sex it more or less turned us into roommates that had a child (now a grown adult) together. We were like a car that only had 3 out of 4 wheels. We were going nowhere!

She has recently (the last 3 years or so) changed her attitude but now that I'm older and after decades of her reluctance/ambivalence she has also discovered that I don't respond like I used to. Years of conditioning has had an affect that won't be repaired over night. I give her credit for realizing the dilemma and trying to do something. I can tell she's sincere and contrite because she says and does things she's never done before.

My "organic denial" (ie our monogamous denial) has left me with resentment, ambivalence, and a sense of hopelessness when it comes to sex. Now that she has had her epiphany it's on me to battle my own demons, but Father Time and years of conditioning have taken its toll. Am I happy she's made the turn around? Yes, I am! I at least have a glimmer of hope now.

I'm no longer the "light switch" I used to be. I just don't get hard at the slightest sexual innuendo like I used to. It feels like her turn around is too little, too late. So now, with renewed determination, I'm battling my resentment and ambivalence because I STILL WANT TO FUCK. I don't have a hot wife but I do know what being "pussy free" is like and it hasn't been fun and it sure isn't exciting.

I feel your pain brother! Being "pussy free" by default is unfulfilling, unwanted and just bad. I hope you find a way to be satisfied.

For those of you that thrive on denial, that's cool. There are people here that take great pride in the length of time they've been denied. They gladly share the "X" number of years they've been denied. Everybody has their kinks. You won't get any condemnation from me. You want it and you're getting it (well, not getting it). Getting "something" you want is important, even if it's "nothing". It works for you, right?

The world is a curious and ironic place. There are probably lots of men that are being denied that don't want to be and then there are men that want to be denied that aren't. That's not easily understood. Usually men say women are hard to understand. In terms of denial, it makes it seem like men are every bit as hard to understand.

[Swe_male]

Well, I guess you're right. I don't think she will enjoy PIV more now then before and she also seems to like the power of saying no to me. Maybe I should talk to her so I give her my consent of being pussyfree. I actually don't know if the female wants the male to surrender in this way or if she wants to deny? Maybe someone here who could give their point of view?

Oh come on, why would someone else here still have to give their point of view? It is crystal clear, so obvious and we all agree, you don't deserve pussy any longer, duh, you are totally overdue. So, talk to wifey, hand her the keys, then report back.

She actually asked me today when we were in bed and I had fingered her to an orgasm if I had counted how long time it is before I could enter her again. I said approximately 4 months and she looked at me and said it's a long time. I asked her if she had changed her mind but she told me right away that she hasn't. I also asked her if I begged her, would she change her mind - but nope it's her birthday in February next time. So, I guess it not permanent yet but at least I'm not getting her pussy for a while and she seems to enjoy her new sexlife. To be continued

[sissystlouis]

Yes

[Midnight Joker]

Caged or pussy free offers a BF a blank canvas to create a deep no limits relationship with the wife and develop all the erotic potential of the marital triad. Doesn't get any better than that.

Truer words could not be said! I personally lived this in my early 20s when my girlfriend made the decision to go exclusive with her lover turned boyfriend and made me go 100% pussy-free while she gave herself to him entirely.

At the beginning of her cutting me off in March, it was just sex but the more time that passed, the more that he made her his especially when she was at his place every single day and refused to be intimate with me. It was only a matter of time, he was having my girlfriend every single evening after work 7 days a week and she absolutely refused to let me reclaim her .

Just as you said, as a result of that blank canvas which resulted from her being with him everyday and refusing me access afterwards or anytime, by May/June, my girlfriend told me that she was in love with him and that all those nights with him were not just having sex but them making love and feeling and immense connection with him that made her feel his.

This was only 2-3 months into their sexual exclusivity which resulted in them being in love and making love instead of just fucking. I remained completely pussy free for another 5ish months which allowed that blank canvas to remain entirely for him. He used those 8 months productively by giving her attention and making love to her every single day, there wasn't a day where my girlfriend did not come home without him finishing inside of her. I'm sure that him always finishing inside her strengthened their intimacy and connection/bond because she kept insisting she was his and only for him when she came home and I would try to reclaim her despite being officially cut off for months.

Long story short, I was getting antsy and after 8 months she finally lifted the block. I finally had sex with her and I was in heaven. We started having sex again but she clarified that it was just sex when she was with me but she was his and when she was with him, she made love to him. Probably a month or so later, she transitioned from being my girlfriend to publicly being his. We didn't break up but I had to accept her officially and publicly being his while she made me her secret fuck buddy while everyone acknowledged him as her partner.

Being pussy free and allowing another man full unrestricted access to a completely blank canvas for him to use and create a beautiful story can be a risk for the cuckold. In the beginning I was in favor of him taking over as her man because he had already been solely having her and dating her so it didn't hit me as hard but I did have to get used to seeing her being fully his for nearly 3 years before I started getting tired of just being her fuck buddy when she had time for me. It was intense no longer being acknowledged or recognized as her partner by anyone despite her family seeing us together when her boyfriend wasn't around.

It has been well over a decade since she made me go pussy free, provide an unrestricted blank canvas for her lover to take over and mark, and eventually began her transition to let her lover ultimately become her the one who claims her.

Unfortunately I didn't learn my lesson and want a second try at giving another man a blank canvas for him to have a chance with my current girlfriend. There would obviously be rules/prerequisites this time. He and I would need to get along very well, have chemistry and become best of friends before I surrender another partner to another man. If I do it again it's because I like him And respect him as a person and vice versa. Only then it's when I go pussyfree and let him work on making my woman his, that's the moment where he moves in to our home , I move out of the master bedroom to make room for him, and once he is living with us, he takes over my role entirely inside of our home. We have our little celebration party where we have a threesome and the three of us agree that from that moment on he takes over and becomes her man and she acknowledges that she wants him to her primary man while making me witness everything under the same roof. Fucked up right? Lol

While pussyfree if done right can be erotic, yours is more girlfriend-free.

[Swe_male]

Just an other question, you guys that have been pussyfree for a while, longer than 6 months. If you were invited to penetrate her one day, would you be able to do it or would your cock live his own life and do something else? Is there anyone here that have been pussyfree and been invited once and been able to give her what she ask for and not make her disappointed?

[ucaneffher]

Caged or pussy free offers a BF a blank canvas to create a deep no limits relationship with the wife and develop all the erotic potential of the marital triad. Doesn't get any better than that.

Truer words could not be said! I personally lived this in my early 20s when my girlfriend made the decision to go exclusive with her lover turned boyfriend and made me go 100% pussy-free while she gave herself to him entirely.

At the beginning of her cutting me off in March, it was just sex but the more time that passed, the more that he made her his especially when she was at his place every single day and refused to be intimate with me. It was only a matter of time, he was having my girlfriend every single evening after work 7 days a week and she absolutely refused to let me reclaim her .

Just as you said, as a result of that blank canvas which resulted from her being with him everyday and refusing me access afterwards or anytime, by May/June, my girlfriend told me that she was in love with him and that all those nights with him were not just having sex but them making love and feeling and immense connection with him that made her feel his.

This was only 2-3 months into their sexual exclusivity which resulted in them being in love and making love instead of just fucking. I remained completely pussy free for another 5ish months which allowed that blank canvas to remain entirely for him. He used those 8 months productively by giving her attention and making love to her every single day, there wasn't a day where my girlfriend did not come home without him finishing inside of her. I'm sure that him always finishing inside her strengthened their intimacy and connection/bond because she kept insisting she was his and only for him when she came home and I would try to reclaim her despite being officially cut off for months.

Long story short, I was getting antsy and after 8 months she finally lifted the block. I finally had sex with her and I was in heaven. We started having sex again but she clarified that it was just sex when she was with me but she was his and when she was with him, she made love to him. Probably a month or so later, she transitioned from being my girlfriend to publicly being his. We didn't break up but I had to accept her officially and publicly being his while she made me her secret fuck buddy while everyone acknowledged him as her partner.

Being pussy free and allowing another man full unrestricted access to a completely blank canvas for him to use and create a beautiful story can be a risk for the cuckold. In the beginning I was in favor of him taking over as her man because he had already been solely having her and dating her so it didn't hit me as hard but I did have to get used to seeing her being fully his for nearly 3 years before I started getting tired of just being her fuck buddy when she had time for me. It was intense no longer being acknowledged or recognized as her partner by anyone despite her family seeing us together when her boyfriend wasn't around.

It has been well over a decade since she made me go pussy free, provide an unrestricted blank canvas for her lover to take over and mark, and eventually began her transition to let her lover ultimately become her the one who claims her.

Unfortunately I didn't learn my lesson and want a second try at giving another man a blank canvas for him to have a chance with my current girlfriend. There would obviously be rules/prerequisites this time. He and I would need to get along very well, have chemistry and become best of friends before I surrender another partner to another man. If I do it again it's because I like him And respect him as a person and vice versa. Only then it's when I go pussyfree and let him work on making my woman his, that's the moment where he moves in to our home , I move out of the master bedroom to make room for him, and once he is living with us, he takes over my role entirely inside of our home. We have our little celebration party where we have a threesome and the three of us agree that from that moment on he takes over and becomes her man and she acknowledges that she wants him to her primary man while making me witness everything under the same roof. Fucked up right? Lol

While pussyfree if done right can be erotic, yours is more girlfriend-free.

Yea that's another way to look at it since I technically surrender her and encourage them to be together as long as they keep me in the loop of their relationship and intimate life. It's like becoming her best friend instead and being allowed to know and witness 99% of her relationship with the new guy.

In all fairness, I get her twice a year and still get to have weekly non penetrative sex when she sleeps in my bed.

But realistically you're pretty spot on.

[ohtobecucked]

Hey, whatever works for you - there’s no official guidelines and it needs you to both (and bull?) to agree, but after that?

If you’re happy, fuck what anyone else thinks