Being Pussyfree does it make you a “better man”

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Being Pussyfree does it make you a “better man”

Unread post by BD8280 » Sun Oct 19, 2025 1:21 am

I’ve read a lot here about being a cuck and pussyfree makes you a better husband, more caring and affectionate towards your wife and more attentive to her needs which is all great.
But i have been wondering does it also make you more hardworking and more focused on achieving for your wife and family? I feel like it makes me want to go to the gym, to work out and look after myself for the benefit of my wife, also to be more successful at work and therefore be more “successful” for her.

Do you guys feel this also?
Thanks in advance for the responses.

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Re: Being Pussyfree does it make you a “better man”

Unread post by coastalkid » Sun Oct 19, 2025 10:01 am

Isn't there also a flip side to this? Is it possible that it could do just the opposite?
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Re: Being Pussyfree does it make you a “better man”

Unread post by ohtobecucked » Sun Oct 19, 2025 12:08 pm

Being pussyfree was such a powerful and appealing thing in my mind that I never debated it with myself or anyone else in these terms. It is hugely ‘who I am’. Not sure if this helps but yeah, that’s all I can offer.

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Re: Being Pussyfree does it make you a “better man”

Unread post by BD8280 » Sun Oct 19, 2025 1:54 pm

ohtobecucked wrote:
Sun Oct 19, 2025 12:08 pm
Being pussyfree was such a powerful and appealing thing in my mind that I never debated it with myself or anyone else in these terms. It is hugely ‘who I am’. Not sure if this helps but yeah, that’s all I can offer.
But does it make you act differently to before? As a partner. Thanks :)

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Re: Being Pussyfree does it make you a “better man”

Unread post by D+D » Sun Oct 19, 2025 4:32 pm

I can only speak from experience. I’m a nicer person when in chastity. After being out for a few weeks my wife suggested that I be locked for October to help my attitude. I knew she was right I was acting like an asshole and my temper was getting bad. After 16 days I’m better.
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Re: Being Pussyfree does it make you a “better man”

Unread post by Fearlesspain » Mon Oct 20, 2025 5:16 pm

I'm not in chastity cage, but my wife controls me like I am.
When she denies me sexually I become more more compliant.
Her dominance helps me to be more submissive.
I get cocky (pun intended) when she gives it to me on the regular and she's learned to control me in this way.

I also get cranky if it has been too long. She'll put me in my place and then she'll ruin an orgasm for me. It's like the partial release makes it so much worse and I can't be mad b/c she let me finish, but she also made it feel twice as hard. The torture is so pleasureful!

It's so nice having a wife that just gets you!

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Re: Being Pussyfree does it make you a “better man”

Unread post by BD8280 » Tue Oct 21, 2025 6:50 am

Fearlesspain wrote:
Mon Oct 20, 2025 5:16 pm
I'm not in chastity cage, but my wife controls me like I am.
When she denies me sexually I become more more compliant.
Her dominance helps me to be more submissive.
I get cocky (pun intended) when she gives it to me on the regular and she's learned to control me in this way.

I also get cranky if it has been too long. She'll put me in my place and then she'll ruin an orgasm for me. It's like the partial release makes it so much worse and I can't be mad b/c she let me finish, but she also made it feel twice as hard. The torture is so pleasureful!

It's so nice having a wife that just gets you!
This sounds perfect to be fair, love the idea of my wife being in control of my orgasms, I love the idea of her making me wait, but also finishing me when I really need it, A ruined orgasm of course!! And there are so many ways to do it! I love the idea of her just teasing my cock until I finish, with her tongue or with her nipples. Such a great situation if she can manage your orgasms like that. All the time while she is doing whatever she needs/wants with her boyfriend of course.

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Re: Being Pussyfree does it make you a “better man”

Unread post by MartasBoy » Wed Oct 22, 2025 8:35 pm

BD8280 wrote:
Sun Oct 19, 2025 1:21 am
I’ve read a lot here about being a cuck and pussyfree makes you a better husband, more caring and affectionate towards your wife and more attentive to her needs which is all great.
But i have been wondering does it also make you more hardworking and more focused on achieving for your wife and family? I feel like it makes me want to go to the gym, to work out and look after myself for the benefit of my wife, also to be more successful at work and therefore be more “successful” for her.

Do you guys feel this also?
Thanks in advance for the responses.
I don't know that it has made me a better man, but I think it makes me work harder to be a better husband. My wife has said that she married me because she sensed that I would be a solid devoted husband and family man. She was on her way to being an established career woman when I met her, and she liked that I pledged to support her in her career, and never try to interfere with her having that career.
I think she thought that sex would never be all that important to her. She has confessed to me that, from the beginning, our sex was "okay". She initially thought okay sex, and the satisfaction of her career would sustain her. Later, she longed for something more. An affair showed her that really good sex was more important to her than she had earlier realized. She has said that she can't imagine being married to anyone else and that I have been a phenomenal husband. She says that my skills in bed are uninspiring.

She tells me that she can't imagine that she could ever find anyone who could match my skills at cooking for her, caring for our home, and making her feel comfortable and secure in our marriage. Seeing the raw pleasure she derives from sex with other men, makes me stay on my toes and want me to work very hard to do everything within my skills, to make her happy.

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