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Wesley Hudson Valley
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Have you dated / had sex with someone from this forum

Unread post by Wesley Hudson Valley » Fri Oct 17, 2025 6:05 am

Hello, from Kelly. (Hotwife married to Wesley)

Have you dated / had sex with anyone from this forum and if yes how did it go ? Please, don’t use names yet share the experience and details of how everything evolved from first flirting online to actually seeing each other and dating having sex.

I haven’t dated anyone from this website yet if the right man came along I would be very open to the opportunity.

About myself since I will be asked

Blonde 5’6” 36C in shape and attractive. Hobbies: traveling, hiking/biking, anything outdoors, learning and trying new things. Although I am a educated professional after two glasses of wine, I can be a times a ditzy blonde.

Back to my original question, please share with the forum your experience(s) with dating others from this forum.

Thanks Kelly

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Unread post by LVyoung » Fri Oct 17, 2025 10:57 am

Hello! I've been on the forum for about a decade. I had another username that I lost access to before this one. In that time I've hooked up with a number of couples from this forum. I can remember 12 off the top of my head. Which isn't a lot for most single men, but when you consider that half became regulars it's pretty good. Also I would guess about 1 in 20 messages I get have actually lead to a meeting. Amongst those, most all were great experiences from my POV with only one I can recall being a bad one. But, boy, was that bad one a doozy.

Since I'm in Vegas, most of the messages I get are from people visiting. I very much prefer locals and regulars. In my opinion, sex always gets better with each encounter as I learn her body. But visitors are great! Vegas is perfect for this lifestyle. The problem is, while they are on vacation, I am not. I have a great job with a lot of flexibility in my schedule, but it is still very tough because they usually are here during the week and want to either meet late morning or late at night. Really tough on a Wednesday when I have to be up at 5am the next day.

Even still, I've met some great couples from around world here. Britain, Canada, Australia, even a couple from Sudan. I never really know how any of these encounters with visitors are going to go, so I just bring a fist full of condoms and a small pocket-sized bottle of lube with me and see what happens lol But most of them have gone about the same. Meet at a bar in their hotel for a drink and a vibe check, up to their room for a few rounds of sex, a quick shower, say goodbye, and off I went. One was interesting where I didn't meet either of them at all until I got to the room. He let me in their room while she was blind folded on the bed. I played with her body, fucked her, and left. Over a year I actually saw them four times. Each time she was on the bed blind folded in a different position. I never did learn their names or even where they were from. The Canadian couple was a lot of fun. Over 4 years, they'd send me a message every time they were going to be in town, and that happened to be about every 3 months. Every time I got a text from them I knew I'd soon have a fun weekend hanging out by the pool, gambling, some shows, dinner, with lots and lots of sex.

Of the ones I've met from here, 2 were Vegas locals. Both ended up being absolutely amazing couples and quickly became very frequent regulars for me. With one couple I would be at their place nearly every other weekend until they dropped out of the lifestyle to have a family. It was a ton of fun. I'd go over Saturday afternoon, we'd make food, fuck, have some drinks, fuck, relax in the pool, and fuck all night. Then we'd wake up the next day and fuck some more lol That went on for nearly 3 years. They were definitely a lot of fun. They might be back one day, but who knows. The other couple was more "business" so to speak. Just sex. Nothing more. When I got there each time, the fun began immediately. Usually she greeted me at the door in lingerie on her knees ready to blow me. A few rounds of sex, leaving her nice and full of cum, and I've leave. Great couple, a lot of fun. Dunno what happened with them, they just stopped talking to me one day.

The bad one was...bad. One night turned into a year of stalking that nearly outed my lifestyle to my friends and family. The sex was rather boring to me, but apparently my dick changed her life. I woke up the morning after to 45 texts from her. By the end of the day there were 195 texts and she had found all my social media and tried adding me. It only got worse and more stalker from there. Lesson learned: never give out your real phone number. Use a Google Voice number or something not tied to the rest of your life.
Young faced BWC living in Vegas.

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Re: Have you dated / had sex with someone from this forum

Unread post by leggysman » Fri Oct 17, 2025 2:26 pm

Wesley Hudson Valley wrote:
Fri Oct 17, 2025 6:05 am
Have you dated / had sex with anyone from this forum and if yes how did it go ?
My wife leggysandy has. It went well :cool:
our hotwife story: viewtopic.php?f=5&t=67232
leggysandy's pics: viewtopic.php?f=9&t=67265

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Unread post by zorro » Fri Oct 17, 2025 3:27 pm

Yes, with 2 members of this forum. Both were married. They were wonderful women who played with me several times, sometimes with the husband present, sometimes not.
The best was a road trip they made to visit me in Idaho. We went white water rafting down the Canyon Run of the South Fork of the Payette. And then followed it up with a threesome and the wife and me for the night.
Miss those delicious days.

Good people, good times. No regrets.
Sharing your partner is a very loving act. Double her pleasure; double your fun.
Kevin Foster, The Three Marriage Enigmas: ". . . sex with a man other than her husband is simply the most erotic sex possible for a woman."

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Unread post by dinoo » Sat Oct 18, 2025 10:22 pm

Two times appeared so one deleted.
Last edited by dinoo on Sat Oct 18, 2025 10:24 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Early in 2023, all my settings disappeared.
To read (and view) my contributions advanced search for author "dinoo".

We visited frequently a club. (www.kasteelwaterloo.nl)
It became "our" club.

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Unread post by dinoo » Sat Oct 18, 2025 10:23 pm

We never did but both of us would like to meet one of the dominant men on this site.
Early in 2023, all my settings disappeared.
To read (and view) my contributions advanced search for author "dinoo".

We visited frequently a club. (www.kasteelwaterloo.nl)
It became "our" club.

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Unread post by tosaintsfan » Sun Oct 19, 2025 1:14 pm

Marla met one guy. No real connection. She would have likely seen him again, but he ghosted us.

TO
Our story so far, "continuation of Marla and me":
http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic. ... 33#p689371

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Unread post by Rusty317 » Mon Oct 20, 2025 10:55 am

Yes, Phillip verified my hotwife about five years ago in a hotel in Nashville. He posted here about the experience but I can't find it. Sorry to say he's deceased now. We will miss him.

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Unread post by Her number1 » Sat Oct 25, 2025 5:26 pm

We travel to Montana once a year and have used it to meet others along the way. She met a guy from this site and they have enjoyed each other.
If I'm contacted by someone from this site, I tell them to pm her as she handles her own flirting and getting to know others.

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Unread post by Parsifal » Sat Oct 25, 2025 6:04 pm

She flirted for a little while with one of several who've reached out but it ended up going nowhere.

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Unread post by Infiniti1970 » Sun Oct 26, 2025 7:33 am

She met one from here and has had a few chats with others that just faded away over time. We still check this board often but unless she’s posting in the Hotties it’s crickets.

Someday soon with the right guy we hope! Maybe it’ll be with someone from here possibly.
Happily married to my soulmate Smexywife
Our story here: viewtopic.php?f=9&t=68824

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Unread post by Infiniti1970 » Sun Oct 26, 2025 7:35 am

She met one from here and has had a few chats with others that just faded away over time. We still check this board often but unless she’s posting in the Hotties it’s crickets.

Someday soon with the right guy we hope! Maybe it’ll be with someone from here possibly.
Happily married to my soulmate Smexywife
Our story here: viewtopic.php?f=9&t=68824

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Unread post by HWCarol » Sun Oct 26, 2025 12:35 pm

Yes, I have. Several years ago. Hubs found a guy he thought I'd like from reading his posts. Exchanged a few messages, spoke on the phone, then arranged to meet at a club. Had a great experience.

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Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Oct 27, 2025 11:50 am

I found out about this site from a guy that I was seeing in the lifestyle, so it was a bit of a reverse from what you are asking. We have had some good couple chats with couples that we met on here, but haven't played with them.

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Unread post by sissystlouis » Mon Oct 27, 2025 2:06 pm

Not yet

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Unread post by matt19265 » Tue Oct 28, 2025 5:35 pm

I met a local couple from swinger site and they told me about this site so had to check it out. Always open to meet new couples for fun local and on my travels just haven’t had any luck to do so yet.

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Unread post by zorro » Wed Oct 29, 2025 9:09 am

On further reflection, 3 women from OHW, everyone more than once. They were all wonderful.
Sharing your partner is a very loving act. Double her pleasure; double your fun.
Kevin Foster, The Three Marriage Enigmas: ". . . sex with a man other than her husband is simply the most erotic sex possible for a woman."

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Unread post by eyespy2 » Wed Oct 29, 2025 11:42 am

late 90's, yes, different user name back then

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Unread post by Greg_N_Shelley » Wed Oct 29, 2025 5:07 pm

We played once with an OHW member who responded to a post I placed in the Personals forum. That was probably around 2008.
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Unread post by Relaxedremodeled » Wed Oct 29, 2025 7:53 pm

I have met one couple who already replied above and had a hotel meeting with another couple. Based on the Vegas post above, location seems to make a difference. I'm in Nasjcille and people visit and stay in a specific area. My hotel meeting was fun - perhaps too much fun... I came too quickly, but on the upside they had more time to explore the city. (I guess?)

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