My Birthday Wish?

[nostringsorworries]

Can’t believe it is almost a year since she first played with her lover. It doesn’t happen very often. It’s always thrilling for me. He does a great job of befriending both of us, calling each to chat etc. I don’t feel like an outsider at all and it turns me on, but she still won’t have sex with me the same day/night that she’s played and I really want to try that. I’m always nearby, occasional glimpse and she will talk with me about details later on, so it’s hot for me. He called me to visit the other day and mentioned he’d like to really do something nice for me on my birthday since I’ve been so generous. I don’t even know what that means exactly, but if it comes to it I’d really like to sleep with her right after. He and I have talked about why that is natural and hot and he’s chatted with her a bit about it as well, so maybe it’s not out of the question. I think he was talking more in terms of an evening out/dinner etc, but in the end that would be the best if I can get it to happen.

[BT2]

I don't think asking your wife's lover to arrange it for you to have permission to sleep with your own wife right after they have visited is not a good nor healthy idea.

[ferrisandrews]

You shouldn't involve the bull in discussions like this. She may feel you're ganging up on her.

It sounds like she's being a good partner and sharing details, etc. If she doesn't prefer to have sex with you the same day / night as when she's played, go ahead ask questions without being accusatory or whiny and she will probably tell you. She may need more lube applications during sex, if he wears condoms they may be irritating her. She may have body issues she's embarrassed to discuss (vaginal dryness, etc.).

If her bull is anything like mine, she's very likely sore. Women are wired differently and have different bodies and circumstances, some can go all night while others are one and done (and most fall somewhere in between). Mine loves for me to go down on her, but often I'm not allowed to do even that after playtime with her bull and it's not because she doesn't want me to.

[nostringsorworries]

Good advice but we’re all on the same page and have been from the beginning. Sorry I somehow posted this topic twice. Anyway, it’s been bareback from the beginning. 3 way closed friendship. Nothing behind anybody’s back. I occasionally hang with him just as guy friends but we share everything. He’s a doctor, very, very discreet and professional. Can’t be open about our situation, wants a girlfriend but too cramped for time to one justice. They occasionally go out as well. We don’t see him very often but do chat on the phone etc. she is very classy and doesn’t want to feel slutty by being shared the same night, but we’re all relaxing more now

[AdamGunn]

Do you know the reason your wife doesn't want to have sex with you after she's been with her lover? Until you understand that, I don't think just trying to change her mind will get you anyplace.

Does she know this is something you'd really like?

[nostringsorworries]

I’m not pushing it at all really. She knows, but things have evolved this past year and she might be more open. Everybody is more comfortable. He just asked me what would make it hotter, something special maybe. I could hardly ask for more. He is definitely good at getting her to try new things without overwhelming her. And she told me she likes that about him.

[nostringsorworries]

She's not opposed to having sex with me after hime so much as she doesn't want to feel trashy. She wants to keep things separate, but compatible. But like I said, things have evolved a bit this year and everybody is a lot comfortable with what It is going on, so who knows? Since he is offering to take us both out to celebrate, I think I can gently bring it up again without messing anything up. They both know my thoughts on the subject anyway. It might work out.

[nostringsorworries]

Woo hoo! I got my wish. Unreal experience!!

[Greg_N_Shelley]

Woo hoo! I got my wish. Unreal experience!!

Well, Happy Birthday!

[54321]

Wonderful. Please tell us how it all went.

54321

[zorro]

Congratulations! Yes, details please.

[nostringsorworries]

It was just over the top hot for me.He took us both out for a great dinner at a fancy restauarant. She wore the long dress I love with the slit that runs up her leg. It was kind of a private table I guess and he'd periodically run his hand on her bare thigh when there was nobody watching. It was kind of hidden from view by the table cloth I guess. He's not one to take chances on standing out. The fact that we were all trying to act normal made it even more intense for me. I don't remember much since I was so worked up and unable to do anything for relief. LOL

We came back to our place after dinner and he wanted me to be in the room and she was okay with it. Eventually we were all naked and she hopped on top of him and began tongue kissing him while she moved up and down on him. She knows that drives me wild when I see them kissing. He had me come lie on the bed next to him for a better view. It's odd the little things that I remember. The smell of sex. I never noticed that before. I put my hand on her ass and was caressing it as she moved and occasionally I'd feel his cock just a bit going in and out without being too obvious. He eventually flipped her over to finish with him on top with a groan and deep kiss holding her hands. After he got off of her and stood next to the bed with his cock just hanging there and said that we are designed to have sex with our mate right after she's been with somebody else and that's why the penis has a head on it to act like a scoop to swap out the foreign cum and then replace it with our own and that's why it's so intense and compelling. I'd heard about reclaimation sex, but never the anatomy of it. Anyway, he kind of left us alone and then she got on top of me like she had with him, but it felt amazing to me. Slippery and I couldn't stop thinking about his cum inside of her and didn't last more than a few seconds.

[Late]

Awesome. Thanks for sharing.

Late