At what age do we stop?

[oklacuck1972]

My wife Donna has been cucking me for the last 16 yrs and we love it. Recently she asked me if I ever saw us stopping this lifestyle, & I truly dont.

What does everyone else think? Is there really any reason to ever stop? Is it bad that I hope Donna comes to my memorial with BBC come in her panties?

[CuckyDan]

I’m 59 and my wife is 34….and we’ve only just started, so I hope we’ve got many more years of the lifestyle ahead of us!

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum CuckyDan. Glad to see you posting.

[The Owl]

With an older cuckold and a younger hotwife, it would be natural for it to end when death do us part. Sexual desire is a function of health. There are many reasons why stopping could occur. Ideally, we will all die young at a very old age and continue to enjoy what we enjoy for the duration.

[CuckyDan]

Welcome to the forum CuckyDan. Glad to see you posting.

Thank you sir, I look forward to sharing more and gaining valuable advice.

Dan

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

Maria and I have wondered this very thing for the past several years, and it even came up in conversation a couple of days ago.

As we approach retirement (We’re in our 50s), I’m starting to wrap my head around the fact that we’re empty-nesters and we may not need a house this big. Perhaps it’s time move into a nice townhome or whatnot.

Anyways…You can imagine that talk of such a major move has me also thinking of us living in a nicer place…perhaps even a different city.

When I breached this idea with Maria, she immediately wondered about how we’d include Walt, her boyfriend, into our retirement plans. She thought this might be a conversation that the three of us should have together.

So….I’m down for her to have her boyfriend and all, but I wasn’t prepared to hear her say she wanted him included as part of our retirement plans. It knocked me on my heels a bit. Made me ask, “How long do you see him being part of your life…part of our life together?”

Without skipping a beat, “Honey,” she said, “I want him to be to be part of our relationship until one of the three of us dies!……Don’t you?”

And while I am grateful for Walt’s friendship and what he does for Maria, I hadn’t really thought about how it might end, someday. She essentially enjoys all of the comfort of a husband (me) who provides emotional and financial stability for her…..while enjoying a full-time boyfriend (with FULL benefits)…..her “fun guy” who takes her places and does things with her that I just don’t do. (Example: They’re “foodies.” I’m not! They’re ALWAYS out trying different foods together.) And, of course, we’re ALL thrilled that he gets to enjoy sex with her….that she gets to enjoy sex with him….that I get to hear about (and feel/taste) EVERY DETAIL when she comes home full of him.

My point is this: Now that we’re approaching an articulation point in our lives, it appears Maria wants him in our lives to the very end. Any decisions we make will be with him in mind, I feel. If we decide to move to a new city, for example, it will be because that’s what Walt would like to do, too.

Hmmmm! I’m not sure how I feel about all of this right now.

[oklacuck1972]

Maria and I have wondered this very thing for the past several years, and it even came up in conversation a couple of days ago.

As we approach retirement (We’re in our 50s), I’m starting to wrap my head around the fact that we’re empty-nesters and we may not need a house this big. Perhaps it’s time move into a nice townhome or whatnot.

Anyways…You can imagine that talk of such a major move has me also thinking of us living in a nicer place…perhaps even a different city.

When I breached this idea with Maria, she immediately wondered about how we’d include Walt, her boyfriend, into our retirement plans. She thought this might be a conversation that the three of us should have together.

So….I’m down for her to have her boyfriend and all, but I wasn’t prepared to hear her say she wanted him included as part of our retirement plans. It knocked me on my heels a bit. Made me ask, “How long do you see him being part of your life…part of our life together?”

Without skipping a beat, “Honey,” she said, “I want him to be to be part of our relationship until one of the three of us dies!……Don’t you?”

And while I am grateful for Walt’s friendship and what he does for Maria, I hadn’t really thought about how it might end, someday. She essentially enjoys all of the comfort of a husband (me) who provides emotional and financial stability for her…..while enjoying a full-time boyfriend (with FULL benefits)…..her “fun guy” who takes her places and does things with her that I just don’t do. (Example: They’re “foodies.” I’m not! They’re ALWAYS out trying different foods together.) And, of course, we’re ALL thrilled that he gets to enjoy sex with her….that she gets to enjoy sex with him….that I get to hear about (and feel/taste) EVERY DETAIL when she comes home full of him.

My point is this: Now that we’re approaching an articulation point in our lives, it appears Maria wants him in our lives to the very end. Any decisions we make will be with him in mind, I feel. If we decide to move to a new city, for example, it will be because that’s what Walt would like to do, too.

Hmmmm! I’m not sure how I feel about all of this right now.

I totally understand what you are feeling. Donna hasn't really said how long she wants to continue, but she has made it very clear that she is not ready to stop now. She has made comments such as "Well as long as a black man wants this pussy, I am gonna give it to him". Im not sure if that is just her smarting off, or if she is really serious about that.

I want her happy and I love our life, but I am wondering if something happens to me if she will keep being a BBC slut and if so, will she be more open about it.

[JR1966]

Maria and I have wondered this very thing for the past several years, and it even came up in conversation a couple of days ago.

As we approach retirement (We’re in our 50s), I’m starting to wrap my head around the fact that we’re empty-nesters and we may not need a house this big. Perhaps it’s time move into a nice townhome or whatnot.

Anyways…You can imagine that talk of such a major move has me also thinking of us living in a nicer place…perhaps even a different city.

When I breached this idea with Maria, she immediately wondered about how we’d include Walt, her boyfriend, into our retirement plans. She thought this might be a conversation that the three of us should have together.

So….I’m down for her to have her boyfriend and all, but I wasn’t prepared to hear her say she wanted him included as part of our retirement plans. It knocked me on my heels a bit. Made me ask, “How long do you see him being part of your life…part of our life together?”

Without skipping a beat, “Honey,” she said, “I want him to be to be part of our relationship until one of the three of us dies!……Don’t you?”

And while I am grateful for Walt’s friendship and what he does for Maria, I hadn’t really thought about how it might end, someday. She essentially enjoys all of the comfort of a husband (me) who provides emotional and financial stability for her…..while enjoying a full-time boyfriend (with FULL benefits)…..her “fun guy” who takes her places and does things with her that I just don’t do. (Example: They’re “foodies.” I’m not! They’re ALWAYS out trying different foods together.) And, of course, we’re ALL thrilled that he gets to enjoy sex with her….that she gets to enjoy sex with him….that I get to hear about (and feel/taste) EVERY DETAIL when she comes home full of him.

My point is this: Now that we’re approaching an articulation point in our lives, it appears Maria wants him in our lives to the very end. Any decisions we make will be with him in mind, I feel. If we decide to move to a new city, for example, it will be because that’s what Walt would like to do, too.

Hmmmm! I’m not sure how I feel about all of this right now.

This has nothing to do with the OP post but your wife’s relationship with Walt is exactly what I’d like to find for my wife.

Can you PM me so we can talk?

Sorry if I hi jacked the post it wasn’t my intent.

[Cindi]

We are 66 & 67
I currently have 3 regulars who are below 50 and I am enjoying every encounter.
We plan on continuing as long as our health holds out

[Saskcple]

I am 59 and she is 55, slowing down a bit but not stopping

[JRE2]

For us it was when my wife's health began to deteriorate. Several back surgeries in her sixties became too painful to ignore. Now in her seventies, she still desires sexual activities and would love to have a regular lover, but the pool of functional men also faded rapidly after 60, and younger men are looking for younger, active partners.

Her last sex partner was nearly 20 years her junior and he tried to convince her to continue, but she was embarrassed to have physical conditions that she feared spoiled the enjoyment of normal sex for a partner. It was ironic that he was the perfect partner...handsome, wealthy, intelligent, witty, with a huge cock that provided the best sex she ever had. She talks about him all the time and I know she really misses him.

[eyespy2]

IMO its all about self confidence (and I suppose physical ability, mostly self confidence), mid and late 60's here, just getting started. Our thing is threesomes, and the pool of applicants is phenomenal.

[tailchasers]

55 yr old couple and life changes have inhibited the Mrs sexcapades with others. She and I hope we'll be able to fully return to what it once was. She has expressed missing her FWB and her boyfriend who continues to see her but with understanding patience.

[tosaintsfan]

I'm 73 and Marla is 76 and we're slowed down significantly in the past year or two. She still thinks about it, but the urge is not consistent enough to get her over the hump.

There are many factors. Certainly health is a large factor, and having back issues and other assorted health issues. As someone mentioned finding the right man when you're in your mid 70's is difficult. Marla still looks great, but age does tend to make body parts shift and wrinkle. Confidence as someone else said can also be a problem. Libido,
at least in our case is not what it use to be.

As for me, I support whatever she chooses, after all I am the cuck. With the medication I need currently, I need a crain to get it up, so eventually if she wants to get fucked, she needs to look elsewhere. I don't think we are done yet, but ....

TO