Hopeful

[sadsap]

My wife is there with colleagues, they've had a drink together and afterwards M went somewhere else. Their plan is that she'll get in contact with him again in a few hours (her estimate is around 22.30 which is a little over 2 hours away) and then see if they'll meet up then. We discussed condoms earlier and neither of us thought to pack them. In my defense I was not aware that M would be there.

[mrswarmwife]

My wife is there with colleagues, they've had a drink together and afterwards M went somewhere else. Their plan is that she'll get in contact with him again in a few hours (her estimate is around 22.30 which is a little over 2 hours away) and then see if they'll meet up then. We discussed condoms earlier and neither of us thought to pack them. In my defense I was not aware that M would be there.

I’ve got my fingers crossed for you and your wife

[aztd]

Hope it works out

[sadsap]

Nothing happened then. They had another time that they met (with some other people from my wifes workplace) after that. And my wife tried to setup dinner together with M alone for tonight when they are both in another city. She shaved, like she did before she had the first chance of something back when this started happening, yesterday. I tried to send the condoms along with her but she explained that she was not in the mood right now so they are still at home.

[aztd]

Bump

[sadsap]

I asked her a few weeks back about perhaps visting a sex club this summer, while our son is with his grandparents. She has not shut the idea down, but not said yes yet either. She does get worked up while we are having sex when I bring up someone else looking at her while she is nude or offering to help for instance sucking one nipple while I suck the other.

Unrelated she ordered a few new dresses that arrived today. One of them showed her cleavage more and she said that she probably would wear it to work on monday when M is visting.

[sadsap]

There were a lot of other people around so she never actually got much time alone with M. They did set up, including with some others, a meeting next thursday after work at a pub. Both me and my wife hope that it gets warmer then, for this occasion she had to change at work since the dress was not really appropiate for the weather we've had here in Sweden the last few days.

[sadsap]

A few updates. My wife and M had been outside talking to each other outside after last time. One of my wifes female colleagues asked if they were doing something later and they said no. The colleagues responded with "With you dressed like that I don't understand why he wouldn't.". I've met this woman, including being in her home, so she is aware that I exists. Still, it kind of sounds like she is aware that M and my wife are a bit interested in each other. Similar things have been said by others way back (more than ten years ago) when my wife have been interested in other men that she has worked with that have shown interest in her as well.

Yesterday they met at the pub, the weather was better so my wife could wear the new dress which she did. I have not gotten any report back on what they might have said or so but I do not think anything did happen. The last time she was comfortable wearing a dress with this much cleavage was several years back and she wore it once when she met an ex-colleague at his new place of work and when they hugged he was able to feel her up a bit. She told me about it afterwards and we were both clearly excited about it. Perhaps something like that happened this time and she'll tell me when it's appropriate (I was swamped with things for our sons football-team yesterday evening).

[sadsap]

Update time again. And I hope I get everything included.

Nothing of significance happened at the pub meet. M told my wife that he would be going to Stockholm this week, on the same day that she did. So they ended up at the same train to Stockholm and then back the next day so some time together again, atleast on the train back since they were seated next to each other for the return trip. To Stockholm the conversation was texting through Messenger.

In Stockholm the AC in my wifes hotel room wasn't working. M wrote back that his was and my wife responded that she should have been there instead since it seemed better and had nice company. M answered that the bar on the roof was open as well. Later on she wrote that she had to sleep nude due to the heat. Ms response was that his hotel room had a working AC and two beds. It was late (midnight) and he was in another part of Stockholm so nothing came out of it, more than my wife being a bit excited and me more so. We have talked about this a few time afterwards and every time it's been my wife that has brought it up which I think is great. It's also the first times IIRC that she has shown me parts of their conversations. She asked me if I wanted to see everything and I told her that she shows me what she wants to show me. What is interesting in what I saw was that she contacted him before me regarding the AC, and that they kept up their conversations after we had said good night, something that has happened earlier as well.

My wife told her friend that knows about her interest in M about the latest developments and that I knew and explained that she doesn't understand why I feel like I do but even so how I felt. Hearing her talk to me about how she had had informed someone else about how I feel was also very exciting. I thanked her and once more she didn't really understood why but she seems to have embraced the fact that I really get turned on about these events.

This morning I told her it's great that we talk about this in between normal conversations. She also likes that, and said that since this isn't just sexual feelings it's good to talk about it also outside of a sexual context.

[whosbeensleeping]

Thanks for sharing your ongoing story, sadsap. I'm enjoying it!

[sadsap]

Thanks for sharing your ongoing story, sadsap. I'm enjoying it!

Thank you. To continue where I left off I never had the chance to talk to her about her other feelings for M besides sexual yesterday since she was out with colleagues from work while I did different chores around house. She has talked about her feelings for M a few years back. But then they kind of evaporated during Covid-19 so it will be interesting to find out what they are now.

I gave her an orgasm through oral last night before we went to sleep. And this morning I woke her up with one as well. After she came this morning I fingered her a bit and then she stood on all fours and I continued to finger her. She asked me to fuck her and I did. After she came, so after about a minute, she fell down to the matress satisifed for now. She said that she had first thought about asking me to come in her. But she realized that my talks through the years that while I like sex and having orgasms it is nothing to when I see and hear her come, not coming probably was hotter for me - which it was. She also said she would prefer to save my coming to later tonight. A quickie with her recieving oral and vaginal and coming twice is something that we have time for in the morning and I love to please her.

Last weekend we had what was planned as a mostly anal session. Afterwards I got the answer that I thought I would, that she atleast that time prefered anal first and then oral and last vaginal. I've only come while having vaginal intercourse (except handjobs) so it was refershing to hear her voice her favorites. My guess, and hope, for tonight is a kind of repeat of what happened this weekend. It ended with her exhausted and satisified after over an hour of sex and multiple orgasms and me not coming.

[sadsap]

It was too hot last night to do anything, but she told me I could wake her up with oral so I did. More hotwife related I asked her about her feelings and she said it was not just sexual feelings but that she liked spending time with him but that she loved only me. I explained that even if she was starting to fall for him that would be ok as well, I just want her to be happy and that she has been even merrier since meeting M more lately.

She had shown the screen dump of Ms kind of invite to a colleague who had remarked that it would probably have been an invite if it had been from someone else than M.

Summer vacation is upon us so less chances for her to run into M, unless we actually meet him at the gym. Apparently he goes to the same as we do.

[sadsap]

Came here to update, and realized that I probably missed a que from my wife. She has mentioned a few times that we should (and I agree that we should) hit the gym more. Just now put two and two together when looking at my post above that M goes to the same gym. Kind of forgot about that part. Well that's another good reason to be there more often I guess.

Not much has happened, but a few things. We never ended up at the sex club, but she talked about going to a nude beach sometime in the future. Last time we talked about it was before our son was born.

You know those "You've been friends with so and so for x years" on Facebook? The last time she got one with M she mentioned that the heart emoji was the appropiate one for once.

Last night, while I was doing the dishes, she mentioned that she had talked to our son (who is 10) about his day in school. In school they had talked about relationships and that not every relationship is just between two people. My wife had talked more about him about the subject and while retelling this she kind of let on that love is something she needs to have sex.

All in all, I think my wife is a bit in love with M, but so far has not said it out loud to me. Perhaps because she is unsure how I will react, or she doesn't know herself how she feels yet. Or she is hinting at it and wants me to ask. Anyway, I'll try and ask a little more about him and her feelings when it feels right. For the moment we are both a bit sick and I would prefer to be able to give her a few orgasms after talking about it so it will have to wait.

[sadsap]

My wife and I talked about how this is going last week. She said she didn't know how she even felt about M since it's been so long since they last saw each other.

She is in Stockholm now, and I got a message this afternoon that she was going out to get some drinks with M. Apparently she was planing on staying at the hotel and get some work done but since they do keep in touch she found out that he was there at the same time so they decided to meet up.

Last time they were both in Stockholm they flirted some over text, including insinuating meeting up for drinks but the hotels were too far away to make it practical.

And as I wrote this I just got a message that she is heading back to her hotel all alone so not much to actually report...

[kaskap79]

Sitting in a hotel in Stockholm makes me look at all the Ladies here and thinking which one a hotwife.

It could be fun meeting her, just for talk.