She's Ready!

Stag78 · Unread post by **Stag78** » Mon Nov 10, 2025 9:06 pm

Hello all, it has been a very long time since I have posted anything (not that it matters), but recent developments have brought me back.

My very sexy hotwife-to-be is finally completely on board! A brief background: I confessed my cuckold fantasy to my sexy girl about 5 years ago, and she did not take it well at all. She was initially appalled that I wanted to ruin our commitment to each other, because sex was a sacred thing to be cherished between two people who loved each other. I agreed with her, but couldn't deny my carnal desires. I spent the following years trying to convince her that, as long as both partners agreed and were on the same page, it was possible to enjoy new partners while maintaining the sanctity of the relationship.

I have succeeded beyond my wildest dreams! A few months ago she admitted to me that for the last year or so she has been masturbating up to 3 or 4 times a day fantasizing about being taken by other men. We have gotten to the point where I can now say ANYTHING I want to her and it just turns her on. Examples: I recently told her I would love it if she got fucked in her pussy and ass at the same time. She responded by asking me if I would prefer to participate in DP'ing her or to watch her get DP'd by two other guys. I said I would like to participate and then watch.

A few days ago we were out and she approached a group of maybe 8 younger guys to ask them directions to where we were going, and they were very friendly with answering her. As we walked away, she told me, "A group of guys like that is your dream come true, right?" I confirmed that it definitely was. Later that night, she asked me, "If you and those guys were all going to fuck me, would you rather go first or go last?" I answered, "Honestly? I'd rather go last." She replied, "I thought so."

Last night, she told me we are very close to making this fantasy a reality, she just has a couple of questions for me. I asked what the questions were but she said she would ask me when the time was right. So I don't know what her questions are, or when the time is right for her to ask them. All I know is that she is now way more open to being with other guys than ever before, and that makes me very happy.

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Mon Nov 10, 2025 9:12 pm

Sounds exciting and fun ... Keep us posted please!

Unread post by **iluvmyhw** » Tue Nov 11, 2025 1:06 am

good luck and let us know what the questions are after she asks you

Pecannut · Unread post by **Pecannut** » Tue Nov 11, 2025 2:12 am

Wow! That is so amazingly hot! Hope things goes well for you. Let us know how things develops.

Wantsomefunto · Unread post by **Wantsomefunto** » Tue Nov 11, 2025 8:29 am

Great progress! I would be watching your thread closely!

vrmtr · Unread post by **vrmtr** » Tue Nov 11, 2025 1:14 pm

Congrats!!

AdventurousCoupleAA · Unread post by **AdventurousCoupleAA** » Tue Nov 11, 2025 5:40 pm

Best of luck to both of you! What do you think helped her get to where she is now in her feelings about this?

sharedfantasy · Unread post by **sharedfantasy** » Wed Nov 12, 2025 4:45 am

AdventurousCoupleAA wrote: ↑
Tue Nov 11, 2025 5:40 pm
Best of luck to both of you! What do you think helped her get to where she is now in her feelings about this?

Great question, for the rest of us wannabes..

She mentioned that she started masturbating 3 or 4 times a day to the thought of being had by other men, yet you mentioned your fantasy to her 5 years ago. Did she make mention at all about what may have triggered this reaction from her?

Perhaps you two can have a deeper conversation with her about how she got to that point, because I would love to read any additional tips that can be given.

Also, pre-congratulations! The time is near and I am very happy for you both!!

vrmtr · Unread post by **vrmtr** » Wed Nov 12, 2025 11:26 am

sharedfantasy wrote: ↑
Wed Nov 12, 2025 4:45 am

AdventurousCoupleAA wrote: ↑
Tue Nov 11, 2025 5:40 pm
Best of luck to both of you! What do you think helped her get to where she is now in her feelings about this?
Great question, for the rest of us wannabes..

She mentioned that she started masturbating 3 or 4 times a day to the thought of being had by other men, yet you mentioned your fantasy to her 5 years ago. Did she make mention at all about what may have triggered this reaction from her?

Perhaps you two can have a deeper conversation with her about how she got to that point, because I would love to read any additional tips that can be given.

Also, pre-congratulations! The time is near and I am very happy for you both!!

Great question!

Stag78 · Unread post by **Stag78** » Wed Nov 12, 2025 11:38 am

AdventurousCoupleAA wrote: ↑
Tue Nov 11, 2025 5:40 pm
Best of luck to both of you! What do you think helped her get to where she is now in her feelings about this?

I think it is mainly because I have been 100% consistent in my approach. I acknowledged her initial misgivings, repeatedly told her I would never want her to do anything she wasn't comfortable with, and that I did not need to make the fantasy a reality to be happy and fulfilled in our relationship. Meanwhile, any and every time the subject came up I was totally consistent that this is my biggest turn-on and I would be thrilled to live it out with her. Apparently my persistence has paid off!

Stag78 · Unread post by **Stag78** » Wed Nov 12, 2025 11:55 am

sharedfantasy wrote: ↑
Wed Nov 12, 2025 4:45 am

AdventurousCoupleAA wrote: ↑
Tue Nov 11, 2025 5:40 pm
Best of luck to both of you! What do you think helped her get to where she is now in her feelings about this?
Great question, for the rest of us wannabes..

She mentioned that she started masturbating 3 or 4 times a day to the thought of being had by other men, yet you mentioned your fantasy to her 5 years ago. Did she make mention at all about what may have triggered this reaction from her?

Perhaps you two can have a deeper conversation with her about how she got to that point, because I would love to read any additional tips that can be given.

Also, pre-congratulations! The time is near and I am very happy for you both!!

I'm pretty sure she didn't wake up one morning a year ago and suddenly think, "Wow, this thing actually turns me on, therefore I shall begin masturbating thinking about it!"

I am fortunate in that she has a high sex drive and has masturbated regularly as long as I have known her. The distinction here is she recently confessed that for the last year or so she has been thinking about cucking me EVERY TIME she masturbates, exclusively. I think it is safe to assume she occasionally thought about it while getting herself off before, and eventually she got to the point where it became her primary focus. So now we both think about her fucking other guys every time we masturbate.

Guys, I feel pretty confident that when your lady thinks about cuckolding every single time she rubs one out, you 'bout to become a cuck!

vrmtr · Unread post by **vrmtr** » Wed Nov 12, 2025 1:44 pm

Stag78 wrote: ↑
Wed Nov 12, 2025 11:55 am

sharedfantasy wrote: ↑
Wed Nov 12, 2025 4:45 am

AdventurousCoupleAA wrote: ↑
Tue Nov 11, 2025 5:40 pm
Best of luck to both of you! What do you think helped her get to where she is now in her feelings about this?
Great question, for the rest of us wannabes..

She mentioned that she started masturbating 3 or 4 times a day to the thought of being had by other men, yet you mentioned your fantasy to her 5 years ago. Did she make mention at all about what may have triggered this reaction from her?

Perhaps you two can have a deeper conversation with her about how she got to that point, because I would love to read any additional tips that can be given.

Also, pre-congratulations! The time is near and I am very happy for you both!!
I'm pretty sure she didn't wake up one morning a year ago and suddenly think, "Wow, this thing actually turns me on, therefore I shall begin masturbating thinking about it!"

I am fortunate in that she has a high sex drive and has masturbated regularly as long as I have known her. The distinction here is she recently confessed that for the last year or so she has been thinking about cucking me EVERY TIME she masturbates, exclusively. I think it is safe to assume she occasionally thought about it while getting herself off before, and eventually she got to the point where it became her primary focus. So now we both think about her fucking other guys every time we masturbate.

Guys, I feel pretty confident that when your lady thinks about cuckolding every single time she rubs one out, you 'bout to become a cuck!

That's my issue, my wife does not masterbate without me encouraging her...

sharedfantasy · Unread post by **sharedfantasy** » Wed Nov 12, 2025 3:54 pm

Stag78 wrote: ↑
Wed Nov 12, 2025 11:55 am

sharedfantasy wrote: ↑
Wed Nov 12, 2025 4:45 am

AdventurousCoupleAA wrote: ↑
Tue Nov 11, 2025 5:40 pm
Best of luck to both of you! What do you think helped her get to where she is now in her feelings about this?
Great question, for the rest of us wannabes..

She mentioned that she started masturbating 3 or 4 times a day to the thought of being had by other men, yet you mentioned your fantasy to her 5 years ago. Did she make mention at all about what may have triggered this reaction from her?

Perhaps you two can have a deeper conversation with her about how she got to that point, because I would love to read any additional tips that can be given.

Also, pre-congratulations! The time is near and I am very happy for you both!!
I'm pretty sure she didn't wake up one morning a year ago and suddenly think, "Wow, this thing actually turns me on, therefore I shall begin masturbating thinking about it!"

I am fortunate in that she has a high sex drive and has masturbated regularly as long as I have known her. The distinction here is she recently confessed that for the last year or so she has been thinking about cucking me EVERY TIME she masturbates, exclusively. I think it is safe to assume she occasionally thought about it while getting herself off before, and eventually she got to the point where it became her primary focus. So now we both think about her fucking other guys every time we masturbate.

Guys, I feel pretty confident that when your lady thinks about cuckolding every single time she rubs one out, you 'bout to become a cuck!

Hahah I’m pretty sure she didn’t either, but wouldn’t that be amazing for all of us..

Realistically, I like what you said the post earlier, when she has doubts, you kind of match the energy and let her know that it’s okay (but still leaving the door open), but when the time is right, you let her know how much it turns you on - the approval an emerging hotwife needs - then she’s matching your energy.

Stag78 · Unread post by **Stag78** » Wed Nov 12, 2025 4:13 pm

vrmtr wrote: ↑
Wed Nov 12, 2025 1:44 pm
That's my issue, my wife does not masterbate without me encouraging her...

Then encourage away, my brother!

I was asked what it was that got my girl on board, and I think it is several different things. I never pressured her, but I definitely encouraged her as much as possible. Her ex used to chastise her when she wore an outfit he deemed "too sexy", but with me there's no such thing as too sexy! When she looks hot, I tell her! When a guy is checking her out, I tell her I'm proud of her. When she tells me a guy was flirting with her at the mall, I say that guy has great taste, and ask her for more details. Was he cute? Did she enjoy the attention?

I have made the subject of her thinking about or being with other guys as non-threatening as possible. I have never gotten upset with her for "crossing the line" with another guy, because she knows there is no line. At least, there's no line with me that she would have to worry about with 99% of her previous partners. And I have done all of this consistently for the last 5 years. I think once she felt 100% safe that I would never get angry at her for any of this is the point where she finally felt OK with embracing it.

Let your lady know how absolutely sexy you think she is! How proud you are to be with her! How any man would love to be with her, but you are the LUCKY man who is!

Best of luck to you, fellow wannabe.

Cbombslam · Unread post by **Cbombslam** » Thu Nov 13, 2025 5:58 am

Happy for both of you and the years ahead fun stories to experience together.

Cbombslam · Unread post by **Cbombslam** » Thu Nov 13, 2025 7:07 am

Congrats on the progress and the experiences you are about to encounter together.

vrmtr · Unread post by **vrmtr** » Fri Nov 14, 2025 4:25 am

Thanks for the insight and advice. Ill keep on it. I let her know how sexy she is. We went to a nude beach this summer and I took a pic of her, shes beautiful and I let her know...her response was..look at my belly..nope, I don't see it and neither did any of the guys there. She is very cutes, has athletic body and great tits. I let her know all the time, but she thinks I need to say that because I'm her husband.

she has said, right time, guy and place, she's do it...so I'm hopeful...please continue on with your adventure, Thanks for posting

Unread post by **armyguyot1** » Fri Nov 14, 2025 5:03 am