Wives sleeping with married men?

[John Ryan]

Men are cheating scum. So why not take advantage of it ?

Cheating isn't exclusive to only one sex. Female as well as males. It's in the DNA.

[vette19690]

are you always sure that they're cheating and not there with their wife's knowledge or even sanction?

[vette19690]

are you always sure that they're cheating and not there with their wife's knowledge or even sanction?

[GoldenRoadie60]

We’ve been partners in a non-monogamous relationship for 32 years. The other man she sees nowadays is married. He’s her BF from 40 years ago and they are sort of picking up where they left off. I have no idea where his wife stands with this and I don’t care. Not my business.

[EuroBB]

My wifey is looking for a married man to become her regular FWB...more than single guy. Married are more stable, maybe cleaner and will be descrete. We think like that at least.
We will see

[John Ryan]

Discretion is paramount and being a married guy makes it much hotter

[Saskcple]

I think we prefer single men over the married ones, strong enough to not be worried about attachment issues but empathetic to a married woman waiting for her man to get home.

[wifelver]

My wife prefers married men who are in ENM relationships. In that way they are not cheating on their own wives and will not fall in love with her.

[JayR693]

I'm a MWM, sex has been non-existent within my marriage (otherwise a great marriage) so I have had many FWB's over the years. One of my earlier FWB, whom I saw for almost 15 years until I moved, shared this in one of our first emails....
Why a married guy, he knows what he wants as many are not getting it at home. They are not overly cocky, follow the rules, don’t want to get attached and don’t want to fall in love, they just want sex, be friends and have a good time, married men need to be discrete and keep their new found success to themselves. And lastly they go home when they need to.

[leo-cpl]

We have played with both married men and single men. If we keep morals aside coz lets face it, they have nothing to do with the LS, married guys are preferred for the following reasons.

1. They are discreet.
2. Appreciative of the hotwives
3. Not clingy/less possibility of mixing emotions

Downside

1. May not be available when you are
2. Maybe be less of (out to please)
3. Stamina and vigor wouldnt be the same as a single guy in early 30's/late 20's
4. Unavailable for overnight play

[leo-cpl]

We have played with both married men and single men. If we keep morals aside coz lets face it, they have nothing to do with the LS, married guys are preferred for the following reasons.

1. They are discreet.
2. Appreciative of the hotwives
3. Not clingy/less possibility of mixing emotions

Downside

1. May not be available when you are
2. Maybe be less of (out to please)
3. Stamina and vigor wouldnt be the same as a single guy in early 30's/late 20's
4. Unavailable for overnight play

Since wifes not a single guy kind of women, we like to mix it n play with both single n married men

[Mumfred]

We have played with both married men and single men. If we keep morals aside coz lets face it, they have nothing to do with the LS, married guys are preferred for the following reasons.

What do you mean by "If we keep morals aside coz lets face it, they have nothing to do with the LS"

[EuroBB]

Wifey waiting for one guy to get married so she can fuck him while he is wearing a wedding ring. Hot

[lisamyhotwife]

Lisa has played with married men, you can’t take morality out of it. Some guy is fucking around behind his wife back. Lisa would not approve of me doing such a thing. Having said that she likes how naughty it is to fuck a married man. I remember the first time she was with a married man, he was a guy that was a work associate but from another town, and Lisa knew he had a wife. We had a long talk about it and made the decision to do it. They fucked at conferences for over 10 years. So you can do it or not but you can’t really take morality out. If you meant you can ignore it I’ll buy that.

[lisamyhotwife]

I should add to my last post here that Lisa has never initiate a relationship with a married man. That might be splitting hairs but she would not have made moves on a married person if the guy did not make the first move.

[coastalkid]

Cheating is universally seen as immoral. The reaction to those that cheat is usually met with two distinct responses. One, that they are scum, detestable, self centered, they deserve to be caught and exposed, or two, I can't control what others do, it's not my place to tell them what they are doing is wrong, they will do it whether I'm opposed to it or not, simply not my problem.

Yet even ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is viewed and responded to in a very similar way by the monogamous world. That is "their" view of morality. Morality is an odd thing. It can be rigidly applied as an individual because that's the standard you've chosen to live by. It can be loosely applied by a larger group because it is open to interpretation.

I can imagine that some people that indulge in ENM cling to the vestiges of monogamous morality to minimize their own perceived immorality. It's as if they could say, "I know the world doesn't embrace ENM but we follow all the other values (or rules) of monogamy." That's fine. People have "their" standards. It does seem somewhat subjective. Even if the husband is ok with it, the wife is ok with it, they only engage with single, age appropriate men/women, and everything was above board, in the public eye, that couple and their behavior would be perceived as immoral.

[GenerallySpeaking]

Cheating is universally seen as immoral. The reaction to those that cheat is usually met with two distinct responses. One, that they are scum, detestable, self centered, they deserve to be caught and exposed, or two, I can't control what others do, it's not my place to tell them what they are doing is wrong, they will do it whether I'm opposed to it or not, simply not my problem.

Yet even ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is viewed and responded to in a very similar way by the monogamous world. That is "their" view of morality. Morality is an odd thing. It can be rigidly applied as an individual because that's the standard you've chosen to live by. It can be loosely applied by a larger group because it is open to interpretation.

I can imagine that some people that indulge in ENM cling to the vestiges of monogamous morality to minimize their own perceived immorality. It's as if they could say, "I know the world doesn't embrace ENM but we follow all the other values (or rules) of monogamy." That's fine. People have "their" standards. It does seem somewhat subjective. Even if the husband is ok with it, the wife is ok with it, they only engage with single, age appropriate men/women, and everything was above board, in the public eye, that couple and their behavior would be perceived as immoral.

I think morality boils down to one simple thing. Am I causing harm to someone by my actions? If I steal from a store, is that morally wrong? Does someone get harmed by that action? Maybe not directly, like in someone-robbed-the-owner-on-the-street kind of way. But surely the owner is harmed by that action. If I fuck someone's wife whose husband does not consent, is that morally wrong? Does the unknowing husband get harmed by my action? In my experience, the spouse of a cheating partner suffers in many ways long before the affair has ever been found out. Lack of attention, constantly suspicious, fear of something, just not sure what. The stories are similar. And then when they do find out? Head over to survivinginfidelity and see for yourself. It's a horror show. In the past 8 or so years, I've seen quite a few people kill themselves when they found out their spouse was cheating. In fact suicidal ideation is extremely high among victims of infidelity.

I'm a horny guy and because of my line of work, I've had many opportunities to fuck married women who were cheating on their husbands. But in the back of my mind, I know there's some poor shlub, who if he knew, might stick a 45 down his throat.

[leggysman]

I think morality boils down to one simple thing. Am I causing harm to someone by my actions?

Agree 100% That's the question - although as you suggest, answering it might sometimes require some contemplation. That's ethical morality.

Then again, a lot of people also care about the religious and cultural versions of morality, which are quite something else.

[Paradox2001]

I have a woman friend who is addicted to fucking married men. Not behind their wive’s back. She gets a power thrill from taking a man away from his wife and humiliating that wife in the process. She seduces a married man and makes it clear up front that his wife will know about the affair. She is also quite dominant to some of those husbands depending on their proclivities.

She reached out to me because she felt guilty after the first marriage that she disrupted. I counseled her and even encouraged her that it was not entirely her fault. If the husband was ready to cheat on his wife and willing to accept the consequences then he had to accept responsibility. So my dominant woman friend has been on quite a streak. She’s fucked many married men and their wives always know and accept it either willingly or begrudgingly.

She had a tendency to lose interest after she had made her conquests and proven her dominance. However, I encouraged her to get more aggressive about dominating the wife. I convinced her to buy a strap on and start fucking the wives who husbands she stole away. They don’t all agree but some do submit. She does not think it is a lesbian act but more of a ritual to reinforce her conquest. She loves to fuck the poor little “cuckquean” that she has humiliated. She has made at least one of them cry.

She is a very competitive athlete and likes to wrestle and fight women until they “tap out”. She is even willing to fight with men in her weight class. She calls me her “coach” because I have helped her become more comfortable with her dominance and extend the relationships to owning and dominating the wives and turning them into willing cuckqueans.

Each wife has a different reaction but the common theme is that they accept the superior sex appeal of this woman who is much more beautiful, sexy, and with a high sex drive that the husband likes. Often the wife is just not satisfying her husband. Some of them leave the scene immediately and feel very inadequate and insecure. Others will stay and witness the coupling and take some interest if not appreciation.

It is the cuckold scene in reverse. It is apparently a rarity because there are no websites dedicated to the cuckquean lifestyle.

Incidentally my cuckqueandress dominant friend is dying to fuck me and take me away from my wife, but I’m having none of that.

Roxy

Roxy

[lisamyhotwife]

Well I will say if this is true and I am skeptical, and you are a counselor you should have your license taken away. IMHO.

[Desotomiss]

So, I know we are new here but, lets jump in.
She would not knowingly get involved in any way with another man w/o knowing the wife was in on it. That said, we have been placed (looking at your NO at Mardi Gras!) where sometimes it just is a lot of people doing...stuff...so, you kind of have to check your moral compass at the door if your gonna relax and take in some adult time. We don't lose sleep at night because some dude, or chick, is hiding something from their spouse or SO. Sounds terrible but, we don't go looking for that situation but, we also realize adults have to do adult thinking for themselves.

[eyespy2]

We have no problem whatsoever with my wife sleeping with married men. We feel that thinking otherwise is almost a double standard.

[Swe_male]

I asked my wife if she wanted to fuck a married man or a single person. Doesn't really matter was her answer or actuality she said, I wouldn't hesitate if he's married but it doesn't actually matter.

[rxtz30]

My ex liked the thought of a married man, in love with his wife, wanting to fuck her. She used to think there'd be less of a chance of any strong emotional entanglement between them, even though she usually developed some feelings towards them.
However, one married colleague she was fucking and sucking almost daily did fall in love with her, to the extent that he didn't notice his wife was also having an affair. He became very clingy and she dumped him which lead to him causing her no end of problems at work. At this point, another married colleague started looking out for her, which ended up with her cheating on me with him and once I'd noticed the change in her, we split up. His wife found out and kicked him out and he ended up living with my wife, whilst I was living in our caravan on the driveway.
Whilst all this was going on she was also cheating on me with her nephew for the last few years of our marriage. A couple of years after my wife and I split up he met a girl and they soon got engaged. My wife went to the wedding and got a thrill from hearing him say his vows, knowing he'd be fucking her soon after coming back from his honeymoon. They've been fucking for over 25 years. He's been fucking his other aunt for a few months longer and more often so I don't know how his wife hasn't found out yet.
She's also enjoyed going with married women.

That’s wild! Blood aunts?

[Thebestdays1]

My ex liked the thought of a married man, in love with his wife, wanting to fuck her. She used to think there'd be less of a chance of any strong emotional entanglement between them, even though she usually developed some feelings towards them.
However, one married colleague she was fucking and sucking almost daily did fall in love with her, to the extent that he didn't notice his wife was also having an affair. He became very clingy and she dumped him which lead to him causing her no end of problems at work. At this point, another married colleague started looking out for her, which ended up with her cheating on me with him and once I'd noticed the change in her, we split up. His wife found out and kicked him out and he ended up living with my wife, whilst I was living in our caravan on the driveway.
Whilst all this was going on she was also cheating on me with her nephew for the last few years of our marriage. A couple of years after my wife and I split up he met a girl and they soon got engaged. My wife went to the wedding and got a thrill from hearing him say his vows, knowing he'd be fucking her soon after coming back from his honeymoon. They've been fucking for over 25 years. He's been fucking his other aunt for a few months longer and more often so I don't know how his wife hasn't found out yet.
She's also enjoyed going with married women.

That’s wild! Blood aunts?

Yes, his Mum's sisters.