Reignite the Flame

[Midnight Joker]

Such a hot turn of events. The door is open and she is OK with having sex with other people should the right opportunity come up. I don't see this really as a hard cuckold situation, but a loving hotwife one. Your friend was a great opportunity for her to explore with a man she liked and is attracted to. Taking his cum hit her on a different level, too. Your positive reactions were icing on her cake.

NY was a great decision. Having a guy who knew what he was doing made the experience a memorable one, vs. a bad experience. Besides, in the end the choice to go with him was 100% her decision. All that you did was facilitate an introduction.

Looking forward to when the next opportunity arises. I have a feeling that it is something that will just happen vs. seeking it out, and she might want it that way for a bit.

[QuietHope]

On Halloween night (Friday) we went to a family-oriented party with kids etc, and S was dressed as a witch. Not a slutty witch, but it was sexy with a lot of lace. I took the kids home around 9 and she stayed on later and then I got a text around 10 saying that as she was leaving with 2 other moms, and they had decided to go to a bar nearby.

I was at home full of angst, lust, jealousy etc. Was she now just an cock hungry hotwife? Would she be out all night? What kind of scene would the bar be like on a Friday night Halloween?

She got home around 11:30. One of the other moms may be getting a separation and she just needed to chat with her friends. They went to a wine bar that is pretty quiet. Nothing exciting to tell.

But knowing what she is capable of now...my mind is always on edge whenever she's gone without me...

[Dream Weaver]

Once you make the leap, it's very hard to not think of her in that way. It's actually fun, in my opinion, that little spark of hope. Makes you appreciate her all the more.

It can get a little frustrating because 999 out of a 1000 times it seems like nothing really happens, but what are you gonna do? Just the way it is.

[BallSpanking]

Has she mentioned anything at all at her surprise and delight you were so supportive (spurting in your shorts) of her venture with your buddy?
It looked like she was tickled pink ...

[Bingy+1]

Has she mentioned anything at all at her surprise and delight you were so supportive (spurting in your shorts) of her venture with your buddy?
It looked like she was tickled pink ...

...And Did she tell Dale about you spurting?

[Midnight Joker]

I was at home full of angst, lust, jealousy etc. Was she now just an cock hungry hotwife? Would she be out all night? What kind of scene would the bar be like on a Friday night Halloween?

But knowing what she is capable of now...my mind is always on edge whenever she's gone without me...

She is definitely open to having sex with other men now. I think the experience with your family friend sealed the deal. It was loving and allowed her to feel desired. That being said, she doesn't come across as a woman that will just go home with just anyone, unless she comes across a professional seducer like in NYC. Do you have any good looking friends or colleagues that you can trust? Maybe some intimate get togethers to peak her interest over time.

[BallSpanking]

Hi Karl,

I realize you don't think there is anything worthwhile to post, but has Sophia said anything about your 'positive' attitude to her suggested tryst? I mean, it would be really hard to pretend it didn't happen. She seemed happy.

[ferrisandrews]

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She got home around 11:30. One of the other moms may be getting a separation and she just needed to chat with her friends. They went to a wine bar that is pretty quiet. Nothing exciting to tell.

But knowing what she is capable of now...my mind is always on edge whenever she's gone without me...

I think I'm caught up, not sure if I missed anything. I could really empathize what Dale must have been feeling having sex again. That must have been confusing and conflicting. It's great your wife was able to experience the lifestyle through this lens, sexy as well as helping someone through an awkward pain.

Sorry to hear about the friend's separation. Sharing the same perspective as you, I can only say having single (or nearly single) friends for her to hang out with can only improve her chances of some more fun!

Keep us posted!

[QuietHope]

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...And Did she tell Dale about you spurting?
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No, I don't think she is into humiliating me at this stage.



Things have been good between us. Life has been treating us well.

On Friday night, she went to a movie premiere. Her friend's son is an actor in it and invited them. She got dressed up in a nice purple gown and looked fabulous. Its a small time film so no one famous but there were still lots of photos of her with other people. Afterwards, they all went to a party and she stayed late. I sat at home, fantasizing about what could be happening. No way I could sleep. I looked at every photo she sent, looking closely for who she might be interested in. I know she was drinking.

She got home near 1am, very late for us. I waited in bed, listening to her cleaning up, brushing her teeth etc. She quietly slipped into bed, assuming I was sleeping but I surprised her and pulled her in with a laugh. I asked her if anything exciting happened. She said no. I asked her if anyone came on to her, she said no. I asked her if she was interested in any of the guys there.

She then said, "I don't know what you're trying to turn me into, but I think I've done a lot in the way of fulfilling your fantasies. You can stop badgering me and pushing me. When the water is ready to boil, it will boil. You can't force it."

Fair enough. She said it in a nice way and then we fooled around. I humped her, underwear on, and the friction made us both cum.

The next morning, she was talking about the party and showing me who was who in the photos and she pointed out a guy (a director of some sort) who told her that she could be an actress and he might have a role for her in a play he is putting on. I didn't say anything but I'm pretty sure that's a guy hitting on her.

[ferrisandrews]

I can relate to her reaction, and she's right of course. Us husbands (especially us cucks) are super annoying. I freely admit that. She sounds patient enough to deal with it as well as communicative enough to voice her frustration without letting it bottle up. Kudos to her!

[BallSpanking]

Interesting, Karl ...
I see here a tug of war regarding not her willingness to engage with other men, but rather her willingness to be open and talk to you about it.
You refer to any talk about your spontaneous ejaculation event as 'humiliation', which is ... surprising.
It would seem Sophia's motivation was sincere, tender, in compliance with your desires, and hers.
That could be the basis for a loving and understanding exchange about the depth of your views, your encouragement of her happiness.
More in the vein of a "Loving Wife" than a slut of any kind.
And her comment this morning about the director guy offering her a role ...
I think she was throwing you a bone. You didn't bite (once bitten, twice shy).

[Midnight Joker]

She then said, "I don't know what you're trying to turn me into, but I think I've done a lot in the way of fulfilling your fantasies. You can stop badgering me and pushing me. When the water is ready to boil, it will boil. You can't force it."

The next morning, she was talking about the party and showing me who was who in the photos and she pointed out a guy (a director of some sort) who told her that she could be an actress and he might have a role for her in a play he is putting on. I didn't say anything but I'm pretty sure that's a guy hitting on her.

Thanks for the update! Good to hear what's going on behind the scenes so to speak. I love what she said there. She's not shutting it down, but letting you know that she is open when the time and place is right. Of course I fully understand your desire to want more, now!

For now, I think it is a good idea having her point out potential lovers or men she finds attractive. Keep it in her mind, without being pushy. Her showing the director to you is a great sign from her in that regard.

[Bingy+1]

...And Did she tell Dale about you spurting?
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No, I don't think she is into humiliating me at this stage.


Hearing about the spurting would have reassured Dale and perhaps spiced-up the playtime?



Things have been good between us. Life has been treating us well.

On Friday night, she went to a movie premiere. Her friend's son is an actor in it and invited them. She got dressed up in a nice purple gown and looked fabulous. Its a small time film so no one famous but there were still lots of photos of her with other people. Afterwards, they all went to a party and she stayed late. I sat at home, fantasizing about what could be happening. No way I could sleep. I looked at every photo she sent, looking closely for who she might be interested in. I know she was drinking.

She got home near 1am, very late for us. I waited in bed, listening to her cleaning up, brushing her teeth etc. She quietly slipped into bed, assuming I was sleeping but I surprised her and pulled her in with a laugh. I asked her if anything exciting happened. She said no. I asked her if anyone came on to her, she said no. I asked her if she was interested in any of the guys there.

She then said, "I don't know what you're trying to turn me into, but I think I've done a lot in the way of fulfilling your fantasies. You can stop badgering me and pushing me. When the water is ready to boil, it will boil. You can't force it."

Fair enough. She said it in a nice way and then we fooled around. I humped her, underwear on, and the friction made us both cum.

The next morning, she was talking about the party and showing me who was who in the photos and she pointed out a guy (a director of some sort) who told her that she could be an actress and he might have a role for her in a play he is putting on. I didn't say anything but I'm pretty sure that's a guy hitting on her.
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[vb23456]

Has your wife heard any more from her opera friend?

[QuietHope]

Has your wife heard any more from her opera friend?

Funny that you should ask. I learned today that he's going to be with us for Thanksgiving although he is bringing a date.

[Dream Weaver]

Has your wife heard any more from her opera friend?

Funny that you should ask. I learned today that he's going to be with us for Thanksgiving although he is bringing a date.

Everything has these little possibilities, that's part of the angst this kink brings. I can't remember if you spoke to her at all about him being a "possible" and it seems she was meh on the whole experience. If I'm wrong, let us know, but even with that.... you just never know.

[Midnight Joker]

I wonder if his date may get some jealously juices flowing from your wife.

[BallSpanking]

This is a great post. She has been with others now but not with anyone that I would term a bull. I think I am more of a stag than into humiliation but I also acknowledge that the longer my mind explores, the more I think I want that, too. The big hurdle would be going public. We strongly agree that our kids shouldn't be aware and almost as important, my career would be put into jeopardy. I do pretty well financially and we're not going to do something stupid, as hot as it may be.

You posted this in a different thread, but the inference is clear that you and Sophia have talked about HW'ing and the social risks you two can foresee. But, the underlying agreement seems to point to Sophia agreeing this is a dynamic in your marriage which will continue?

[Midnight Joker]

I simply love how your story has progressed. From her fulfilling your fantasy in NYC to fulfilling hers with your family friend, your story has stuck in my mind . So much so that I actually woke up this morning thinking about it! Hope all is well and I especially hope the the right opportunity opens up for her to explore some more. It is obvious that she is open to having sex with others now, but on her terms. Happy Thanksgiving!

[QuietHope]

JJ, back in the picture, sort of.

We hosted Thanksgiving and a good crowd, between family and friends, we had 32 people in attendance. We have a large main room in our home and it was filled and bustling like a restaurant. Sophia and her sisters and mother worked double-time to pull off feeding the crew and today we’re still enjoying the leftovers. Classic.

To bring you up to speed on JJ, he’s had an eventful year. JJ lived in our neighborhood until about this July or August and was married when he took Sophia to the opera. What we understood, at that time, was that JJ’s wife just hated the opera. There was a kiss between Sophia and JJ at the end of the night but it was very brief. I wonder now what exactly was happening in their marriage and if Sophia had any impact but not long after their date, JJ left his wife. He still lives relatively close by. I will also mention that prior to the opera, I would have said that Sophia and JJ’s wife were friends but that seems to be not so much the case. Anyway, it was JJ that we invited to our Tday dinner.

JJ brought a date, as expected, a young woman about 30 years old, so a 35-40 year age gap. There’s a whole barrel of gossip around that as you can imagine. (but JJ is not a cover for BB and we’re not in North Carolina!) In the sea of people, I was busy playing host and enjoying wine and wasn’t paying much attention to JJ aside from one quick conversation. I had a good time, watching football etc. Afterwards, we cleaned up and made it to bed pretty tired.

But as we snuggled up to get to sleep, she told me two things. First, there was discussion amongst the neighbors about doing a trip to Spain next year for Thanksgiving. Second…JJ kissed her.

Between the meal and dessert, Sophia needed a moment to herself to catch her breath so she took the dog for a short walk. (She’s someone who can be very charming and outgoing at times but she also has strong introvert tendencies that require her to “recharge” and she’s good about managing it.)

We have some gardens in our yard that open up to a public nature reserve with trails. When she slipped out, JJ must have spotted her and joined her. She said they talked about opera, his life now in his own place, his pending divorce and his new single lifestyle. He bragged about his dating success but then he told her that his dream was to meet someone like her. Told her it wasn’t just because she was beautiful. He loved talking with her and doing things with her. He said he had been watching her all day and he was charmed by everything she did. They were standing near a redwood tree, he pulled her in and they kissed. Open mouthed. Tongue. They basically made out for a minute with her back against the tree.
But then she stopped him. She pointed out that he had a date inside. He shrugged that off. She said that she was still friends with his ex and of course, there’s me. He accepted it, said he was jealous of me and they walked back together. JJ has no idea that we’ve explored so using me as her excuse was effective.

I told her that she was free to see JJ but she said she wasn’t interested. She does like flirting with him and she does enjoy talking with him but when they kissed, she “just didn’t feel it”. She appreciated being able to use me as her excuse.

I don’t feel that “cucked” by JJ. Not only because she turned him down but also because I recognize it had nothing to do with me. He didn’t "disrespect me”, he just has feelings for Sophia.

[Dream Weaver]

JJ, back in the picture, sort of.

We hosted Thanksgiving and a good crowd, between family and friends, we had 32 people in attendance. We have a large main room in our home and it was filled and bustling like a restaurant. Sophia and her sisters and mother worked double-time to pull off feeding the crew and today we’re still enjoying the leftovers. Classic.

To bring you up to speed on JJ, he’s had an eventful year. JJ lived in our neighborhood until about this July or August and was married when he took Sophia to the opera. What we understood, at that time, was that JJ’s wife just hated the opera. There was a kiss between Sophia and JJ at the end of the night but it was very brief. I wonder now what exactly was happening in their marriage and if Sophia had any impact but not long after their date, JJ left his wife. He still lives relatively close by. I will also mention that prior to the opera, I would have said that Sophia and JJ’s wife were friends but that seems to be not so much the case. Anyway, it was JJ that we invited to our Tday dinner.

JJ brought a date, as expected, a young woman about 30 years old, so a 35-40 year age gap. There’s a whole barrel of gossip around that as you can imagine. (but JJ is not a cover for BB and we’re not in North Carolina!) In the sea of people, I was busy playing host and enjoying wine and wasn’t paying much attention to JJ aside from one quick conversation. I had a good time, watching football etc. Afterwards, we cleaned up and made it to bed pretty tired.

But as we snuggled up to get to sleep, she told me two things. First, there was discussion amongst the neighbors about doing a trip to Spain next year for Thanksgiving. Second…JJ kissed her.

Between the meal and dessert, Sophia needed a moment to herself to catch her breath so she took the dog for a short walk. (She’s someone who can be very charming and outgoing at times but she also has strong introvert tendencies that require her to “recharge” and she’s good about managing it.)

We have some gardens in our yard that open up to a public nature reserve with trails. When she slipped out, JJ must have spotted her and joined her. She said they talked about opera, his life now in his own place, his pending divorce and his new single lifestyle. He bragged about his dating success but then he told her that his dream was to meet someone like her. Told her it wasn’t just because she was beautiful. He loved talking with her and doing things with her. He said he had been watching her all day and he was charmed by everything she did. They were standing near a redwood tree, he pulled her in and they kissed. Open mouthed. Tongue. They basically made out for a minute with her back against the tree.
But then she stopped him. She pointed out that he had a date inside. He shrugged that off. She said that she was still friends with his ex and of course, there’s me. He accepted it, said he was jealous of me and they walked back together. JJ has no idea that we’ve explored so using me as her excuse was effective.

I told her that she was free to see JJ but she said she wasn’t interested. She does like flirting with him and she does enjoy talking with him but when they kissed, she “just didn’t feel it”. She appreciated being able to use me as her excuse.

I don’t feel that “cucked” by JJ. Not only because she turned him down but also because I recognize it had nothing to do with me. He didn’t "disrespect me”, he just has feelings for Sophia.

I mean this in a totally hot way.... You have a strange definition of disrespect. Man, you're nothing in his eyes. He just made a move on your wife. He tries to take what he wants, you sit back, accept it. Tell yourself it's not disrespect. It's no respect. But it's better that way sometimes. Not like the bull you brought in... this one is natural, doing it the old fashioned way. Nudging you to the side, bit by bit. Sure it's early, probably won't lead anywhere....but she's letting him kiss her now, just put a little timer on it.

[myoralannie]

I disagree. I think it is the sexy vibes that Sophia sends out and seem somewhat irresistible to any man. JJ is just taking his shot. Maybe he senses Sophia’s freedom, he did get the ok to take her on a date to the opera already.
Please keep the updates coming and any chance of a new picture, her legs or backside. We don’t need a face shot. Thanks as usual.

[Midnight Joker]

Sounds like he was a bit too bold this time around and it didn't sit well. Still, I'm sure she is flattered. The water will boil when it boils, but on her terms. Could be just my imagination but she may be putting off serious sexiness vibes! Thanks for the update. I love hearing about how thing are progressing.

[scaryflyer]

Hey QuietHope,

I've sent you a PM.

Any chance you could post more images of your lovely wife in the Hotties section?

[BallSpanking]

Hi Karl,

It would seem the new dynamic is becoming clear, even if it is largely implicit.
Sophia knows she is free to take a lover, in her interaction with other men she enjoys flirting.
She has begun to deploy tactics of evasion/deflection with aspirants, if it suits her.
When you mentioned she is free to see him, she was not offended, responding un-offended, that he is not really her type.
No chemistry when they kissed.

This is not a woman shying away from other men, I don't know that 'shy' applies to her very much.
Considering the above, perhaps what she lacks is the opportunity to meet such candidates in a suitable venue.
Perhaps a book club, a gym-mate/spotter, a fellow amateur artist at a sketching class, whatever.
Anything that gets her out there, and gives her the opportunity to stretch her wings and fly.