20 years of sexual exploration in marriage

[freeromer]

I thought it be enjoyable to detail the journey over our marriage my wife and I have taken in our sexual exploration and opening our marriage to others and experiences. Like most here, that includes a good deal of others sharing our bed with my wife either in swinging or hotwifing. My wife and I have also enjoy other kinds of sexual fun including some bondage, toy use, public sex, sharing online, and others as we've tried to be open to anything the other person had wanted to try. Its been a fun 20 years for the both of us as my wife was pretty sexually free when we met and that only attracted me more to her at that time.

Our relationship started off in college where my wife was known to 'enjoy' herself at house parties which I also attended, and at one point that finally ended up with us hooking up one night. From there, we found ourselves infatuated with each other and that ended up with us getting married within the next few years. Monogamy was shortly lived in our relationship and within our first year of marriage we were already sharing her with a mutual friend who my wife was interested in.

One partner turned into many and a lot of fun experiences for us both. At this point, things have cooled off some for us as we're not as out going as we once were in meeting new people, but still stay in touch with some regular bulls and couples we see through out the year. I do think it would be nice for us to see about heating things up again and getting out to meet some new fun friends and see what new experiences and adventures we can have.

[hornedhubby]

Looking forward to your adventure history.

[54321]

Yes, please! Do tell!

Also, thank you for the pic of your beautiful wife in the Hotties Forum.
It's not surprising that she has had so many lovers. She is lovely!

54321

[freeromer]

Yes, please! Do tell!

Also, thank you for the pic of your beautiful wife in the Hotties Forum.
It's not surprising that she has had so many lovers. She is lovely!

54321

Thanks! Love her ass so much, its seen its fair share of action too.

I guess it makes sense to start with the first time. We hadn't been married a year yet, and a lot of our sexual fantasies centered around her fucking someone else as part of a threesome. We'd roleplay it out with a dildo standing in for the 3rd and she'd suck my cock while I also used the dildo on her as I talked about how hot she'd look getting spit roasted or watching her fucking someone else. She'd go wild for it. So at some point we started talking about who we knew that she'd be interested in, as my wife was very interested in perusing to make this fantasy a reality, but wanted it to be someone we knew and trusted.

She brought up a guy who had been a groomsman at our wedding. He was single at the time and obviously I was friends with him, so I said it was ok. We started by inviting him over to watch some porn together, drinks were shared, and at some point my wife and I started getting into it sitting beside him on the couch. Once my wife's shirt was off, he got the point and started helping himself to feeling up her body and kissing her neck (which she loves). As things progressed and more clothes came off, we made our way to our bedroom. By this time my wife and him had started getting familiar with each other, her sucking his cock some, and him getting a finger or two in her. She was more than ready to spread her legs and feel his sizable dick in her. We had originally agreed on using some condoms I had, but they literally didn't fit him. He tried, but he clearly needed a larger size. My wife was not going to be denied at this point and she said she'd be ok with him going bare in her. I said I was ok with it, and he wasn't turning down free pussy.

That night saw my wife have her first time with another man in our marriage, her first spit roasting, and her first multiple cum shot. We all had an amazing time as she took us both in turns with her finishing him off by riding him to completion and me after. She was glowing after in her sexual satisfaction. That ended up being the start of several weekends of us all having some fun with my wife in the middle.

[venus-can99]

Sounds like a woman who knows what she wants and you two are perfect together. Looking forward to hearing more of your adventures...

[freeromer]

Sounds like a woman who knows what she wants and you two are perfect together. Looking forward to hearing more of your adventures...

What are some of the things you'd be interested in hearing about?

[venus-can99]

What are some of the things you'd be interested in hearing about?

You have described her first time very eloquently. Would love to hear how things progressed from there - the ups and downs and how you supported her through them and also how your role evolved thru the years.

[freeromer]

What are some of the things you'd be interested in hearing about?

You have described her first time very eloquently. Would love to hear how things progressed from there - the ups and downs and how you supported her through them and also how your role evolved thru the years.

So after that first threesome, there were many more. But at some point we both got curious about meeting other people and swinging with strangers. So after a few months and a few false starts where we chickened out on signing up or even driving past once and just not stopping to go in, we had settled on a night we'd at least go in the door to see how it was.

It was dark by the time we got there, it was a small house out in the middle of nowhere with a tall fence around the property other than the driveway. This was almost a 2 hour drive for us, so we felt committed enough to pull in a park and see if we'd even stick around. Before we got in the door we had already ran into some people in a hot tub out front who were fully nude. The hosts were very nice and showed us around, and once done we ended up opening some beers we brought to loosen ourselves up while watching other people dance in the main room and someone giving a BJ in a shadowbox set up in a corner.

We were honestly feeling pretty awkward and really didn't know how to approach people, and as we came in late, it seemed like most had already paired up and we didn't want to interrupt anything already going on. A back room was playing porn, with several side rooms off it with beds, sex toys and other play rooms. We had wondered back there to sit on a couch while, not great porn was playing, but we could at least sit and had some better lighting.

Another couple must have marked us as new, as they sat down and started chatting about how we were doing and if this was our first time. They definitely did a good job of making us feel comfortable, and after a few more drinks we had progressed to some petting on the couch while watching other groups go in and out of side rooms for some fun time. At some point they asked if we'd want to move to a free room and we agreed. We closed the door and got down to business, swapping partners on the bed and confirming we were ok to full swap.

Clothes came off and I was on the bed with a stranger's wife sucking my cock, while my wife did the same for him. Things progressed without much talking as I returned the favor for the wife and my wife sat on his face for them to 69 each other, her mouth bounced up and down on his shaft while she grinded her ass and pussy back into his mouth. The rooms had provided condoms and so those went on, and both wives climbed onto the men who were not their husbands to insert those dicks into their waiting pussies.

For me, I find it hard to finish in that position, especially wearing a condom, so I switched to where we were in doggy and gripping her hips while I pounded this woman I had just met until I finished. My wife had worked her way onto her back, and the stranger had folder her legs up pressed against her chest while he pounded her hard. My wife was moaning loudly and enjoying the roughness of his fucking. They ended up finishing in that position a little after I had came in his wife. We laid there after, enjoying the after glow for a minute, before we all had to get dressed again, clean up, and put fresh sheets on the bed for the next people.

We ended up going to hang out together in the hot tub after and finishing the last of the beers we had. We didn't hook up with anyone else, but on the drive home talked about how we both enjoyed it, and had fun fucking the other couple, though neither of us were too crazy about the club or how far it was from our home. Later, we'd find a closer one which we'd frequent more often. But that was both of our first times at a swingers club, or fucking a stranger. We never swapped number or saw them again.

[sandy691196]

Cool start!
So did swinging become a regular thing? Did you do stuff organically too? Like picking up guys in bars or while touring?
Did she ever pick up guys while she was out someplace solo?

[WatchinginNJ]

Thanks for starting this. I personally love origin stories, and hope I speak for more than a few people. I know how hard it is to write everything out, and push submit, so I'll be here happily lurking and enjoying your progress.

[freeromer]

Thanks for starting this. I personally love origin stories, and hope I speak for more than a few people. I know how hard it is to write everything out, and push submit, so I'll be here happily lurking and enjoying your progress.

Thanks, glad you are enjoying it. I felt after all these years that we've been sexually experimenting and pushing boundaries it'd be enjoyable to detail and share some of it. Not sure if people would be more interested in things chronologically, though that may be kind of repetitive, or jumping around to specific kinds of things we did, like public sex, swinging, hot wifing, bdsm, fetish, or other things.

Cool start!
So did swinging become a regular thing? Did you do stuff organically too? Like picking up guys in bars or while touring?
Did she ever pick up guys while she was out someplace solo?

It did! we've swung regularly since then with some ebbing and flowing of frequency. We never did just pick up strangers cold, it was always via online swinger sites or visiting clubs and meeting first there.

[sandy691196]

ok.. did couple swapping thing ever develop into hotwifinc as in MFMs and the wife solo with the other hubby?

[freeromer]

ok.. did couple swapping thing ever develop into hotwifinc as in MFMs and the wife solo with the other hubby?

There were a few instances where my wife did end up playing solo, either going to meet up with someone or them coming to meet her when she was away on business trips. There was one time my wife did go with a friend together to a swingers club without me. I wasn't feeling well that day and we had all gotten reservations there, so they went ahead without me and had a *very* good time together and with some other people they met. When they got home they fucked again on our couch downstairs and hearing them woke me up.

[WatchinginNJ]

Thanks for starting this. I personally love origin stories, and hope I speak for more than a few people. I know how hard it is to write everything out, and push submit, so I'll be here happily lurking and enjoying your progress.

Thanks, glad you are enjoying it. I felt after all these years that we've been sexually experimenting and pushing boundaries it'd be enjoyable to detail and share some of it. Not sure if people would be more interested in things chronologically, though that may be kind of repetitive, or jumping around to specific kinds of things we did, like public sex, swinging, hot wifing, bdsm, fetish, or other things.

Cool start!
So did swinging become a regular thing? Did you do stuff organically too? Like picking up guys in bars or while touring?
Did she ever pick up guys while she was out someplace solo?

It did! we've swung regularly since then with some ebbing and flowing of frequency. We never did just pick up strangers cold, it was always via online swinger sites or visiting clubs and meeting first there.

Tell your story the way you see fit. It's yours and yours alone.

People will read their own thing into it. The cucks will come and ask about humiliation. The stags will ask about watching. etc. People see the world through their view, so you can't pander to them, or you'll lose sight of the story.

/rant

[sandy691196]

ok.. did couple swapping thing ever develop into hotwifinc as in MFMs and the wife solo with the other hubby?

There were a few instances where my wife did end up playing solo, either going to meet up with someone or them coming to meet her when she was away on business trips. There was one time my wife did go with a friend together to a swingers club without me. I wasn't feeling well that day and we had all gotten reservations there, so they went ahead without me and had a *very* good time together and with some other people they met. When they got home they fucked again on our couch downstairs and hearing them woke me up.

I just now checked her pics! Oh boy what a heavenly ass! You seem to have cornered all the luck handed out by the maker!

[freeromer]

I just now checked her pics! Oh boy what a heavenly ass! You seem to have cornered all the luck handed out by the maker!

Her ass is to die for! Been in love with it since I met her and so much fun to play with. Probably her best 'ass'set'.

[Saute]

Great start.
Looking forward to hearing your adventures with or without you.
We had a similiar start with swinger clubs and then parties before my wife started playing away on her own.

Keep writing for us !

[john41+1]

Thanks for sharing your story, would love to hear more. What a body your wife has, beautiful, so sexy. Thanks for sharing,,,,