Hi - NJ couple - hesitant wife turning the corner, then back again...

[Otherwise_Door_2458]

48m/42f - reluctant wife finally turning the corner from pillow talk to IRL play - that would be the chapter title of our journey. I have lots of experience in the LS with my ex but currently, lovely, fun, sexy, smart and (overly lol) loyal wife has been a slow burn on the HF/cuck kink journey.

Anyhow, after years of pillow talk and her going back and forth on how she feels about the idea, she just recently allowed herself to consider being with another guy. It was all she could think/talk about for a couple days - and not all good things. She's conflicted about it and I would never ever rush or pressure her into things. I would be entirely satisfied with our sex life if we kept doing what we are now. We have sexy 2-3 times a week, and for busy professionals with young kids I know this is great. We graduated from dildo play to sleeve play - which absolutely scratches, at least partially, the itch I have to see her with another guy.

So for the time being I am going to her continue to process the idea of IRL play. At the moment she actually seems to have rejected it again - which is totally fine with me. I'm just here to enjoy the ride.

[Wantsomefunto]

So good she tried it, let her process and reinforce to her you love what she did and it will bring you two closer. She will get the itch again. Love to hear how it all happened. And more about how she looks.

[mikem007]

It sounds like you are doing the right things ... being supportive but not pushing her. She will come around in due time. Keep the discussion going with your lovely wife.

[mikem007]

It sounds like you are doing the right things ... being supportive but not pushing her. She will come around in due time. Keep the discussion going with your lovely wife.

[BallSpanking]

She may have rejected it …for now.