I collected the responses to her pics and put them into a text to her yesterday. She has maintained that she doesn’t want to read or know about them. But given the above, I’m operating under the assumption that she likes to read good things about herself, despite what she claims. I did this a couple weeks ago and she brought up the comments on her own during sex and came during it. She ended up with the day off from work, went to a gym class with a gf, then groceries, then home. I sent her the text after her outing but before our child returned home. She replied to my text with a
. I asked if she liked reading the comments. She said they don’t do anything for her and they’re what she has heard from me for years. However… I know she used her vibrator yesterday sometime after her errands. I’m guessing she would not have used it while our child was home and they hung out for a while when our child came home. So that likely means before that return… around the time of my text. So either my text got her horny and she used her vibrator or it was coincidence that my text came through when she was trying to be more sexual outside of sex. Which is something I’ve recommended for years. There was a delay in her response to my follow up text. Maybe she was showering, maybe masturbating, maybe from the comments, maybe because she’s was “working the program” (for a lack of a better term). So confusing!! Obviously, she’s not ready to be a hotwife, but is she warming up to the idea after all these years and is just in her usual denial of liking something naughty? Or is she just working on her own sexuality, removed from my desires, as I’ve pleaded for over many, many years, to improve her desire? I’d say both are equally plausible. Confusing af but also potentially very exciting!
