The reality of partner having a boyfriend

[Marksmall5]

Hot thread and reality. Quite erotic to have a wife witha genuine BF. Arousing to ponder if she might decide to leave you.

[elina]

Almost all the men my wife has had she was in love with. It started with cheating and, when caught, her being honest enough to admit she was in love with the men she cheated with. I eventually came to be aroused by that and eventually started encouraging her and facilitating her love for her partners. I loved risking losing her. I didn't want it to happen, but I loved the possibility.

I'm curious...I wonder if you asked her, "If it was at all possible, would you rather be married to him or me?" what she would say to that? What do you think?

Troilus

Hi Troilus,

Its something we have discussed and I know I am the one she loves and the person she wants to be with.

She does lust after him though and makes it clear he is on a different level to me in physical attractiveness and in the bedroom. She is absolutely correct.

If I am being completely honest, I think he is more into her than he would admit to me. I think he loves my fiancee.

I really don't want to lose her.

Thanks Troilus

I think you are correct, Her Bull is probably infatuated with Her.
That is a good thing as long as She will able to continue twisting him around Her little finger to provide Her what She needs and wants.

It does I think also headlight of your task now; To keep adoring, serving and pleasing your Wife-Goddess to the level that She will never doubt your devotion and focus on Her needs and how pleasing Her and making sure She is fully aware of how much you adore Her. You need to contine to seek for new ways of pleasing Her and making sure She enjoys Herself when with you.

Please keep posting; even if "nothing happened"....

Sincerely
elina

[veub]

I really don't want to lose her.

Haven't you already?

[Cory87]

My wife's bull is married with kids. His wife doesn't know that he stops by my place and bangs my wife after I have left for work.(2 or 3 times a week on average). This dynamic is a far safer way for my wife to cuck me without the risk of them falling in love and hitting the self destruct button. Her bull is 20 years younger than I am and very well endowed. My wife says she cums multiple times with him and he is the only guy she has swallowed.

[proudcuck40]

I really don't want to lose her.

Haven't you already?

A few people have suggested this, and its got me thinking I might be kidding myself but thinking otherwise.

[veub]

I hope not, but you should try to step back and look at the situation. Try, I understand this is difficult if not impossible, to put aside how much it excites you and look at the situation rationally.
Good luck in whatever happens.
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[proudcuck40]

I hope not, but you should try to step back and look at the situation. Try, I understand this is difficult if not impossible, to put aside how much it excites you and look at the situation rationally.
Good luck in whatever happens.
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Thank you! Its great advice,

I can be a real headfuck and its not always easy to look at things rationally... as we all know.

[FNQLivin]

I am sure I read from your main post that he would happily take her away from you. Did I read that correctly?

[elina]

I really don't want to lose her.

Haven't you already?

A few people have suggested this, and its got me thinking I might be kidding myself but thinking otherwise.

NO, you haven't!
The posters who tell you that you have doesn't have solid information to make such a conclusion. They only know the little snippets of facts you have related in your posts while your life with your Wife is so much more.

But if you start thinking that you have already lost Her, the probability that you will lose Her will increase.

Sincerely
elina

Sincerely
elina

[elina]

I really don't want to lose her.

Haven't you already?

A few people have suggested this, and its got me thinking I might be kidding myself but thinking otherwise.

NO, you haven't!
The posters who tell you that you have doesn't have solid information to make such a conclusion. They only know the little snippets of facts you have related in your posts while your life with your Wife is so much more.

But if you start thinking that you have already lost Her, the probability that you will lose Her will increase.

Sincerely
elina

Sincerely
elina

[wcpl4blkm]

We are looking for a black man to develop a special relationship with us. Ideally it will beging with all of us as friends, then FWB, then a deeper, intimate connection between her and the black man. She has told me often that she wants to develop a strong emotional connection with a black man, such as girlfriend / boyfriend.

I look forward to that happening as well!!!

[LongTermHubby]

My wife refers to her sexual partners as her lovers but says she is not in love with them. That distinction is important to her.

[Watchinu69]

My wife's bull is married with kids. His wife doesn't know that he stops by my place and bangs my wife after I have left for work.(2 or 3 times a week on average). This dynamic is a far safer way for my wife to cuck me without the risk of them falling in love and hitting the self destruct button. Her bull is 20 years younger than I am and very well endowed. My wife says she cums multiple times with him and he is the only guy she has swallowed.

Love yo hear more about your wife's relationship, sounds sexy & safe for you both.

[annsman]

I haven’t read all the replies, so maybe others have expressed it better. My wife having a boyfriend where sex is a natural part of their relationship has worked for us from the start. Ann dated solo and told me all about it in detail when she got back from her dates, which allowed her to enjoy her boyfriend without the distraction of me being there and also for us to leisurely enjoy each other when she got home without having to accommodate him.

She did fall in love with at least two of her boyfriends and even seriously talked about having their babies, but maybe strangely I never felt our marriage was threatened. I was turned on by the intimacy between them and hearing about her feelings and emotions was almost as erotic as hearing her describing their sex.

[hwc]

Have you discussed this more with her recently? Would love to hear what discussions you have both had, in relation to her having a 'proper' boyfriend and your thoughts...

[Mkliny442015]

Five or six years ago I was a hopeful stag husband who never thought he would evolve into a cuck with a willing curous wife. We got our feet wet slowly. She went on dates , kissing second base stuff until she finally fucked her first guy . Then she fucked a few others and knocked some fantasy off her bucket list. Then she met another guy and they really hit it off, it started out seeing each other once a month and it was two months before they even slept together .

From there it turned into once a month fuck sessions . Then something changed and it became weekly . It was a full year before they had unprotected sex and she let him finish inside of her, I think everything changed then he became insatiable and couldn’t get enough of my wife’s tight young pussy and she loved his cock.

They both weren’t seeing anyone else and decided to become BF/GF. They had a very rocky relationship though at times . He was the bad boy and the more he pissed her off the more she stuck around. She ended up cheating on him a few times as well, for the most part they were in love and even talked about getting engaged which turned me on. She didn’t want a divorce and they knew the engagement wouldn’t lead to marriage but it was symbolic . Their sex became slow tender lovemaking . Sometimes 3-4 times a week after the kids were asleep, or while I was home during the day . Other times when she was home alone she would sneak him over .

They went on regular dates , sometimes she would
Spend the night at his apartment or go for an afternoon quickie. They went away for weekends and overnights together even to swingers clubs and retreats . In the end he was just too inconsistent , too much of a commitment phobe and it became more toxic then good.

I don’t regret it and either does she , she would rather have a long term steady boyfriend then random one night stands. When we started our kids were still babies and we didn’t know as many people. Now that our world has become smaller , the kids are bigger it’s harder for her to go out locally on first dates and find random guys. As you evolve in this lifestyle your fantasies change with your circumstances and adapt to different realities . She is getting back out there with a renewed outlook. No one expects to end up in a relationship but when you start having unprotected sex with someone sperm bonding occurs and feelings get involved . It’s to be expected . As a husband I prefer she has a steady boyfriend .

[masculinecuck]

My wife has 3 steady lovers all much younger (she's 51 now) all hung like horses that drive her wild. She has a loving relationship with all three of them. Most weeks she'll have one of them stay usually THursday thru Monday am as she LOVES sleepovers. Loves the physical act of sleeping with them. We just got back from 2 weeks in St Martin with one of them where they were total lovers in all aspects.

[wifedateshubwaits]

My wife has always considered the men she sees as boyfriends. She calls them lovers as well. It’s the dynamic that works best for her and she enjoys dates, overnights and weekends away with these guys. Of course, she gets close to them in the process but I’ve learned to trust that she won’t leave me although we’ve had a couple of close calls over the years. To me, it’s just part of being a cuckold husband to a sexually active wife. There are risks, but that’s just part of the chances we take to indulge our wives.

[wifedateshubwaits]

My wife has always considered the men she sees as boyfriends. She calls them lovers as well. It’s the dynamic that works best for her and she enjoys dates, overnights and weekends away with these guys. Of course, she gets close to them in the process but I’ve learned to trust that she won’t leave me although we’ve had a couple of close calls over the years. To me, it’s just part of being a cuckold husband to a sexually active wife. There are risks, but that’s just part of the chances we take to indulge our wives.

[loyaltoher]

she needs you to be the protector, the provider, the person who she shares life with….and as a cuck, the willing support to her life as a hotwife…..and if you are lucky, sometimes sex partner.

[loyaltoher]

she needs you to be the protector, the provider, the person who she shares life with….and as a cuck, the willing support to her life as a hotwife…..and if you are lucky, sometimes sex partner.