New development with hotwife (hotgf) situation

[Geev]

So ever since my GF started having sex with her longtime friend Dave this summer, they have steadily seen more of each other. It started out a couple times a month, then once a week. Now we're up to twice a week and maybe once a month he'll stop over an extra time for a quickie blowjob and leave shortly after. So 9 times a month roughly.

Wednesday of this week she told me that he wanted to stop by a bit more, maybe three times per week (I assume the floating blowjob visit would still happen). I asked her why and she said he wants more sex, and that she isn't opposed either because of how amazing he is in bed. I asked her if I'm still her b/f and she said yes. I'm her b/f. Then she added "but most nights this is his property" and moved her hand from her breasts down to her waist while smiling. I was immediately jealous but realized it was silly. I told her that yes, I know her body is his most nights and I still enjoyed seeing them together. She asked me what was my favorite position to see them in, and quickly told her the time on the sofa when he was giving it to her doggy, and I could see him go in and out of her, and that after seeing that it wasn't hard to understand he was her #1 in the bedroom (bigger, thicker, and completely rock hard), She smiled and told me I would still continue to get laid, just probably not as much as Dave. I could tell by her smile that she was teasing me.

Anyway it does ring true. They are friends and we do all go out to eat about once a month, but they were never besties and never really hung out a lot. They are never alone doing things except for sex. Whereas she and I do go out a lot to all kind of places, concerts, flea markets, etc. I do visit her family (they don't know anything) and she visits mine.

Then she told me she wants him over on the holidays more so she can enjoy his bedroom prowess in order to best celebrate the occasion. And lo and behold he did come over last night after dinner, and fucked her on the sofa doggy after blowing him while I watched from the love seat. And again I took the liberty of positioning myself to see him enter her. What an amazing vision to behold. Unlike the first time when I was too self-conscious to jack off, I positioned myself about 15 feet away and got myself off while he had his way with her. Her little moans and whimpers were amazing. I then went in my bedroom, which is right next to that side of the sofa, and left the door half open so I could still hear. They finished not long after. As usual, he gave her an intense orgasm and then finished in her. He was gone less than 10 minutes later.

We texted a bit later. She asked if I saw what I wanted and told her yes, and that I jacked off while watching him inside of her. She jokingly told me I was a perv but it was okay because she liked it too. Then also jokingly advised I should check the floor where I stood to make sure I didn't spill anything. Then let me know Dave probably wouldn't be back until Sunday, and then we talked about the things we're going to be doing this weekend.

[Hawthorne34]

Can’t wait to hear more.

[Tryagain]

I surely do not like what is happening. You give no indication as to your ages nor how long you have been together. But as long as you are ok with going down the path to little or no sex with her, then let them have fun. In my opinion, this is way too much involvement with him and cannot help but hurt you guys in the long run.

[hwc]

they were never besties and never really hung out a lot. They are never alone doing things except for sex. Whereas she and I do go out a lot to all kind of places, concerts, flea markets, etc.

Would you be happy to see a change there? Would you like her to treat him like a real boyfriend and do 'coupley' things together, like go on dates, or even have her go over to his place for a wekkend of hanging -out and fun?

Would she like to do these things if you gave her the green light?

[Geev]

Hi everyone. Thx for your responses.

Hawthorne and Tryagain, here is my main thread that details how Kelley and I got into hotGFing. Hope you choose to take a look and enjoy.

viewtopic.php?f=5&t=76882

The two of us do still have sex regularly but she's with Dave more b/c he's far superior in the bedroom. I was the one who got her started down this path, as my story indicates. And I enjoy watching the two of them together when I can.

HWC, no I would not like that. I am her man. While she does sometimes kiss or hug him in public on the rare occasions that the three of us go out, it is fairly discreet and nothing too crazy. Also Dave is happy with their "friends with benefits" arrangement as well and does not appear to want to make her his full on g/f. In the end she just has a side piece that she enjoys sex with, which I highly approve of.

[Vin231]

Sounds Amazing. Glad she has such a good Fuck Buddy and you get to watch and enjoy the show. Nice that you are now jerking off while watching. Did you ever enjoy sloppy seconds?

[Dream Weaver]

I don't know how I missed this other than the Hotwives thread tends to be a little more vanilla, but this is definitely a nice continuation to the thread. Read it all tonight. Great re-cap and thank you for sharing!

[Geev]

Vin, no sloppy seconds. If it's a Dave day, it's his day to have her. And yes I do enjoy jacking it to her with her stud. It's a barrier I overcame quickly and early.

Dream, thx

[parklife]

Enjoyed your first thread and this one as well. My wife had a frequent FWB and it was amazing. I was never present and they did do things outside the bedroom so it was a different setup, but I was still reminded fed how much enjoyment it was for my wife to have a regular partner that I knew she enjoyed. There is something so reassuring in the fact that our wives/girlfriends can have amazing sexual adventures and still be so close to us and our relationship.

[Geev]

Couldn't agree with your last sentence any more, park. Kelley and I have discussed possible marriage, with me initiating, and I told her I do love the idea of us being husband and wife with her still seeing her stud. She indicated she could be interested, as we have also been talking about me taking over the house. The idea of her being my wife and getting regular action on the side is overwhelmingly hot.

[leggysman]

Of course, the decision to marry ought to be about a lot more than kink. Kink shouldn't factor into it hardly at all. Of course it makes it hotter. That by itself doesn't remotely make it a good idea.

[parklife]

I don’t think that’s what he’s getting at.. it’s not the kink driving the marriage talk and if they share a compatible kink, that certainly helps in the marriage department if both enjoy to scratch the same thing.

I would hope we can all agree kink shouldn’t be the main factor, but I can be a factor.

I’m more interested n what this means: “we have also been talking about me taking over the house.”

What are you speaking of here? I know you were dating, broke up, quasi-got back together and were roommates turned relationship again and then this all happened. There may be more to unpack before a marriage but unsure what this part really means. Take over the house and she moves out? Take over the upkeep of the house, service sub style? What is taking over the house and how does it relate to your dynamic/potential engagement?

[Geev]

I may be buying the house basically. She has mentioned it in the past and I brought it up in the convo about marriage.

And as far as the kink, don't forget sex is a big component of a marriage, and if both have something they enjoy together, it's a big part of the marriage success. And I sure do like the idea of Mrs. Kelley ______ having a boyfriend on the side who comes over and services her on a regular basis, where I get to watch. Gets me all hot and bothered like nothing else.