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[AdventurousCoupleAA]

I am currently using Grok to create hotwife stories about my wife for her to read. Grok let's me be as dirty as I want to be. Grok even fucked with me a bit at the beginning. I eventually figured it out, and had to ask it to no longer lead me on. Very disconcerting! . But, it seems to have been on the up & up since that request.

I have not used Grok yet, but I will check that out, HW. Thanks for the suggestion. I guess it is not surprising that an Elon Musk A.I. allows erotic content since his four Tesla models are S-3-X-Y!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

It's great to hear things are going well with your wife AdventurousCouple!

On top of what everybody's saying though, I wanted to quickly say how heartwarming it is to see not just your wife trying, but also how incredibly patient and caring you've been to her and respecting her boundaries so clearly. I imagine several people I know who have explored this lifestyle would have gotten really frustrated in your shoes so it's really inspiring to see how amazingly you two have been working with one another towards this goal!

Thanks for your kind words, Raymond. I think my wife is making incremental progress considering the possibility of hotwifing. Then again, I may be delusional. :-) For me, and I think almost everybody here, the turn-on is wanting our wives to experience unequaled pleasure. It is not too challenging to be patient since rushing this would cause our wives distress. That would obviously be counter-productive. We have also been very lucky that our friend “D” has been exceptionally patient and kind throughout our dealings with him. Thanks again for your thoughts!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

My wife and I had another coffee meeting with “D” this afternoon. Before that, I was tied up in a business meeting for several hours today, but I told my wife about one hour before I thought it would end that we would leave shortly after to meet him. Without hesitation, she got up and carefully put her makeup and eyelashes on. I did not ask her to do any of that, but she made a genuine effort to look her sexy best - and she succeeded. I later told her that it looked like my meeting was going to run longer than expected and that “D” might stop by to pick her up. I would simply meet them later. She seemed quite pleased by that possibility.

As it turned out, my meeting ended when I originally thought, so we left the house and drove 25 minutes to meet him. Although my wife seemed enthusiastic earlier today to meet, she started to complain a little in the car about going out when she feels tired. We have been busy the past few days getting together with other friends (holiday parties and such), and I said I wished I had known she felt that way before we left the house because we simply could have cancelled out meeting with “D.” But, we went ahead and met him and we had a nice time. My wife was warm and friendly, as always, and we had a nice talk with him. We briefly discussed the fact that I am flying out of state for a couple of days on Friday (returning Sunday), and my wife jokingly waved goodbye to me and said, “Have fun! Take your time!”

She knows that “D” wants to get together with her while I am away, and I really do hope they meet. But, it is not clear whether she will ultimately do so. As we were getting back to our home after meeting with “D” he emailed her and told her he thought she looked beautiful today. She giggled as soon as she saw his message and showed it to me. She asked me if I thought she looked beautiful and I assured her that she did. She responded to that compliment like a cat responds to catnip! Perhaps the message from “D” will motivate my wife to see him this weekend.

Do others of you who are reading this post have experience with your wives running hot and cold when it comes to possible hotwifing? I am guessing you do, but I would appreciate hearing your perspectives on this.

[AZguy425]

I've had my wife run hot and cold. The idea is to try and figure out why.

I suspect from your posts your wife is turned on by the idea of a 3some but it's overwhelming.

She might prefer the first time to be just her but she also doesn't want to say that. She wants to be "faithful" and "good". But she also wants to have sex.

My guess is this is why she doesn't want to be pushed to it in one moment but is excited for it the next.

I think she she's waiting for the right situation for her barriers to break down. Maybe his hand on her leg too high, a stolen kiss, or some other overt seduction. I think you need to let her know more that it excites YOU. She may break through if she feels its not just about her pleasure but that it would turn you on immensely.

Just thoughts that may or may not apply. Love following your journey!

[parklife]

My wife first became a hotwife about 12 years ago and STILL runs hot and cold about it. As AZ has said, sometimes it just comes down to finding the right situation at the right time for that domino to tip over.

I also agree with what he said about making sure she knows it turns you on… I think sometimes the husbands try to play it off so coolly and non-chalant because they don’t want to appear pushy but it then turns into having the opposite effect. If you always act like you don’t care or that it’s no big deal, it’s easy for her to start to question your desire for it as well which leads back to her own doubts.

A delicate balance for sure…

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Thanks for your comments, AZ and Park! I am leaving for the airport in about 90 minutes. Before I head out, I will be sure to let me wife know that I hope she gets a chance to see ”D” when I am away since I know she will enjoy it, “D” will as well, and it makes me excited! “D” is always very gentlemanly and is careful not to be too assertive with her, and I understand why. That said, I don’t know if things will progress if he doesn’t take the chance of asking her for a kiss, at least.

Incidentally, my wife has been very horny this week. We have had sex four nights in a row. Two nights ago, we were watching a movie with two guys and one middle-aged Asian woman (her favorite theme by far). As she watched the movie I told her to imagine she was watching herself and “D” was about to cum in her. She orgasmed shortly after saying (as she has several times before), “I want that. I REALLY want that!”

I hope she does want that! Thanks again for your perspectives.