Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[dinoo]

"Michael lay on the other side of our king sized bed...and my wife and I made love....as soon as I picked up the pace...my wife turned her head..and started kissing Michael...she mustve sensed my approaching orgasm...as she kissed michael..stopped and told him that she loves his cock..and loved him...
That is the way to excite a hubby to the highest degree. MHO.
I love that last words, not to forget Mrs. Reese act.

Mr. Reese, I would be proud having such a outspoken wife. I would love her more than ever.

Regards

[mrs_reese]

Dinoo, thank-you.
We had a fun filled weekend.
It was nice to be with my 2 lovers this past weekend.
Watching my husband climax as I told those things to Michael was the best moment for me.
A lot of discussion going on lately about me and hubby/ I have decided to let hubby take over the reigns with all of that.

I am feeling rather naughty early this morning. I am thinking of maybe some afternoon fun!
Sooner or later, I have to disclose my mystery.
Hubby deserves to know!

[Trifecta]

Thank you for your words of experience Reese. I hear you loud and clear. Again I appreciate the time you take to give me your insight and advice!

The wife read the last few exchanges we wrote yesterday... she's just a little freaked out but not too bad. She just wants to feel like I'm not pushing her, or if she doesn't want to go as far as an MMF she doesn't want to feel like I would be disappointed in her. I keep telling her that I'M not sure if I want to go this far either, and that our mutual happiness is the most important thing, so if EITHER of us are uncomfortable it's time to use our code word! (yes, we have one too!)

Godspeed Mr. Reese,

Trifecta

[flyinfast]

Watching my husband climax as I told those things to Michael was the best moment for me.

Why? What made it the best for you? How did those words enhance the evening for you?

Is it because you made Reese climax hard - because of your hotwife play? You enjoyed getting him off? Or something else?

And do you really love Micheal and his cock? Or is that just said to punch Reese buttons and you don't really mean it? Inquiring minds want to know what's going on in that sexy head of yours.

[flyinfast]

Reese,

Regarding the exquisite Mrs. R's pussy. So delectable. So enthralling, so enticing, so sweet. Of course her body is fantastic but her mind and spirit are even more intoxicating, aren't they? I'm sure her face is beautiful and to stare into her eyes with her luscious lips wrapped around your cock - or someone else - is to die for. A thrill ride? That hardly does justice to describe your adventures in sexland.

I know what you mean about the pussy addiction thing ("words can not explain how I crave her pussy"). I too have a similar addiction. Pussy does tend to control us. In that way most of us are addicts. Could I ever get too much pussy? Naw...

As to the alpha male thing it seems you are more of a switch. Top sometimes, bottom others and you enjoy both. In your willingness, (na eagerness?) to experience both roles, in that sense you have balls of steel. Your wife seems to be a switch as well. Do you ever get to dominate her fully anymore?

Speaking of balls of steel has Mrs. R ever given you some CBT? Not that I would want to put any nasty ideas in to the pretty little head of the devilish Mrs. R. Sometimes I think women were put on earth just to torment us, devils and angels all rolled into one. How's that song go?

"I'm a bitch, I'm a lover, I'm a child, I'm a mother
I'm a sinner, I'm a saint, I do not feel ashamed
I'm your hell, I'm your dream, I'm nothing in between
You know you wouldn't want it any other way

So take me as I am
This may mean you'll have to be a stronger man
Rest assured that when I start to make you nervous
And I'm going to extremes
Tomorrow I will change and today won't mean a thing

Just when you think you've got me figured out
The season's already changing
I think it's cool you do what you do
And don't try to save me

I'm a bitch, I'm a tease, I'm a goddess on my knees
When you hurt, when you suffer, I'm your angel undercover
I've been numbed, I'm revived, can't say I'm not alive
You know, I wouldn't want it any other way"



Your wife seems to enjoy cock or I should say cocks. Wouldn't you also enjoy pussies? Is your wife's the only pussy that would excite you? Wouldn't you enjoy having L and your wife, and maybe other women too? I know I would. Most alpha males would.

Oh, the agony and the ecstasy of it all...

when she is alone...I dont write about this a lot..but I am in agony..

Wasn't that the start of this whole tread (as in the title)? Have you ever answered the question. Why is it too difficult for you? Apparently it is not too difficult for you because you keep coming back for more. It feels good when you stop hitting your thumb with a hammer too, but I don't know many people that deliberately hammer their thumb so they can enjoy it when they stop.

..but I am in agony..it is never fun for me.

So, your wife, knowing you are in agony, knowing it is never fun for you, goes ahead and tortures you anyway.

Don't get me wrong... I understand full well how this is all hot fun play at some stage and eventually your pay off is hot reclaiming sex. But....

If Mrs. Reese enjoyed it when you climaxed after she said she loved Micheal because she really enjoyed knowing she got you excited and "high", that was the cause of her enjoyment, being hot for the man she really loves - Mr. Reese, and satisfying him, being his slave, if she has that kind of love for you (and I believe she does) then why would she knowingly put you through such agony? How does hitting those old balls of steel with a hammer (figuratively of course) square with loving you?

Either Mrs. R has a bit of a sadistic steak within her, meaning she enjoys tormenting you for her own sake (I think she does get a bit of a kick out of tormenting you, the power her "pussy" wields over all her lovers), or her love for you is so great she's able to inflict pain and suffering on you because you want it even though it is out of her character, the sweet loving angel of a wife, to do so. How much does Mrs. R enjoy giving you that agony that you hate? How much does she do it because she is your slave?

Thrill ride? Flying in the back seat with one of the Blue Angels in an F-18 Hornet, that's a thrill ride. Putting a plane in a full spin watching the ground come up at you, that's a thrill ride. What you guys are doing makes that seem tame by comparison.

Hmm... what will Mrs. R get Mr. R for xmas? I wonder...

I, like many others here, do envy the two of you.

[mrs_reese]

Flyinfast, I like reading your in depth posts. It makes me think!
I just wanted to say that in my opinion, I love watching my husband being pleasured. At first with all his kinky stuff that he likes to do, I was hesitant of all of that. But slowly, I realized that I am HIS fantasy. He has proven to me that I am all that he wants. To make a man go that crazy over me; especially a man that is my husband!!!! That is every married girls dream come true. I know that he will always be mine. I dont have to worry about not satisfying him.
And for that matter, I think that it doesnt matter whether it's a man or woman, isnt it great to satisfy your lover?
I know you like that Flyingfast. I dont know wouldnt agree.
I do enjoy reading your posts

[bubbajack]

The Reeses are artistic geniuses.

They, like the rest of us, have vague, compelling dreams and intuitions about marital sexual adventures delivered to their imaginations, possibly only half-understood at the outset.

But unlike most people they have the physical and emotional endowments which make it possible for them to put these dreams into practice and realize much of the ideal beauty of the vision.

They are the Mozart and the Michelangelo and Shakespeare of the hotwife life in our era.

You want genius in hotwifing? Just recall and savor for its possibilities the image of big black Marques and tiny, white, slightly disheveled Mrs R coming into the hotel bar to tell Mr. R that Marques was through fucking her for now and that Mr. R could come up to the room with them.

That's great art, people!!

[mrs_reese]

To my amazing friend, Bubbajack, a big Thanks to you again for sharing your feelings. i am so happy that you liked that exchange b/w hubby/marques and me.
Hubby has told me that he fantasizes a lot over that moment. Funny thing is that I was a little hesitant to do that, but once I told Marques that I want to see the look in hubby's eyes as I come into the bar area freshly fucked(and there was NO way that I didnt look freshly fucked by my big lover standing next to me). Hubby had a huge cuckolded expression/very embarrassed, humuliated and very excited! Isnt that how all cucks look when they are in the heat of the moment? Isnt that what all cuck intellectually and emotionally desire??

Again, thanks Bjack, it makes writing our journey so much more worthwhile when we read how much some or our readers enjoy our encounters.

xoxo

by the way, to anyone who is thinking about me(or maybe wanting to jack off to me) I am going to take a long hot bath, and lay in bed using my super charged girls best friend) with new batteries. I want to think about how amazing Michael's penis feels inside of me.


To my hubby, if you are reading this, I promise you that what I write is true, I need to feel michael today but he can not meet up with me tonight, so I will settle for the next best thing/ dreaming of his penis fucking your wife!\

xoxo

[Aynsley]

^ ^
What a lovely tease to Mr. R., Mrs. R.

I have been wondering when you would have Marques cuck both you and Michael,
but a new thought hit me, while reading what you just posted.
What if you had both of them cuck Mr. R., together ?

For example...you tell Mr. R. to meet you at a hotel bar, but say nothing else;
he thinks it's just you and him, for the evening.

When you enter the bar, after Mr. has already entered and sat down,
you are wearing Very Hot attire, and sit at a different spot.
Soon, Marques enters, flirts, and then takes you to your room,
leaving Mr. R., behind.

Sometime afterwards, Michael enters the bar, says 'HI' to Mr. R., and then heads
up the elevators...leaving Mr. R. to have to continue to wait, but knowing
two men are now with his Hotwife.
...or...
alternatively, Marques comes down and sits and chats with Mr. R. in the bar,
while Michael enjoys you.

Glad you guys are having fun. Have a great Holidays.

[BallSpanking]

Hi Mr Reese,

I wish you a Happy Double-Creampie Christmas!

I guess I wish that for Ms Reese too.... lol

[dinoo]

Mrs. Reese wrote:

... it makes writing our journey so much more worthwhile when we read how much some or our readers enjoy our encounters.

For me it aren't (only) the encounters.
What you both are thinking, feeling, saying, desiring, the exceptional acts.... that is what makes it so erotic.
Erotic, because I think it is more than sex alone.

Mr. and Mrs. Reese, your bond, your relationship must be exceptional.

Regards,
Dinoo

[flyinfast]

Mrs. R.

Yet another xmas party to get ready for... argg... tis the season to be jolly... bahumbug.

It makes me think!

When passion rules there is often little thinking going on.

I love watching my husband being pleasured.

I'm sure, as he enjoys watching you pleasured. The best part of sex for me is my woman's orgasm. Knowing I can bring her pleasure is the greatest turn on there is for me. The biggest turn off is if I think I can't light her fire.

But that question remains, do you get pleasure knowing you are causing Reese agony when you are out alone with a lover? I know the reclaiming sex is great. And it is obviously so great that it's worth the pain - for both of you. Do you enjoy tormenting Reese or do you do it simply to enhance the reclaiming sex? Or perhaps both. And if you don't enjoy inflicting the "agony", then how do you deal with it internally? Perhaps this is too much thinking when passion is involved. But I'm analytical and want to know how things work. How does a loving woman - that loves her man - cuck him, knowing it causes angst, agony, suffering, and pain? How do you resolve that in your own mind? Most people are not sadists - enjoying inflicting pain on others. So to do that you must have some way of justifying it to yourself. Knowing Reese wants it is one way, but is that enough? I think most people, caring loving women particularly, don't easily step into the S in the SM roles. But then maybe you always had a latent desire to crack the whip...

I believe I could enjoy hotwife play - if we did it together, as in MFMs, but meine frau going out alone, I think that would be too difficult for me.

At first with all his kinky stuff that he likes to do, I was hesitant of all of that. But slowly, I realized that I am HIS fantasy. He has proven to me that I am all that he wants

If you say so, but I think in the back of every real alpha male's mind, they'd like to bang all the hot women they can. As someone else (on a different forum) once said, we men would like to stick our thang in every woman at least once. That doesn't mean we "want" (as in to keep) every woman in the world, we'd just like to have sex with them.

And actually you are not all that Reese wants. He wants your lovers involved in his sexual world as well. He may not need them, but he wants them. In a very real way, Reese is satisfying his own desires by using you - his slave.

To make a man go that crazy over me; especially a man that is my husband!!!! That is every married girls dream come true. I know that he will always be mine. I dont have to worry about not satisfying him.

Not sure what that was in response too. If it was about Reese and other women, it is not a matter of you not satisfying him, anymore than your having other men is about Reese not satisfying you. You say you could give it all up and just be vanilla and be happy. So it isn't a matter of satisfaction, it's a matter of going beyond satisfaction. Way beyond.

In our younger days, my wife and our best friend took belly dancing lessons. I always hoped they'd come back after a lesson and put on a private dance for me that lead to a threesome. It wasn't a matter of not being satisfied with my wife. It was a fantasy of doing something that can't be done with just one woman - one riding and eating pussy at the same time. Just not possible with one woman. That was an experience I would dearly have loved to have. It is also the reason for an MFM - some things - spit roasting and DPing the woman - can't be done with just one guy.

And for that matter, I think that it doesnt matter whether it's a man or woman, isnt it great to satisfy your lover?

Satisfying all a lover's fantasies... both his and hers - yes that's great. Reese gave you a lot of freedom - without consequences - to explore yours and some of his fully. Would you give him the same gift? Isn't that what true love is about?

Reese didn't do this entirely out of selfish motives either. He so loved you that he wanted you to experience all you could sexually - to allow you all the pleasure you could bear. And that took balls of steel. I think any man that give his woman that freedom has to have balls of steel.

[flyinfast]

Hey bubbajack aren't you just trying to butter up Mrs. R in the hopes of getting into her pants? (I know I'd do that... )

... the image of big black Marques and tiny, white, slightly disheveled Mrs R coming into the hotel bar to tell Mr. R that Marques was through fucking her for now and that Mr. R could come up to the room with them.

Well that is the classic cuckold fantasy story line. It doesn't fit my idea of hotwifing. In cuckoldry the cuck is humiliated, sissified, made a helpless wimp, by his dominant wife and her more dominant lover. Hotwifing to me is more about a shared and enjoyed experience rather than going it alone. And recent events are more on the cuck side than howife side seems to me.

Mrs. R.

Hubby has told me that he fantasizes a lot over that moment. Funny thing is that I was a little hesitant to do that, but once I told Marques that I want to see the look in hubby's eyes as I come into the bar area freshly fucked(and there was NO way that I didnt look freshly fucked by my big lover standing next to me). Hubby had a huge cuckolded expression/very embarrassed, humuliated and very excited! Isnt that how all cucks look when they are in the heat of the moment? Isnt that what all cuck intellectually and emotionally desire??

Yeah, I guess. But for me it wouldn't be exciting. I'd just be pissed off for not having participated. I know cucks are different and enjoy that but it's not for everyone. As a voyeur looking at the scene it IS very exciting, but I sure wouldn't want to be Reese at that moment. If that makes sense. I'd get off more if Marques and I were doing Mrs. R while making Reese watch. But have no doubt Mrs. R, the entire epic is a hot read. A movie has been mentioned - yeah, definite potential. Have to tone down the script a little even for the Showtime porn channel or it would melt the cable.

You said you wanted to see the look in hubby's eyes. Why? What excited you about that? You wanted to see the pain, the embarrassment and humiliation in his eyes? Does that get you wet? Isn't that cuck scenario rather emasculating (even if he did stop short of cleaning up Marques)? Often the longer the cucking goes on the less respect the woman has for the cuck as a man. You know - only the real men - her lovers - satisfy her. She'll always love the cuck, won't leave him, but her estimation of him as a man... well... that tends to declined doesn't it? Mr. Alpha Male isn't quite so alpha anymore. Mrs. R is enjoying Micheal's cock and probably Marques too more than Mr. R's. When Reese is fucking his wife she isn't thinking of his cock anymore is she? How hot is that for Mr. R.?

to anyone who is thinking about me(or maybe wanting to jack off to me) ...

OH Mrs. R... merely wanting to jack off to you? No way. Dreaming about fucking your brains out... hell yeah...

[bubbajack]

I certainly am trying to butter up Mrs. R, Mr. Fast, as who wouldn't?

She is waaay hot and one just never knows ...

I just can't figure out what you are up to. The Reeses' story has elicited a volcano of varied reactions from you, including, among many professions of admiration, questioning of their motives and justifications for what they do, expressions of disagreement with and even disbelief in things they have said, warnings against bad consequences if they continue some aspects of their activities, explanations of concepts and practices as you conceive them to be defined properly as opposed to what they seem to think, together with your own opinions on quite a variety of subjects, particularly as they appear to you to differ from the Reeses' opinions.

Anyhow, the Reeses are remarkably united in their expressions of interest and appreciation for your contributions (as they seem to be on many, many other, more vital topics). And so I will just continue reading along and maybe the valuable, supportive and encouraging feeling towards them that they seem to get from your posts will start to become apparent to me as well.

[reese]

Well said Mr. Bubbajack!

Flyinfast....way too much for me to comment on after reading your posts. As always, I appreciate your honesty and opinions.

I want to reply with this..........maybe I am more of a cuck than alpha-male..or maybe I am more of a cuck than a hotwife husband( You havent mentioned that phrase yet).
But one thing is certain with me....I love the suspense...I love the denial...I love the feeling of losing to her lover....and then reclaiming everything back. It's such a rush to lose her ..to take that chance everytime she opens up her love to another man.
Watching her as a voyeur...being at work as she texts me that she is fucking a lover....sitting at a hotel bar when she is fucking a lover.....sitting down together watching a movie and watching her text a lover..telling him something personal...

IT'S all different....it is never the same thing for me...that is what I love about our lifestyle...we are do not repeat the same pattern over and over again. I realized early on as I watched my wife become a hotwife that I love the adventure..the fantasy games...and the bottom line for me is that I get off on being a voyeur, a cuck, and then re-claiming her as the alpha-male that I believe that I am.

When she and I share a 3some with her lover....and a while ago we shared 3some's with L her female friend and lover...it was and is always different. This past time with Michael, I wasnt a cuck....I was a voyeur..and then I was her alpha-male as Michael watched..and eventually shared a kiss with her that allowed me to explode in orgasm.

With L.........I shared her body..and had both women share me....with L, I was cucked....

I love the variety!!

[Aynsley]

You The MAN, Mr. R.

[BallSpanking]

Hi Reeses,

IMHO, as long as it works for both of you, who gives a damn about others' definitions?

Party on Garth!

[flyinfast]

First bubbajack, of course I too would want to butter up Mrs R. That's some kinky sex all covered in butter you know.... But you have to be darn careful you don't slip and fall... yeap, butter sex can be real fun but also reeeaaal dangerous. (that's a metaphor for those that don't get it.)


I just can't figure out what you are up to. Stating my mind.
professions of admiration, Yes. Of course.
questioning of their motives and justifications for what they do,

I mostly want to understand their motives. The reasons why are most interesting to me. The description of the physical sex, while titillating, isn't as exciting as their thinking and feelings. I want to know why Mrs. R wanted to see the look on Reese's face when she came into the bar. What was it she wanted to see? Was she ever afraid of what she'd see in her husband's eyes? Was she thrilled by his look of embarrassment? Why? How would that be thrilling or exciting to see? Was she hoping to see a look of defeat? I don't know. But I'd like to know.

expressions of disagreement with and even disbelief in things they have said,

Hey it's just how I feel and think about their story. It is how it impacts me as a reader / voyeur into their world. Maybe it isn't what people expect to hear, but it's my honest feedback.

warnings against bad consequences if they continue some aspects of their activities,

Friends, lets be honest. There can always be bad consequences from this kind of play. And that element of risk is part of the thrill, isn't it? Like bungee jumping. Not knowing if the cord will snap or you'll be dropped a foot too far.

explanations of concepts and practices as you conceive them to be defined properly as opposed to what they seem to think,

Not following, but yeah I state how I see the world. Why is that a problem? Everyone has their own POV, which is just fine. Just letting them and everyone know mine. I am not asking anyone to agree or accept as valid anything I say. I'm just one cracked pot amongst many.

together with your own opinions on quite a variety of subjects, particularly as they appear to you to differ from the Reeses' opinions.

Well that's generally called dialog.

The Reese's don't have to agree with a dang thing I write. I'm on the outside looking in. Of course I don't see the true nature of their relationship. I've never met them. I sure wouldn't mind meeting them... particular the better half. Mrs. R there is this great little spot I know of...

Look I'm glad they are having fun. Sure wish I could have a similar kind of fun. I really do. Not the same kind (not the cuck end of it where I'm left out of the play, that doesn't appeal to me, but the hotwife were I'm participating end - sure).

But the Reeses have been at this for what two - three years? Married for a little longer. I'm an old dude. Married 36 years - to the same woman (yeah, I know boring). I do wonder what it will be like for them 10, 20, 30 years into this. How would they keep up the intensity? That's what I mean by when the merry-go-round stops. How do they know when to get off?

I am all for them squeezing every last drop of enjoyment out of this while they can. But all things come to end, good and bad.

[flyinfast]

....I love the feeling of losing to her lover....and then reclaiming everything back.

And what happens when the bungee doesn't snap back but just breaks? Do either of you honestly think that can't happen? It is a real possibility that someday you won't be able to reclaim her. Possibility, not certainty.

I can understand the liking the reclaiming part. I can't understand "loving" the feeling of losing to her lover. But if that is how you are wired, OK. Do you like pain?

...and the bottom line for me is that I get off on being a voyeur, a cuck, and then re-claiming her as the alpha-male that I believe that I am.

What is your definition of an alpha male? Are you saying that because it's what you want to believe you are? Are you her best lover? Does she think so, do you think so? And what if you aren't her best lover anymore?

... a while ago we shared 3some's with L her female friend and lover...

Yeah....

I love the variety!!

Variety is good.

BallSpanking wrote:

IMHO, as long as it works for both of you, who gives a damn about others' definitions?

The operative phrase being "as long as it works"...

[bubbajack]

Whatever

[mrs_reese]

Hi flyinfast/Forgive me if I dont comment on everything you wrote. I do want to comment on one thing. WE do worry about that ONE day when I dont want to come back to hubby. We talk about it all the time as a check and balance system for our marriage. But one thing that I always tell hubby is "why would I ever want to leave you when I have the best of both worlds". I wont ever let a man into my life the way I allow hubby to be in it. I dont need that! I dont seek a man's complete love, I only play with other men. In the case of Michael, yes, I do love him, but not like I love hubby. I love him like I love a dear friend the only difference is that I am Michael's love too. Hubby is on his toes with all this in my life. He tells me constantly that because of my lovers, he will always be on his A game with me. It really is the best of both worlds for me. I would never allow another man to get this close to me like hubby is. Never! I dont need to! That part of my life is complete with hubby/ the traditions, the companionship, the memories, the little things that only we know about each other. I would want to give any of that up because that is most important to me.

I am becoming impatient. I may call Marques, we've had too long of a timeout.
I know hubby is hoping I see him soon. I just needed to take care of Michael for a while. At lunch, I am going to the gym.
Then maybe Marques at his office but I am not sure yet if I want to just yet.
If feels good to relax for a while like I have been lately. I was too involved with satisfying Marques, Michael, Hubby and someone else. That someone else, hubby still has NO clue if he is make believe or real!

[groovy9]

Why would I ever want to leave you when I have the best of both worlds? ... Hubby is on his toes with all this in my life. He tells me constantly that because of my lovers, he will always be on his A game with me.

This point cannot be overstated. The best-of-both-worlds point is one that really helped me wrap my head around the idea that losing her to someone is not a big risk. And my A game nowadays makes my A game of the past look like a C-.

If your wife was "in love" with you before hotwifing, AND she now gets to openly enjoy other men however she likes, AND said enjoyment causes you to up your game by an order of magnitude (when it was already pretty good before), then is she really going to feel inclined to rock the boat?

[mrs_reese]

groovy9,

absolutely! why would we? hubby is my world. simply amazing. even when we have a huge argument.
Why would i ever leave? I would be a complete idiot!

One rule that has and will never be broken(and we all know that in the heat of the moment, rules are broken) is that I will never ever be with another man when hubby and I are arguing.

Actually, it makes my hotwife buttons shut down. I have no desire to ever play with another man when hubby and I are in an argument. Funny how that works. The only time I become horny for another man is when hubby and I are on our own "A " game!

[groovy9]

Actually, it makes my hotwife buttons shut down. I have no desire to ever play with another man when hubby and I are in an argument.

Roxy's the same way. Not that we've really come close to arguing so far, but if it's just been a long day and she senses that I'm stressed and maybe not being my normal affectionate self, she almost immediately starts talking about cancelling her next date. She hasn't actually followed through, and I wouldn't want her to unless we were having a real issue, but I do appreciate the sentiment.

[BallSpanking]

Ms Reese... you are the poster girl for hotwives!

Not only are you sensitive and aware of your husband's moods, but you are also incredibly hot!
Woof!!