Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by **wittol** » Mon Oct 17, 2011 3:30 pm

Sending out warm and positive wishes for a good outcome and conflict-free parenting. . . .

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Mon Oct 17, 2011 3:36 pm

again, thank-you everyone.
We are sorting out everything.
Im not freaked out anymore.
Poor hubby, he had to deal with my mess.
I am proud of him for being there for me.

Sorry if I have become a boring house wife lately.
One day, I will be back.

My imagination has been out of control lately, thinking of sexy ways to cuck hubby.

Again, thanks for caring everyone.
All your messages have been well received.

robrich46 · Unread post by **robrich46** » Mon Oct 17, 2011 3:43 pm

I missed both of you. I'm so sorry that your ex did what he did. I never get why someone would be so mean and vindictive. It was all an attempt to embarrass you, and for what reason. No court in the country would care about this, or say that because you participate here at this site, you're an unsuitable parent. When an ex-spouse makes a claim of un-fit parenting, judges wait to hear the real life facts and examples. Obviously here, there are none. What a class act he is.

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Mon Oct 17, 2011 3:56 pm

Mrs Reese!

Stand up PROUDLY!

There was not a single man in that courtroom (including your dumbfuck ex) that didn't have a hardon for you.
Your lifestyle is none of their business, and you always take every precaution to protect your daughter.

Stand proudly Mrs Reese, with all the dignity that is your right and you deserve, with apologies to no one over this matter!

Aynsley · Unread post by **Aynsley** » Mon Oct 17, 2011 4:48 pm

Wow.

No doubt a worrisome time, and I'm glad the skies are clearer.
Best wishes for calmer seas, ahead for both you guys.

(spoken by someone w/experience dealing with a vindictive Ex

)

aemn711 · Unread post by **aemn711** » Wed Oct 19, 2011 12:09 pm

mrs_reese wrote:Hi everyone.
......He found out about my hotwife thing and took me to court over that.
At the end of the day, the case monitor told us both that what happens in our home or when child isnt with me is none of dad's business as long as I do not expose my child to this lifestyle.,,,,,.

I knew you must have had a good reason to be radio silent - and I also knew you cared about us as much as we care about you and your happiness - and you would advise us if you could.

I suppose in the early stages even if you knew how he found out - you didn't know how far his investigation may go/or have gone - whether you were hacked or what. In that case you had to lay low. Now that the court has interviend and set the rules for you - you can breath easy - and in a way you are cucking your ex BIGTIME now that he knows what you are doing and he's really on the outs.

Welcome Back

Aemn

bubbalapagos · Unread post by **bubbalapagos** » Fri Oct 21, 2011 5:22 am

Wishing you the best of all possible outcomes Mrs. Reese!

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Sat Oct 22, 2011 11:29 am

THanks again everyone.
I luv ya all

Btw, my lawyer is late 40ish, very intrigued but professional by my situation and very very sexy!

Noooooooooooo.............................................is that wrong to think that way???

LOL

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Sat Oct 22, 2011 11:33 am

LOL!

Welcome back, Mrs Reese!

bubbajack · Unread post by **bubbajack** » Sat Oct 22, 2011 1:46 pm

You go, MrsR - whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger - and it doesn't look like the litigation killed you!!

I hope you get my learned colleague to, er, deepen his professional relationship with you!!

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Tue Oct 25, 2011 10:26 am

I appreciate all the love and support everyone, i just wanted all to know!

Hubby and I are experiencing a weird frustration.
Since the ex bs, I have really been focused on being a different person(not that I wanted to).
Sexually, I have been turned off by any type of hotwife play and discussion.
I have been in a rut, not sexually interested, but performing my wifely duties with hubby.
But I am worried, what has happened to me?
I miss the slutty me.
I miss my lovers.
I miss their "cocks"
If felt so good to say that.
xoxo

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Tue Oct 25, 2011 11:04 am

We miss you too Ms Reese, more than you imagine.

Take the time you need to recover from your ordeal, we will all love it when you come back.

If I may also mention, and in reference to a statement you made on your thread..., when problems in life abound, and the stress levels and hassles become overly demanding, your libido suffers. You yourself said that when you and hubby are having troubles, the instincts to be a hotwife are put on the back burner. Similarly in this case, Ms Reese.

Don't worry, you'll bounce back.

Kisses!

Treborn · Unread post by **Treborn** » Tue Oct 25, 2011 11:19 am

Mrs. R you are such a breath of fresh air.

Aynsley · Unread post by **Aynsley** » Tue Oct 25, 2011 3:22 pm

Hi Mrs. R.

Thanks for stopping by, and saying 'Hi'.
Best to you and Mr. R., as you navigate this time.

I thought I'd throw out my $0.02 . On the one hand, 'shutting down' may be the way
to go, as it seems like you don't want to 'risk', playing. Kind of out-of-sight, out-of-mind.

On the other hand, maybe you should seek out a very naughty, cyber 'affair', with some
lucky guy (I'm sure there a few OHW guys, here, who would gladly volunteer

)
...something that can kind of burn off any 'urges', but in the safety of the cyber world.

I'm not advocating either...but just wanted to relay my good wishes, and support.

Best.
-Aynsley

reese · Unread post by **reese** » Tue Oct 25, 2011 7:07 pm

Hello!
It's been a while!
I just want everyone to know that HW and I are doing fine................just some adjustments.
I miss this lifestyle as much as she does...probably more.
At least I realized that I am not turning into a fulltime cuckold.
I have enjoyed the lovemaking with my wife...it's the intensity that I am missing!

I admire her...............she is an amazing woman.
She has my complete support though this ordeal.
I felt most responsible about this lifestyle change and the shame that my wife felt in court..and with others.

She is slowly working her way back.
Focused....and obviously wanting to be more discreet with her love affairs.

During our discussions...I know she misses this lifestyle.
She misses our intense sex....and the way I would go crazy being cucked by her.
I believe that thing that she loved most was the independence and power she felt.

It will be a matter of time................hang on everyone!
I know we all will be in for a treat when she is back to being the sexy slutty hotwife again!

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Tue Oct 25, 2011 7:22 pm

Mr Reese!

Welcome, always.

One brief observation.

If Mrs Reese were a man, everyone would say he's a stud, and be approving.

I don't believe in that double standard.

She is beautiful, loving, curious, and........ energetic...

1texn · Unread post by **1texn** » Tue Oct 25, 2011 7:56 pm

Sorry for your troubles.

I recommend "sexual healing." Perhaps a road trip?

"Changes in latitudes, changes in attitudes." - Jimmy Buffett

54321 · Unread post by **54321** » Wed Oct 26, 2011 4:41 am

" ...In the mean time, hubby and I are rock solid."

Yup! That was what I needed to hear.

I'm SO happy for you both.

Best wishes,

54321

Iris777 · Unread post by **Iris777** » Wed Oct 26, 2011 6:34 am

I can understand where you may be at. I am sure you are being extra cautious about everything right now since the ex may be looking for ANYTHING to bring trouble at this point. While I am so glad to hear that the court stood by you, I can also understand the desire not to act on anything that created such a difficult public situation. And I can also understand you ex being concerned about it as he is probably completely uninformed about this lifestyle. I don't fault the concern but I do fault him for not talking to you about this and trying to manage it before bringing it into court. Those of us who have children living at home want to keep this completely separate from them.

mrs_palmetto · Unread post by **mrs_palmetto** » Fri Oct 28, 2011 12:40 pm

BallSpanking wrote:Mrs Reese!

Stand up PROUDLY!

There was not a single man in that courtroom (including your dumbfuck ex) that didn't have a hardon for you.
Your lifestyle is none of their business, and you always take every precaution to protect your daughter.

Stand proudly Mrs Reese, with all the dignity that is your right and you deserve, with apologies to no one over this matter!

I totally agree with the above statement made here!!! You're ex is stupid dumbfuck for believing that would've worked!! HA! Next time he trys bringing up your sex life you just say, " I do NOT SEE how my NEW sex life with my NEW husband has ANYTHING to do with this matter!"

Don't let that SOB try to embarrass you in court or even with a case-worker! You got nothing to be embarrassed about! He can go screw himself! I would've called him up laughing at him and told him he should stop trying to get my kid from me... Be sure and tell him "Hello stupid person, Everyone on the planet knows the kid stays with the wife! Only way you're gonna get this kid FROM me is if I'm living in a cardboard box and begging people for change!!! Get over it!"

SeaGirtCuck · Unread post by **SeaGirtCuck** » Sun Oct 30, 2011 6:45 am

Iris777 wrote:
mrs_palmetto wrote:
Be sure and tell him "Hello stupid person, Everyone on the planet knows the kid stays with the wife! Only way you're gonna get this kid FROM me is if I'm living in a cardboard box and begging people for change!!! Get over it!"
Actually, that isn't true anymore. Illinois has one of the most progressive sets of laws on the books for father's rights and custody is a huge issue here. It's just not that simple to say that the child goes with the mother. I have known of several sets of parents in very bitter custody battles here and sexual lives weren't even part of the equation. Mrs. Reese is right to have been concerned and to remain that way. Her personal life is on her ex's radar now and he may very well be looking for trouble at any opportunity. I hope that the ex comes to realize that the woman he chose to start a family with would in no way want to endanger it, even if they chose not to remain together in their family.

I was going to avoid this as every time I write about something of this ilk, I ended up with more people getting mad.
Iris777 is 100% correct.
What things like this always come down to is who are the people, what their life is about and how they can and or could effect the children.

The ex has nothing to loose other than money by going after this.
If the ex has $50,000 to $100,000 to throw at this he will win, plain and simple.
If the ex has little money in the end it could go either way.

Iris777 · Unread post by **Iris777** » Sun Oct 30, 2011 7:20 pm

I see the post I made that SGC quoted has been removed. I was in NO WAY making any accusations that the Reese's deserved this from the ex, simply stating that, as they were made aware, the ex now has his radar up and that custody is not a simple matter. I wish nothing but the best for the Reese's and hope this fades fast.

If it makes it any clearer, I too am divorced and haver residential custody of my child. I have a pretty good feeling that if my ex became aware of my extramarital love life, he would have some very serious questions about it too! Their situation represents a very real concern for me.

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Sun Oct 30, 2011 7:33 pm

In deference and defense of our beloved friends, the Reese's, I would suggest we curtail speculation on the nature and extent of their problems so as to not exacerbate them, and not further traumatize the beautiful Mrs Reese.

From reading recent comments, it seems most contributors express sympathy and solidarity with them, but matters like these can be delicate, and are best addressed by the people directly involved. Without knowledge of the actual events, any advice, however well intended, stands a good chance of missing the mark, or being misunderstood.

I too hope to see them back soon, but am not in any position to advise or influence their choices, it will be a very personal decision that is theirs entirely.

Lord2u · Unread post by **Lord2u** » Sun Oct 30, 2011 9:23 pm

BallSpanking wrote:In deference and defense of our beloved friends, the Reese's, I would suggest we curtail speculation on the nature and extent of their problems so as to not exacerbate them, and not further traumatize the beautiful Mrs Reese.

From reading recent comments, it seems most contributors express sympathy and solidarity with them, but matters like these can be delicate, and are best addressed by the people directly involved. Without knowledge of the actual events, any advice, however well intended, stands a good chance of missing the mark, or being misunderstood.

I too hope to see them back soon, but am not in any position to advise or influence their choices, it will be a very personal decision that is theirs entirely.

Well said. Only my second post in (how many years) and it is spent on you, sir. Much love and support to the Reese's. Now can we get back to the sexiness this thread is about?

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Mon Oct 31, 2011 9:23 am

I want to say thanks again to everyone!
Lord2u, your 2nd post ever? Thank-you for your kindness.
Iris is such a sweet person, I understood your what she was trying to inform me about. Thanks Sweetie

Ballspanking is my loyal buddy! I think he deserves some hotwife panties one day?

Mrs.P, Oh my, I needed to hear your pep talk! Thanks Gf! I luv ya more than you know!

54321, you are always sweet to us!

1textn, I luv Jimmy!! Awwww, that was so nice!
seagirthcuck, he is exactly like you explained, $ an asshole of a dad and revengful b/c he can't have me.
And to my hubby, thanks for standing by me and being a real man.
That drives my ex crazy how hubby stands by me and how he isnt afraid of his bullying.

I am getting the itch to feel those hotwife feelings again.
I just dont know what to do about it?

If it matters to anyone, it's time for my best friend to the end(silver bullet) and my hotwife memories.
xoxo

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