"Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

[JetSetGent]

Beatifully written !
Well done.
Jetsetgent

I am not "manly"
Seems many porn sites refer to this life as the husband is a shmuck. Well I do understand the mate poaching fantasy, and it is ok for the boyfriend/bull to experience it, but within the comfort of the couple. Well look at all the Hollywood studs who are rich and good looking, their marriage disintegrate in short order. Their wives are out sneaking in no time because the marriage is not what they hoped for. We HWHubs/Cucks do not need to put on airs, we can watch him do her, and know who she loves and is coming home to. We allow wifey to live free, and thus pursue her happiness, not be tied to my macho wanna be ideas. So we live in the real world more than the John Wayne hopefuls.

The wife must not be satisfied with her husband:
What nobody ever ate some dessert after being full of a good dinner? Do we eat only at one restaurant? Variety is the spice of life. Sex between spouses of most HW couples is excellent on it's own, now put hot sex in turbo. How many typical guys complain their wives are frigid and boring. Most HW's are ready, willing, and able to take her husband to the next level. Why? Because her marriage is a happy home full of love, communication and respect. Those are the elements of a satisfying marriage, which leads to sex the vanillas only dream of.

I am looking to get rid of or I don't love my wife:
This one ticks me off. If I wanted to leave her the door works just fine. Sickos who want to tape her just to show the judge are not life stylers, they are something else. What if the other guy fucks her so good she leaves me for him? Well I am glad to have this information about her sooner than later. Odds are she was looking to leave and this gave her the excuse she was looking for. (Hardcore Cucks might look for this, but again choice) Again these are not issues of the lifestyle, they are other issues before the other ever man arrived. Loving someone so much that you would risk another lover for her? Love with out freedom is slavery, and false, we love of free will. If I wanted a cheap slut to watch fuck, I could hire a call girl. No, we want the intimate meaning this life brings for us. We love her so much we trust her to go get fucked, scream with ecstasy, and try things she did not think to try with husband. And welcome her home hotter for her than the first time you had her. Yeah we do not love our wives, enough said.

Finally, I must be insane:
So many times you hear women/men act all offended and say "leave him now, only a sicko would want you to sleep around like some slut." I bet most of them are out screwing behind someones back, they just have a power trip to be on TV trying to look important. Of course many of these negative people also say that when a woman dresses provocative she deserved to be raped and other silly statements. Some are not into the life, and that is fine. We all have the right to choose our values, not shove them down other peoples throats. Some couples use sex toys, or erotic aids to set a mood. We just go for the aid of a living person. Besides there is good evidence that we are not really hardwired to be monogamous. Women are designed to show, men are designed to watch, women can receive multi partners easier than most men. What consenting adults do that harm no one is fine. What happened to personal freedom? Yeah a happy marriage how insane is that?[/quote]

[EliMySexyWife]

from my other pose:

Just were thinking about another reason for why a husband like her wife be fucked by other guy. Could that be because your sexual power is limited but your mind needs more and you extend that desire to your wife and help of some other guy?

[old_dog]

We (wife & I) are relatively new at the actually experience of hw, but I have had a passion to see her with other men for years. I was not confident enough to bring this up to her until a few years ago. In the past six months we finally made a connection with a few guys. My problem: She really seemed to enjoy the evenings she had. I was present and took tons of picture, but after the event I heard no more. I expected her to babble on like a crazy women, but is was just back to the normal "June & Clever". How should I get her to open up about what she felt?

old_dog

[bullforwife]

From my experience men feel proud of there wives and want to see their conservative wives in different image . Every man love to see his wife as a slut .

[Justin922]

An just completely grateful that the husbands do want to share their wives and that the wives want to be shared. It's a true privilege to be allowed to pleasure another mans wife.

So to all the hotwives and hubbies that share them, we on the the other side thank-you for allowing us the priviledge.

My wife usually likes to talk to any potential "date" or "fb" for at least a few days first. We have one stone set rule: "No respect for me, our relationship or you is not acceptable" any mention of anything near that and she tells them either politely that she isn't interested or to go F themselves if they continue. Respect is much appreciated as I consider it somewhat of a courtesy that whomever she is seeing shows at least some appreciation for me sharing her. I know that sounds somewhat possessive but since I don't play with others and she is a married woman first I have veto power. It really is completely up to me. I know it sounds oddly self serving but that's just how it works for us.

[hotfreaks]

there are many many reasons for me. i never saw myself with a prudish wife. i always wanted a woman who was secure enough in her sexuality and comfortable to live that lifestyle. my wife is extremely sexual and needs sex often. i am not well endowed, and although i do get her off, she said she does love a larger man inside her. its a different cum she said. i also love the fact that she is my porn star, i get to see how crazy she makes other men, and how good they make her feel. its kinda unexplainable for me to say how hot it is to watch another man make you wife cum, for her to open her legs for another man and have him do things they "aren't suppose" to. watching my wife getting fucked is an ultimate thrill for me. it is my fetish and it pleases me to no end to see her pleased

[radio4ron]

She told me her whole life she's always been "promiscuous", her Mom & Dad said she's always been a "free spirit", and I wanted to see that side of her in action for myself, and see how beautiful she is in action with other men.

[HotwifeLanda]

From my experience men feel proud of there wives and want to see their conservative wives in different image . Every man love to see his wife as a slut .

This is exactly the case for us.

[adada64]

can also be just because you know you are not the best in bed.
before be with my wife i had many GF all say i not last long
I also have many experience in sauna and nudist beach and alway was in the fast cumming group
wife was not virgin when she choose me but her education learn her she must only have sex with her husband...
hopefully she is not in that now

[Plzfkmywife]

I am not a cuck, don't want to be humiliated or any of that crap. I just want to watch the expression on my wifes face when she has a huge cock stretching her pussy. I want to watch her cum over and over. I want her pussy full of someone elses cum...and so does she. The most important reason, to me, is because she wants to. It is all about her...well I won't mind it.

[Luv It]

For me. there is a large vicarious aspect to it.
I have come to enjoy a vicrious erotic thrill knowing that my wife and her lover (whoever that may be) are ejoying each other.
I want her boyfriend, etc to receive just as my pleasure from my wife as he is giving her.
The more pleasures and enjoyment they give each other serves to increases my vicarious pleasures.

[funwithdick56]

I understand why but what I don't understand is why these same women expect their husbands to be faithful. As much as I want to watch my wife I also want her to watch me with with another women. Seems to onesided in pleasure for my tastes. Another question how do you explain to kids where mommy is when you are home watching them.

[bemyecstasy]

For me it is all about enjoying what life has to offer. Knowing that my wife is enjoying and being enjoyed only makes me want her more. The simple fact that she enjoys herself, has the confidence to do it and then enjoys the aspect of being able to relive the adventure in her mind and share it with me. The freedom to explore is important.

In other words, the wife comes home fucked silly and tells me all about it while she rides the hell out of me !!!.

[rs480]

For me it is all about enjoying what life has to offer. Knowing that my wife is enjoying and being enjoyed only makes me want her more. The simple fact that she enjoys herself, has the confidence to do it and then enjoys the aspect of being able to relive the adventure in her mind and share it with me. The freedom to explore is important.

In other words, the wife comes home fucked silly and tells me all about it while she rides the hell out of me !!!.

Now THAT is where my thinking goes! Shit! That post nearly brings tears to my weary greying eyes.........

[sgts19]

I guess after having questioned myself that I’m really not a cuck just a guy that likes to watch his wife get fucked. Sure I’ve been in the same room watching, in another listening and seen her on video many times and nothing gets me more excited doing it. I wouldn’t let another man be rough or to verbally abuse her even if he was a good fuck. I love to see her facial expressions, the way her body responses the sounds and things she says as another man fucks her. I’m not well endowed so seeing her reaction when someone with a big cock goes at it with her is over the top. She’s denied the big cock thing to me telling she’s ok with me but I’ve seen what one does when it’s pounding into her.

[Texman2045]

To keep her well-dicked and happy, to see that glow, and then to go crazy with her when it's your turn to `reclaim' her.

[NYHubby]

Because my wife never looks sexier than when she's naked, staring right at me, moaning and cumming while another man has his dick buried deep in her pussy.

[forebiddenfruit43]

It starts with the hot pillow talk when we first started toying with the fantasy, grows when i can see how hot it makes her thinking and talking about it, seeing and feeling how hot her orgasms were after 20 years of marriage, seeing her dress sluttier, showing pride in her sexual liberation, watching her flirt with other men, glowing as she dances with them, and finally when we "took it to the next level", seeing her orgasm on another man's cock, taking pride in her oral skills as she sucks another man's cock, fucks my brains out, whether when we are with another, or by ourselves, little things like flashing a trucker, playing with a toy while we go down the road, seeing her excitement as she begins the search for another lover and how she gets hotter as the day arrives, oftentimes becoming a cock craving slut when the moment arrives...and oh so much more...seeing my sexy, petite little blonde wife being fucked by one or more men, seeing how she submits to them and allows them to do pretty much whatever they want, then seeing this submissive women crawl on top and start fucking the guy as he just lays there, or in the doggie position where again, she fucks his cock, all he has to do is hold onto her ass cheeks, spread them and let her rock back and forth on his cock...the way she glows, works out, tans, trims, primps and stays date hot all the time...having her call me home at any time of the day and meet me at the door in lingerie and tell me she wants me to fuck her..hey I could go on and on, but easily surmised- I love what this did to us both...so much fun!

[dali_23]

It starts with the hot pillow talk when we first started toying with the fantasy, grows when i can see how hot it makes her thinking and talking about it, seeing and feeling how hot her orgasms were after 20 years of marriage, seeing her dress sluttier, showing pride in her sexual liberation, watching her flirt with other men, glowing as she dances with them, and finally when we "took it to the next level", seeing her orgasm on another man's cock, taking pride in her oral skills as she sucks another man's cock, fucks my brains out, whether when we are with another, or by ourselves, little things like flashing a trucker, playing with a toy while we go down the road, seeing her excitement as she begins the search for another lover and how she gets hotter as the day arrives, oftentimes becoming a cock craving slut when the moment arrives...and oh so much more...seeing my sexy, petite little blonde wife being fucked by one or more men, seeing how she submits to them and allows them to do pretty much whatever they want, then seeing this submissive women crawl on top and start fucking the guy as he just lays there, or in the doggie position where again, she fucks his cock, all he has to do is hold onto her ass cheeks, spread them and let her rock back and forth on his cock...the way she glows, works out, tans, trims, primps and stays date hot all the time...having her call me home at any time of the day and meet me at the door in lingerie and tell me she wants me to fuck her..hey I could go on and on, but easily surmised- I love what this did to us both...so much fun!

That is well said, thank you!

[forebiddenfruit43]

An addition to my post a couple of posts back...I think a lot of us husbands are the type of men who enjoys bringing out the naughty side of our women, to lead them astray...we are by nature- bad boys. A marriage can strangle the mental aspect of sex, which is what this side of sex is all about. There's a lot of pride in seducing your wife and alowing her to release that inner wild child...Let's face it, women crave adventure, love attention, are flirts natually- heck thats primal and what leads to procreation...and men who know how to create that environment are adored by the right type of woman...for the right couple, the level of communication is heightened, as you become more than lovers and spouses, you become partners in crime...share secrets, great friends and there's a level of respect that comes from each of us for providing the opportunity to live the roles we both enjoy...many monogamous couples don't get to enjoy the hot, wild, sex couples in the lifestyle enjoy.

[jmsjmsus]

From my experience men feel proud of there wives and want to see their conservative wives in different image . Every man love to see his wife as a slut .

My wife is a very conservative Catholic girl, so watching another man having sex with her is all that much hotter. She is one of those women who were kind of hard to get in bed, but when she did, it was a wild time! It is pretty much the same thing when she is with another man.

[gatorrdw]

forbiddenfruit43 in his June 23 and again on June 29 has covered everything that I could think of and I also just love to watch her get her sweet, little, married, church-going, soccer mom pussy nailed to the mattress, or on a couch, or over a desk or wherever we might be when some new stud is hammering her. It keeps our life out on the wire. Gatorrdw

[Caresse]

Because some boys like to share their toys.

[Tahi+2]

Watching that first penetration into my lovely nude wife's beautiful cunt was the most incredible emotional charge that I have ever known!
32 years ago now and it still boils me over just thinking and typing about it! Love that woman to bits!

[sublimewatcher]

I love to see her facial expressions, the way her body responses the sounds and things she says as another man fucks her. I’m not well endowed so seeing her reaction when someone with a big cock goes at it with her is over the top. She’s denied the big cock thing to me telling she’s ok with me but I’ve seen what one does when it’s pounding into her.

This is exactly how it is with my wife. I intercepted an email she wrote to her sister one time (I know, not exactly Kosher) about a guy she fucked before she met me and she said that it was the very best fuck she ever had. This was a guy that she flew to Boston to meet, and she told me in our pillow talk that he had the largest cock she ever saw. He fucked her 3 times and they sucked each other a couple of times also. In our own MFM trysts, we have had a couple of guys that were pretty large, compared to me, and I have to attest that she went wild with them. But still, she insists that I have the perfect cock. I have told her many times that it is OK if she likes large cocks. I like to see her enjoy them.