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[SlyDog969]

The Evil Twin Hot Wife

I met my second wife at a wedding reception when we were both in our early 50s. She was flirting a little bit and so was I when one of her friends began telling stories about her and telling about some the wild things she did in her younger days. She was a little embarrassed and she indicated to me that she really didn't do things like that. I played long and told her “of course not, that wasn’t you that was your evil twin she did all those crazy things just to get you into trouble”. She jumped in immediately and said “that’s right, you have a good way putting it, I will have to remember that”.

That little conversation set the stage for many aspects of our later relationship. It also gives us a mechanism to enjoy some of the more erotic things and we now enjoy and would never have done otherwise. Over the years we played upon the idea on numerous occasions and used it as a mechanism to overcome the guilt and reservation she may have about the whole swinging and hot wife life style.

I’ve told her a number of times that I look at as a form of escapism just like going away on spring break, or to Mardi Gras, you go off for a few days enjoy yourself “be somebody else for a while” and then go back afterwards to your normal life. Or look at It like being an actor playing a part, being someone else in a movie, soap opera or one of those steamy romance novels, where you lose yourself in that character. I suppose a good example might be the avatar movie where the handicapped guy becomes the avatar and can do all the things that he can't normally do because of his handicap. I guess the same thing applies to the emotional handicaps that we and society place on ourselves in terms of living out our sexual fantasies; we all want and need a way to remove those handicaps so that we can enjoy life.

That mindset of becoming someone else, the evil twin, helped her to lose the guilt trip she use to put herself through and help her feel more secure about our relationship. For my part I always try to be extra supportive and more loving right after she has done something naughty that she would normally feel guilty about. I have even gone as far to give her special treatment and rewards for slutty behavior. The sluttier her actions the bigger the rewards both bad girl and good girl rewards. She likes that approach and we have a lot of fun with it.

We have a number of rituals or things we do to allow the “evil twin” to come out and play. We've even gone as far as to give the evil twin a name. We picked the name Gabriella or Gabby based on the character the Eve Longoria plays on “Desperate Housewives” and the movie by the same name with Sonja Braga. My wife is Latin and especially likes the Eve Longoria reference she has no problem getting into that character, the problem is getting her to come out of that character.

We both love rituals and ceremonies and find them to be very erotic and we use them all the time to spice things up. Sometimes we have a little ceremony where I take a gold necklace with her evil twin‘s name and put it around her neck. We have two different colored jewelry boxes one for the good girl and one for the bad girl which we bring out in use in our little transformation ceremony.

We do the whole thing with her standing naked in front of the mirror where I will put a black sheer see through satin robe over her shoulders then the nameplate around her neck to symbolize the bad girl has come out the mirror and now controls her body and the good girl is now in the mirror waiting there to be released by me after she has had her fun. I then say something about releasing the evil twin out that I now give her the power to explore her sensuality. We do the reverse after-the-fact, after she is done playing the bad girl we put the evil twin back into the bottle or back into the mirror.

One of the things I did was I printed up a card on the computer which says she has the right now to play around with other guys, kind of like the movie “Hall Pass”. The following is the card I created.

Official Hot Wife License

I your loving husband willingly give up, relinquish and concede my martial rights to you temporarily for a period of 24 hours to give you the sexual freedom to explore your sexual limits and realize your true sexual power. I recognize and accept that it is your duty to share the gift of your beauty, sensuality and erotic power with the world. This license gives you the freedom to flirt with men you feel attracted to, to dress to attract and tease men to fulfill your needs of being wanted, being told you are beautiful, to experience sex with other men so that you can feel confidence in yourself and in your sexuality.

After you have fulfilled your needs, I hereby promise and swear to reclaim you as my wife and to restore our marriage and happy home for you. I will celebrate and cherish your new experiences which will add to and improve our marriage. I will renew our wedding vows, again exchanging wedding rings and I will consummate and renew our sacred union as man and wife. I will do what is needed to reassure and prove that nothing has changes between us and that our marriage is stronger than before. Of this I hereby swear.

Here signed: ________________________ Your Loving Husband and Soul Mate

I printed this out on a two sided business size card and laminated it. I give it to her at the end of our transformation ceremony and she gives it back to me when she is done playing and wants to be reclaimed.

A lot of times what happens is the opportunity just presents itself when we are out at a bar or a party and we don't have the time to play out our little ceremony. Usually the evil twin “comes out of the bottle” which is usually a wine bottle after about three glasses of wine. In this case she gives me an indication that she wants to flirt or play with a guy she just meet by turning her wedding ring upside down and flashing her hand at me using our own special hand signals. I always say yes but she does like the fact that I give her permission.

Like I said previously, we have a whole ritual that we go through in the reverse to put the bad girl back in the bottle and let the good girl out. The first step is we celebrate and savior her escapades as the evil twin. I treat her like a queen a goddess I wait on her and do other activities like buying her roses, giving her lots of chocolates and other sweets that she likes and take her out to dinner.

I enjoy getting to know and experience that part of her personality that she hides from me most of the time. I just want to be there in her presence and experience not just her body but her whole being. I love exploring her inner thoughts and inner feelings finding all the layers some which were just created because of the new sexual experience she just had. That part of her fascinates me in ways I cannot explain, it is like meeting and getting to be with a totally different woman. Being with this complex woman that I can only experience on special occasions is a real treat for me it’s almost like cheating on my wife with my wife, or like being with a variety of different women and enjoying the newness of the relationship and all the excitement that it provides and in some cases living vicariously through her experiences.

I think she also gets to experience a different side me and a different dynamic in our relationship that we would never experience otherwise. For that reason we both like to savor the moment and relive the experience from other‘s perspective. It is special type communications in our relationship that we have.

After we celebrate and reward the evil twin and her adventures, the next step in the process is that of make her pay for her transgressions. Sometimes I think she actually likes the guilt and finds it somewhat erotic. Being a good little Catholic girl she likes the whole thing about confessing her sins and being forgiven or absolved of her sins. We do some light bondage S&M type of things to make her pay for her sins. I usually make her admit what she is done and how much she liked it. I then give her some light spanking, some light slapping groping and make her acknowledge me as her Lord and Master. Then I say something like I formerly forgive you and reclaim you as my women.

Next we do the reverse transformation ceremony again where I remove the gold necklace with her evil twin‘s name around her neck and the black sheer see through satin robe. With her standing naked in front of the mirror I say something like I now put the bad girl back into mirror and return the good girl to her rightful place. I put a white sheer see through satin robe over her shoulders then I put a gold necklace with her real name around her neck, kiss her and say welcome back my good wife.

The last step in the process is that we renew our wedding vows, exchange rings and we consummate our new and improved marriage. We usually take a nice hot shower together, dry off and then have some Cointreau in fancy glasses. We then layout a blanket on the floor, set down completely naked across from each other in a candle lit room, we then repeat our vows and exchange our wedding rings. We then consummate our marriage doing a Tantric type of process where we merge our bodies’ sexually then merge our minds and our souls to become “one” and then consummate our union. We then return to our “normal” life. We still have all the memories and experiences from the swinging or hot wife life style we shared when she was the “evil twin” and we love to talk about those experiences together.

I love my wife both the good girl and her evil twin. Her being able to escape and become that other person, her alter ego, for a short time makes our lives much more interesting, rewarding and fun. We have both grown emotionally and as sexual beings and I am not sure she still needs that emotional crutch that the evil twin provides however, we do still enjoy the fantasy of it and will probably keep the evil twin persona around for a few more years.

[galaxy1]

Very innovative - loved the laminated card idea.

[hornedhubby]

Lots of terrific and creative ideas for a sexy, loving marriage in this post.

The evil twin idea and the rituals you use to summon her are a wonderful expression of eroticism. You are blessed to have such a playful wife, and she is blessed to have a loving, understanding and worshipping hubby.

And the whole concept is just super, super hot!

I will attempt to borrow much of the wisdom you've shared here. And I would love to hear more about the slutty adventures of the evil twin.

Commendations, congratulations and best wishes to the happy couple.

[bm4eroticmwf]

Awesome story!

[Old Dog]

Great idea of using the "alternative" person within her psyche. Have to try this with my wife.

[Foamy Beers]

That all sounds fantastic!!
I bet you two are very happy together, congratulations!