Jane' adventure

[HWH]

So many things I would love to type but I'll just admire Jane's lovely ass instead. Definitely an interesting read. Thanks for sharing

[willntampa]

you go girl I think you made your point

[DaBolts]

Jane is this all part of the game? Will you keep seeing Deron if your husband is not ok with it?

[spyguy24]

I've followed your lifestyle for a while myself, Jane. I'm not going to say what you did was wrong. Imo, you didn't do anything wrong. You wanted to do stuff to which David ultimately consented. You're a sexy woman and have enjoyed a varied sex life. I've enjoyed your story as well and have gotten off to various events (the vast majority ) like most everyone else. So, the majority of what I have to say is to David.

Something happened you didn't like which is understandable. I also agree that you should have taken a bit more cool headed approach to making Deron leave if that's what you wanted to happen. I understand stuff happens in the moment and your head gets all fuzzy from adrenaline. You have to ask yourself if this is really what you wanted. If you wanted him to leave you could have made it happen without ever needing to swing a fist. Based on my limited view point into your life, you've reached your limit. The cuck/submission game has been going on for a while. However, I don't know if you're only testing your own limits or if this is what you've had in mind all along. You need to evaluate things before you do something stupid like someone getting stabbed or shot.

I've seen you progress from a hubby of a wife who sleeps around to eating her lover's creampie out of her. Which, that's cool. I've had similar fantasies. That said, if this is the end of your rope then just leave. Jane is sold out to Deron for better or worse and basically just said so in black and white.

The only thing I will say to you, Jane, is that if hotwifing is no longer just fun and games then you should reevaluate your position in the matter. The overarching tone to this lifestyle is having fun with your significant other in a permissive and sexually open manner. If that's not what you're doing anymore then I wonder how much of the lifestyle you've held on to and how much has been perverted just like every other "failed" story on these boards where things went terribly wrong. If you want to be with Deron then do it. However, if you're still hoping to stay within the confines of a "hotwifing" relationship then you need to do that. This isn't being judgmental. It's stating the obvious. If you don't, you very well may find yourself in the middle of a crime of passion and, take it from a guy you've turned on more times than I can out, your ass is far too sexy for prison.

[mlrlyt24]

Wow!

You two should own up to the fact that you have grown apart. There is no way you can say what you have and not know you are already separated. You are taking the path of least resistance in keeping both sides of this ... One to keep you sexually happy n one for support.

[mlrlyt24]

I disagree completely n I think spy guy hit on the same idea as well.

[mlrlyt24]

I may have been blunt but I bet deep down she knows exactly what I mean.

[mlrlyt24]

I read n enjoy at arms length others stories n stay unattached... You sir r too attached and r blind to the fact that she has far more feelings for Deron then is ready to admit.
I know where I am at n I/we have a firm grasp as to how to manage our adventures in a mutually beneficial way.

[mlrlyt24]

It is a great example of. You put a frog in hot water it will jump out ... You put frog in water n slowly turn up the heat it gets cooked.... They are not far from being cooked... so to speak. I won't debate it with you beyond this but will be interested to see their response. I am not being negative just sharing a point of view.

[jane]

no we didn't have sex.
i've sort of shamed them both into talking. i called deron this afternoon and said he should apologize. he called david, and they're out meeting right now.
fingers crossed

[mrs_palmetto]

fingers crossed

Not sure why.

[jane]

i shouldn't want them to work it out??

[Mr Quick]

Your a grown woman and can live your life anyway you wish. If that doesnt include putting your husband first and respecting him(no matter what lifestyle your in), at least have the decency to cut him loose and not drag him through the mud. If you dont love him enough anymore, at least try to remember a time when you did...

[mrs_palmetto]

i shouldn't want them to work it out??

Of course not Jane... You'll stop typing and such if anyone sees things differently than you.

[jane]

okay. everyone who want's to make me feel bad, you have.

[Wifesharing]

There is nothing to work out really. once you cross that line I think you picked your poison the violent outcome last is a clear sign that Deron obviously rubs JH the wrong way (no matter who is right or wrong) even if they "work it out" you are just laying the ground work for the next blowup and from these things tend to esculate each time time very scary.

[allengt]

That's good Jane, they are out having a beer and talking through their issues. Hopefully when they get back you will have Deron for dessert and David can then have your for dessert.

[Wifesharing]

I think telling her our opinion that keeping deron around is a bad idea is not being shitty. Actually it is constructive. sharing our opinions is not being shitty. To keep seeing a man that clearly gets to your husband in a way that would lead to a fist fight is dangerous at best. If Jane wants to keep seeing him that is fine and her choice.

[susanshusband]

The last thing I want is for you to feel bad Jane! Your thread has been an inspiration and I have appreciated your openness with us, even in these difficult times. I hope you David and Deron work things out in a way that makes sense to you. Best wishes!

[Beth]

Good luck to all three of you! This is your situation to work out...whatever is decided, I wish you all well!

[Aynsley]

Hi Jane.

I wanted to support your ability to get Deron & David to talk.
First...they're Big Boys...and Second, it's not like all of 'this' came out of the blue.
The 3 of you have known each other for a while.

And, as you've said 'a lot of this HW-ing stuff ain't easy'...and dinner the other night,
was one of those 'challenges' that we all face, as we try to push the envelope forward...
...but you 3 had a hiccup.

Good for you that you've gotten them out together; I can see how that might
be helpful for your combined steps forward.

Best of luck.

[spyguy24]

It's not a time to feel bad. It's just a time to step back and evaluate things. I hope everything works out.

[Wistful]

I've never read anything remotely as powerful as the last few days of this thread. Just a few words from the original posters David and Jane have made me physically upset, nervous, and ill at ease for more than a day now. An astounding effect of the written word from people I don't even know and will never meet. Hard to imagine the distress the original posters must be going through. I most especially feel very, very sorry for David.

[MrBrunetteBeth]

why should it matter what any of us think or say about this?!?

my thought is to be supportive, let time heal wounds, things will work out the way they are meant to work out ...

MrBB

[jane]

they met. i called them during it. they both apologized. some issues came to light. issues david has had, that i knew about in a way. deron seemed to realize he needed to be more sensitive to certain thing's, but he was a bit confused where the lines were drawn. maybe we all are. what's hot in bed..but not elsewhere? i don't know. i can only take it day by day with them.