Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[Mr Quick]

Mrs reese, just wondering as to exactly what ”he wanted more” means? I love yours and reese's thread....and you are super gorgeous might I add!! Reese, you are one lucky fellow!

[54321]

I missed you, dear Mrs Reese, but didn't want to bug you, so resisted the urge to bump your thread.
Sorry to hear of your accident... OUCH! but glad to hear you're back on top... in just about every sense!!!!

Happy Birthday, Mr Reese... I think this just might be your best year ever!

Every good wish,

54321

[mrs_reese]

THanks everyone for your thoughtfulness.
I am cast free as of today!
I do feel like I have changed as a hotwife over the years!
l like having more control over my adventures.
One thing that I will not ever tolerate is a man thinking he can take over my life or interrupt my amazing marriage.
D wanted to push through the boundaries.

[BallSpanking]

As it should be!
Your body, your choice!

[Aynsley]

Congrats, Mrs. R., on your lovely foot's new found freedom.

Methinks, to celebrate, you should get a pedicure (I vote for red polish),
put on some sexy shoes, take pics, and then post them.

[mrs_reese]

Ok Aynsley, I will post some pics.
xoxo

[funwithdick56]

THanks everyone for your thoughtfulness.
I am cast free as of today!
I do feel like I have changed as a hotwife over the years!
l like having more control over my adventures.
One thing that I will not ever tolerate is a man thinking he can take over my life or interrupt my amazing marriage.
D wanted to push through the boundaries.

Glad your out of the cast your mind is as sexy as your body you have an amazing marriage

[CT_Hound]

reese,

I started reading your thread because the wife and I are about to start out in this lifestyle, however she has said that it will be by her rules.

And one of the rules is that she will go out alone!

This is why your thread appealed to me. I have not yet had the time to read it all through (work commitments) but plan to.

My question to you is how have you dealt with the angst and is it still an issue for you?

Any and all advice is welcomed.

CT Hound

[Mia]

reese,

I started reading your thread because the wife and I are about to start out in this lifestyle, however she has said that it will be by her rules.

And one of the rules is that she will go out alone!

This is why your thread appealed to me. I have not yet had the time to read it all through (work commitments) but plan to.

My question to you is how have you dealt with the angst and is it still an issue for you?

Any and all advice is welcomed.

CT Hound

Hi, CT Hound:

Welcome to OHW!



Mia

[CT_Hound]

Thanks Mia,

I am glad I found this site. There is a lot of good advice here for the new initiates to the lifestyle and those looking to enter.

I had done a lot of searching for information, for an outlet and for an insight to my feelings.

Reading through a lot of the threads has helped me understand a few things about myself and shown me the sort of things I can expect when we start (timing dependent on her as its going to be by her rules).

CT Hound
Ignorance is not bliss!

[reese]

Mr. CT my friend, I'll try to break the news to you slowly, that torment, that angst, that burning crazy pit in your stomach... the constant worry...the struggle of waiting for her to come home... trying to cope with your mind completely manipulating and controlling the situation... thinking the worst of everything... trying to prolong the constant urge to not text or call your wife as you wonder how is she doing....dealing with the temptation not to masturbate five times per hour thinking about all the crazy scenarios that your wife is going through.... Shall I go on?

I hope I'm getting to the point in helping you understand that there is no consistency all rules could be broken... you will feel lonely and abandoned.... you will question your motives, and worst of all you want your wife at the exact moment that you can't control the the pain and gut wrenching rush that you are feeling!!
She won't be there with you... to calm you, to comfort and reassure you! As you sleeping alone, you'll be getting up every hour wondering if she's coming home!
It'll be the longest night of your life and the sad thing is...that longest night of your life feeling never goes away every time she's not sleeping with you and she's having her way with another man!

But guess what? It is the most amazing thing you wil ever experience!
All those sensations never leave me!
It 'll be the most emotional feeling you will ever experience!
I love being a hotwife husband!
I love my wife more than words could ever express!
She is my fantasy, my greatest lover with the most perfect pussy a man could ever experience!
I probably wouldn't feel this way after 7 yrs together if I had a vanilla marriage!

I hope this helps!

[BallSpanking]

[aemn711]

Hello Reeses,

Just a note to say it sounds like she should move on.

My wife and I are reading "50 Shades of Grey". It is really good erotica, but the thought occured to me that even though Mrs R sounds like she wants to control her pleasure from other men - the both of you may want to read this book and have her consider experimenting with some of the mental/physical stuff.

I know if she was doing some of the things in the book with a new Dominant who respects your marriage and her ultimate pleasure - it would drive Mr R crazy and hopefully if the Dominant was carefully selected it would drive Mrs R into total lust in submission. - suggest you read the book to see if there is any fertile ground for you - but we are having fun reading it and fantasizing about what it would be like for her to be with a Dominant with all the toys.

Best,

AEMN

[mrs_reese]

aemn, I just received the book from a friend, I plan on reading it soon.
thanks for the suggestion!

I met with D today, we had a nice lunch.
He was sincere and honest with me- it was nice to hear about his feelings.

I am such a hotwife though, I went back to his place and we had sex.
It was actually very intense, more like making love.
He made me orgasm very hard, rested for about a minute, and I orgasmed 3 times very quick hits.
My sex with D today made me re-evaluate my relationship with him.
I want him to be part of my life, and he understands-finally at my terms!

Hubby doesnt now that I was with D today.
He is either going to read it here or I will wait till we go to bed today, After the Bachelorette!

More soon
xoxo

[BallSpanking]

... 'The Bachlorette...'
Is that you??

[Aynsley]

Mrs. R.
You are SUCH a Naughty, HW.

[CJTK]

Mr. CT my friend, I'll try to break the news to you slowly, that torment, that angst, that burning crazy pit in your stomach... the constant worry...the struggle of waiting for her to come home... trying to cope with your mind completely manipulating and controlling the situation... thinking the worst of everything... trying to prolong the constant urge to not text or call your wife as you wonder how is she doing....dealing with the temptation not to masturbate five times per hour thinking about all the crazy scenarios that your wife is going through.... Shall I go on?

I hope I'm getting to the point in helping you understand that there is no consistency all rules could be broken... you will feel lonely and abandoned.... you will question your motives, and worst of all you want your wife at the exact moment that you can't control the the pain and gut wrenching rush that you are feeling!!
She won't be there with you... to calm you, to comfort and reassure you! As you sleeping alone, you'll be getting up every hour wondering if she's coming home!
It'll be the longest night of your life and the sad thing is...that longest night of your life feeling never goes away every time she's not sleeping with you and she's having her way with another man!

But guess what? It is the most amazing thing you wil ever experience!
All those sensations never leave me!
It 'll be the most emotional feeling you will ever experience!
I love being a hotwife husband!
I love my wife more than words could ever express!
She is my fantasy, my greatest lover with the most perfect pussy a man could ever experience!
I probably wouldn't feel this way after 7 yrs together if I had a vanilla marriage!

I hope this helps!

What a GREAT summary of all this.... This wierd crazy wonderfully insane hotwife thing. It drives me crazy in all the ways you describe, but it gives a unique excitement and as you say an intense emotional experience like no other. For me at least you very aptly captured the essence of being married to and loving a hotwife. Well said.

[jane]

aemn, I just received the book from a friend, I plan on reading it soon.
thanks for the suggestion!

I met with D today, we had a nice lunch.
He was sincere and honest with me- it was nice to hear about his feelings.

I am such a hotwife though, I went back to his place and we had sex.
It was actually very intense, more like making love.
He made me orgasm very hard, rested for about a minute, and I orgasmed 3 times very quick hits.
My sex with D today made me re-evaluate my relationship with him.
I want him to be part of my life, and he understands-finally at my terms!

Hubby doesnt now that I was with D today.
He is either going to read it here or I will wait till we go to bed today, After the Bachelorette!

More soon
xoxo

[CT_Hound]

Reese,

I am grateful for your response to my question.

You were right. Rules were broken. As I said in my question the wife and I were about to start out in this lifestyle. Little did I know how soon that would be!

I posted my question on the 17 Jun thinking that our entry was some time off. How wrong I was, as the wife made the plunge last night.

The angst is killing me. The need to reclaim my wife is burning my soul. My love for my wife cannot be quantified.

Unfortunately I am away from home and will not be returning for another 3 weeks. It will be the longest three weeks of my life. I am counting every second as they tick by with such slow torment.

CT Hound
Ignorance is not bliss
Entered lifestyle 19 Jun 12 / Wife’s trysts: 1

[Aynsley]

Hey Mrs. R.
With the weather being so darn HOT,
I would think it calls for:
-the skimpiest of skirts (hopefully, one that the wind can catch to expose your thong)
-the sexiest of sandals (to show off those pretty blue toes)
-the most outrageous top (a halter, perhaps?)
....and then a visit to D's school, to see how he's doing.

Don't worry; all the guys on campus will have their eyes on you,
and not the co-eds.

[mrs_reese]

aynsley? Hmmm you know me too well! LOL I do look good in a halter top.

Off to see D right now.
Hubby is pissed in a good way, He wanted to see me tonight.
Suprise! He and I are going out by the water for drinks, and sex.
Back home by 2am for hubby to clean me up.
Gotta GO

[BallSpanking]

Sounds like late night dessert for Mr Reese...

[SSQ]

Mrs Reese, I saw your blue nail polish picture and I was planning to get my nails done and decided I'd try something different. I've gone sparkly blue as well Thanks for the idea!

[mrs_reese]

sexy susie Q you're welcome. xoxo
Last night, I had a wonderful night.
Quickie with D, then home by midnight!
I was too tired for hubby, so after an amazing massage, and hubby begging me to keep my legs tight, I allowed him to clean me!
Of course this man is crazy for that! It is the most amazing feeling!
So sore from my thick lover D, and then feeling a husband's gentle lips against me- yes, hubby made me cum again!
If anyone is asking?? I couldnt hold him off after licking me and tasting my lovemaking with D!!!
WE had sex!!

[BallSpanking]

Tsk-tsk...