Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[54321]

Lovely to hear from you, Mrs Reese. Missed you lots.

Sounds like you're having a great time though

Long may it continue.

54321

[gook123]

Hi everyone. Don't mean to bud in. Just saw the title and thought I would join in. My hotwife left a few hours ago for a weekend away with her new FB. I am home watching my stepdaughters. I am anxiously waiting a text from her but I'm sure I won't get one for many hours. It's hard to be patient. This is her 3rd time with him. He is a huge bodybuilder and she says he has incredible stamina. This is her 3rd time meeting him. The first two she took her daughters with so had to play it a little conservative, not too much tho from what she tells me. This time she wanted to be alone. I will let you know how it goes.

[dali_23]

I have just recently discovered this thread, and am not sure how I missed it. Reese, this has to be one of, if not THE most well written, relevant, amazing threads on the site. I have skipped around a little, but really have thoroughly read just the first 12 pages.

You have my thanks for contributing it.

[reese]

I finally decided to post some of my thoughts.
It has been a long time!!
I left this site because as much as my wife has claimed to change with her approach to hotwife play...so have I!!
This has been a long journey....and I feel as though I am an expert on denial- tease and torment and cuckold play.
As much as I feel that way, I always seem to encounter a new stimulus...and that makes me happy!
I am randomly posting my thought so be patient with me.

I read some of the posts from this thread today.... posts from old friends made me smile.
Everyone poster has been kind and full of encouragement over the past 5 yrs...THANK_YOU!
I missed some of you!

More random thoughts....
I agree with my wife...we need to be more private.
For some of you that are not aware of the problem we encountered a while back....ex caused too many problems once he discovered this site....we needed legal help to solve that problem.

I have not posted or read posts for a while because this place is the devils liar at times...LOL!
I read and read and become more horny for wild encounters...involving my wife.
Out of respect for her and her life...I had to back off!!
I have more self-control now.
This was taken away from me for a while...and OMG did I miss this!!

As much as I have been my wife's cleanup boy....I have also shared one on one amazing sex with her.
I know that she will read my post...but I can not avoid stating something for my friends to read....
I can't stop this compulsive addiction...hotwife play!
I promised my wife that I would have more self control...and I do!
But when she tells me to turn off hotwife play.....everything about hotwife fantasy or real life encounters...I really try to..but there is NO WAY to eliminate it from my mind.
We have amazing sex....I could fuck her 3 times a day....but there are so many times when she may send me a text or verbally tell me to TURN IT OFF....and i agree to do that.
But when we have sex....it always always always comes back...all the memories come crashing down upon my sex drive.
Usually it's all about her current lover!

My orgasms are so damn powerful....and once its over for me...I feel it coming back very soon..the need to taste my wife..to lick her pussy...to breath in her scent...to put her worn panties to my face..the panties she wore on the way home from another fuck session with her lover.....it is such an addiction!!

So for those who may read this thread and hope to turn your wife into a hotwife...be careful.

There is NO going back!

I went back...and i was depressed...I lost my urge for sex...I found my marriage boring at times...lost my urge for her....
Those feelings terrified me....but once we found our happy place again....life returned to normal for me.

Over the last year or so... I have learned some self control....we have a normal marriage most of the time....I am more selective with my wild urges..I have learned to allow my wife to be at the forefront...allow her to start the process....
I have learned to keep quiet...not talk about it 24-7.
I have learned patience.

Thanks for reading.

[Open2it]

Awesome post Reese and it's great to hear from you again!

[reese]

Sorry about JoePa.
Nice to hear from you again my friend.

[dali_23]

I finally decided to post some of my thoughts.
It has been a long time!!
I left this site because as much as my wife has claimed to change with her approach to hotwife play...so have I!!
This has been a long journey....and I feel as though I am an expert on denial- tease and torment and cuckold play.
As much as I feel that way, I always seem to encounter a new stimulus...and that makes me happy!
I am randomly posting my thought so be patient with me.

I read some of the posts from this thread today.... posts from old friends made me smile.
Everyone poster has been kind and full of encouragement over the past 5 yrs...THANK_YOU!
I missed some of you!

More random thoughts....
I agree with my wife...we need to be more private.
For some of you that are not aware of the problem we encountered a while back....ex caused too many problems once he discovered this site....we needed legal help to solve that problem.




I have not posted or read posts for a while because this place is the devils liar at times...LOL!
I read and read and become more horny for wild encounters...involving my wife.
Out of respect for her and her life...I had to back off!!
I have more self-control now.
This was taken away from me for a while...and OMG did I miss this!!

As much as I have been my wife's cleanup boy....I have also shared one on one amazing sex with her.
I know that she will read my post...but I can not avoid stating something for my friends to read....
I can't stop this compulsive addiction...hotwife play!
I promised my wife that I would have more self control...and I do!
But when she tells me to turn off hotwife play.....everything about hotwife fantasy or real life encounters...I really try to..but there is NO WAY to eliminate it from my mind.
We have amazing sex....I could fuck her 3 times a day....but there are so many times when she may send me a text or verbally tell me to TURN IT OFF....and i agree to do that.
But when we have sex....it always always always comes back...all the memories come crashing down upon my sex drive.
Usually it's all about her current lover!

My orgasms are so damn powerful....and once its over for me...I feel it coming back very soon..the need to taste my wife..to lick her pussy...to breath in her scent...to put her worn panties to my face..the panties she wore on the way home from another fuck session with her lover.....it is such an addiction!!

So for those who may read this thread and hope to turn your wife into a hotwife...be careful.

There is NO going back!

I went back...and i was depressed...I lost my urge for sex...I found my marriage boring at times...lost my urge for her....
Those feelings terrified me....but once we found our happy place again....life returned to normal for me.

Over the last year or so... I have learned some self control....we have a normal marriage most of the time....I am more selective with my wild urges..I have learned to allow my wife to be at the forefront...allow her to start the process....
I have learned to keep quiet...not talk about it 24-7.
I have learned patience.

Thanks for reading.

wow thanks for posting. My heart is like a triphammer right now. Your posts give me some solace, while at the same time scaring the living shit outta me.

[BallSpanking]

Nice to hear from you, Mr Reese.
Personally I miss reading your comments and insights, but I understand your wife's need for continuing privacy.

Perhaps you could preface all posts labeling them as 'theoretical' or 'fantasy' to avoid consequences down the road...

[bubbajack]

Reese, for all that you say in that self-deprecating way, you are one of the really good guys in the world and for the truth of this I have as my chief witness your beloved and splendid and delicious Mrs Reese.

I think it is pretty clear by now that she knows the difference between fucking and love; the difference between a toy with a big dick and a real man; and the difference between somebody with a self-serving agenda and somebody with a sincere concern for her best interests.

And I think she has concluded that you, my man, pass all the tests and that is enough for me!

Plus you get to lick her naughty pussy and fuck her silly - - how can any of that be bad?

[BallSpanking]

BTW, psychiatrists often say that the hardest thing to forget (and not think about), is the repressed idea.

Once you are told to not bring it up anymore, it becomes a constant notion that you must suppress.
But having said that, I also remember reading Ms Reese's recent post where she admits to missing the HW'ing in her life, and that she is very happy when she is a HW.
So perhaps it isn't something you need to suppress completely, and instead allow her to control the frequency and manner of her adventures.

From the sounds of it she is really enjoying herself lately...!?!

[mrs_reese]

BS, you make a good point.
BJ, that was so sweet what you wrote about hubby

Want to know what happened last night?
Steve met me at my place of employment; I work part time.
He was in the parking lot with flowers and a box of traditional chocolates.
He knew that hubby and I will be celebrating Valentines day tomorrow and he wasnt sure if I was available today.
It was so sweet
Guess what happened next?
We met at my house around 11pm, daughter was asleep with hubby in charge.
I texted hubby prior to meeting to ask if it was ok to spend some alone time with Steve.
He wouldnt say no!! Never! But I still show my respect by asking!

We have a basement converted to a bar-entertainment area with a backroom bedroom.
Steve and I shared a few drinks with hubby as I sat next to my lover.
Hubby was so aroused, I know how much he loves watching me flirt and tease.
After making out with Steve I looked at hubby and told him that I wanted to be alone with Steve.
I held his hand as we walked into the bedroom, asked hubby to come to me, kissed him and told him to shut the door and leave us alone for a while.

I want to leave the rest up to your imagination.
But I do want to share this: after Steve left about an hour later, I went upstairs to hubby who was not asleep and we shared a very sexy moment.
I have grown to love when my husband slowly opens my legs and slowly kisses and licks my sex from my pussy.
I am sure Steve gets off on it too, knowing that he is having sex with a married woman in her husbands house as he waits upstairs eager to lick the joys of our sex away.

I literally had a few intense orgasms feeling hubby lick me.

xoxoxo

[BallSpanking]

I always love it when you post Ms Reese...
Party-on!

[54321]

Wow! So hubby licked you to more orgasms. Did he cum too or did you keep him in suspense? If so, how long now since he last ejaculated?

54321

[mrs_reese]

54321, naughty boy! Yes hubby licked me to more O's. I am lucky to cum a lot during one night! It all depends on how intense a lover licks my clit and fingers my butt. Its the fingers in my butt along with licking me and kindof biting that drives me crazy.
Knowing that Steve came in me deeply then trying to push it out into hubby's mouth while he fingers my butt just does it for me,

Hubby holding his orgasm?? are you kidding me
This guy could cum 100times a day if it were possible as long as his wife was being a hotwife.

[Morgan]

Wonderful

[BallSpanking]

Dear Ms Reese... I have to read between the lines to the things you don't say, and merely imply...

[bubbalapagos]

I love hearing about your experiences!

[mrs_reese]

Hi!
Steve called me this morning and told me how he wished he could've been with me on Valentines.
He also told me something that is kindof freaking me out.
He's falling in love with me!
I love knowing I own his mind and soul, but I need some input from everyone!
How do I handle this?
Part of me wishes be didn't tell me that,
And another part of me is intrigued by this because it'll be so much more amazing making love to a man other than my Husband who feels that way!
This is all so much right now!

[Morgan]

Tell Steve that he is going to be hurt by you.
It's only fair to be honest.
Then have your way with him and enjoy knowing that his feelings are running deep.

[tiggerdog77]

Mrs. R,

I have mixed feelings about this. On one hand he is an adult and can make his own decisions. On the other hand a talk about how madly in love you are with Mr. R might be in order so he knows that he will always come in second for as long as he is around. If he still wants to be with you after that, I say have at me, I mean at him, freudian slip on my part, sorry!

Tiggerdog

[bubbajack]

Oh, Mrs Reese!

Hot, hot, so hot!!

Of COURSE he is falling in love with you! (Have you looked in the mirror lately? )

Go ahead and push that erotic envelope, darling - get all the hot loving you can stand!-

You know you are going to have them both jumping around as if they had electrodes up their butts leading to their brains (both sizes )

You are the ideal hotwife!

[MrsTruckstar]

Hi!
Steve called me this morning and told me how he wished he could've been with me on Valentines.
He also told me something that is kindof freaking me out.
He's falling in love with me!
I love knowing I own his mind and soul, but I need some input from everyone!
How do I handle this?
Part of me wishes be didn't tell me that,
And another part of me is intrigued by this because it'll be so much more amazing making love to a man other than my Husband who feels that way!
This is all so much right now!

Not for me mrs_reese, it is one step to far and always ends up in a mess. i don't mind them falling for me or even falling in love with me but I am allergic to them telling me.

However I would make an exception to not dumping him as long as Truckstar was also happy -: I would say, I am never leaving my hubby he will always be my primary, I will never be 100% exclusive to you (or even near that figure), you have to accept that I will meet and fuck other guys and very occasionally other girls. Do you still love me?

Answer - Yes - Okay fuck me again then

Answer - No - Okay fuck me again then, but I would expect he would leave me.

I have tried to stay with a guy who said he loved me, it ended due to his unmanageable jealousy and then he just bombarded me with gifts, PM's, turning up at mu house. Requests to leave my husband. He drove me and Truckstar insane, he even offered violence to Truckstar, which is not a good idea.

Short answer, it is an occupational hazard of being a HW that guys will fall for us, if we tell them all the rules at the beginning, then we can manage them according to those rules. Mine is I love Truckstar and not you. Sadly its goodbye my friend.

[reese]

From my perspective....it's always more challenging when my wife's FB falls in love with her!
It makes me jealous and insanely horny!

To my wife....really?
Another one falls for your perfect pussy?
This is what you wanted to tell me last night eh?

[reese]

MrsT- very insightful post! Bubba jack... You hit the nail on the head!
TG....I am sure my wife already told Steve she's my girl but I am also sure of the fact that she's going to torment him as well!
Morgan....she's learned to come out with her post reaction to men sayin they love her.
Usually she will inform me that she will tell them how it scares her away everytime they say "I love you" and they always tell her it's how they feel and that they will take whatever she can give back!

[mrs_reese]

I will be patient w Steve.
I am happy again, being a hotwife and being his lover so I think it's time to guide him on the right direction!
Having him fall in love with me definitely is a turn on for me bc I feel some love for him as long as he understands that I am not leaving my husband for any man.