Lifestyle choices and how we ended up here

[hkuk]

Preface
It’s about 10:30pm on a Wednesday evening and I hear my wife’s cries of passion drift down the stairs from the master bedroom on the top floor. It’s a surprise being midweek, so as we say here it’s a ‘school night’, meaning they will both be up for work early in the morning. Just demonstrates how horny they were for each other though, after all this time! Usually, the house reverberates to the sounds of sex on a weekend morning, I am still hopeful though for the coming weekend …

Who are ‘they’? My wife K I already mentioned, and her boyfriend/lover S – or ‘other husband’ as he has been referred to sometimes. Our path to a poly/cuckold lifestyle has been long and twisting, starting back before we were married some 16 years ago now. Crikey that is a long time, K’s relationship with S has been on and off for much of that time, but bloomed in to a full blown relationship with my encouragement about 4 years ago. Then it took on a life of it’s own and outside of my control. This is the story of how we arrived at this place, the excitement and routine, the kinkiness of it all and what the future holds for us. Everything you read here is 100% fact, although I may dress it a little to help it along, it’s still as it happened. My reasons for writing will become clear later, for now … enjoy!

Chapter 1 is coming, I promise ...

[dana007]

soumd's like you may have one hell of a story to tell. can't wait to read it .

[ravipillay]

hi i have read somewhere you were expecting a baby,is it you?

[ravipillay]

i'm very sorry got mix up with somebody else.

[hkuk]

hi i have read somewhere you were expecting a baby,is it you?

No, not us

[hkuk]

Introduction
When I wonder how I came to have cuckold tendencies, I think back through 2 marriages, and a relationship before that. I can’t put my finger on it, but in that first relationship we had an attempt at opening to others, but it failed miserably. Inevitably she scored immediately with a local biker dominant type, and I failed to get anywhere. Maybe that cast the die, I was in equal measure jealous and turned on by the thought that she was getting laid somewhere else, and actually very soon after I wasn’t getting any at all. In fact, I was single as she left me for him.

Should that have put me off future experimentation? Probably! Did it? Not a chance! However, it was years later before I met my wife, she was young (21) and fresh at Uni for the first time, when I was returning to retrain at 35. She has kept me young over the years though, I still feel like I am 35 in my head now – on a good day!

Sitting on a park bench
eyeing little girls with bad intent.
Snot running down his nose
greasy fingers smearing shabby clothes.
Drying in the cold sun
Watching as the frilly panties run.
Feeling like a dead duck
spitting out pieces of his broken luck.
Aqualung – Jethro Tull (1971)

[hkuk]

Chapter 1
Sitting on a park bench – ah yes. That was where we were. The only frilly panties I was interested in were sitting next to me though, my girlfriend K. 21 and that awesome mixture of curious and adventurous. I thought then I had little to lose actually, as we had not been together long. We were visiting her parents and taken the dog for a walk, hence the ‘park bench’. Now was surely the time to broach the subject of maybe having some fun.

I often see on the forum guys asking ‘how can I introduce the idea of sex with others’. Well, this is how I did it, successfully. There is a game called 4Play. It’s on version 6 now, at the time it was a DOS program and very basic (circa 1996/97) but it did the job. I had seen it mentioned and bought it, quaint that I remember it being delivered on floppy disk from the USA! Basically, it’s a game of Monopoly with an adult twist at every turn. I am sure you get the idea. You set up players, and I had done all that imagining what I might be required to do with various playing partners.

Anyway, I introduced the idea sitting on that bench. She was inquisitive, and during the conversation asked ‘who would we get to play it with though’? That brought on a conversation about ‘who of our friends did we fancy enough to fuck’? Also raised was ‘would you be OK watching me though’? She was surprised that I like that idea, and was amused to try it – so we decided on which couple to ask first. Disaster! They never spoke to us again – he was up for it (typical bloke, well maybe not?) but she was outraged. Warning: careful who you tell, women may see you as a danger to their relationship. We got over that though, and ended up playing it some time later with a mate who was leaving the country for good the next day. We were having a drink with him the evening before, I raised the idea while K was in the ladies, and when she came back I calmly said ‘L fancies playing monopoly with us this evening’. To give her credit, it came as a surprise but she hesitated only a second, smiled and said ‘lets go then shall we?’.

It was OK – he was shy, I gave them some space and apparently he was all over her when I was out of the room for some made up reason. However, another nail in the coffin maybe for my future cuckold life – I enjoyed that he was enjoying my girlfriend and I enjoyed that she was into it too. Result! I drove him to the airport in London the next day and we talked about it. However, never mentioned it since and never repeated even on infrequent visits. Served the purpose though!

[dana007]

Great chapter 1 is there more to the story if so i would like to read it. thank's

[wingman]

Good start H... can't wait for the next installments!!

[R_and_B]

Don't worry about being verbose - nice descriptions and sexy images. Please continue.

[wingman]

Any thoughts on when chapter 2 will arrive and take us out of our misery?

[hkuk]

Sorry to make you wait ... work keeping my visits here brief at the moment but I will try to write something soon.

Thank you for the encouragement!

H

[tellmeall]

All work and no play....you know the rest

[hwc]

Hkuk - if you decide to write out your story so far in full, I for one would love to read it! (As I'm sure MANY others here would also!)

[wingman]

the start of your story was great.... any chance we could cheer you on enough to finish it??!! lol