Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Wed Feb 19, 2014 7:03 am

Might we have an update, Mrs Reese?

redskull · Unread post by **redskull** » Wed Feb 19, 2014 8:31 am

I checked out your pictures, dude I would not repeat not want to loose
Her to another guy. Think hard man think hard.

reese · Unread post by **reese** » Wed Feb 19, 2014 8:39 am

Redskull.... I fight this fear everyday

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Wed Feb 19, 2014 8:47 am

Given the circumstances, I think Mrs Reese has a strong marriage with you.
I can't imagine another husband would be willing to share her, and having a second live-in husband sounds too complicated...

If Mrs Reese goes along with your request to continue being a HW, do you think a Poly relationship would be workable, or is she willing to date other guys for the time being?

reese · Unread post by **reese** » Wed Feb 19, 2014 9:01 am

My wife has talked to her ex, Steve.
I think if she plays as a Hotwife she will commit to man.
She doesn't want to date men at this point in her life.
I don't want vanilla!
Our compromise is that she pursues that man who will dedicate his life to the fact that she is my wife.
Now it remains to be seen if I lose that primary status as THE husband.
She is serious with her feelings.... No more play'
If I want her to be involved with men.... It has to be one man as her exclusive!
Now.... With that said, will live with us?
Not sure.... Bc of her child!
She may keep residence at his place a few days a week when her child isn't home!
This is all under consideration!

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Wed Feb 19, 2014 9:05 am

Wow...!
Thanks for the update.
Warmest regards to you both, I hope you guys find a workable solution that will make you both happy.

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Wed Feb 19, 2014 11:21 am

Hi everyone!
I wrote to Ballspanking and told him
That no matter who is in my life, there will always be room for my husband to share me as well.
If I have another baby with another man, my husband will have to be part of all of this .
I would be eternally lonely without him in my life.
If another man is in my life , my husband will be part of this life too!
It's not too complicated even though this is a big test for my marriage.
I've been exclusive to men before and my marriage survived!
It's not like I fallen in love in the past with my first lover and left my husband.

We've survived many challenges and we will survive this one.
We may experience some rough moments but as always my marriage always survives!
I love my man.
I can love another man too!
Some women can't.
From my past experience, I know I can!

About Steve, he said he's learned a lot from our past experiences.
He's willing to make changes if
We move forward.
He's currently dating someone but lucky for me, he's not too serious.
We have a lot to talk about!
Hubby will have to have a lot of discussions with him too.

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Wed Feb 19, 2014 12:41 pm

Steve is an incredibly lucky guy!!

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Wed Feb 19, 2014 4:44 pm

No, hubby is the luckiest guy!
Lol
Xoxo

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Wed Feb 19, 2014 4:51 pm

But he goes through so much angst...

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Thu Feb 20, 2014 9:54 am

Tonight, hubby and I agreed to meet Steve for a few drinks and discussion.
We need to figure things out.

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Thu Feb 20, 2014 10:13 am

Xoxo JG ok!!

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Thu Feb 20, 2014 10:44 am

I think we would all want to be a fly on the wall, but then, the restaurant would be full of flies!

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Thu Feb 20, 2014 3:32 pm

I'm getting ready and I'm having second thoughts.
I wanted Steve so badly last time.
I'm afraid that I won't want to give him up this time!
I'm torn.

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Thu Feb 20, 2014 5:06 pm

mrs_reese wrote:I wanted Steve so badly...

reese · Unread post by **reese** » Fri Feb 21, 2014 8:44 am

We met with Steve last night and really cleared the air with a few issues from the past!
I think we all have a better grip with expectations and demands.
My wife asked that I allow her to post about last night.....
I am going to sign off and let her take over when she is able... Other than to say that I am all in with my wife wanting 2 lovers in her life to share.
I am well aware of moving to a secondary role....
My thirst for this Hotwife drug continues to overwhelm me!
But we also agree that our communication must be present more than ever!

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Fri Feb 21, 2014 8:50 am

Hi Mr Reese!
I am glad things went well, looking forward to Mrs Reese's take on this...

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Mon Feb 24, 2014 7:10 am

Hope all is good with y'all...?!

Mr Quick · Unread post by **Mr Quick** » Mon Feb 24, 2014 8:23 am

reese wrote:We met with Steve last night and really cleared the air with a few issues from the past!
I think we all have a better grip with expectations and demands.
My wife asked that I allow her to post about last night.....
I am going to sign off and let her take over when she is able... Other than to say that I am all in with my wife wanting 2 lovers in her life to share.
I am well aware of moving to a secondary role....
My thirst for this Hotwife drug continues to overwhelm me!
But we also agree that our communication must be present more than ever!

Just curious why it's necessary for you to take a secondary role in this situation? It's just my opinion but you are the husband and you should always be number one to your wife! This other Guy is pretty much just a guest in your wifes and your marriage...he should take a secondary role!

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Tue Mar 04, 2014 12:13 pm

I'm back.
MrQ hubby doesn't need to take a secondary role with me.
He just wants to believe I choose a lover over him!
But this time, I'm not holding back!
Whatever happens will be what happens.
Btw, it's been quiet, sorry nothing to post yet.
Steve, hubby and your truly are still trying to sort out.
Steve needs to work on his current relationship situation.
He's ending a relationship bc he chooses to but he also wants me 100% of the time and that can't happen with his current status

I wonder if this thread has grown stale?
Is all this kind of redundant?
I think so.
I mean; posting the se stuff over the past 6 yrs over and over again !
6 years? That's crazy?

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Tue Mar 04, 2014 3:30 pm

Redundant??
Blasphemy!!

You are sexy and gorgeous, and sweet, and smart, and you have a legion of followers, all of whom want to see you well fucked and happy... I think most of us who follow you have grown to have an affection for you, and certainly, despite our differences of opinions, we're admiring you and cheering you from afar.

So, for me, redundancy is not a concept that comes to mind..., more like "legendary"!!

jandjtnz · Unread post by **jandjtnz** » Tue Mar 04, 2014 3:35 pm

Hell no! It wont ever get stale.

Mr Quick · Unread post by **Mr Quick** » Tue Mar 04, 2014 3:50 pm

I've never understood the guys on here that want their ladies to fall for another guy. Reese with all due respect I think (and this is just my opinion) that the only way that you can reach the ultimate high that you seek is for her to finally choose someone else over you. It all seems really self destructive. Males are males and in the end there can be only one unless your all three gonna grow old and die together. I don't think you want to lose her but your chasing that ultimate high. It just doesn't sit well with me personally. I've also always though it was hugely unfair to ask a woman to fall in love with someone else and later when things become too much to handle make her choose. There has got to be a better way to achieve that high without risking the most important person in your life. I wish you two the best of luck.

mrs_palmetto · Unread post by **mrs_palmetto** » Tue Mar 04, 2014 5:08 pm

Mrs. Reese I totally agree that poly relationships can work. Have you ever seen the TV show "How to be a gentleman" There's this one where the guys realize "We are in a relationship with the same girl!" They both sat down and talked about what they did with her and one was more into sex and the other actually did more things with the woman but was getting no sex and at the end of the day after she'd be out with the other guy doing all the "dating" kinda things she'd end up going to bed with the other guy that didn't do anything with her. After awhile the guy that was doing all the dating with her says, "OMG! I'm dating ur girlfriend and ur getting all the reward! This is total BS!"

The point I'm making is they can make it easy falling into roles.. "I can't do this today. I have to work. Ask him about that computer issue ur having see if he can handle it if not I'll fix it later." >> Polys end up like that. <<< And work out as long as everyone is happy with the situation but I myself would never consider moving a poly in my house or a baby with one.. I think that is pushing things too far. We are not robots and we all have feelings and that's OK but those two things would be way too far for me.

joytous3 · Unread post by **joytous3** » Tue Mar 04, 2014 5:48 pm

To me the baby thing is absolutely totally perpetually unacceptable. As to the relationship, I have an intense erotic curiosity about my wife having a real love affair because I know how volcanic the sex would be for her, but it's pretty damn scary to me at the same time. It's been true that every new step or level we've taken this to was a bit nerve-wracking if not scary and it's always turned out delighfully, but deep abiding love, geez I just don't know. That's one thing that I just can't give up.

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