Samantha Getting Started

[Mr1SexyGILF]

This is Samantha man's wife. My husband created an account for me, and I'm on for the first time. He asked me to post my story, which I have started writing. He also said I need to get verified, and the only instructions I could find said I needed to start by posting a message and then PM the moderator. So, welcome OHW!

Wellcum Maam

We have been eagerly awaiting your presence here. It is so exciting to read about a beautiful lady embracing her sexuality so boldly. Your husband is a very lucky man. Looking forward to hearing your side of your "shared" adventure.

Mr GILF

[Samanthasman]

Yes... I'm still trying to get Samantha on here... She half joking tells me "I'm too busy fucking to spend time talking about it!" And, she fucks well and a lot - like just about daily!!

After two days with Sid, tomorrow she is going on a 2-day trip with Bill. I'm not big on the trip idea, it's likely to rise my anxiety, but she's super excited about a 2-day sex fest. She's brining a video set up and planning to send me pics AND a full-length video!! That should be fun!!

So... How do you stay calm for 2 days???

[tellmeall]

Come here and share your thoughts, I wish I had this place when my wife would go on business trips/fuck trips for a week at a time.
I would jerk off dreaming about what they were doing. Then I would get paranoid when I was too sore to jerk off.

[Samanthasman]

I'm sure I'll post some on here while she's away playing, however, I'm sometimes a little apprehensive about sharing my anxieties here because when I did that here as we were just getting started I sort came under a barrage of dire warnings about how she would leave me... Which just terrified me, and caused stress in our relationship. To this day I still can't get my wife on here. I almost left this forum entirely. Eventually I realized that other people did have BFs... Solo was not uncommon... And feeling jealousy was also not that unusual...

[Samanthasman]

Day 1 of Samantha's trip with BF... I have to admit i go back and forth between excitement and agony.

This afternoon when I put her on the plane with her BF she looked absolutely stunning. Short skirt and perfect everything. I must be crazy to even let another man look at this women!

She fooled about on the plane... fucked him before dinner... fucked him after dinner... will be fucking all night probably...

The good news: she's making me an HD video!!

I finally got to talk to her after dinner and I have to admit I sound like a baby "do you still love me...are you falling for this guy??" and of course she assured me that "We are great!! I'm having a blast!! I love you a lot!! No, not falling for him - he's a great guy, but I love my family, don't worry"

I wish I had the strength to not let jealousy effect me. I DON'T like the feeling (although I know that some people do)

As a going away gift, my wife bought me a "fleshlight" (silicon artificial vagina) and said "pretend this is me until I get back - but don't get too used to it"

Looking forward, I really wonder where this is going. It's exciting and fascinating. My wife has SO MANY MEN trying to get her attention on Ashley Madison, she basically says "it's like shooting fish in a barrel". I mean hot, sexy, successful, charming guys! I'm starting to think most of the best guys are married, and I admit I prefer married over single.

Many of these guys are rich and are wanting to take her on trips. She's saying things like "I could see this leading to me dating men, possibly all over the world, and that could be really interesting to me if you're OK with that"... Should I be OK with that?

At times she talks about dating more guys, while at other times she says she wants to fuck Bill 3-4x/week and Sid 2-3x/week...

I think she's really embraced this!! She's a hotwife with a hot bod looking for hot guys to have hot sex with. She has a lot of opportunity and seemingly a lot of need!

I can tell that part of her feels satisfied with what she has, and a little slutty for even going as far as she is going (2 BFs), while another part of her is saying "Its fun to fuck hot guys and I can have all I want for the first time in my life". I'm not sure, but dying to find out, which Samantha will win out...!!

She's also flirting with guys at the gym (for the first time) and with guys I work with (for the first time). We sort of talked a bit about the possibly of her sleeping with someone I work with and I said "no problem!".. to which she said "I dot think he would do anything out of respect for you... but if he did, what if people find out???", to which I said "I doubt he would tell anyone, but if he did start a little rumor, it would just make people wonder and see us as perhaps a little sexier than they see us now. She also asked "can I tell him we're in an open marriage?" , to which I said "sure, if he starts coming on strong..." What if she fucks them all??

[BallSpanking]

Would you be OK with Samantha going on exotic vacations with a wealthy Alpha stud?

[Samanthasman]

Would you be OK with Samantha going on exotic vacations with a wealthy Alpha stud?

I think she just did...

[BallSpanking]

Would you be OK with Samantha going on exotic vacations with a wealthy Alpha stud?

I think she just did...

I mean... as her hobby!

[Samanthasman]

Would you be OK with Samantha going on exotic vacations with a wealthy Alpha stud?

I think she just did...

I mean... as her hobby!

I think Samantha is considering making this a hobby. She and I already travel extensively and she is considering having "a man in every port". she is also considering that many of the men that she is courting, travel extensively and want her to be their companions on trips, so she might be invited to travel all of the world with them. I'm not sure exactly why this is so interesting to her. I mean she's already traveling the world with me, and she can get all the sex and passion she wants without the travel, so... not sure what this is really about... Perhaps the excitement of being brought to an exotic place t fuck??


On another note, at midnight I got a text "I'm uploading a 4GB video for you!!! Love you! Nite!"

Sounds like a big video Unfortunately, as of morning it's still uploading

[MrsTruckstar]

You travel the world; when are you next in London? When is she next in London?

[Samanthasman]

You travel the world; when are you next in London? When is she next in London?

Been to London many times, but don't have any trips planned in immediate future.

[BallSpanking]

I hope we get to see some excerpts of Samantha's video... but you'll probably need to edit it down from 4GB's...

[Samanthasman]

Samantha returned from her 2-day fuck fest trip with Bill today...

I did feel very jealous today. I told get I felt like a girl that I needed to be held and I needed her to tell me she still loved me. She said were're good... No need for girly shit.

That did not make me feel better... Then later she said "look, I'm handling my shit and I need you to handle yours. You told me to fuck other guys and that's exactly what I'm doing. These guys have their own jealosy issues, etc. And I'm keeping them all happy: for you, I just need you to relax and know that we are good and be happy that I am fucking a lot like you wanted..."

Strangely, that made me snap out of my jealous streak and just love the amazing HW that is my wife

[FNQLivin]

Mmm, you were there and you know your wife, I don't. But that response wouldn't have made me snap out of it, quite the opposite. You're not jealous, you're nervous, nervous that whilst we she is out fucking there is other stuff going on that you can't see or control, stuff that ultimately could jeopardise your entire relationship. You are so far off being jealous. You have legitimate concerns that need assuaging. Now, if you're always harassing her, texting, calling, making her tell you that she loves you, then that'd be annoying and signs that you weren't ready for this, but allowing the mother of your kid(s) to spend two days fucking a BF/FB isn't jealousy in my books.

[Fotodom]

To me, her saying that, that way,

"look, I'm handling my shit and I need you to handle yours. You told me to fuck other guys and that's exactly what I'm doing. These guys have their own jealosy issues, etc. And I'm keeping them all happy: for you, I just need you to relax and know that we are good and be happy that I am fucking a lot like you wanted..."

and that it Did make you snap out of it, says a lot about the nature of your relationship and how both of you have gone into this.
It was a dose of reality, that you responded to appropriately; it IS the two of you, and both of your plans/wants/desires, so in saying that she referenced what you are doing, together.
Intense; yes. Hard to understand for many, perhaps. But it is what you did, and are doing.
That you did 'snap out of it' is a very good sign I think, for you and for her.
Is it easy? No, and I'll say that I don't know that I could do what you are doing, but I do think I recognize what it is that you and she Are doing, and it seems it's working.
It seems to me that she is a remarkable woman, that you chose well, and she knows it.

[zorro]

Ultimately, jealousy has more to do with ourselves than with our partner. Samantha is very clear with you: She loves you, she wants her family, and despite having sex with a few men she chooses to return home to you. And you are loving her being more sexual, you lucky guy. She is also clear about her interest: She likes fucking a couple of other guys. And she fantasies about having many of them, one in each port around the world. That is good. Women who are looking to leave seem to select a single man to attach to and leave via that route. The more guys she enjoys having sex with, the less likely she is to leave you because the NRE gets diffused among many guys.

There have been some catastrophizers on the board in recent weeks. I'm not sure why that is, but there are more baseline dire predictions recently than I have heard over years here. Yes, some marriages break up, but it has not been clear to me that hotwifing had much if anything to do with it. Certainly, with marriages ending in divorce 50% of the time, the vanilla lifestyle has little to recommend it in terms of promoting marital stability.

You have done best when you have just allowed yourself to relax and enjoy Samantha's emerging awareness and disinhibition of her sexuality. So perhaps you would do well to just relax and enjoy her blossoming.

Z

[Samanthasman]

Thx for the input guys...

I think my seeming surprising response to her seeming surprising comment is a result of how well I know this women. She's basically saying "we're good... Stop worrying..." In her own way.

She also reiterated "I'm fulfilling your lifelong fantasy exactly as you wanted...I'm fucking guys, a lot... I'm sending you hot pictures, videos, etc. And our sex life is off the charts. I'm having the time of my life, as you wanted me to, and you are the luckiest guy on this planet. Just enjoy this and don't worry - I know exactly want this is and is not. If this is going to make you feel bad, that's not good for you or us - we can just stop this whole thing right now! "

To which I responded "I don't think that's what either of us want"

Like I said, I know this woman, although she looks like a Barbie doll she thinks like a man. She always has. Although she likes being a woman and leveraging her feminen charms, when she walks in a room, like a man, she sometimes thinks "no... No... Maybe... Yum, yes!!... No... Maybe" while looking over the men in the room. (Just as most guys subconsciency do looking at women).

And, just as men are generally more able to compartmentalize and separate sex from love, so does Samantha more than I've ever seen another women do this. She's always been like that - like a man in that way. She reminds me that "I can fuck a guy and it can be hot and passionate and intense... But at the end of the day, I know what it is, it's the sanctioned affair you want me to explore within the boundaries we agred to. It is no more than that and I'm in control of the situation and my emotions, and executing within what we agreed to"... I've got my shit together...

Also, like a guy, she's never been one to want to talk a lot. She's 100% open and transparent and openly answers all of my questions and tells me everything she does and talks about with her lovers... But, after 30-45 minutes.. She starts getting annoyed that we're still talking about it. She just like that on all topics about everything. She's like a busy CEO (and she is a business owner also) that wants to discuss things completely but concisely and make decisions and move on... And not repeatedly go over things...

Even in the bedroom, she's a little like that. She's never been a huge fan of foreplay, like most women. She the one to say "stop this foreplay and start fucking me - now!!"

It could be much worse than to be married to a woman like Samantha

[mrfunone]

Good for Samantha! She gave you a reality check! Shes having fun! so are you! You asked for this and she is providing you with the ultimate fantasy and she is loving it! Sounds to me like she is complete control and you needed her to snap you back to reality!!

[BallSpanking]

She sounds like she is committed, and enjoying it.

[Samanthasman]

This week Samantha has a couple of dates scheduled with new people. Just first dates, which are not likely to include sex.

Of course she's also planning several dates with bill and Sid

In the mean time she had a minor setback. She sent her picture to a guy she was chatting with online and he wrote back "you're not really the physical type I'm looking for"... Are you fucking kidding me!!?? This was the first time since becoming a HW that Samantha has ever shown interest that has not been reciprocated. Since becoming a HW I have watched her confidence soar to new heights, and I'm sure this was a little bit of a hit... I'm sure she'll get passed it...

[Mr1SexyGILF]

... Her fantasy has to do with getting paid...

Sure hope you will keep us updated if there is any further discussion regarding this?

HOT, HOT, HOT

Mr GILF

[54321]

Maybe he felt a bit threatened - she IS a seriously hot babe.

No matter. The most important word is, "NEXT!!!!"

54321

[mrfunone]

Not all guys are looking for the Samantha type, some guys prefer women with a little size, I for one think Samantha is smoking hot! She ran into a guy that probably like heavy women, everyone has a preference. The next thing she needs to be ready for is the sexual disappointment, my wife drove an hour last week meet a guy, they had a drink and they talked, all was good, went to a hotel, at which point he produced a 4" dick and lasted for less than 5 minutes!!

[Samanthasman]

Not all guys are looking for the Samantha type, some guys prefer women with a little size, I for one think Samantha is smoking hot! She ran into a guy that probably like heavy women, everyone has a preference. The next thing she needs to be ready for is the sexual disappointment, my wife drove an hour last week meet a guy, they had a drink and they talked, all was good, went to a hotel, at which point he produced a 4" dick and lasted for less than 5 minutes!!

Wow - bummer!!!

Yes, Samantha sometimes jokes that the guys get to see pretty much everything before the unveiling, while the ladies have to wait. Some guys do share dick pics online, but Samantha is generally not attracted to guys that do. She has not gotten a tiny one... But she is hoping for a really big one at some point...

[Samanthasman]

Be careful what you wish for... I guess

OK.. we've been doing the HW thing for 2 months and Samantha is "all in"... she is basically fucking multiple times a week. She loves it, has a great attitude... is working very hard to keep everyone, including me, very happy and satisfied.

I suppose that no man on this forum could have asked for this to turn out any better

That said, I'll have to admit, that there is so much going on that the thrill is not quite what it was. What i mean is that after sending me pics, recordings, and even videos of session after session after session, she's kind of like "are you good??" and frankly I am for now. I mean, if you wait forever before you finally get this fantasy, it's incredible when it happens. But, then, if you get it like every day, it's still awesome, but I don't walk around with the bionic hard-on I used to get. It's more like "Oh, you're fucking who today??? Awesome... see you after..."

She has 3 lovers. One primary, Bill, who can see her pretty much anytime day or night. 2 secondary lovers, Sid and Jay, who travel a lot but want her at least once a week when they are around. Jay is new and still coming up to speed. Another, David, is working on seeing her...

Because she is spending time on multiple men, I'm a little less jealous about the infatuation with Bill. I mean it is intense when she sees him multiple days in a row, but then it seems to die down when she spends time with the others, which was my hope. Bill is also pretty smart in that he has cooled the texting and has told her to cool it with all the calls and email and texts between their meetings - as he knows this annoys me and he knows that a happy hubby will encourage his wife to have more fun. Correct! Samantha laughs that he and I are working together to cool her jets a bit.

Speaking of Bill, this guy is a pretty incredible lover. She made 2 videos that were the hottest sex videos that I have ever seen - hotter than any porn I have ever seen - by far!! The guy can fuck endlessly and relentlessly. He could be a porn actor based on him looks and stamina, but the kissing and passion is also off the charts! He told her that he never masterbates because he cannot get enough stimulation to orgasm. He can only orgasm from incredibly intense prolonged sex with a super hottie. I totally believe it. I've never seen someone fuck that intensely for so long without cuming. He's big and strong and fucks her like a rag doll (sometimes picking her up and bouncing her up and down on his cock) in position after position making her cum almost against her will over and over and over again. It's unreal.

Even when I'm jealous I sort of feel like: this is such an incredible sexual experience for her (as it would be for any woman) that I'd feel guilty denying her the pleasure. Is that weird? It's really not like the sex with me or the others.

Sooo... are their any experienced HW'ers out there that have any advice at this stage of our HW adventure??