Samantha Getting Started

[Samanthasman]

The Date...
Well, there was a plan for NOT having sex, and things did not work out that way

They met for drinks and flirted and Sam recited her list of 27 things that turn her on sexually. Some pretty explicit stuff. By the time she got though the list this young man could no longer stay in his seat and just about begged her to go back to her room. She agreed.

They made out and more, and ended up having sex. It sounds like the actual sex did not last long, and I suspect this poor guy was totally over stimulated by having a super hottie undulating beneath him after working him up to a frenzy. Sam did however have a few nice orgasms and enjoyed herself. She does like the guy.

She asked him for "more" but he had to run home to his wife (it was a very late date already).

We are both actually a little concerned that this all may have been a little much for this guy. He's young (20's) and confided that he's actually only been with 3 other women in his life, and one of those was a one-night stand. Yikes, Now he's got a super sexual hotwife on his hands. He is a very tall and good looking guy that is charming and intelligent, so all the right stuff for Samantha.

She's hoping he will become a regular, if he was not scared off, but I'm worried she might be too much for him.

Any advice out there on how to handle a young guy like this?

[BallSpanking]

Sounds like circuit overload... time will tell.

[casualfun850]

She should date non married guys. Much better.

[Samanthasman]

She should date non married guys. Much better.

I don't think either of us are really interested in non-married guys. We both like the fact that they have a full-time relationship/marriage and are not looking for one.

[casualfun850]

No drama with single guys

[bubbajack]

Sounds like some pleasant surroundings, some congenial conversation, and some good fucking between two attractive people - plus Samantha got off several times and wants to "see" (pronounced "fuck") him again perhaps even regularly - so what's not to like?

[rhinocat]

When Samantha speaks with him next will tell where his head is at. I agree, I think he got overwhelmed by her, make sure he doesn't fall in love!!

[Iamtheman]

Sounds like Bill is a distant memory and Samantha sees that relationship for what it was. Congrats and good luck with the new adventures!

[guiocopiano69]

I don't think my hotwife fantasy will work out. She has agreed and has removed her wedding ring to make it easy to attract the attention of a man. But, she wants a relationship with whoever he turns out to be. She mentioned the other day she probably won't tell me of their activities (no details). I would just know it happened. She also said she possibly would not have sex with me while the affair was going on because she would be focused on her relationship with him. So, all in all her interpretation of a hotwife relationship is pretty piss poor. The only enjoyment i would receive is the knowledge she fucked another guy with my permission.

[Samanthasman]

I don't think my hotwife fantasy will work out. She has agreed and has removed her wedding ring to make it easy to attract the attention of a man. But, she wants a relationship with whoever he turns out to be. She mentioned the other day she probably won't tell me of their activities (no details). I would just know it happened. She also said she possibly would not have sex with me while the affair was going on because she would be focused on her relationship with him. So, all in all her interpretation of a hotwife relationship is pretty piss poor. The only enjoyment i would receive is the knowledge she fucked another guy with my permission.

Sounds like you two need to go back to the drawing board...

You do need to compromise, in my opinion, but that's far too one sided.

You need to decide what your negotiables are and are not. I need detailes, reclaim sex, full disclosures, no omissions. I don't need mfm's. I can accept her having an emotional relationship.

You need to decide what you want.

I will add... Over time things change. At first my wife absolutely could not let me watch, but now she can...

[Samanthasman]

It's been a long time since I've posted on this thread...

Sam stopped seeing her main BF Bill in November after things got a little too heavy, and we've been just sort of hanging out. She does see Tommy from time to time. Another guy is pursuing her a bit, but nothing but emails.

She has been going to the gym absolutely every day. Her body rocks. It's amazing

I see her starting to get a little frisky again. She went out with some girls last night and told me that the boys at the bars we're definitely noticing her, and I think she liked it.

I think we may be gearing up for some heightened activities. She does miss Bill and would like to see him again as well...

[blndewifehubby]

She will find another guy she wants to play with, no doubt about it. She loves the excitement as much as you do. I know if it were me, I would not want her to see Bill again, keep that door shut, she will move on eventually. And yes, her body ABSOLUTELY rocks!

[stellers26]

Was excited to see you posted, wanted to see what was up, looks like that beauty of yours might be heating up again. Have to concur with above poster, you gotta b so over the "Bill" thing, unless you can get that situated the way you want.

[FNQLivin]

Seriously, why would you even think Bill was an idea? No no no!

[ejat69]

up@

[DavidnDaria]

I'm going to post this in my thread, too. This thread is excellent. It was recommended to me by another member who also posted in it during it's "live" time. It is an excellent resource from two very intelligent, yet loving people who want they want. I loved reading it. Thank you so much for sharing it.

Dave

[All4Jenna]

I would second Dave's comments but would love to hear more about how Samantha and S'man first discussed the possibility of getting into this lifestyle and that whole evolution prior to posting on CL. Also would love to hear more of what hubby is thinking and feeling during Sam's dates and overnites as well as when he first realized he had hotwife/cuckold desires.

Perhaps he posted those items prior and I missed but would appreciate knowing more of this hot, fascinating story. Thanks!

[Tnex]

SM, thanks for taking the time to keep this thread going. You asking questions and describing what is going on with your relationship has been very helpful. I've been waivoring whether or not to approach my wife about my HWing fantasies. Between what I've read on this thread and a few others I have decided that I couldn't handle HWing. I guess I will keep it my own little fantasy. She is very vanilla so I don't feel I'm holding her back from something she would want to pursue. Good luck in the future.

I'd still like to figure out how to read the "Thru the rabbit hole story" that was mentioned. No matter what I search on this site I never can find it. I also can't locate the picture thread that you started called I believe "Almost Newbie"

[Samanthasman]

SM, thanks for taking the time to keep this thread going. You asking questions and describing what is going on with your relationship has been very helpful. I've been waivoring whether or not to approach my wife about my HWing fantasies. Between what I've read on this thread and a few others I have decided that I couldn't handle HWing. I guess I will keep it my own little fantasy. She is very vanilla so I don't feel I'm holding her back from something she would want to pursue. Good luck in the future.

I'd still like to figure out how to read the "Thru the rabbit hole story" that was mentioned. No matter what I search on this site I never can find it. I also can't locate the picture thread that you started called I believe "Almost Newbie"

I do vaguely remember the story "thru the rabbit hole", however if you can't find it, it is because it probably was deleted. Sadly, threads that go about 6 months without activity are automatically deleted. I've had many of my threads deleted. If you specifically put a thread in the library, it is not deleted.

There is a website out there called something liked The Way Back (not sure of name) that keeps copies of old websites. It's possible their would be a copy there...

[Wolf]

Any chance you can post an update on your adventures? Is your sexy wife having any fun these days?

[tampajym]

Great thread. What happened? Is it over??

[coastalkid]

Is she still at it?

[seductionrules]

Bump

[maverickxxxxxxx]

Believe me - I'm totally listening SmilingHusband, but all you keep saying is "Danger - Danger!!" and don't get more specific on how to handle it. Other people say "go ahead... it will be ok", and still others have sent me messages saying "don't over-react and play it cool or you will just push her away and make everything worse".

I think it is good that posters get a variety of viewpoints when they pose a question on this board. The best responses are not necessarily those with the most similar viewpoints, but those that best explain their advice.

I don't think that Samantha's behavior indicates that she will fall in love with her FBs or leave her family, but rather that she has an enormous sexual appetite that needs to be fulfilled. My only concern about her behavior is that she is acting like a glutton, which is panicking her husband. If she is reading this board, I would advise her to slow down and not to spoil a wonderful opportunity. Savor the moment and celebrate every conquest with your husband before moving on to the next. My advise to Samantha's man is not to panic. A robust sexual appetite in a wife can be a very positive attribute.

Love reading your story. It's an amazing journey that you have. My wife had a boyfriend for 5 years and she enjoyed it very much. She reassured me that our family. Was the first and most important thing in her life, but I didn't want to keep her from having her fun so I let her enjoy herself and I showed her love and support. And appreciated her and enjoyed the experience with her. I hope you too, we'll be able to get through this. And get to where me and my wife have reached Love reading your story. It's an amazing journey that you have.