Another man loves my wife

[armyguyot1]

My wife says there is nothing sexier than a man with a running vacuum in his hand. That may be a stretch but there is some truth to it.

[submissivehusband]

Mark - I can't wait to hear.

Bob

[co-husband]

We have arrived at the hotel and are checked-in. Our room is near Brian's. Not adjacent but 3 doors down the hall from ours. Juli is in the bathroom right now so I'm just sending a quick update. I'll post more later when I'm alone.

The ride here was rather benign. I did insist that Juli sit up front with Brian so I sat in the back. They talked the whole way, but about different things. Some about the show tonight and some about normal stuff.
They didn't hold hands but I wasn't surprised because Juli is not one to show a lot of PDA even with me. Maybe holding hands or a quick kiss in public, but she doesn't like to make out for others to see, and she isn't one to show a lot of cleavage or wear a short skirt. She is a classy lady in public, but man....you get her behind closed doors and she is a little firecracker in bed! She knows how to light a man on fire! lol Brian is going to have a very good night :-)

Mark

[co-husband]

Also I need a little advice. I expect to post a few updates this evening and tomorrow to let you all know what's going on and also some of my thoughts as I go through this new experience. Should I just continue to post here or should I being a new thread?

Thanks,

Mark

[bradisalpha]

Also I need a little advice. I expect to post a few updates this evening and tomorrow to let you all know what's going on and also some of my thoughts as I go through this new experience. Should I just continue to post here or should I being a new thread?

Thanks,

Mark

Mark,

I believe you should post your updates here in this thread. You have a lot of followers wishing the best for you and waiting for the outcome of your adventure. If you start a new thread now it would leave this one incomplete and everyone looking for your new thread !!!

We are all excited and will be watching for your updates.

Just my thoughts .....

Brad

[D+D]

Stay here..

[co-husband]

It's now about 2 hours before Brian will be picking my wife up for their date. Juli is now in the shower getting herself ready. I can tell she is excited with just a little nervousness, probably like any first date with someone new. And this is the first date she has had in over 30 years. I know she is in there washing every part of her beautiful body for him to explore and enjoy. Her freshly shaven legs will be so smooth and silky to his touch. I know well how it feels to lay between Juli's thighs, so feminine and soft. Feeling her wrap those legs around her man's body and rubbing her calves over the bare skin if his ass and legs....feel as smooth as glass.



I'm sitting here almost in a stunned state of disbelief that this is really happening. I've read about husbands who get to know the intense emotions of sharing their wife so totally and intimately with another man. I honestly never dreamed I'd ever get to experience it myself. Seeing Juli today I think she is more beautiful than Ive never seen her before. There really is a glow on her face. And I know that my friend Brian has wanted to experience with my wife what I get to experience daily. To have her complete attention, and to know the ecstasy of how she can make a man feel sexually...is indescribable.



I will plan to write more throughout the night and keep you updated, but much of my posts tonight will be my personal thoughts and feelings. Like a first-time cuckold journal I suppose. I'm not sure how many will be reading this tonight, but you all have become friends to me and truly have helped me through this process to get me and Juli, and even Brian to where we are tonight.



Mark

[D+D]

There is a glow on a wife's face when she does this with someone that she really likes that is undescribable. Enjoy. Are you still excited, but in a strange kind of way?

[co-husband]

D+D yes exactly...I am very excited but in a much different way than I've ever felt before.

It's now 5:45 PM and Brian has picked up Juli and they are on their way to the dinner theater.
WOW..what an experience to see another man show up at the door and hand my wife roses, then take her by the hand and leave with her!

Juli looks awesome tonight. The dress code at the theater is "smart casual" according to Brian, and he requested that Juli wear a new sweater outfit that he says he really loves on her. So that's what she has on.

Before they left, Juli kissed me passionately (in front of Brian), a lingering kiss..and she asked me.."Are you sure you're ok?". I said "I'm great", and I told her and Brian to go have a good time and to "enjoy your night". I was hoping that was clear enough, that I didn't expect Juli back until tomorrow.

I love this! I don't know why but I feel a bit nervous myself. A little chilled and honestly shaking just a little. I assume that's a normal reaction to something this emotionally charged. It's not a bad feeling...I really am loving this, but the intensity is even more than I expected.

I'm going down to the hotel restaurant and have dinner alone. My mind will be thinking of Juli and Brian every minute! Trying to imagine what they're doing at that very moment.
I was able to get some pictures of Juli as she was getting ready, and I will post them after I get back from dinner.

My head is swimming lol...Sure would appreciate some feedback from you other husbands out there who know what I'm experiencing right now. And from you Alpha boyfriends or FBs. What is Brian thinking right about now?? Or from a hotwife..what is going thru Juli's mind??

Mark

[malnik]

Mark......I cant offer you much advice, only to tell you that like many others, Im here with you, my head is wondering about Brian as well.
As bull I am sure Brian is doing all the right things, the touches, the little kisses, holding hands.
I imagine mark, he is seducing her right now.

Keep talking.

Mal in the Uk

[D+D]

Well don't do what I did one night. A guy picked my wife up at the hotel at about 6:30 and whisked her away. I sat in the bar and drank and talked until pretty late. Stopping occasionally to read a text from her and to post on this forum. Before I knew it I got just a little too much to drink. But it was strange for her not to be with me when away from home and knowing that she was in bed with someone else. All kinds of strange feelings. Just didn't want to set in a hotel room alone. But it was still exciting because she was excited and I wish that I was in that same place tonight like you are.

[co-husband]

I'm in my hotel room and it's 8:50 PM. Brian and Juli will still be at the dinner theater now. The show should last another 30 minutes or so is my guess. They will probably be back at the hotel by 10:00 or 11:00 PM.

Juli took her bigger purse with her tonight. When she was in the shower I looked inside her purse and there was an extra pair of panties (red, silky), a tube of lubricant that she uses when we have sex, and also her bullet dildo (it's what she uses to get the lubrication inside her before intercourse). There was also panty liners and wet wipes. Looks like she is prepared for whatever.

I've been working and watching some tv...thinking ALOT about what they are doing now and what they will be doing when they get back to Brian's room. This is really an amazing feeling. So many thoughts going through my mind and in a way it seems surreal, like this isn't really happening. Don't get me wrong...I LOVE how I feel right now! There are things / feelings / thoughts that I didn't anticipate. Such as I've been thinking a lot about how intimate sex is between two people. Not just husband and wife, but Juli and Brian are going to share something tonight that no one...not even I will be a part of or can ever know fully. They will forever have this night to remember and to think about anytime they want to. They will be joined totally..physically but also emotionally, and nothing will ever take that away from them. And no matter how much I learn about the details of what they do tonight, I will never truly be able to have the same feelings that they will have, because it is just the two of them that will really experience it together.

Sitting here thinking about the reality of what they will experience is so awesome to me. Maybe I'm over thinking it..maybe some people can just fuck and move on..but I just have a feeling that Juli at least (I don't know about Brian) will enjoy not just the sex, but the intimacy of the sex.

I hope I'm making sense and not just rambling. Trying to put into words what I'm feeling is difficult because I have so many different thoughts going through my mind at the same time. Sharing my wife with another man is so incredible, I think I'm just trying not to miss out on ANY of the emotions of this experience!

Mark

[co-husband]

FYI..I have posted a couple of pictures of Juli as she was getting ready for her date. The pics are on the post "My Wife Juli".

[Frakkmywife]

Hey Mark,

Sorry for getting here kind if late to the party. It sounds to me like you're having one hell if a weekend so far. I'm so happy for you. I've followed your saga on here right from the start and I must admit I've been eagerly anticipating his night myself. Please share as much of tonight with us as you want. Please share all your feelings and emotions. It's hardly "rambling". I would love to be experiencing what your are right now.

I assume she's going to give you a complete, detailed report of her special night. It goes without saying I want to hear it all as well.

I'm so glad you're having a fantastic time.

[dali_23]

I hope tonight and all that ensues work out for you and your wife.


Sending Best Wishes.

[co-husband]

Thanks everyone! I just got a text from Juli and they have arrived back at the hotel. (it's now 10:15 PM). In her text she asked me if I was still alright. I said I'm doing great and I hope she and Brian enjoy their night.
So sometime between now and the next hour or two...another man will be having sex with my wife. It's hard to find the words to describe it! The intensity for me is amazing! All in a good way. I feel no regrets, and just knowing what Brian is about to experience with Juli makes me very proud to be her husband.

I'm very sure that she will spend the night in his room, so I will go to bed alone soon and probably lay awake for a while just thinking through all the possible scenarios of what they are doing every minute. I do hope that when I see Juli tomorrow morning that she will give me some details, but knowing Juli as I do, she probably will not give me everything I want to know. She is not one to "kiss and tell". She was always reluctant to tell me too much about the sex life with her ex husband, but I have been able to glean a lot of info from her over time by consistently asking questions and putting two and two together.

I'll tell you now that Juli and I usually have sex about 3 times a week. But this past week we were very busy with business and the last time we had sex was on Saturday. I'm pretty sure she didn't want to last night because she wanted to be "clean" for Brian tonight. And I'm great with that. So my abstinence this week has only added to my cuckold experience tonight. But I do hope to feel silky seconds tomorrow!

If I don't post anymore tonight, I will tomorrow morning, esp after I get to talk to Juli.

Mark

[Samanthasman]

wow

[zorro]

Co-husband, Juli and you will likely have wonderful memories of this evening she has had with Brian, memories that can last a lifetime. You have given her a wonderful gift -- perhaps the best of all gifts -- the right to experience her own sexual self. And she is showing a loving concern for your feelings, how all this is affecting you. Don't be surprised if you experience every feeling word in the dictionary through this time. It is an awesome, that first moment when your wife confirms that she really did fuck Brian. Your stomach may or may not drop (mine did), you may feel that everything has changed and then realize nothing has changed. But if you can remain non-judgmental, open, and listening to your own feelings and Juli's, this may be a time you can cherish forever. A time of becoming freer while together and bonded.

My best to both of you.

[bubbajack]

"... freer and bonded ..." as Zorro says - it's a value contrast, not a value contradiction! And thus it is more interesting and beautiful - with the little shots of discord making the harmony all the richer and sweeter - than a vast expanse of monotonic value, however well-practiced and smooth, can be ...

Being dead is the perfection of safety - utterly risk-free.

[thewalkernz]

This sounds like the perfect way to start. And her caring text checking if you were okay still? Man, she loves you so much, and she's giving herself to another man tonight.
She lookss a little like my wife too. This is such a turn on. Keep the updates coming. Will he have caressed her yet?

[D+D]

5:45 here this a.m. Had to see if she did the night. Guess she did. Mark it all has worked well for you. How could this be any more perfect? Happy for you
Congratulations! I'm not at all surprised. Will follow throughout the week-end.

[hwc]

Bravo! -and congratulations! Just read (devoured!) your whole, very well written, post in one sitting last night and I was holding my breath the entire time!

That the natural and unforced progression (by neither yourself nor your wife) towards a relationship blossoming between Brian & Juli, has culminated at this most romantic day of the year is surely fortuitous -and very promising. And a romantic relationship is what it seems to be foremost, I hope I am correct in that assumption? With that in mind, I wonder if, going forward, the analogy of a "mercy fuck" for Brian might not give way to something much more special, meaningful and, well, romantic. I know taking baby steps has served you well so far and there is no reason not to continue treading carefully, so that you are all sure you are getting what you want from this relationship -without anyone treading on any one else's toes - or getting hurt.

what I wanted to ask, is in light of the nature of the relationship so far, maybe you will consider allowing more than one date per week so that a true, genuine relationship might develop naturally? I wonder if you can see the possible benefits all-round for a less rigid dating schedule?

[co-husband]

Thank you all so much! I can now understand what you have been and are telling me about this experience. It really is a contrast of emotions, but in a very good way. My wife and I love each other totally, completely committed to each other. I never have had any fear of that changing. That's why and how I have been able to encourage the relationship between Juli and Brian to develop to this ultimate point.

The contrast for me is this....I have read and been told what it is like to be a cuckold husband. Now I know in practice and not just in theory. It's 5:40 AM and I woke up to an empty bed. My wife is in bed with another man! I'm sure she has given her body to him and he has enjoyed the full pleasure of her womanhood, perhaps multiple times. I won't know for perhaps a few more hours exactly what they did together last night.
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I say I am feeling the contrast because most husbands would not have allowed another man to first of all, go on lunch dates with his wife. Or to text her daily. Most husbands would have never allowed another man to tell his wife.."I love you" right in front of him. Most husbands would have confronted another man when they learned that he had invited his wife to go away with him overnight. And most husbands who knew that another man had his wife in bed, would have broken the hotel room door down to reclaim her.
But I encouraged Brian to date my wife. I meekly remained silent when he openly flirted with her. I was the one who devised and encouraged all 3 of us to come together on this Valentine's weekend to a hotel and him to not only take my wife out alone, but to bring her back to his hotel room for the night. I willingly slept alone in my bed last night, abstaining from sex, while this other man has enjoyed the pleasures of my wife's naked body, fully penetrating her and even ejaculating his seed into My Wife's womb! And the thing is...I LOVE IT! The Alpha Male has fully taken the cuckold male's wife! He now owns my wife's body. She may still be married to me, and committed to me yes. But the fact is..Brian owns Juli's body right now.

I am so aroused now. I honestly am in no hurry to reclaim my wife's body. I love knowing that her body belongs to Brian!

Mark

[co-husband]

hwc, thank you for your post! You're right that Juli and Brian's relationship developed emotionally first over several months. Otherwise last night would not have been possible. Juli would not have had sex with a man that she didn't have some kind of emotional bond with. It's not the strong marriage bond that she and I have grown into over 33 years, but last night truly was more of a mercy-fuck I believe. At least I think that's how Juli justified it in her mind.

We all 3 have our benefits from what happened last night. For Juli it was two-fold I think. She helped a good friend in the ultimate way, and she I know enjoyed the going out on a date with someone other than her husband, and I'm guessing the sex was probably good with Brian. He is an Alpha personality and Juli is naturally submissive. And my guess is that Brian is probably more well endowed than I am. I've caught Juli confessing over the years that she did like that feature of her ex husband. He was about an inch and a half bigger than me. I finally got Juli to admit that size does matter lol.
For Brian I know what his benefit is. Sex with the beautiful wife of another man, and likely Juli is his first sex since his divorce. I don't know that for sure but its my guess.
And for me...you can tell from my previous posts what I'm getting from this. And the other cuckold husbands and even Alpha Bulls who read these posts I know will fully understand.

Mark

[co-husband]

I received a text from Juli. She will be coming back to our room shortly. I'll keep updates posted as I can. Not sure yet what she/they have planned today, but will try to let you know what I find out about last night.

Mark