Something that absolutely fills me with angst, yet arouses me to no end is when my wife comes home after being with her Bull, or other guys, and in recounting their sex tells me something they did that she doesn't do with me. On several occasions, there have been things she's done with another guy that I have specifically and repeatedly asked for and been denied. I know part of it is that she is more comfortable saying no to me, as her husband and long-time partner. But I think part of it is that she gets excited by doing different things with other guys. Moreover, she gets excited at the thought of knowing she gets to tell me that she did other things with him.
I'm not just talking about kinky acts, I'm talking about some things that are pretty mundane and vanilla. For me, I get that excited, knot-in-the-stomach cuckold angst when she does things that she doesn't do with me, or even certain things that I thought she only did with me.
I realize this little mental purge is meaningless without details, so here are some specifics:
- I try frequently to get her to shower with me and fuck in the shower. She always has an excuse not to. Don't get me wrong, we have done it over the years, but it's been a long time. She came home from a recent "date" and told me she and the guy fucked in the shower and that it was incredibly erotic. It gives me angst thinking about how she denies me the opportunity to be the one to provide that erotic experience for her.
- The first time she gave another guy a BJ. She does this with me plenty, but for a long time it was something that was supposed to be "special" between us. I think we've lost all of those "special" boundaries.
- Giving a guy head to get him hard again for a second round. If I can't get hard again on my own, then we just won't do it again. But she's put in the effort with others to get them going for round 2.
- Kissing her Bull after he ate her pussy. I've done this with her, but typically she turns away and doesn't let me kiss her. With him, she kissed him passionately.
- After her Bull fucked her, he pulled off the condom and had her lick the dripping cum off his cock. She has never put my cock in her mouth after fucking, and certainly didn't do it back when I used to wear condoms with her.
- After fucking, she dozed off with her head on her Bull's chest. Now, this is something she does with me all the time, but it's something I would have thought she only did with me. I was pretty shocked at her comfort level with someone else.
Those are but a few examples that I can think of off the top of my head. I know there have been others over the last few years. And, as is probably typical of a cuck, I have fantasies of her doing even more things with others that she doesn't do with me, for instance:
- FMF threesome with her Bull
- Letting another guy take her ass (she does this with me, but not very often at all)
- Licking and sucking his balls. She's done it with me, but only when I asked.
- Rimming a guy. She would never do this with me. I don't think she would with anyone, which is why it would be so hot to me if another guy got her to do it.
- Letting her Bull share her with other guys (in a gang-bang or, even better, just sending her out on dates with others)
Again, there are certainly more examples than this, if I really sat and thought about it for a while. Perhaps I'll add more in time. And please, if you have similar thoughts, experiences, fantasies, by all means share them!
Do unto others, what you won't do for hubby
Re: Do unto others, what you won't do for hubby
Oh man, I forgot about the O.G. of things she does for him (others) that she doesn't do for me. Pictures!
She had absolutely refused to ever take sex pics or naked pics of any kind, not matter how hard I tried to convince her. That is, until she met and started flirting, texting and sexting with another guy (who eventually became her Bull). He got her to send him naked pics and now she'll take pretty much any kind of dirty pic he wants. Not only had she never done that for me, she still doesn't take pics just for me.
She had absolutely refused to ever take sex pics or naked pics of any kind, not matter how hard I tried to convince her. That is, until she met and started flirting, texting and sexting with another guy (who eventually became her Bull). He got her to send him naked pics and now she'll take pretty much any kind of dirty pic he wants. Not only had she never done that for me, she still doesn't take pics just for me.
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OOAA
Re: Do unto others, what you won't do for hubby
Excellent post!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! CongratsTether wrote:Something that absolutely fills me with angst, yet arouses me to no end is when my wife comes home after being with her Bull, or other guys, and in recounting their sex tells me something they did that she doesn't do with me. On several occasions, there have been things she's done with another guy that I have specifically and repeatedly asked for and been denied. I know part of it is that she is more comfortable saying no to me, as her husband and long-time partner. But I think part of it is that she gets excited by doing different things with other guys. Moreover, she gets excited at the thought of knowing she gets to tell me that she did other things with him.
I'm not just talking about kinky acts, I'm talking about some things that are pretty mundane and vanilla. For me, I get that excited, knot-in-the-stomach cuckold angst when she does things that she doesn't do with me, or even certain things that I thought she only did with me.
I realize this little mental purge is meaningless without details, so here are some specifics:
- I try frequently to get her to shower with me and fuck in the shower. She always has an excuse not to. Don't get me wrong, we have done it over the years, but it's been a long time. She came home from a recent "date" and told me she and the guy fucked in the shower and that it was incredibly erotic. It gives me angst thinking about how she denies me the opportunity to be the one to provide that erotic experience for her.
- The first time she gave another guy a BJ. She does this with me plenty, but for a long time it was something that was supposed to be "special" between us. I think we've lost all of those "special" boundaries.
- Giving a guy head to get him hard again for a second round. If I can't get hard again on my own, then we just won't do it again. But she's put in the effort with others to get them going for round 2.
- Kissing her Bull after he ate her pussy. I've done this with her, but typically she turns away and doesn't let me kiss her. With him, she kissed him passionately.
- After her Bull fucked her, he pulled off the condom and had her lick the dripping cum off his cock. She has never put my cock in her mouth after fucking, and certainly didn't do it back when I used to wear condoms with her.
- After fucking, she dozed off with her head on her Bull's chest. Now, this is something she does with me all the time, but it's something I would have thought she only did with me. I was pretty shocked at her comfort level with someone else.
Those are but a few examples that I can think of off the top of my head. I know there have been others over the last few years. And, as is probably typical of a cuck, I have fantasies of her doing even more things with others that she doesn't do with me, for instance:
- FMF threesome with her Bull
- Letting another guy take her ass (she does this with me, but not very often at all)
- Licking and sucking his balls. She's done it with me, but only when I asked.
- Rimming a guy. She would never do this with me. I don't think she would with anyone, which is why it would be so hot to me if another guy got her to do it.
- Letting her Bull share her with other guys (in a gang-bang or, even better, just sending her out on dates with others)
Again, there are certainly more examples than this, if I really sat and thought about it for a while. Perhaps I'll add more in time. And please, if you have similar thoughts, experiences, fantasies, by all means share them!
What about the pregancy risk.......? Have you ever fantasize she plays it with her Bull?
Re: Do unto others, what you won't do for hubby
We don't play the pregnancy risk game. She always uses protection with others. Don't get me wrong, I understand the breeding risk fantasy, but it's not something either of us want to mess around with.OOAA wrote:Tether wrote:
Excellent post!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Congrats
What about the pregancy risk.......? Have you ever fantasize she plays it with her Bull?
However, I do fantasize about her bringing home someone else's cream pie.