Why are you a Hotwife?

redhed · Unread post by **redhed** » Sun Nov 15, 2015 9:33 pm

Unread post by **Poptart** » Mon Nov 16, 2015 11:47 am

Because I love everything about it.

Unread post by **Liese** » Mon Nov 16, 2015 2:19 pm

I love being lusted for and knowing that I'm desirable to others; and it sure spices up the marriage, on so many great levels.

Mrs E · Unread post by **Mrs E** » Tue Nov 17, 2015 4:19 am

Poptart wrote:Because I love everything about it.

Ditto.

bozzieb · Unread post by **bozzieb** » Thu Aug 01, 2019 11:09 am

I'm a hotwife because I love to fuck men with large cocks. My husband is less than 5". I have several lovers, each over 9". I love to humiliate my husband by making him wear a cock "cage" while he sucks off my lovers. I've successfully turned him into a queer & he loves it. Soon I'm going to introduce him into the sissy lifestyle.

ambershere · Unread post by **ambershere** » Thu Aug 01, 2019 11:46 am

Leaving out boring details of what led up to this lifestyle I"ll say it was something he wanted me to try(there was no pressure) and after several meets and like seriously noooo not you!!!! Soooooooooo finally finding what i wanted and desired (a connection and some chemistry) and over coming what i felt as guilt it was fun,enjoyable,sexy andddddd everything and some. It has now progressed to the point where the lifestyle has opened up a new me and new never ventured avenues of sexual adventure and me coming to grips with my sexuality. So i just want to add we are in this together and it works for us. I am also very sure you will read many different reasons and versions of how's and why each got into this,KEEP in mind there is NO Right or Wrong its what they want from it.. The end.

Unread post by **2inUPMichigan** » Thu Aug 01, 2019 12:35 pm

Being a hotwife has uncovered a part of me that was hidden for years.
I'm able to put aside the every day stresses and just be me, a woman, for a period of time and explore my sexuality.
I am more comfortable with myself, more confident and more content with my life.

Unread post by **Farmgirl** » Thu Aug 01, 2019 7:08 pm

I really like the " Because I love everything about it " .

feetuji · Unread post by **feetuji** » Fri Aug 02, 2019 12:33 am

Poptart wrote: ↑
Mon Nov 16, 2015 11:47 am
Because I love everything about it.

Please could all of you(giving the quoted answer) give more details?

What is "everything"? Make a list of things you enjoy :-)
Thanks

Rag51top · Unread post by **Rag51top** » Mon Aug 12, 2019 6:08 am

How about the OP answering the question for us.

iwish · Unread post by **iwish** » Mon Aug 12, 2019 12:29 pm

2inUPMichigan wrote: ↑
Thu Aug 01, 2019 12:35 pm
Being a hotwife has uncovered a part of me that was hidden for years.
I'm able to put aside the every day stresses and just be me, a woman, for a period of time and explore my sexuality.
I am more comfortable with myself, more confident and more content with my life.

My wife needs all of that. She puts everyone else first. She has never done things for herself and, I think, she has missed out on a lot because of it. Particularly exploring her sexuality.

Unread post by **2inUPMichigan** » Mon Aug 12, 2019 2:13 pm

iwish wrote: ↑
Mon Aug 12, 2019 12:29 pm

2inUPMichigan wrote: ↑
Thu Aug 01, 2019 12:35 pm
Being a hotwife has uncovered a part of me that was hidden for years.
I'm able to put aside the every day stresses and just be me, a woman, for a period of time and explore my sexuality.
I am more comfortable with myself, more confident and more content with my life.
My wife needs all of that. She puts everyone else first. She has never done things for herself and, I think, she has missed out on a lot because of it. Particularly exploring her sexuality.

That was me too, always looking out for everyone else so much so that I forgot to look out for myself.
So many times right or wrong we think that is what is expected, to put ourselves last.
Now I'm carving out some time to just be me and explore this side of me - it's fun and exciting and scary at times.

I think it is a good thing that you have recognized that need in her. Sometimes we don't always recognize it in ourselves as we have pushed aside our own needs and desires for so long out of habit.

Out4fungirl · Unread post by **Out4fungirl** » Tue Aug 13, 2019 7:25 pm

Wow, I guess I’d have to say because I love everything about it.

D+D · Unread post by **D+D** » Wed Aug 14, 2019 12:16 pm

I hope that this doesn't come across bad, but I notice that the most response is, it turns my husband on. That is probably true for most of we cuckold husbands and probably why most wives do this to start with, but somehow it bothers me. I know my wife first did it because of me, but I hope that's not why she continues. I just wouldn't want her to keep it up just because she wants to make me happy. I would only want it if she really wants to because it makes her happy and she does it for herself. Otherwise, I want to stop. I've talked to her about this before, but I think we need to talk again. Hotwives you know more than we do and those who have responded clearly do it because you find great self satisfaction as well as pleasing your husband, but do others that you visit with and who don't respond, do it mostly to please their husband?

Lakeland Lady · Unread post by **Lakeland Lady** » Fri Sep 06, 2019 7:58 pm

I have always had sexual urges that no one man could satisfy.
I have found a man who encourages me to go with men, finds my exploits exciting to hear, and loves for me to admired in revealing clothes.

ErikaPeter · Unread post by **ErikaPeter** » Sat Sep 07, 2019 3:59 am

D+D wrote: ↑
Wed Aug 14, 2019 12:16 pm
I hope that this doesn't come across bad, but I notice that the most response is, it turns my husband on. That is probably true for most of we cuckold husbands and probably why most wives do this to start with, but somehow it bothers me. I know my wife first did it because of me, but I hope that's not why she continues. I just wouldn't want her to keep it up just because she wants to make me happy. I would only want it if she really wants to because it makes her happy and she does it for herself. Otherwise, I want to stop. I've talked to her about this before, but I think we need to talk again. Hotwives you know more than we do and those who have responded clearly do it because you find great self satisfaction as well as pleasing your husband, but do others that you visit with and who don't respond, do it mostly to please their husband?

I did check off the turning on husband box, but it is not my primary reason by any means. My main reasons are that I love having a variety of sexual partners, and, perhaps this is shallow, but I enjoy being the object of attention and desire.

D+D · Unread post by **D+D** » Sat Sep 07, 2019 8:31 pm

ErikaPeter wrote: ↑
Sat Sep 07, 2019 3:59 am

D+D wrote: ↑
Wed Aug 14, 2019 12:16 pm
I hope that this doesn't come across bad, but I notice that the most response is, it turns my husband on. That is probably true for most of we cuckold husbands and probably why most wives do this to start with, but somehow it bothers me. I know my wife first did it because of me, but I hope that's not why she continues. I just wouldn't want her to keep it up just because she wants to make me happy. I would only want it if she really wants to because it makes her happy and she does it for herself. Otherwise, I want to stop. I've talked to her about this before, but I think we need to talk again. Hotwives you know more than we do and those who have responded clearly do it because you find great self satisfaction as well as pleasing your husband, but do others that you visit with and who don't respond, do it mostly to please their husband?
I did check off the turning on husband box, but it is not my primary reason by any means. My main reasons are that I love having a variety of sexual partners, and, perhaps this is shallow, but I enjoy being the object of attention and desire.

Thanks for replying and no, it's not shallow at all.

arrangedmarriage · Unread post by **arrangedmarriage** » Mon Sep 09, 2019 7:50 am

I'm not a hotwife yet, but if I did become it would have to do with the fact that I've never been with a man other than my husband and I'm a bit curious. Also I miss the "honeymoon phase" of our marriage when things were more exciting and that seems to have faded away.

Des 31 · Unread post by **Des 31** » Wed Sep 11, 2019 7:04 am

My wife could have checked off almost all those choices.

NinaAndDaryl · Unread post by **NinaAndDaryl** » Thu Nov 14, 2019 12:29 am

D+D wrote: ↑
Wed Aug 14, 2019 12:16 pm
I hope that this doesn't come across bad, but I notice that the most response is, it turns my husband on. That is probably true for most of we cuckold husbands and probably why most wives do this to start with, but somehow it bothers me. I know my wife first did it because of me, but I hope that's not why she continues. I just wouldn't want her to keep it up just because she wants to make me happy. I would only want it if she really wants to because it makes her happy and she does it for herself. Otherwise, I want to stop. I've talked to her about this before, but I think we need to talk again. Hotwives you know more than we do and those who have responded clearly do it because you find great self satisfaction as well as pleasing your husband, but do others that you visit with and who don't respond, do it mostly to please their husband?

I call BS. Yes, most hotwives (not all) get into it with the help/ support (pressure) of the hubby. It eases guilt and helps them feel "pure and selfless" by saying to please my husband. The fact is, they know it pleases hubby so that does give them permission. But the main reason a wife is a hotwife is because she loves having her pussy pounded by other men. A dick without drama (no kids, no bills, no dirty dishes), just fucking.

D+D · Unread post by **D+D** » Thu Nov 14, 2019 7:39 am

NinaAndDaryl wrote: ↑
Thu Nov 14, 2019 12:29 am

D+D wrote: ↑
Wed Aug 14, 2019 12:16 pm
I hope that this doesn't come across bad, but I notice that the most response is, it turns my husband on. That is probably true for most of we cuckold husbands and probably why most wives do this to start with, but somehow it bothers me. I know my wife first did it because of me, but I hope that's not why she continues. I just wouldn't want her to keep it up just because she wants to make me happy. I would only want it if she really wants to because it makes her happy and she does it for herself. Otherwise, I want to stop. I've talked to her about this before, but I think we need to talk again. Hotwives you know more than we do and those who have responded clearly do it because you find great self satisfaction as well as pleasing your husband, but do others that you visit with and who don't respond, do it mostly to please their husband?
I call BS. Yes, most hotwives (not all) get into it with the help/ support (pressure) of the hubby. It eases guilt and helps them feel "pure and selfless" by saying to please my husband. The fact is, they know it pleases hubby so that does give them permission. But the main reason a wife is a hotwife is because she loves having her pussy pounded by other men. A dick without drama (no kids, no bills, no dirty dishes), just fucking.

Thanks for your kindness. I just related what the poll showed. Otherwise I believe I said the same as you.

early-kink · Unread post by **early-kink** » Fri Nov 15, 2019 5:05 am

Although not a hotwife yet,(and maybe never?) my wife is much the same as iwish described in the Aug. 12th post. She does nothing for herself - just for her - and I believe she would benefit from trying some new things. She has given to all, and she deserves more for herself. My efforts at pampering her are not enough in my estimation.

I wish my wife would soak in some of Erika Peter's view of wanting to be the source of desire for guys. My wife lacks confidence, despite all my positive support and affirmation. If my wife had a few guys trying to go out with her, I know she'd feel much better about herself. What woman wouldn't with guys chasing her??

afagehi7 · Unread post by **afagehi7** » Fri Nov 15, 2019 9:44 am

early-kink wrote: ↑
Fri Nov 15, 2019 5:05 am
Although not a hotwife yet,(and maybe never?) my wife is much the same as iwish described in the Aug. 12th post. She does nothing for herself - just for her - and I believe she would benefit from trying some new things. She has given to all, and she deserves more for herself. My efforts at pampering her are not enough in my estimation.

I wish my wife would soak in some of Erika Peter's view of wanting to be the source of desire for guys. My wife lacks confidence, despite all my positive support and affirmation. If my wife had a few guys trying to go out with her, I know she'd feel much better about herself. What woman wouldn't with guys chasing her??

I agree. I think women view themselves as they view other women. They don't realize how simple us men are. If her manicure isn't the best a female will notice and possibly be critical whereas men probably wouldn't notice that she even had her nails painted.
If she acts sexy and owns what she has (age, weight, whatever) that's what we find attractive. I think overall women are more critical. Plus, I think it's known that women generally have better attention to detail.

sara c · Unread post by **sara c** » Wed Apr 08, 2020 9:51 am

I’m a hot wife because I love sex with different younger men. Case closed

Hooker · Unread post by **Hooker** » Wed Apr 08, 2020 10:18 am

Lovely, I also crossed cause it excites hubi but then also another three. He is part of it, but its mainly about me. As to why we'd have to dign into my history and what each aspect of all this does this fulfill and satisfy. Am I happy? Yes. Would not trade.

Who's my best friend? Hubi. Who has me covered, safe fulfilled and happy? Hubi. So...works for both of us.

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