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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by Wookie » Fri Jan 09, 2015 5:02 am

Then what is the nature of her discomfort?
Andrea, especially, is uncomfortable.

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by Righteous » Fri Jan 09, 2015 8:06 am

Wookie wrote:Then what is the nature of her discomfort?
Andrea, especially, is uncomfortable.

Oops! Now I see what you were asking. Andrea's a bit uncomfortable about Jenn and me writing about her on this site. This whole thing is all new to her, and while she understands that one of the things going on in this thread is trying to help others, she still is worried about her privacy. That's all. And she may come around about that. There are signs. Her husband, on the other hand, is a complete horn dog and loves reading about his wife, and especially, my wife (he obviously has read everything on here about her).

Anyway, that's mostly the reason I haven't written much about subsequent times we've all gotten together.

Sorry for being so dense. I should have looked at my earlier post again before answering your question!

Rob
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The recounting of my wife's university affair: http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=28088
And what has happened more recently: http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=30613

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by Wookie » Fri Jan 09, 2015 8:14 am

LOL no problem ma. - makes perfect sense!

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by ExcitedImagination » Sun Jan 11, 2015 2:51 pm

We can understand Andrea's worry about her comfort shell. Jennifer would have probably found a similar analysis of her by Marc or describing her feelings as they happened to be too quick a change from her prior self image. STILL... If she ever finds it sexy to let the story out, we'll be here to enjoy the account of it. Most importantly, we hope that all four of you continue to delight in your friendship.

If Jennifer decides to play again, please tell us about it. And may the two of you continue to feel the enhanced sexual excitement you've found

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by encourageher » Mon May 25, 2015 8:24 pm

Hey Rob,
Its your one year anniversary from Jenn's text that began your adventure. Care to give us an update of your continuing adventures?
Cheers, Jim

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by Righteous » Tue May 26, 2015 3:27 am

The short answer is that there's been a lot going on. The long answer is that Andi (I had been spelling her name wrong, and I guess after reading something I'd written on here, she decided to tell me. Embarrassing...) really didn't feel all that comfortable with me talking about it here. I've hidden everyone's identities as well as I could, but there are some clever people out there, and well, she asked me not to talk about it on OHW.

Because we live over an hour apart, we don't see them as much as we might, but in a way that's good. Whenever we can get schedules to coincide, our time together is that much more intense. Andi has opened up a lot, Jenn has a lover with her ideal cock, and I get to enjoy a very different experience with my lover. I'd like to go into specifics, but I promised I wouldn't.

We've also been dealing with our daughter's sexual awakening with her first boyfriend. Also being a redhead like her mom, it's been a tightrope walk. Jenn has always been a very fierce mother and she and our daughter have grown very close. It's not that we're against her going all the way with her boyfriend, but we've been counseling that she wait. Her guy is not the aggressive type, but you know how things can escalate, and Brittany is a very curious young lady. If she wants birth control, we will, of course, help and support her, but the long and short of that is that Jenn in a very frank talk told her that masturbating her boyfriend can diffuse intense situations and gave her some tips. Knowing my wife's manual abilities, I'm sure that the situation is well in hand -- at least for the moment (pun intended). It was tough for both females to find their way to the frankness of their discussions, but Jenn feels confident that the lines of communication are wide open. I stay out of it completely and the only thing slightly underhanded is that Jenn has been keeping me as up to date as I need to be while telling Brittany that what they're discussing is staying between themselves. Understood is that it will be my turn when our son gets more interested in girls than sport. Our goal with both of them is that we give them some understanding of how relationships work and how sex is just a part of that. We don't want them learning about sex from porn movies. That's why it seems such like a tightrope walk. Kids DO NOT want to think about their parents' sexual lives. :o

Between Jennifer and me, things are lovely. Because of Ron, she is now incredibly open and much more demanding with me. It's funny because she's more submissive with Ron. Andi is also becoming more demanding in her own way, and that's good.

So, life is good. If Andi ever relents, there have been a few eye-opening things that have happened and I will tell everyone about them if I can. Sorry to be coy!

Rob
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The recounting of my wife's university affair: http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=28088
And what has happened more recently: http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=30613

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by MrLust » Tue May 26, 2015 9:09 am

Fantastic to hear from you righteous. Love the relationship you have with Jen and hearing about your lives together. (We're going through something similar with our teenage daughter and may get MrsLust to have a similar conversation with her!) I hope also that Andi allows you to share some of the details about your relationship and those of Jen and Ron? That first weekend you had with them was so hot to read about! Thanks also to encourageher for bringing up the anniversary, I had no clue what he was on about until I read back to page 1 of this thread. Your wife is fantastic. Just wow.

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by 54321 » Tue May 26, 2015 9:23 am

It's an emotional thing, of course. I have no idea where you live or what you do or where you go so how could i know anything about 'Andi'. Indeed, is that her real name? I have no way of knowing. But if she feels uncomfortable, then that's the way it is. It's all perfectly understandable. I hope that over time she does become more relaxed and at ease with it all.

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by vicg » Tue May 26, 2015 9:26 am

Righteous, your story is my favorite of all time on OHW, and a big part of the reason is that it features not one, but two awe-inspiring women. Jen and Andi are so very different in their personalities and backgrounds, but I admire and lust after them both.

There's so much I'd love to know, but I completely respect Andi's position. Just know that an appreciative audience is here if she ever changes her mind.

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by enjoyherlife313 » Tue May 26, 2015 2:19 pm

Righteous wrote:Morning update:

They made love slowly and lovingly once during the night. They had talked for a long time after I last heard from her. Most of it was about sex and how to make love. She was definitely trying to show him things why playing sexually should not be all about finishing. The trip to that gets you to that point is just as important, possibly even more important. She said he was beginning to get it.

This morning, they only had time for a quickie (a quickie for Jenn is usually in the order of a half hour). She let him have her in the missionary position and took great pains to let me know how it felt. When I imagine her being taken, this is the position that turns me on the most, so I know why she did it.

He wants to see her again (of course!) and she is considering it. She says he's very different from me and that her tryst has been "quite refreshing and informative" (this is her analytical side kicking in). All in all, she sounds very mellow and satisfied, and pleased with herself. That's exactly the headspace I hoped she'd be in. This whole thing seems to have gone very well.

And no, I didn't get much sleep. All night long I was wondering what my lovely Jenn was doing. I hope one of these days I'll get a chance to see her make love to someone else. Obviously I never saw her with Marc (but through her fantastic written accounts I almost feel as if I was there), and when she gave herself to our friend, both felt too weird to have me watch. I did get to listen to them the first time, though, and that was definitely hair-raising!

So I'm happy for her. Funny thing was, when we first met I was one of those extremely jealous guys. One extra benefit of her affair with Marc is it made me realize that being possessive can often do more harm than good. Marc opened Jennifer's eyes to the power of her sexuality. I've been the beneficiary of that power many, many times. I know that she's mine and I'm hers. I don't own her, though, as she doesn't own me. If the events of the last day pleased her, then I'm pleased too. The residual heat from this event is going to keep us both warm for many months to come -- or should I say to cum?
It doesn't get any better than this. This is what hot wifing is supposed to be all about.

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by Righteous » Tue May 26, 2015 7:23 pm

If someone had told me a year ago that things would have gone in the direction they have, I would have said they were dreaming.

As our kids had gotten older and our lives as a couple (as opposed to parents) had opened up again, Jennifer had gotten more interested in sex again. That's not to say she wasn't (when the timing was right), but I could see there was a new swagger to her. She confessed that occasionally guys would come on to her, and while she never took them up on it, it gave her confidence that she still had "it". Silly girl, she always had, but like many women, she couldn't see it. This is someone who looks at least ten years younger than she is.

Then I found that video and everything took off in a hurry. After so many years of straightening things out between us, she felt confident that doing what she did (getting together with Paul to make her own video) would turn me on and raise the amplitude (as it were) between us. It wasn't as if she went off, did her thing and came back home to lay it on me, but I had no idea ahead of time what she had in mind from the beginning. It's amazing that it all turned out as easily as it did.

Then, out of the blue, our longtime friends became something much more. I definitely didn't see that coming, and I don't think Jenn did, either, certainly not the way it played out. She knew far more about them than she ever let on (through a lot of girl talk with Andi), but the way things happened last summer was a shocker. Andi was definitely the catalyst for that. (She continues to surprise me. Actually, she surprises all of us.)

As for our daughter, we all knew the day was coming when we would have to worry about her sexually. We want both of our kids to know the joy of sharing sex with someone you love or care for deeply. But you can hardly come out and say that, now, can you? Since they were born, we've talked about how to handle this very critical moment in their lives. All we can logically do is hint and guide them a bit. Like I said, neither Jenn nor I wanted them to get their sexual education from watching hardcore porn, nor did we want them to experiment in very random ways.

During a chat with Brit, Jenn saw her opportunity, and although it started out very awkwardly, things were said on both sides that opened a lot of doors. Even through Brit's TMI moment with her mother blurting out that "a lot of problems can be handled by a good hand job", information was gradually shared in a very mature way between them. They've always been like two peas in a pod anyway. Our daughter is already a real heartbreaker, but she's also got my more sensible streak, too. It's so awkward dealing with this stuff with your own kids. How do you say enough and still remain appropriate? Jenn has done brilliantly. When the time comes (and let's hope it's way down the road, we now feel much more confident that Brit will make the right decisions for herself.

Anyway, I don't mean to pat ourselves on the back for all of this. Everything that's happened seems totally accidental in so many ways.

Ain't life funny?

Thanks for the comments today, everyone. You're very kind.
It's true what they say about redheads…
The recounting of my wife's university affair: http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=28088
And what has happened more recently: http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=30613

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by enjoyherlife313 » Wed May 27, 2015 7:06 am

Righteous wrote:If someone had told me a year ago that things would have gone in the direction they have, I would have said they were dreaming.

As our kids had gotten older and our lives as a couple (as opposed to parents) had opened up again, Jennifer had gotten more interested in sex again. That's not to say she wasn't (when the timing was right), but I could see there was a new swagger to her. She confessed that occasionally guys would come on to her, and while she never took them up on it, it gave her confidence that she still had "it". Silly girl, she always had, but like many women, she couldn't see it. This is someone who looks at least ten years younger than she is.

Then I found that video and everything took off in a hurry. After so many years of straightening things out between us, she felt confident that doing what she did (getting together with Paul to make her own video) would turn me on and raise the amplitude (as it were) between us. It wasn't as if she went off, did her thing and came back home to lay it on me, but I had no idea ahead of time what she had in mind from the beginning. It's amazing that it all turned out as easily as it did.

Then, out of the blue, our longtime friends became something much more. I definitely didn't see that coming, and I don't think Jenn did, either, certainly not the way it played out. She knew far more about them than she ever let on (through a lot of girl talk with Andi), but the way things happened last summer was a shocker. Andi was definitely the catalyst for that. (She continues to surprise me. Actually, she surprises all of us.)

As for our daughter, we all knew the day was coming when we would have to worry about her sexually. We want both of our kids to know the joy of sharing sex with someone you love or care for deeply. But you can hardly come out and say that, now, can you? Since they were born, we've talked about how to handle this very critical moment in their lives. All we can logically do is hint and guide them a bit. Like I said, neither Jenn nor I wanted them to get their sexual education from watching hardcore porn, nor did we want them to experiment in very random ways.

During a chat with Brit, Jenn saw her opportunity, and although it started out very awkwardly, things were said on both sides that opened a lot of doors. Even through Brit's TMI moment with her mother blurting out that "a lot of problems can be handled by a good hand job", information was gradually shared in a very mature way between them. They've always been like two peas in a pod anyway. Our daughter is already a real heartbreaker, but she's also got my more sensible streak, too. It's so awkward dealing with this stuff with your own kids. How do you say enough and still remain appropriate? Jenn has done brilliantly. When the time comes (and let's hope it's way down the road, we now feel much more confident that Brit will make the right decisions for herself.

Anyway, I don't mean to pat ourselves on the back for all of this. Everything that's happened seems totally accidental in so many ways.

Ain't life funny?

Thanks for the comments today, everyone. You're very kind.
This kind of disclosure of life's personal events in the life of someone who participates in this hot wife lifestyle is refreshing. I personally would like to read more of these real life events and how they are handled in the midst of this lifestyle. Hubby and I have dealt with very similar situations with our son and it has all turned out just fine.

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by funcpl477 » Sat Oct 24, 2015 1:29 am

We have enjoyed your posts very much...

It has been a long time. How are things?

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by Righteous » Sat Oct 24, 2015 7:45 am

funcpl477 wrote:We have enjoyed your posts very much...

It has been a long time. How are things?
Things are fine. Andi became uncomfortable with the fact that I (primarily) was talking on OHW about things in which she was involved and asked me to stop posting. I am honoring her request.

I don't think it would be out of bounds to say that while we don't get together as couples as much as we'd like, we do see each other when 'the itch' needs scratching, Jenn and Ron more than Andi and me. (And before someone asks, I had been spelling her name incorrectly throughout the story. I feel like such a doofus! :???: )

So, thanks for asking, but the curtain has been drawn -- at least for the moment.

Rob
It's true what they say about redheads…
The recounting of my wife's university affair: http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=28088
And what has happened more recently: http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=30613

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by LarrynDallas » Sat Oct 24, 2015 3:39 pm

I respect Andi's desire for privacy. Thank you so much for sharing as much as you have. I just discovered your story today and I it is a bitter sweet discovery. I wish I could have enjoyed the journey with you as you posted but I am also glad I could read non-stop and not have to wait in suspense. Both of you are excellent writers and I encourage you to explore that talent more in any way possible.

Best wishes.

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Unread post by Lensman2000 » Sun Oct 25, 2015 8:30 pm

If the boundaries change and it's once again OK to post your experiences and wisdom here for us; just know that many relate to your stories and find them not only arousing, but helpful.

Thanks

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by funcpl477 » Mon Oct 26, 2015 12:28 am

It is good to hear from you. Thanks for the update, though it is a bit bittersweet, it is good that you honor your wife's request. We hope you will check in from time to time and also have your thread moved to the library, where it will stay - hopefully to be continued at a later date.

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by Righteous » Mon Oct 26, 2015 8:17 am

Glad you all understand. But just to clarify, it's Andi who's asked me not to post, not my wife, Jennifer. In fact, I'm still trying to coax her to sign up here and become verified. Jenn's not really the "joining" type, but I may wear her down over time. :P

Now, if the embargo is ever lifted, I will be happy to let everyone know what's been going on!

I didn't know that threads in the Library don't go away. If that's the case, Mr. Moderator, could you move this thread to the library? That way I can add to it when the time comes.

Many thanks!

Rob
It's true what they say about redheads…
The recounting of my wife's university affair: http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=28088
And what has happened more recently: http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=30613

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Unread post by allengt » Sat Nov 21, 2015 12:58 pm

Moved to Library at request of OP.
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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by Ltnmn » Sat Nov 28, 2015 5:15 pm

I want to thank you both for sharing your experience.
I was tempted to post earlier, but forced myself to finish both stories. I'm glad I did, because all my questions were answered in the end.
You've stated that you started posting as a way to help others. You'll be glad to know that it has helped me tremendously. I've been tempted to nudge my wife into the lifestyle, but was always affraid of her doing something with another guy, before experiencing it with me. You've shown me that, through communication, that too can be overcome. No sense on having her explore her limits and then begrudging her actions. For that I'm grateful to you both.
I wish you a lifetime of happinness

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by Righteous » Sun Nov 29, 2015 4:19 am

Thank you for that. I'm glad we were a help to you.

I think what is at the base of our relationship is our understanding that we don't "own" each other -- especially me owning her. All we we ask for of each other is timely, honest communication about the way we're feeling and what we're doing. Too often on OHW (and other boards) I see husbands who are controlling their wives even while they're supposedly giving them more freedom. Jenn is with me because she wants to be with me and she works at it, even while she may be fooling around with someone else. Ditto for me. But I agree with most others on here. Regardless of what situation you are comfortable in, good communication is absolutely essential.

Best of luck to you too, my friend!

Rob
It's true what they say about redheads…
The recounting of my wife's university affair: http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=28088
And what has happened more recently: http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=30613

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by 54321 » Sat Feb 27, 2016 3:48 pm

So things have to be kept on the 'down low' with Andi... ah well.

But in the meantime, is there any chance of another passionate sonata with Paul or any other hot young players? :D

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by encourageher » Sat Feb 27, 2016 4:34 pm

This story of this couple's sexual journey has captivated me from the first time I read it, as well. Their story and experience is somewhat different than most, I think. First, Jenn's experience with her lover occurred when she and her marriage was young. She came out of that affair (ultra torrid one, at that) with a completely redefined persona as to who she was as a woman and discovered her full sexual potential through it. She was able to bring her new self awareness into her marriage relationship to make it more or less "monogamous with chocolate syrup". When the time was right (ie., kid's older and more independent) they realized that they could now step outside the box of vanilla wafers. By then, they were very mature and realistic as to who they were as individuals, what they believe in, and what they wanted to get out of their extra-marital relationships.

Theirs is really an ideal love story that would make a great novel or movie. I'd be in the front row seat for that one!

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by 54321 » Sun Feb 28, 2016 11:14 pm

Roll 'em! :up:

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Re: Completely blown away

Unread post by Hotwifeok » Mon Mar 28, 2016 6:14 pm

Righteous wrote:I'm trying to talk her into writing it up herself. I'd love to get her on this site, but I don't know if that will happen. She was not very happy that I posted about her Sunday adventure, even though I have taken pains along the way to "blur" things that might identify her. Jennifer is a very private person. If you were to meet her, you would probably never guess about this other side to her personality. Last evening she did read this thread and didn't seem as pissed off afterwards. But at the outset, I should have told her what I was doing. She's right about that. It's just that I was on this roller coaster and didn't have anyone else I could talk to. Thanks to the community here for listening and commenting. I was having a very hard time staying calm and that's unlike me.

More very soon. Jenn had a most excellent time with Paul. And then there's some editing to be done on her story.

As for future trysts, she feels that it was fun, but she doesn't want to make a regular practice out of it at this point. She might see Paul again, she might not. She is of the mind that "whatever happens, happens".
I think that is what makes Jen so hot. Conservative on the outside and hot slut on the inside. And the use of slut is intended to be a positive term. It is NOT a negative term. No one but you really gets to know what is on the inside and that is hot.

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