Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by Dreamer » Tue Sep 30, 2008 7:23 am

Wow, Ive been a long time follower of this thread and while I dont usually post - with this occasion I couldnt resist at least once.

As many of the people before before have stated this thread has reached a new level of...I dont know what, but its there! :D I can only imagine the emotions both of you are feeling in what it is for both of you - reality. As much as the sex (or the making love) between mrs_reese and D would excite you reese to incomprehensible levels from now on, thinking of the moments before and after those sessions would also be mind blowing as well.

Say soon or in the future when they are all alone, after already extensive hours of passionate love making and intense orgasms that at the end they are able to hold each other in a tight embrace, with their rhythmic breathing, slowing and synchronizing as they rest their hot, sweaty and exhausted bodies falling asleep in each other's arms. Or when they eventually wake up together to greet each other with some comfortable pillow talk, stretching their bodies and then begin their playful fondling, just enough time for D to gather his sense/energy and slowly yet assuredly climb on top of his girlfriend - his lover, where mrs_reese would be waiting, willingly and naturally opening herself up for him, pulling him in to enter her once more - together agreeing with unspoken words the mood and agenda for what would be another full day (and perhaps night) of inhibition-free time alone together.

With the simple thought of such a scenario, many a man would find themelves breaking inside while being utterly thrilled - not knowing the right way to feel. Though I imagine that is the sort of sensation your craving for right reese? You both are entering territory that is exciting to all but I assume few have dared to tread.

Anyway, sorry for the rant. Thank you for keeping the people here posted, and good luck to both of you at satisfying all your desires and fantasies.

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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by reese » Tue Sep 30, 2008 8:31 am

Hey everyone!
Whew........what a night yesterday!

Dreamer.......your 1st ever post! Are you a poet or romance writer! Your words captured my feelings exactly!
Right ON bro!

Hwc.............This is the thing, my wife and I are more solid that anyone reading our thread could ever imagine.
Just about every day.............my wife uses the safe word! My wife uses it on me, asking if everything is OK..........she asks if I have had enough! Our agreement is to say the word! If I dont reply with the safe word...there are NO limitations!
I dont usually have to use the safe word on my wife! She usually states her intentions and feelings and that grounds ME! Through her, I know when there might be trouble or problems!

Remember.............in order for all this fantasy and alternative lifestyle to work, I have to keep it very real! If at any time I know that my wife is playacting or going thru the motions....then this isnt fun anymore!

This is fun! That is the bottom line!
Once it becomes disappointing or a burden, its over!

My wife feels the same way!

I trust her and I trust that she will deal with this emotional roller coaster the way that we agreed!
Did you all know that my wife has more male emotions than most women!
SHE can just fuck! SHe can just walk away after both orgasm1
SHe usually does, with me and all her lovers!
I cant tell you how many times she will ask me "ok baby, can i go to the bathroom as I lay inside her right after an orgasm! Same for her lovers...some have told me that she does the same thing!

GOOD FOR US!!

SHE can seperate her emotions!

our love it intense!!


With all that in mind, HWC.................I want to answer your question in another manner.

My hw and I both want her relationship with D to go to a very high level>
I want her to feel love for him and vice versa.
I am pushing this lifestyle to the highest level!
I need for them to feel that!
I need this to be real!
Not a playacting game or "just a fuck"!
My fantasies and sexual stimulus depends on my hw and D having an intense relationship.
My hw knows that she can deny me,.....she can tell me" NOT TONIGHT BABY"...........".i only want D, or I had a lot of sex with D lately and I am too sore"..............I want her to push those relationship boundaries!

My hw asked me if I can handle all of this!

YES....................YES!!!

She told me this morning when we spoke on the phone that she will GO as far as possible with D.
She will give herself to him completely with ME falling behind! She told me that there is a love feeling b/w both of them that never left them. SHE told me that with D, she has a perfect world! No marital issues...just hot sex and companionship! SHe told me it would be impossible to NOT want to be with D everyday! That is her goal, to have D in her life daily! We are still discussing this option! D may spend most nights at our home. With her daughter, we will explain to her that he is our friend and that HE is renting a room at our home. Again...NO panic yet.......this is just in a discussion mode! When i am with my son, D will not be present. Due to the age of her daughter, she is too young and innocent to even realize our situation! Our main focus is.......................privacy and our children(our number one priority)
Our only rule is that I will never be denied my wife...............i will not ever NOT have sex with her.

Our next focus is to possibly have D cum inside her and deny me that act!
My wife wants me to cum in a condom, believing that it will make all this more intense for me!

Remember this everyone............THIS WILL END!
I guarantee you................I will never lose my wife!!!
We are ONE!

NO worries!

I love this life right now!!!
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by reese » Tue Sep 30, 2008 8:50 am

One more thing and then I have to go:

Can any hotwife husband relate to me about last night?

No adding a little spice to this statement...but I want all of you to know how I felt once there was a knock on my door late last night after I last wrote my post b/f heading to bed.

I was naked in bed. Her shoes to me face, her panties right next to me...the sexy female scented panties are what I bring to my face b/f orgasm.
Knocking on my door. I quickly pull the covers over my throbbing cock.
Just to be safe....there is a slight level of embarrassment when there is a knock on the door and you are stroking your cock!
My hw walks in.....towel on...but stripping naked once the door was shut!
D is the perfect role player...him and I are tight...he never takes my male role away...but when he is with my wife....he takes charge...and its cool with me letting him do that! Not all the time though(lol)

My wife hands me a cherry...coated with wetness. WTF?
I had no clue that would happen. She told me that she is so hot for her bull...and that he felt sorry for me and wanted to share his last cherry with me.
This cherry was coated with her wetness and his cum she told me.
She lowered the covers past my cock..and told me that I was being a dirty boy, stroking my cock while she fucks D.
She asked me if this is what i want as I was eating the cherry! She told me no matter what I say, this is the way it will be from now on! I stroke my cock and lick his cum out of her pussy...and HE gets to fuck her all the time!
She mentioned that I will fuck her every now and then and that I must wear a condom from now on!
D immediately told me that THIS IS THE WAY IT WILL BE FROM NOW ON IF I AM allowed to fuck HIS PUSSY!
My wife told me that whatever D demands that she will follow his word!
She told me that D was fucking her roughly and that after I cum, D will be going back to make love to her.
As her man!
WOW................OMG...................I was throbbing!
D told me to lick his pussy clean.....I immediately did as instructed....as I was licking ......my HW told me to stroke my cock......SHE never touched me....within seconds....I was spilling every ounce of my manhood all over my hands and bed!

My hw licked my hands.....and got up right away.....................and that was that!! D grabbed his lover by the hair and told her to leave my room! They walked away never saying a word; closed the door and left!

My heart raced to another intense level!!
Never sure how far WE will go with this lifestyle.

BUT this morning, I thanked my WIFE...............FOR FOLLOWING MY INSTRUCTIONS PERFECTLY.

YOU ALL MUST KNOW THAT THIS WAS MY REQUEST!
WRITTEN...BUT NEVER DISCUSSED!
THAT IS OUR SECRET!
IF i WANT MY WIFE TO ACT OUT...IT IS WRITTEN.
DISCUSSING MY FANTASY WILL TAKE ALL THE EXCITEMENT AWAy!!

TALK TO YOU LATER!!
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by mrs_reese » Tue Sep 30, 2008 9:27 am

Baby, i just read your posts.
ummmmmmmm, your my man baby! You always must remember that!
But I want to tell everyone here that my lovers cum is still leaking from me, baby, you have to do a better job of cleaning me up! Now my panties are stained with his cum again baby!
I guess that I will just have to wash them tonight :whip:
Will you do that for me baby?
Will you do that tonight?
While d comes over again later after 11.
Or do you want them AGAIN!!!!! Because you cant have me again tonight baby.
You told me not to pre-arrange anything anymore! :roll:

My hunch is that you better not wash those panties b/c you wont be having sex with me again TONIGHT baby!! :whip:
d texted me and told me to tell you that you cant ever have my pussy again.
It is d's and I love giving it to him :cool:

sorry baby, this is what you asked for!
ps/ no safe word today, you cant have me.
dont be mad baby!
this is what you asked for!
tonight, i will be home before you, i will have your care package ready in the spare bedroom...then I will be taking my daughter to her grandmas for her overnight visit and then i will be home late, dont wait up, and please be sleeping in the spare bedroom, do whatever you have to with your cock and your urges! It's too bad you gave up your pussy, your cock was so good for my pussy! you know that i love your cock/ but right now, I love d's more and i dont need yours :whip:

love youuuuuuuuuuu//

your wife :roll:

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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by BallSpanking » Tue Sep 30, 2008 10:48 am

One of these days, Ms reese, you may just forget to take your little pills and D will impregnate you... :whip:
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by mrs_reese » Tue Sep 30, 2008 12:12 pm

my ballspanking friend, you would think that is hot i bet??? :whip:
having my lover fill me with his sperm! that is why you are so naughty too.
yes, that is a pic of d.
an old one of e also.
i thought i would open up some photos that i had blocked.

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Tue Sep 30, 2008 2:24 pm

TY ;) :whip:
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Unread post by BallSpanking » Tue Sep 30, 2008 2:26 pm

PS-

There's always RU486 (the day-after pill) :whip:
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by OneDayAtATime » Tue Sep 30, 2008 6:35 pm

Not flaming you Reese but being frank. I won't beat around the bush. Be as blunt back as you wish.

:shock: OMFG,i never would have thought that D is now the Alpha Male lover of your wife and you're subserviant. It certainly appears that way. You're freely giving up your status.I never thought you'd allow another man to tell you what to do. You certainly have changed going from fucking twice or more a day to jacking off to her clothes and only licking his creampies. This has to be temporary or you'd have to go crazy!





I never realized you prefer denial, being teased and thinking about your wife with another to fucking your wife. There are those on here who do and its working for them. Maybe sexual intercouse isn't that important to you.

You actually enjoy concentrating on your wife with D this much. :???: This isn't frustratingly agonizing for you?

You know how to control your jealousy and emotions. Having him there six days a week. more or less, is to much to soon IMO.

Jacking off to her clothes and licking creampies has to be only temporary.

Hell,you do live only once so why not try everything. Thats why i thought you certainly would go through spending the night with L. Why not try this also and you still have quite a few more things to dabble into.

You may trust D ,however i hope with as much time you're willingly spending away from her,you and the Mrs. have talked about how he may grow to view your wife. She may fall in love and even if its not as strong as your bond,can your emotional feelings deal with that?

You can say and believe one thing but never say never.What happens if you push to far and you still won't use a safe word?

Then i read this
His biggest concern is that now that I have committed to D, that I will constantly cuckold him.
Be careful what you wish for.Sounds like its happening. There needs to be some balance or Mr Reese will be finding a permanent place in the spare bedroom. ;)

D should pay room and board also. If he's going to be sleeping in your bedroom with your wife,make he needs to pay as a provider also. He's like the second husband and as such should dish out his money.

This isn't my cup of tea so take my advice with a grain of salt,buddy. :cool: I couldn't begin to understand this high, luckily,you have those on here who do. :up:

This is all about you and your turn ons,i realize that.

D is as lucky as you can be.

Its your personal life and we just are reading about it.


I think this is in the wrong forum now,not that it matters.

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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by reese » Tue Sep 30, 2008 6:43 pm

Oneday..........you have to read b/w the lines my man!
That is the bottom line!
This isnt going to last!
We are living the moment.
Tomorrow...............Wednesday...........my wife and I will be home all day...
and I guarantee............we will have sex in the morning and afternoon.
D is here right now.........at my urging.......nothing will ever happen without my permission!!
Please dont be lead to believe that I will be a true cuckold........or that I will be forced to masterbate in the bedroom while D takes over my home............and that I will pay all the bills while D lives in my house and eats my food...oh yah I forgot..........and fucks my wife all day and night.

WE are all role playing..........and at my urging ...............i want it as fucking real as I can get it.
Once D forgets his place....or once D forgets to role play as I direct him.....ITS over!
That is the bottom line!!

My wife and D are alone right now.........again, I want this.........it is part of my fantasy.........but at any given moment I could put it to an end!
If D doesnt think that.........or if D thinks that HE has the upper hand..............
Then I will fight to the death defending what is MINE!!!
RIGHT NOW.........ITS ALL GOOD!!

THAT IS THE BOTTOM FUCKING LINE!!

LOVE YOU BRO!!
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by Open2it » Wed Oct 01, 2008 3:23 am

I think what the Reese's are doing is discovering ways to supercharge their marriage and this current form of play is just to help them better understand what and where the boundaries are. Keep in mind that: 1) sex is only one component of a marriage; 2) sexual stimulation is mostly mental; and 3) the submissive partner in D/s is the one with the most power because they can stop the games at any moment. If you read carefully between the lines, everything Mrs. R. is doing is what R. has requested. He is in the driver's seat even though he has outwardly given a pseudo sense of control to Mrs. R. and D. He may not know the specific details of what will happen but he can pull the plug at any moment.

For her part Mrs. R. is the consummate actress in that she knows exactly how to push his buttons and the envelope to breath life into the play. I have no doubt she has some feelings for D but I believe her feelings for her husband trump those every time. At the same time she has helped Reese grow and try things he claimed he would never try, eliminating some phobias along the way. This is the essence of communication at play and using fantasies for growth.
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by mrs_reese » Wed Oct 01, 2008 7:32 am

open2it,
my hubby and I are sitting here/we both took the day off!
both he and I again thank-you for your honest comments.
We both agree that your wisdom has helped us understand a lot more about this lifestyle.

Now about today:

D again spent the night.
We kind of has sex....let me explain!

My husband knocked on my bedroom door late and asked if he could talk to us.
He asked both of us a question that needed an answer:
Was this new lifestyle fun!
D told my hubby a thousand times that he is the luckiest man around. He re-assured my husband that he will be exclusive to me and that d and I will have a lot of fun. D also confirmed that he wants this to last as long as possible.
my hubby asked about our weekend trip.
he told us that he is excited about us going away now that we are boyfriend/girlfriend.
he asked that we continue to make this as real as possible.

last night, as he was leaving, d suprised my husband and I and told my hubby to sat on the edge of the bed.........d asked me to suck his cock. I looked at my hubby and again told him that since this is what he wanted, i will do whatever d tells me to do! I could see the smile on my hubbys face. He was being denied again, it has been a few days since we last had sex. I took d's cock, and after a few strokes/his cock was deep in my mouth, i could feel D tense up.
I was staring at my hubby while doing this.
D orgasmed in my mouth, swallowing most of his sweet cum, i pulled my hubby over to me and told him to kiss me/yes, i gave back some of my lovers cum to my hubby.

that was all, I told my hubby to leave the room so that d and I could spend the night together again!
my hubby told me this morning that he didnt masterbate/ i know what that means!

SO here we are sitting her today, and i cant wait to be his wife today. Just me and my hubby.
I promised him to give myself to him/ i will!
we are going out to lunch and my only guess is that my man will take me back to our bedroom and re-claim me. This is why i do lifestyle, to be reclaimed by my husband, its time! I am craving his manliness right now.
i can smell sex on him, i can sense his eagerness.

xoxoxo

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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by reese » Wed Oct 01, 2008 12:02 pm

Its 4pm, my wife and I had some alone time....we forgot about D and L and just focused on US.
WE were intimate, making love and feeling our orgasms was a satisfying feeling for me.
My point is.................WHEN i can reclaim my wife LIKE I did today.......it makes all my fantasies worthwhile.
I can live out my fantasy and not worry about losing my wife to D.

I must admit, I am very anxious and nervous about my wife leaving with D this weekend. It will be the first time that they have done this...............we all remember that they spent a holiday away from me....but that was not as boyfriend and girlfriend......just FB'S.

This weekend............all those horrible feelings will be messing with me.
For the 1st time in a long time, I dont want her to go.
I want to call this off.............but I cant do that!
It wouldnt be fair to play with her emotions.
This is my GIG.....................THIS is MY fantasy.........AND I demand this of my wife.

Tonight will be the last time that we make love. Tonight I want to fuck her....hard and with total aggression.
Our love making this afternoon was good.................but tonight, that passionate aggressive husband will take his wife!
Iwill make this night very memorable since it will be the last time that I have my wife until Sunday evening!
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by OneDayAtATime » Wed Oct 01, 2008 5:51 pm

Ok,when she talks like she does on here to you its how she turns you on. :up: I get it.

I wouldn't push so hard about things sometimes though as your wife has even expressed on here you do but hey i'm sure this has been discussed inside and out between you to. What do i know anyway. :lol:

If you survive this denial and going without for periods of time,i'm sure a vacation will be long overdue. :D I think you're insane for doing the b/f and g/f with him spending all this time with her but you know what gets you excited. Re-claiming her must be thrills of a lifetime for you and a roller coaster waiting. We all have different sexual urges and needs.

Since you're being denied starting tomorrow,i would stay clear of her until you have to watch her daughter right before she leaves. Stay occupied. Make her wonder what you're up to.

So are they going to an undisclosed place at his expense?

Will she text,call,video or contact you this weekend?


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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by killahurtz » Wed Oct 01, 2008 7:01 pm

Mr. Reece

You are a very lucky man!!!!

I have been following the thread for way too long. You and Mrs. R shock me every time I check the forum. I am sure the sex between you when you reclaim her is beyond crazy.

I hope you guys are real, if you aren't don't tell me otherwise, i would be heartbroken.

Anyway, I don't have any advise to offer up, never been in that situation. I just wanted to comment that your posts get me though the day; very hard everyday. I am a FB to some women, and I love it. I would fly to wherever you guys are to meet you and Mrs. Reece, sex or not. You guys are so hot!!!!

Keep it up and please keep posting!

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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by reese » Thu Oct 02, 2008 5:31 am

Hi Killa,
Yes we are real. We have been married for 3 yrs, together for 5. We are parents, both employed, and have a very loyal loving marriage. We will never lose perspective with all this hotwife play, WE are a married cpl, but live out our lives fulfilling my husbands fantasies/ along the way, I have developed some fantasies as well.

We live in the Midwest. Who knows, one day, maybe you will meet me :cool:

I leave with D on Friday morning.
I cant wait!
I may not be able to post, but I told my hubby to be sure to report to the forum over the weekend! :whip:
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by reese » Thu Oct 02, 2008 11:45 am

kjeld,
This is reese.........if I may answer some of your questions:

This was my idea from the start.
My wife was very reluctant......and NO was the answer for a while.
But she loves attention........and I thought of a plan that would encourage her to take a chance with this lifestyle.
IT worked from the get go!
Never did she look back once this started!
I wrote about it in some very early posts: I will recap;
I found a potential fb thru CL.
We talked a while.
I interviewed him........taught him a lot about my HW. I needed to trust him.
I told him this isnt about sex.........its about seduction...flirting...and role playing...........sex comes last.
He agreed. WE met at a bar...she had no clue. He came up to us as planned..we talked sports after she left for the restroom..she came back....we shared drinks...she listened...i threw out some inuendos....sexual talk...asking him if she thought he was cute....vice versa...we talked sex...she drank liquor...i told her hot hot it would be to watch her dance...he left to the bathroom...i told her that this is so hot...my fantasy is coming true...SHE had no clue that I set this up.....they finally danced...she was terrified...looking back at me scared to death...i smiled..whispered to her how much i love her and how proud i was of her....she felt more comfortable soon after....I walked up to them as they were grinding to the music..told him to kiss her...he did...she was again terrified...i told her to LET GO..............i told her how hot she looked...told her that SHE is my ultimate fantasy...finally she let go...kissing him..rubbing up to him...feeling his cock....deep kissing....my cock was exploding by the second...I felt so much angst!!!
We left to our suv....told her to sit in the back with him...she did...she looked at me and said...GO GET SOME FUCKING CONDOMS, I KNOW YOU WANT ME TO FUCK HIM....I ALMOST SHIT...........BUT I DID....AND WITHIN 10 MIN HE WAS FUCKING HER WHILE I WATCHED JACKING OFF......HE PULLED OUT TOLD HER TO SUCK HIS COCK SO HE COULD CUM...SHE LOOKED AT ME WITH TEARS IN HER EYES...AND I WAS READY TO CALL IT OFF...BUT SHE GRABBED HIS COCK AND SUCKED HIM OFF AS HE ORGASMED IN HER MOUTH..SHE SWALLOWED EVERY DROP OF HIS CUM....ONCE HE LEFT...SHE BROKE DOWN..AND THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO LEAVE HER.

THAT IS HOW IT ALL STARTED.
IT TOOK ABOUT ONE MONTH TO LOVINGLY ASSURE HER THAT SHE WAS MY WORLD...THAT I WAS SO PROUD OF HER....I HAD TO REPROGRAM HER....SHE WAS A DEDICATED WIFE....AND NOW SHE FELT THAT SHE CHEATED...MY BIG TEST WAS TO NEVER EVER THROW IT IN HER FACE....EVERYTIME WE TALKED ABOUT WHAT HAD HAPPENED..I TOLD HER HOW PROUD I WAS OF HER...THAT SHE WAS MY FANTASY...MY DREAM COME TRUE..THAT I LOVED HER MORE FOR DOING THAT...OUR SEX WAS INTENSE AFTER THAT NIGHT...I WAITED ON HER HAND AND FOOT...TELLING HER THAT SHE WAS MY HOTWIFE ANAD THAT I WOULD DO ANYTHING TO MAKE HER LIFE HAPPIER SINCE SHE FUCKED THAT GUY FOR ME.

THE REST IS HISTORY.
BE VERY CAREFUL TO NEVER EVER MAKE HER FEEL GUILTY FOR PLAYING.
IT IS ALL YOUR IDEA....BE A BIG BOY AND SUFFER THRU THE JEALOUSY AND IN SECURE FEELINGS.

DO NOT EVER THROW THIS LIFESTYLE IN HER FACE.


MRS' FANTASIES...I WILL LET HER EXPLAIN!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by BallSpanking » Thu Oct 02, 2008 11:55 am

:up: Reese! :whip:
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by reese » Thu Oct 02, 2008 1:33 pm

kjeld,
Mrs reese is shopping...she is going to tease me and show me what she plans on wearing out friday night with D.
Oh....someone asked awhile ago about D and who was financing the trip.
I would never fund a trip for D and my hw. If he chooses to take her away............and i give my silent permission, he is on his own.
I dont even buymy hw her outfits for D to enjoy...that is why the mrs has her own job and if she feels free to spend, she will.

Back to kjeld....one last thing about honesty.

I didnt tell my wife about this guy.........NOT right away.
I was after she played with a fun guy she met in Vegas while we were on vacation. I told her that I set her up with this guy she had played around with in Vegas.....and while having a laugh, she asked me if I ever set her up before.
That is when I confessed to her about the initial set up.
SHE LAUGHED it off....calling me a fucker in her playful manner.

But, I knew that it would be ok to NOT TELL her right away.
This hotwife lifestyle wouldnt have happened if I would have told her it was a set up.
I knew my wife would be ok finding out later.
That is why it is so impt to make sure you pick the right guy.
You both are virgins to each other.....BRO...do not set her up to fuck! Set her up to have a guy flirt with her only...plant the seed......have him buy her a drink.....leave for the bathroom and then at the pre-arranged moment, have him approach her.....IT can not be sexual that first night.
THE Mrs did have sex that first night..but she wasnt my virgin...and plus, she flirted around for me before that intial hotwife night...but back then...she would only flirt and NOTHING More...she was too timid and scared to carry it on further....hence..................HER HUSBAND HAD TO TAKE THE INITIATIVE!

Lets face it,..... the hotwives in this forum did not start off as whores or sluts.....haha...they might be now with their husbands blessing...but I am pretty sure that most wives are started off very loyal to their marriage vows...women are not programmed like men....they are about emotional connections...WE Just love to GET OFF!!!
YOUR WIFE PROBABLY NEEDS TO BE PUSHED LOVINGLY BY YOU TOWARD THAT PATH OF HOTWIFING....MAKE A SACRIFICE....DONT LOOK AT IT AS LYING TO YOUR WIFE...LOOK AT THIS SITUATION AS TAKING THE 1ST STEP...THINK OF YOU WIFE AS A CHILD AT CHRISTMAS TIME, OPENING HER GIFTS AND THANKING SANTA CLAUS NOT HER DADDY FOR THE GIFTS. WE LIE TO OUR KIDS DONT WE??? BUT IT IS FOR THE RIGHT CAUSE! EVENTUALLY WE INFORM THEM THAT WE ARE THE SANTAS......

MAKE SURE YOU TELL HER HOW SEXY SHE IS ALL THE TIME...HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER...HOW SHE IS YOUR FANTASY...HOW SEXY IT WOULD BE FOR YOU TO WATCH HER SEDUCE A MAN, KISS A MAN, DANCE WITH A MAN...ETC.

does this help???
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by Softail » Thu Oct 02, 2008 5:02 pm

Reese,
Have you considered a Chat session this weekend while your wife is away? Something like a talk show maybe? All of your followers could ask you questions about how you are handling things and details of how this works. I would think it would help keep your hands off your dick Friday and/or Satuday night - saving you some anguish. Sunday, You have football, (and I have Nascar) to stay busy with.

thoughts?
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by reese » Thu Oct 02, 2008 5:53 pm

softtail...thanks for the suggestion...one day i would like talking to you guys... But Friday I am going to some highschooll football games with a few good friends...then boys night out and lots of flirting with hot women...saturday I am going to a college football game and out with a lot of friends with the after the game stuff...lots of drinking and women also...and then FOOTBALL SUNDAY....I will be very busy this weekend.
I have to keep my hands off myself before it falls off.

Sunday, my wife will be coming home alone...and after kids are in bed....I WILL FUCK THE HELL OUT OF HER>>>IF I let my orgasm build up for 3 days...I wlll be a maniac...just the way she likes it.....she asked that I dont jackoff b/c she wants a mouthful of my cum,.....then after resting she wants her pussy filled later....a lot of expectations she has for me on sunday night. I just might give up the Sunday night football game for her pussy.

Softail...ONE day IT will be fun, I look forward to talking to you.....Have FUN with NASCAR sunday.
GO BOBBY UNSER...........LOL!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by BallSpanking » Thu Oct 02, 2008 6:06 pm

Not sure what all she'll be doing with D, but she might just be 'sore'...., or claim to be... :whip:
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by OneDayAtATime » Thu Oct 02, 2008 6:34 pm

BallSpanking wrote:Not sure what all she'll be doing with D, but she might just be 'sore'...., or claim to be... :whip:
She may be to tired and sleep all night like she did that one time.



At least Reese isn't going to sit around at home waiting for his wife.

I hope he gets a lot of tits flapping around his face at the strip club. He should do that more often. :up:

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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by Softail » Thu Oct 02, 2008 6:42 pm

Looking forward to it (the chat).
BTW I got Kyle Petty to autograph my cap last weekend. I hope to do his charity Bike Ride someday.
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by reese » Sat Oct 04, 2008 5:40 am

Yesterday, my wife and her lover/boyfriend left on a weekend trip to Chicago.
She told me that D plans on taking her shopping on Saturday and booked a honeymoon suite.
I know the honeymoon thing is to keep me on my toes......with her teasing and making this fantasy of mine as real as possible.
I asked her not to check in with me too much............I am full of angst and doubt right now. I want to fuck her so bad.....and I am not getting OFF, I want to save my orgasms for her. This is new thing for me....not getting off.
She called me this morning to tell me hi and that she was thinking about me. She told me how much fun she is having and thanked me for moving to this point in our hotwife lifestyle.
She also told me that D fucked her in the jacuzzi last night...........a first for her.
I am not a water/sex guy.
Today, they will shop while I am attending a college football game.
I miss her...........I am going thru a serious bout of jealousy right now...and its all because of my crazy need to fulfill my fantasies about my wife and a lover.
What is wrong with me?

talk to you all later.
Reese!!!!
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