bradisalpha wrote:It seems that you are understanding the difference in addressing an Alpha BF the way many others do. I find it very common that once he has submitted totally to me that the word "Sir" flows out voluntarily by itself. I don't know that I ever had to tell a submissive cuckold to call me anything.. Once he reaches a certain plateau he naturally begins calling me Sir... And my name is no longer used in his cuckold state.CuckedDude wrote:I always felt more at ease and less stressed
when i referred to my wife's lover as Mr. no first name basis
for this cuckboy
You calling him Mr is the same scenario. It does give a feeling of comfort to a cuckold to realize that he has surrendered to his wife and her BF. I can see readily that they are at ease with this and no longer feel pressure to be someone thay aren't. It seems that there is much less stress and they are able to enjoy their status.
I always consider it the "breaking point" the first time a cuckold calls me "Sir".
Brad
So well stated "Sir"
not to put too fine a point on this but hell yeah
i was trying to carry an alpha weight with a beta body
i was relieved when D ( my cuckolder ) took that burden
from me as my wife saw my true beta self and her lover's
alpha self ...........D didn't require "Sir" but no doubt would have
received that level of respect and subordination if he had requested
it / small things such as getting his beer bringing his laundry when
i saw it needed to be done i tried to anticipate his needs as did my wife
i didn't fawn bow and scrape as i sensed he needed a more manly cuck
not a wimpy weakling ............i was more a sunaltern assistant
a sgt. to his lt. / each time i did a service for him i received a
noticeable frisson of cuck pleasure .............we didn't know of
being belted and pantied back in my day but i did very well
w/o them or creampies ...........it was the 80's for me and
we didn't know of such things we were just playing it by ear
it was the greatest pleasure of my life ........heaven on earth