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[BallSpanking]

If she gives you the lead, the setup... take it!

"Do I need to find someone to fuck me better?"

The answer is by way of a challenge, something like "That doesn't worry me, you wouldn't dare",
or, "You could try, but I doubt they would fuck you better", or, "I don't think you could handle it..."

She's leaving you an opening, big time.

[Breaker445]

If she gives you the lead, the setup... take it!

"Do I need to find someone to fuck me better?"

The answer is by way of a challenge, something like "You wouldn't dare",
or, "You could try, but I doubt they would fuck you better", or, "I don't think you could handle it..."

She's leaving you an opening, big time.

Ahhh those are great lines! Definitely will use them next time, because the way it is going I think there will definitely be a next time she says something like that. Also, her seeing or knowing I was mostly limp most the time until she sent that challenge out, maybe now she knows how it instantly turns me on and if she keeps giving me that challenge she knows what it does to me.

[BallSpanking]

She knows, that's why she said it.
Soon you ill be able to talk with her about younger, fit studs, well endowed, with cocks she could ride all night.

[Breaker445]

What did browser history reveal about her porn watching choices…?'

Well I kept my word and said I wouldn't check the history and to have her exit out afterward, so I never looked.

Yesterday I sent her a text telling her to look up a wireless panty vibrator and she ended up finding one she liked. I told her to get it and also get a vibrator for herself so we could have one for going out with the wireless one, and also one for herself at home. She was really into getting a vibrator for herself. I'd expect her to sound reluctant and say she doesn't really need a new one, or some other excuse, but after awhile I sent her another text to see if she had found anything and she said she had not but was looking. Well she took her time and thoroughly looked for something she would like because about an hour later she said she finally found one. I asked her why and she said there were so many to choose from and she was taking the time to read reviews. I asked her if she got one she liked and she said, "Yes should be good! Will be a surprise for you haha" I asked her what she meant and she said she was not going to show me what it is until it arrives. So it seems she is having a little fun with this and is excited about it herself. Hopefully this means she will be more into wanting to play with the vibrator both with me there and by herself. Also hopefully this interests her more into being adventurous and if she uses the vibrator more and enjoys it, maybe it will let her feel more comfortable in letting her mind wander.

So today she went out to a lunch with some girlfriends. I didn't see what she was wearing when she left but when she came home I was pleasantly surprised. First, her hair was well done and you could tell she spent extra time doing her make up. She wore this collar button down shirt which tied in the front (making it shorter) and underneath that was a tank top which was short and showed a little bit of her midriff. She had on very tight white jean type pants, which were so tight that if she bent over or if the light hit them right they were practically see through. Then she had these brown leather heels where her toes peaked out of. On top of this I noticed as she walked around the house she had skin colored underwear on because her underwear was peaking out from her waistband (Doubt this was intentional on her part) but anyways, a super hot outfit that I have no doubt in my mind got her looks wearing it out. Just her showing her midriff was a shock because again although she is very hot and sexy, she generally will dress conservatively. Sometimes it feels I have to beg to get her to wear something out that shows off her hot body.

I had to leave shortly after she got home and I sent her a text saying I wish I could have been able to give her a foot message. I told her she looked so beautiful today it would have been a pleasure for me. She texted back, "You are a naughty boy....."

Other then that not much else. She really does seem to be coming more confident in herself or at least more comfortable in certain things. I cant wait to see what vibrator or toy she bought and hopefully she enjoys it which I think she will since she searched for it and decided it on her own.

[Breaker445]

Not much to update but I thought I would jot down a few things with potential of more to come tonight. We haven't seen each other much over last couple days due to both of us being busy. But last night we were hanging out and she started talking about something about our everyday relationship and I forget exactly what it was she was talking about but she said, "I got you pussy whipped don't I?" I agreed with her and told her she did, which she really does. We got hanging out on the couch and she let me rub her feet for a little, but she had to get up early so it wasn't much of a late night. I knew she was about to go off to bed so I took advantage of where her feet were and gave them a kiss. She told me, " Don't kiss them, it'll wake you up." Meaning I would get hard. It was hot because she knows exactly what gets me going and that told me when she does certain things she does them with a certain intention. She went off to bed and I was left aroused.

Today after she got home she started to get ready to go out because she was going to dinner with a girlfriend. She told me she needed to shower and I joked with her and said I could help with that. She asked what I meant and I again jokingly told her she could use my tongue and I could lick her body. She chuckled and said, "Even my armpits?" I laughed back and said "I would lick anything you wanted." Her response with a smile was, "I know you would."

After the shower, she again took the time to do her make up and as she was getting ready she was flaunting around in just a thong and bra. While she was looking for something in the drawer, I sat down on the bed and jokingly teased I wanted her ass. She jokingly bent over and pretended she was going to put her ass in my face. Without control I blurted out "Wow please!" She quickly stood back up and turned her head toward me and with a smile said, "what?" I told her that it was one of my fantasies. She asked, "What? licking my ass?" I told her yes. She again smiled and slowly walked away and told me as she was walking away from me, "I could get you to do anything." Now I don't know exactly what she said but she either said, "You're like a something guy." Or she said, "I could get a guy." I couldn't hear very well because she had left the room and was in another room. I asked "What???" But she didn't respond and immediately got onto another topic, so I wasn't able to ever find out what she said.

As she continued to get ready I continued to admire her and let her know how amazing she looked. I could tell she was enjoying seeing me so into her. She opened a drawer in the bathroom as she was getting ready and I found her little vibrator in there and pulled it out. She laughed at me finding it and I said I couldn't wait for what she ordered to arrive. She said she should check the tracker because she thought they may get in soon. I asked her didn't you get something to wear out and another thing? She said, "Yeah the other one is for me though. And it doesn't look like a vibrator, it looks like something else." I was surprised and said "Really?? What is it!?" She said "Why are you excited? It's for me, not you." I stood there with a surprised look on my face and she could tell I was shocked at what she was hinting. I told her "Well it could be for us, I like knowing some things." She smiled and told me, "Well you leave me alone sometimes." I am guessing she must have gotten a dildo which would definitely be a surprise because in the past she has never liked dildos and has preferred the little vibrators. If it's a dildo I will be extremely surprised and happy.

She continued to get ready and I continued to express how hot she was. I made some gesture that was like showing her I wanted her but was upset because I couldn't have her. She laughed and I told her she was so hot. She responded with, "What? You worried i'll leave you?" I was actually taken back by this because it was like a whoa moment. I downplayed it and said, "No, never leave me." and gave her a hug. She said, "Babes, you're hot too don't worry." I was about to hint toward although don't leave me but if you wanted to fool around go ahead type of territory, but then her darn phone rang! I felt like it was a perfect set up to maybe hint toward something but the stupid phone rang and that was that.

She left and I hope there is more to add to this post tonight! I cant get over the short little talk we had because her teasing was so genuine it felt very real.

[tit4atat]

Hot story, hope things keep progressing. Sounds like in just a short time so much progress has been made. From the things you say, she really sounds like her seeds are growing. I think she is starting to get into playing you as a cuck.

One thing I notice is your statements of "I don't think she has done anything because she knows she can tell me" could be so far from the truth. No matter how much you tell some woman that they can share any details with you they still might not. They are programmed from almost birth that they can't and trouble would occur if they did. I have seen a theme where many wives get a green light from their husbands and get into the concept but still have a hard time coming out with it when something happens. Not that this is a big deal but it sounds like she is really hinting these days. Those hints tell me her mind set is getting there but something could have already happened also. The #1 hint is the more recent change from conservative clothing to the more risky. This really says a lot.

In any case you seem to be on the right track and have learned how to keep from pushing too hard. It seems you might be a full blown cuck before you know it. It sounds like she really wants to know which of your friends is saying he wants to fuck her. Maybe you should have a little conversation with one and then tell her so and so told me "he is so hot for you, if he ever got the chance..."

[Breaker445]

Hot story, hope things keep progressing. Sounds like in just a short time so much progress has been made. From the things you say, she really sounds like her seeds are growing. I think she is starting to get into playing you as a cuck.

One thing I notice is your statements of "I don't think she has done anything because she knows she can tell me" could be so far from the truth. No matter how much you tell some woman that they can share any details with you they still might not. They are programmed from almost birth that they can't and trouble would occur if they did. I have seen a theme where many wives get a green light from their husbands and get into the concept but still have a hard time coming out with it when something happens. Not that this is a big deal but it sounds like she is really hinting these days. Those hints tell me her mind set is getting there but something could have already happened also. The #1 hint is the more recent change from conservative clothing to the more risky. This really says a lot.

In any case you seem to be on the right track and have learned how to keep from pushing too hard. It seems you might be a full blown cuck before you know it. It sounds like she really wants to know which of your friends is saying he wants to fuck her. Maybe you should have a little conversation with one and then tell her so and so told me "he is so hot for you, if he ever got the chance..."

Thanks for the interest! I hear ya with that second paragraph. I have read somewhere, and I don't remember where, that sometimes wives even when they know their husband wants to be a cuck or has the fantasy of her cheating they don't always tell them because they don't know how the husband will really react when it is for real. Her outfits and make up becoming more "look at me" style definitely is something that has peaked my interest. Another thing I have noticed with her is that when she goes out with her girlfriends she never really texts me back when I text her. Now, the girlfriends she has been going out with lately are even more conservative then her and probably by a long ways, but no matter which group of friends she went out with in the past if I had texted her she would usually always text me back. Now, I get lucky to receive a text at all from her and it usually is just a text letting me know she is on her way. This may be nothing at all, but it also may be her just putting me in the back of her mind while she focuses on other things knowing she doesn't have to respond to me because she knows where I am and that if she did text me back I would respond instantly.

I am really hoping the toy besides the vibrating panties she got was a dildo. I feel this could be a huge step forward for her in fantasy play. Besides the fact it would have meant by herself she looked at, compared, reviewed, read about all different kind of dildos and decided on the one she got, it could open her mind up in a big way, especially with her clear intentions to use it when I am not around.

I was really hoping tonight we could do a D/s session where she is the Domme. It has been awhile since we role played with her being the Domme. I am interested to see if she would open up more with some controlling things or humiliation and if she would really get into it where she got pleasure out of it. Although I want to suggest it, at the same time I don't want to go backward with either her not wanting to, or her trying it out again and not getting much satisfaction from it. I think I will gauge how tonight goes when she comes home.

Addition: So like I said before I am lucky lately to just get a text back from her when she goes out with friends. Well I sent her a text early on when she left for dinner and did not hear anything. A couple hours go by and I sent another text "are you still there?" No response for awhile, then suddenly I get a phone call from her. She tells me she is on her way but then says, "OH MY GOD! I shouldn't have dressed up so much!" Now she went out wearing sexy as can be make up, but nothing really else too sexy other then tight black jean pants (which show off her ass as any tight pair of pants do) And she wore tennis shoes. If I had to describe it, besides the sexy make up, her outfit was cute girl next door type of look. I asked her why and she told me that apparently this place they went to dinner had this bachelor party going on and there were super drunk guys there and they were all hollering at her and saying she was hot those sorts of things. She said she was embarrassed by it, and the friend she was with jokingly told her she couldn't bring her anywhere (I think she meant because she draws such attention). I told her I could have told her she was hot. She came back at me with "So I guess I'm super popular amongst those guys." So I got the hint that although she says she was embarrassed by it, probably because she is humble about her looks and to be called out in public with a friend was probably embarrassing, but deep down I got the impression she liked the attention. Also she rarely ever calls me, as she knows I'm not big into talking on the phone so things are usually sent through text, yet she felt the need to call me and tell me this along with that she was heading home.

[BallSpanking]

She definitely enjoyed the attention from the drunk bachelors, and the remark from her GF that this happens way too much. In fact, she clearly likes that, and it should be a topic for you to focus on, as you coax her gently to embracing the HW concept.

This is fertile ground, you can ask her if there were any cute bachelors there, if she danced with any of them, or would have liked to... This gets close to a scenario where you two enter a club separately, and you enjoy observing her as guys hit on her, buy her drinks, or ask he to dance and feel her up.
Just a skip and a hop away...

[Serrand]

Wow, how could I miss this thread for so long. That’s quite a journey you're sharing here with us. A big thank you for that.
First, I fully understand the excitement and thrill you can achieve of watching your wife, the person you love the most, getting fucked by another guy or just fantasizing about it. If not, I probabely wouldn’t be on this forum.
It takes some courage to be open about such a desire, because it's against the preceived convention what a "manly man" should do or feel about. I respect this.

But, and this is a huge but, and even in danger to anger you, I also have to tell, that during reading your thread I sometimes ask myself: What the hell is wrong with you? Are you insane, I mean you have a beautiful wife, who loves you deeply and values your marriage above anything else. A lot of people can only wish for that kind of marriage you obviously have.
But still, you could have the impression, that you seem to be ready possibly to risk this great marriage you have over the obsession with your fetish. This part is much harder to understand.

Allow me to ask, if your wife should ever engage with another man sexually, start an affair with him, wouldn’t you be afraid, that she could fall for this guy and leave you for him in the end?
Because, from my limited point of view on this, I have the impression, that your wife would only be having sex with another man, other than you, if she would have a deep emotional connection with him. Of course, I could be wrong about this. But if not, this would not be favourable for you and it would be very dangerous for your marriage, if it ever would come to the situation that she's engaged sexually with another guy, in my opinion.
Therefore, I have my doubts that in your case this kind of lifestyle would really be a "healthy" thing for your marriage.

Look, I don't want to dampen your mood and of course I could be wrong about everything, not to forget you certainly know yourself what's best for your marriage. I just want you be careful and be aware what you maybe risking here. I believe you agree with me your desire isn't worth risking your obviously great relationship with your beloved wife.
Excuse me for rambling around here. I hope you don't mind if I comment here every once in a while.
Hope to hear from you soon

[Breaker445]

Wow, how could I miss this thread for so long. That’s quite a journey you're sharing here with us. A big thank you for that.
First, I fully understand the excitement and thrill you can achieve of watching your wife, the person you love the most, getting fucked by another guy or just fantasizing about it. If not, I probabely wouldn’t be on this forum.
It takes some courage to be open about such a desire, because it's against the preceived convention what a "manly man" should do or feel about. I respect this.

But, and this is a huge but, and even in danger to anger you, I also have to tell, that during reading your thread I sometimes ask myself: What the hell is wrong with you? Are you insane, I mean you have a beautiful wife, who loves you deeply and values your marriage above anything else. A lot of people can only wish for that kind of marriage you obviously have.
But still, you could have the impression, that you seem to be ready possibly to risk this great marriage you have over the obsession with your fetish. This part is much harder to understand.

Allow me to ask, if your wife should ever engage with another man sexually, start an affair with him, wouldn’t you be afraid, that she could fall for this guy and leave you for him in the end?
Because, from my limited point of view on this, I have the impression, that your wife would only be having sex with another man, other than you, if she would have a deep emotional connection with him. Of course, I could be wrong about this. But if not, this would not be favourable for you and it would be very dangerous for your marriage, if it ever would come to the situation that she's engaged sexually with another guy, in my opinion.
Therefore, I have my doubts that in your case this kind of lifestyle would really be a "healthy" thing for your marriage.

Look, I don't want to dampen your mood and of course I could be wrong about everything, not to forget you certainly know yourself what's best for your marriage. I just want you be careful and be aware what you maybe risking here. I believe you agree with me your desire isn't worth risking your obviously great relationship with your beloved wife.
Excuse me for rambling around here. I hope you don't mind if I comment here every once in a while.
Hope to hear from you soon

Thanks for reading and commenting. I absolutely understand where you are coming from and of course I wouldn't want to lose her over this fantasy. If the best I get is her to just open up sexually and maybe enjoy the fantasy with me in the fantasy realm, I am fine with that. If she just gets a little more open about overall sex and fantasies I am fine with that. Which she certainly is doing. I really feel our marriage and relationship is strong enough that IF she ever ventured into this that it would work and not ruin us. Of course if we ever got to the point where this became a real possibility I would talk with her and set out ground rules, but I am confident that our relationship is strong enough and this could just be more sexual play between us and more toward me serving her. So I do feel our relationship is strong enough for this to work.

In awhile I will post more of what happened last night after she got home. It certainly was hot and it consisted of me being her sub and her the Domme. Afterward she said it was the best sex she has ever had, and it also had very very hot cuckolding talk. I would have to agree with her that it was maybe one of the hottest sex we've ever had, to where I am still in a haze today. After last night I am convinced this is the closest ever to her at least enjoying the fantasy. She can deny it later, but with what she said last night, and what her body told me all points to something.

[tit4atat]

Can't wait to hear how it went last night and I am sure you will do a great job for us explaining it in detail as you always do. I am sure there are a lot of followers of this thread and we all thank you.

As for my previous post, I agree with all of your responses but I do pose one question and please don't take this the wrong way. Just from the description of your day to day interaction I wouldn't rule out totally that she hasn't already got something going on. Do you have clear evidence that these times she is with girl friends that she really is? The first and most common excuse woman use when they are seeing a guy on the side is that they are going out with a friend. Sometimes they even set up a friend to cover for them. I am not saying this is the case but just questioning. Also, the second most common excuse is they went or are going shopping. For a husband both of these are difficult to track.

Now I don't want to turn you into an investigator or confront her on anything as this can be detrimental but just curious. Even if she is meeting a guy (the gym guy etc) someday, once she gets more comfortable she might come clean with it. If you really want her to cuckold you then you also need to not be too surprised if she does cheat at some point. After all you are sort of telling her to, right? Are you prepared if this situation ever presented itself?

One thing that never ceases to amaze me is how many guys want their wives to cuckold them and then when she actually does they get all insecure and pissed that she did, with or without full admission. Woman are not comfortable with full admission and many like the hidden aspect as much as the cuckold aspect. Her fantasy might end up bing similar to yours but different in that she has control over everything and will tell you what and when she wants to. Just as hard as it might be to get her to partake in your cuckold fetish it might be harder to get her comfortable to spill all the beans about how she is doing it.

In any case, even without hearing what happened last night I think her interest is really peaking in this and something is or will eventually happen. All the signs are there. Just enjoy what ever it is when it gets there.

[Breaker445]

Can't wait to hear how it went last night and I am sure you will do a great job for us explaining it in detail as you always do. I am sure there are a lot of followers of this thread and we all thank you.

As for my previous post, I agree with all of your responses but I do pose one question and please don't take this the wrong way. Just from the description of your day to day interaction I wouldn't rule out totally that she hasn't already got something going on. Do you have clear evidence that these times she is with girl friends that she really is? The first and most common excuse woman use when they are seeing a guy on the side is that they are going out with a friend. Sometimes they even set up a friend to cover for them. I am not saying this is the case but just questioning. Also, the second most common excuse is they went or are going shopping. For a husband both of these are difficult to track.

Now I don't want to turn you into an investigator or confront her on anything as this can be detrimental but just curious. Even if she is meeting a guy (the gym guy etc) someday, once she gets more comfortable she might come clean with it. If you really want her to cuckold you then you also need to not be too surprised if she does cheat at some point. After all you are sort of telling her to, right? Are you prepared if this situation ever presented itself?

One thing that never ceases to amaze me is how many guys want their wives to cuckold them and then when she actually does they get all insecure and pissed that she did, with or without full admission. Woman are not comfortable with full admission and many like the hidden aspect as much as the cuckold aspect. Her fantasy might end up bing similar to yours but different in that she has control over everything and will tell you what and when she wants to. Just as hard as it might be to get her to partake in your cuckold fetish it might be harder to get her comfortable to spill all the beans about how she is doing it.

In any case, even without hearing what happened last night I think her interest is really peaking in this and something is or will eventually happen. All the signs are there. Just enjoy what ever it is when it gets there.

Well thank you for the encouraging words! I know for sure when she is out with her friends she is actually out with them. Same as with shopping as she usually returns with a bag of the store she went to. I have prepared myself for finding out something or it actually happening. I will admit years ago when I first had this fantasy I probably wasn't, but I do think I am now.

Oh and I broke down last night with curiosity of what toy she may have purchased. Now I am not 100% certain because I don't have access, but I think she ordered a rabbit type vibrator that is the shape and looks like a penis. So not necessarily a dildo, but it is something shaped as a penis and is a vibrator and is meant for insertion, which is a huge step because her old vibrator she likes it just like a wand.

[BallSpanking]

The fact she is excited about her toy also tells you her fantasy is on the increase.
Who masturbates without mental images, right?

So after she gets comfortable with it, maybe you can bring it into your bed play, so she can experience what it might be like having two cocks at once, one being larger...

[Breaker445]

So last night she got home and we talked a little, she didn't really talk about the bachelor party group much other then she said if I was there I would have been mad. But then said I wouldn't have been able to do anything about it. We had some drinks and sat down and watched TV. Before she got home, I had set up in our spare bedroom a somewhat of a dungeon. We have this leather sheet that I laid out, and then laid out some of our BDSM type toys. Nothing too extreme, mainly little toys that you get in your typical introductory to BDSM adult playset. But I had set the room up in hopes that we would have a D/s session.

After hanging out for a little, I had watched this porno where a Domme had her sub on a leash and was making him lick her ass and pussy. After I could tell she was in the mood to maybe move to the bedroom I took a gamble and gave her the tablet with the video and asked her what I had to do for us to do this. I handed her the tablet with the video of the Domme and her sub. I left the room for a few minutes while she watched it. I wanted to give her the chance to watch it by herself. I came back into the room and she said she had watched it. All she said was, "You're a naughty boy." I started making moves and she suggested we go to the bedroom. I told her to go to our room and get an outfit she feels sexy in and feels dominating in then to meet me in the other room. She goes, "What? hmmmmm." to my request and then I told her I had a surprise for her in the other room.

She agreed and went into the bedroom to get changed. I quickly went to the other room and lit some candles so the set could be ready for her when she entered. I eagerly awaited her and as she walked in I was stunned at her hotness. She came in wearing a fishnet bodsuit which was crotchless, shiny silver booty shorts, and thigh high black leather boots. I could tell she liked the set up in the room. She said, "Ohhh wow, I like this, this is hot." I told her I was glad she liked it and commented on how hot she looked. She curiously walked over to where I had laid out the toys and she asked me, "What do we have here?" Given it was a bit dark in the room and most, if not all of the toys were black and leather in may have been hard to see everything. I told her they were our toys and she could use anything she wanted. She slowly walked over to the display and put her finger to our mouth as to ponder which to use. She looked at me and told me to lay down on the sheet. I went as I was told and laid down on the leather sheet. She bent down and picked up a arm restraint. She then tied my hands together which were held together by Velcro. She tried to tie my wrists to my ankles but the toy (rather cheap) did not reach, so she told me to keep my hands crossed and leave them on my stomach. I did as I was told and listened to her.

She took off her shiny silver booty shorts and sat down on my bare chest and slowly started to rub herself on my chest. She turned her booty shorts inside out and told me to sniff them as she put them on my nose. I took a few deep sniffs to please her. I could feel her pussy getting wet on me. After a minute or so she slowly slid her pussy to my mouth and I gladly started to lick her. She let out a breath and told me that felt good. I continued to lick her as she got more into it. She started to slide her pussy back and forth to make sure my tongue got ever inch of her. "You like that?" She asked me, in which I replied with the few chances of air I got, "OH yes mistress." "Good" she replied then added, "You're so pathetic." Looking up at her, her eyes were closed and I could tell she was really enjoying herself. She started to move so far back and forth on my tongue that my tongue was starting to get a part of her ass hole. The first time my tongue touched her ass she moaned and I heard her say, "Hmm I like that you dirty boy." She let me lick her ass hole a few times before she stopped right on top of my tongue to make sure it got in her pussy deep. She was extremely wet, maybe the wettest she has ever been. I felt and tasted juice from her pussy flow into my mouth that I thought she was cumming, but she wasn't. I had to gulp to continue on to licking her. She really rode my tongue and I felt juices flowing down my cheek and it seemed it was so much that there would be a puddle on the sheets.

She would occasionally moan to me asking if I liked that and everytime I would respond that I loved it. I heard her make noises I've never heard her make before. Once I told her guys would love to lick her pussy. She moaned to me that she didn't want to cum yet and she got off my mouth for a moment. "You naughty boy" she told me as she switched positions and now was reversed. It was like a reverse cowgirl on my face. It was heavenly. There I was licking her pussy while my nose was stuffed into her ass hole. I licked her deep while taking a deep sniff. She also loved it. I heard her moan and say, "That feels so good." With each deep sniff I took I heard her tell me how dirty and naughty I was, but then to encourage it by saying she loved it. By this time my face was soaking wet from her. She would switch between fucking my tongue with her pussy and fucking my tongue with her ass hole. I loved both and had probably the biggest hard on ever. I then felt her placed her mouth on my penis, which put me on a euphoria. I had to move my head out from underneath her and moan to her that I would cum if she kept it up. She resat on my face and told me, "Don't you cum." And stayed off my dick for awhile as I continued to lick her. She wasn't off my cock long before I felt her mouth back on it. I again moaned to her that I would cum and she stopped. She gave it a few strokes and I heard her with almost am aggressively begging tone to her voice, "I need to suck your cock so bad." And as I was trapped there under her, she again placed my hard on into her mouth and this time I felt her bite me and then grind her teeth against my penis as she went up and down with her mouth. It was so extremely hot and she stopped just in time to where I didn't cum. There was a smaller sized strap on dildo next to the toys and I almost told her if she needed a cock to suck to suck the dildo but I never did tell her. She rode me a little longer while stroking me and she said, "You're so pathetic." She then told me, "I need to fuck you." She got off me and grabbed a condom to put on me.

After the condom was on she immediately sat on my erection and she told me, "You're so lucky you get to fuck me." I moaned that I was very lucky and told her how hot she was. Almost out of breath I heard her say, "You're so lucky" as she rode me back and forth. I told her I knew I was lucky and that so many guys wished they could fuck her. She thrusted herself onto me a few times and I told her I was going to cum. She again demanded to me, "No do not cum. Don't you cum." I held it in as much as possible just enough to outlast her as she came to orgasm. Afterward she laid down on top of me with just the tip of my penis still in her pussy. She asked me if I have cum and I told her I had not. She moaned and told me I was a naughty boy. Still with her mouth near my ear and just the tip inserted into her she slowly went back and forth so I was going in and out. "You liked licking me didn't you?" I told her I was so lucky. She said "Good, do you like fucking me?" I told her oh yes I loved fucking her. She then told me she could get any guy to fuck her. I told her it didn't matter and I could fuck her better then them. She sat up and sat down further onto my cock. She then smiled, looked down at me and said, "I bet they could fuck me better, I could find a guy with a bigger dick then yours and he could fuck me better." I moaned and grabbed her ass. I told her, "You would never do that!" She responded quickly with, "But I could if I wanted to." I whimperly told her "No, you would never." Again she said, "I could if I wanted. I could find a guy to fuck me." She would say that a few times. She then told me, "I would make you watch too. You'd sit in the corner and watch him fuck me." I moaned and was on the verge of cumming I told her "no baby." She didn't seem to care she continued on and said, "I wouldn't even let you touch me." She paused then said, "Maybe I would let you lick me after I fucked him."

I couldn't take it any longer and rolled her over onto her back I tried to get the restraints off but had a little trouble breaking the Velcro. She chuckled at my struggles and I eventually was able to just rip off one Velcro on one of my wrists. I wanted to seem aggressive because I wanted to show her how hot it was and how much it turned me on. I then wrapped my arms around her and began to thrust inside her. I told her how hot she was and that I could fuck her good. She moaned and I came. We both laid there for a moment.

She got up and told me that was the best sex she has ever had and told me how great the whole thing was. To me it was unbelievable. She went to the bedroom as I cleaned up the entire room. She went off to bed and again she told me how good that was, but she also told me she felt like she didn't do enough dominatrix type stuff to me. I told her that it was amazing and if she liked it and enjoyed it then that was what it was all about. It was by far the hottest sex we have ever had and beyond anything I expected for the night.

Fast forward to today and we are suppose to go to this get together this weekend and she told me that after the get together her and I are going to a bar. Not even in a way of suggesting it or asking "Would you like to go out after the get together?" She told me we would be going to a bar after the get together and implying it was just us going. She then later tried on some clothes, and asked me how she looked. I of course told her she looked amazing and I cutely told her, "Baby....you're....just...." She stopped me and said, "What too hot for you? That I make you want to just lick me?" I told her yes! She walked away and said, "Good."

Like I said in an earlier post that I have been walking around in a haze for most of the day. It was such an incredibly hot moment and to see how much she enjoyed it too was the biggest turn on.

[BallSpanking]

She has embraced the fantasy, and is loving it.
Play it cool, let her take the lead and act out the things she wants...

Notice that when you reproached her and told her she "would never do that", she backtracked and said "I know, but what if I could"...

When she is so turned-on, is a good time to let it slip that she could have a hall-pass from you if at some point she just couldn't resist... Permission/challenge, mild reproof and amazement at ther hotness, when she rebels and shows you what she wants to do.

My guess is that, given how hot she is about it (give her time and freedom to take this where she wants to), but she might be wanting to play for real very soon, particularly if there are well hung guys at the club who want to hit on her.

Maybe this outing to the bar upcoming could be an opportunity to play that little game where she is "waiting" to meet her brother at the bar.

[minos_dis_crete]

Amazing progress, Breaker! See what happens when you help your woman feel like a goddess instead of pleading with her to act like one?

"I could if I wanted" - perfect. If you get back to that point again with her, tell her "I know, and I get turned on all the time knowing you could, knowing you might; knowing I'd be powerless to stop you from enjoying any guy you wanted because of what you do to me. I love the power you have over me."

Personally, I love that she's taking more control over your orgasms for her own pleasure.

Since you both agree that was the hottest sex you've ever had, it's a good opportunity to talk about what you both liked so much, and find out what made it so hot to her so you can build on it. Try to listen more than you speak; encourage her with "mmm, yeah, that was really hot - anything else?"

[Breaker445]

Thanks for the words of wisdom. She really is driving me nuts with the little bits and pieces she drops for me. She just got home from the gym and I asked her, "Was it busy?" Her response was, "yeah kinda, but it doesn't matter because the things I do is always open." She continued on by telling me, "That gym, there is like no good looking people there. I mean there are a couple girls that are okay, but there are no hot guys at all." I just smiled at her, somewhat uncertain how I should respond. In the past I felt like I would have gone overboard getting that dreaded "Calm down, its not happening" type response, but at the same time I feel if I don't say anything she may feel she doesn't get the acknowledgement from me that i like to hear that. But then here I am reading what I wrote and wondering, why would a married women want hot guys at the gym and also why would my wife tell me there are no hot guys at the gym and present it in a way of a bad thing toward the gym.

I like both of your ideas about digging a little more when she does talk about other guys in bed. See where she takes it when I give her a little more. I am curious to see if she pushes any sort of intimacy tonight given how hot last night was, or if she takes a night off tonight. I had cleaned up the house while she was at the gym and when she got home I was in the other room and I knew she noticed things were cleaned up and I heard he say, "Someone is looking to get some tonight" That darn toy can't get here soon enough.

[BallSpanking]

If she is complaining about the lack of hot guys at the gym, maybe you could do a little research and check out the high-end training gyms near you, and maybe hook her-up with a set of 6-12 body sculpting classes with a handsome, well hung, muscular, fitness instructor.

That would put her fantasies on steroids.

[Breaker445]

...I like both of your ideas about digging a little more when she does talk about other guys in bed...

Ask her questions to get her to describe her fantasy lover...tall/short, muscled/lean, ethnicity, cock size, etc. Have her describe what she does to them...undress them, stroke them, suck them? What did they do to her? What position(s) did he fuck her in? Did she cum? How many times? Did he? Where? In essence in the throes, ask leading open-ended questions that elicit adjective-laden responses...

This I may need to wait a little bit on, and might be something I ask her after she has received her new toy and I know that she enjoys it often. The last few days nothing much has happened. It is almost like the other night wore her out. We didn't have sex the night following our hot session, even though I tried, she denied me by saying, "I thought last night would have gotten it out of your system for awhile" and followed that up by saying, "Nothing tonight." Last night though we did but it was fairly vanilla sex. But I did notice she reached orgasm very fast again. We weren't even a couple minutes into it and she was telling me how she didn't want to cum yet. I was waiting for her to talk real dirty but she never did. I waited again after she orgasmed and it was my turn to cum for her to talk dirty but she never did. She did ask me if I liked fucking her which I told her I did. I thought about using that again as an opening to say how other guys wish they could fuck her or try to get cuckold talk in the bedroom, but I thought I would give it a break for the night because I didn't want her to come back the next day or the following day and say/think that I can only get off on her while talking/thinking about cuckolding. So I came without much of anything being said or done.

Prior to us having sex: I did find it hot that last night while watching TV these people went to a strip club and she got excited and said she wanted to go to a strip club so bad. She has teased in the past that she has wanted to go to one, but last night she made it sound like she would be up for going that night. She then asked me, "What would you do if you found out that I kept a secret from you and found out I was a stripper?" I told her that I would be there right away and watch. She laughed and told me she didn't think she had enough upper body strength to do it. We tuned back into watching the show and after awhile I asked her what her stripper name would be. She replied she did not know and we again went back to watching the show. During some commercial she got the question in. Am I still the hottest wife amongst your friends? I told her that she definitely was and she asked me if I was sure or just saying that. I told her I wasn't just saying that and she was easily the hottest one.

And prior to us watching the show earlier in the evening I teased to her something about wanting to do her. Her response was, "If you want it, you better let me have a nice long hot bath first." I smiled at her and told her that was fine by me. She did have her bath and then she painted her fingernails and toenails. She laid in the bed while she waiting for them to dry, and because they were still wet she couldn't do much moving or grabbing of things. When I came into the room she told me, "Turn on this lamp." So I turned on the lamp next to her as she had requested and she just laid there. Right after I turned the lamp on she told me to get the remote for the TV. I sorta turned to her like *really what else can I do for you?* She knew what I was thinking and she smiled and said, "You like this." Meaning I liked her bossing me around and doing whatever she asked. I put my head down and admitted to her that yes I did in fact enjoy it.

We are going to this little get together tonight, but it's not the type of get together that will result in anything. Although she will look super hot and her outfit will turn me on. I am hoping though that afterward we are able to do something like go out to a bar or at the very least lead to hot sex tonight. There is going to be a lot of people where we are going and I may send her naughty text messages to warm her up for the night because we will likely be apart. I also may need to start thinking of planning a night where we go to a strip club.

[BallSpanking]

Help her dress for tonight, maybe trim her pussy, make her feel extra sexy.That and a couple of tequila shots, and she'll be wanting to dance and flirt. If so, encourage her to have her fun, and enjoy watching her.

Would she prefer a " male review" strip club like Chippendale's?
I don't remember if guys were only allowed inside on certaijn days... send her in with some spending money.

[Breaker445]

Help her dress for tonight, maybe trim her pussy, make her feel extra sexy.That and a couple of tequila shots, and she'll be wanting to dance and flirt. If so, encourage her to have her fun, and enjoy watching her.

Would she prefer a " male review" strip club like Chippendale's?
I don't remember if guys were only allowed inside on certaijn days... send her in with some spending money.

You know I don't know if she would be up for a male only strip club. She probably would with girlfriends, but with me I think she would want to go to a normal strip club. I think she may be uncomfortable for me being in a male strip club and then wouldn't be able to fully enjoy herself.

Her outfit for the tonight she has already picked out like a week ago, lol. Its super hot, I think her top is some sort of silk material and she is wearing these super tight white jeans that form to her body incredibly, and a pair of brown leather ankle boots that are open toed. Like I said the get together is nothing too exciting, but thinking of taking the opportunity of her going to look so hot and with so many people and with us most likely separated mingling to take the opportunity to let her know how hot she is and what I would want to do to her through text. She may like it because it would be this little secret we would have going on in a crowded area yet we aren't far apart from each other.

[BallSpanking]

That is an example of "baby steps", small, incremental progress toward full HW freedom, allowing her to test the waters and get comfortable first, nicely played.

[Breaker445]

So absolutely nothing to update. The get together ended up being rather busy and went later then we thought. We ended up too tired to go do anything else. I never ended up texting her any sort of kinky messages because it just didn't fit the mood and I really never had a chance. I still thought when we got home we would fool around, but I was wrong. After we got home she undressed so she was just in a bra and underwear, she knew I was enjoying the sight and came up to me and did a quick dirty dancing move on me where she grinded her ass onto my crotch. I got excited of course and let her know how hot that was and suggested I wanted more. She chuckled, smiled and said, "No. I like to give a little tease and walk away." And sure enough she tauntingly walked away from me as I stared at her amazing body. A little while later she told me she was tired and she went to bed. I tried to meet her in bed and tried to see if she was up for anything. She felt my dick and felt it was hard, she said "Not tonight." I told her I was going to have to think about her later then. She asked, "MMmm what are you going to think about?" I told her I would think about her in her outfit she wore tonight. But she told me not tonight that she was too tired and said, "Maybe tomorrow afternoon, you know I like afternoon delights." However due to how the day has turned out that isn't happening. So she again left me in denial knowing exactly what I wanted.

Although I would have obviously loved to have sex part of me is a little excited she once again denied me and also knowing her toy should be arriving in a couple days. Due to our schedule I don't foresee sex in the next couple days so she should get her new vibrator toy and not had sex for a few days, leaving me hopeful that she uses it and even lets me know she is using it. And maybe with going without sex for so long she will be giving to me and we can go out on a date, she wears her new vibrating panties and maybe if I am lucky a sexy outfit like her mini leather skirt or leather pants, which could lead to another very hot sexy night like we had the other night. I could use the multiple days without sex and she knowing shes denied me as a way to beg to be her sub again and let her know I want to serve her again and build toward a night where we have another session. Knowing how much she enjoyed it she may actually play along this time in the days leading up to the session.

[BallSpanking]

Once she receives it, find out where she stashes it, and check its position each morning before you leave, and every afternoon when you return. If the position is shifted, she probably has been using it.

[Breaker445]

Once she receives it, find out where she stashes it, and check its position each morning before you leave, and every afternoon when you return. If the position is shifted, she probably has been using it.

Great idea!! How hot it will be to know it has been moved, and if she hadn't told me she used it how hot to know she was enjoying her time by herself and who knows what she could have been thinking about.

Yesterday she was at the gym and I decided to have some fun and started texting seductive things. I told her I'd like to sneak into the gym bathroom with her and do dirty things...She texted back "maybe..." I told her she was a naughty girl but she didn't respond. She got home and asked me in a sweet voice if she could go out to dinner this week with one of her friends. I told her of course she could. The friend she is going out to dinner with is one of her more wild friends.

She went to the gym again today and she had not worn make up all day then I saw her putting on make up. I figured she was getting ready to go out to run some errands or something but then she walks out of the room wearing her gym clothes. I kept it to myself but again I was surprised she would even feel the need to put on makeup to go to the gym. She certainly takes self pride in knowing she is the best looking one there even though she has made comments there is no hot guys there.

While she was gone her toys arrived! I sent her a text telling her something came for you in the mail.... She responded with a hand clapping icon. I told her Naughty girl... but she didn't respond. I am hoping she is in the mood to play with things tonight. I didn't open the box completely as I knew she wanted to surprise me of what one of the items was, (even though I know its that vibrator shaped as a penis). I am excited to see how she presents it to me.

So she got home and checked out her new toy. She showed it to me with a "You gotta look at this!" type of announcement. I walked in and she showed me her new toy which is the vibrator. I asked her "Do you put that in you?" Which she replied, "yes..." I expressed that I liked to hear that and she replied, "I don't know why you're so excited, this is for me and not you." She continued with, "And you won't know when I use it, I'm not telling you." I asked her why not but she didn't really give me an answer she went back to examining her new toy. She also liked the vibrator she puts in her panties. Super hot with her telling me about her vibrator toy and sorta keeping it to herself.