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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by RGB49FL » Wed Mar 25, 2009 1:43 pm

Reese, I agree 100%. She is one super hot fucking slut. What a great HW.

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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by wingman » Wed Mar 25, 2009 6:12 pm

Mr. and Mrs Reese -

As a way of keeping that spice you felt this last time, have you thought of doing the denial thing for short periods of time. Play a game and base the time on the results of a challange or behavior on the "Mr"s part. You also might try a video camera where Mrs Reese plays on her own, talking to Mr. Reese during her play. What you say can be taken in whatever direction you guys decide (dom, humil, superior, having fun, wish you were here, etc). Just be sure to delete the recording after each view (nothing for little eyes to find later).

Just a couple of suggestions for your evening pleasure.

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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by mrs_reese » Thu Mar 26, 2009 5:51 am

wingman,
Thank-you for your suggestion, i kindof like that.
We have tried denial a lot, but not by video with my lover present.

Derrick is fun and gorgeous.
But for some reason, I am thinking about bringing another lover in my life.
NOt sure who or when.
Just thinking!

I have never been with a black man.

Can anyone recommend this to me?
I hear a lot about bbc/ but i have been completely satisfied with my hubby's size and to be honest with all of you/ most of my lovers are not as big as hubby/ or are about equal in size.

I am just curious what all this fuss is about with large black cocks? :roll: :oops:

One thing I was thinking: i could truly cuck my hubby with a black man. :whip:

again/ open to suggestions???

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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by RGB49FL » Thu Mar 26, 2009 8:08 am

Mrs. R,

My wife had a black lover off and on for 14 years. He wasn't any bigger than me, BUT he never, ever, ever, ever went soft. The guy went to the doctor once because his erection wouldn't go down. He almost literally fucked my wife all night once, 10pm to 5am. He came in her 5 times. She had about 100 orgasms.

She loved his cock.

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Unread post by reese » Fri Mar 27, 2009 8:54 am

The wife and I talked last night about bringing another lover for part-time fun into her life.
I am intrigued by her thinking about a bbc.
Very different approach...kind of curious with all of this.
She told me that she isnt serious about all of that, she is just wondering if it is time to try something different!

Thanks Rgb for your input about bbc.

We have the kids this weekend....Sunday Derrick might come over.

Nothing is planned until then.

I kind of like the slower pace that my wife is on....

I have noticed that with Derrick she calls the shots...he is such a innocent young man.....and he will do anything she asks.

She likes having the hotwife control back in her life.
Reese!!!!
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Unread post by mrs_reese » Sun Mar 29, 2009 6:37 am

We have had a quiet weekend.
Kids, parties and march madness.
Tonight/ Derrick is coming over.
But I have done a lot of thinking!
Derrick is a lot of fun for me/ but not much of a challenge.
I want to continue to see Derrick when I am able.
But i consider our relationship more of big sister/little brother!
Sexually, he has a great penis/ but he is inexperienced/ and not too imaginative.

Hubby knows that I am seeking another lover to bring into my life.
Ironically/ I had a text message from one of my previous lovers/ D.
He asked how I was doing and suggested he come to visit me one day.
He moved away from me a while ago and now lives about 200 miles away.
I miss D.
I havent thought about him in a long time/but after reading his text/ many warm memories came rushing back to me.
I sent him a text and we arranged a time to talk on the phone today.

I am still curious about the bbc thing.
Not sure where to go to meet eligible black men.
I suggested to hubby that we post on cl and let it ride out.
Tonight/ Derrick. I am excited to have my hubby and Derrick tonight.
I havent been able to focus on ME this weekend/ tonight/ I WILL!

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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by RGB49FL » Mon Mar 30, 2009 12:17 am

Mrs. R, I am sure there are clubs near you that have a mixed racial clientele. Just dress up, take L and / or hubby and head out.

I'm sure a bbc will find you without a problem.

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Mon Mar 30, 2009 6:21 am

Derrick didnt come over last night.
I wasnt feeling INTO it with him.
I actually do not know what is wrong with me.
For the first time in a while, I told hubby that I wasnt in the mood for sex.
He was really hoping to have fun with me and Derrick so after realizing that he was very disappointed/ i decided to put on a video and get into the mood.
He was concerned/
Asking me what was wrong/ and I honestly told him that i wasnt sure.
I just felt BLAH!

Time to go for a checkup. It's my time for that yearly gyno thing! Yuck!

I have decided NOT pursue bbc.
It is just not me.
No offense to anyone/ but it is all about choice and preference.
It's not that I dont find black men attractive/ i do/ it's just a BIG leap into another lifestyle and I dont think that I have the energy to change the way i work as a hotwife.

One suggestion from a very loyal poster was to find a married RICH man who is willing to leave his wife for me/ and me the same/ possibly living a poly lifestyle with him/ or fantasy role play where he and I want to spend everyday together and totally cuck my incredible hubby.

Hubby and I are discussing this fantasy.
As of now/ i am comfortable with hubby/children.
This break has been good for us.
Our love making(other than last night) has been very intimate and pleasuable for both of us.
Especially me though/it is nice having the man I love more than anything make love to me/ feeling his desire and committment to me/ i needed that!!

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Mon Mar 30, 2009 6:38 am

Kjeld, not poly in real life but fantasy.
I want to point out that my husband and I have a very vivid fantasy fulfillment urge.
Actually HE is more of the fulfillment person/ but i have learned to love enacting his fantasies/ and at times/ re-enacting my fantasies which i have grown to love doing.

again, We dont want a reallife fulltime poly situation/ so i am trying how to spin this to my hubby and make it work..

There is one guy at the workout center who knows that i am married and having fun sex with Derrick.
Derrick trains this guy and he is constantly telling him how lucky he is to spend time with me.
I was thinking of talking to him to see what he is all about!

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Unread post by RGB49FL » Mon Mar 30, 2009 8:41 am

I HAVE to change where I'm working out!!!

Mrs. R, isn't this kind of back to a Michael thing again? Rich guy, lots of time together? I thought you were moving away from that.

And please. Go get checked up and back to your old HW self. We need you hot and horny all the time.

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Unread post by reese » Mon Mar 30, 2009 11:52 am

Hey everyone!
Kjeldsen and Rgb....thanks for your insight!
We do miss the drama and bending the rules of a relationship.
Derrick isnt providing the emotional spark for my wife.
Together her and I are back to intimate love-making...NO complaints there!
But..........there isnt that challenge that I crave with Derrick!
Michael tested our marriage............and I believe that WE came out stronger and much more in love than ever before.
WE both feel invincible in our marriage.
We both feel that the INTENSITY WE desire can only be satisfied with a man in her life that will challenge us again!
Playing with fire!

This hotwife and cuckold thing.........for us.........WE have control over it.......at least we both believe we do........

BUT.........................

It is like a drug......its addicting!

Hitting that once in a lifetime mental and physical orgasm only leaves us both wanting to experience it again and again....

We both lust over the mental challenges............stimulating our libido's to the point of craziness!!

ANYWAY............my wife is on board with this..usually, I have to work at convincing her to act out my fantasy or her fantasy........but right now........she is 100% on board!!

Michael was manipulating........she is smarter b/c of him.
I trust that she wont make the same mistake twice!!
Reese!!!!
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Unread post by hwc » Tue Mar 31, 2009 5:56 am

Hi Reece, Mrs Reece.

Quote:

"Michael tested our marriage............and I believe that WE came out stronger and much more in love than ever before.
WE both feel invincible in our marriage.
We both feel that the INTENSITY WE desire can only be satisfied with a man in her life that will challenge us again!
Playing with fire!"

Reece, could this perhaps include Mrs Reece purposefully looking for a man to really fall in love with, with your full consent and encouragement?

Obviously this would hurt a lot and make you feel insecure and jealous, but would that not be all part of acting out an "utimate" fantasy?

Can you envisage the raw feelings you would have when, despite overwhelming feelings of jealousy, you actually encourage your wife to spend more time with her boyfriend so as to increase the emotional bond between them?

I understand that this might be way out there and off the scale as far as you are both concerned, but does even contemplating making it a reality make you hot under the collar?

From reading your last few posts, you do at least seem to be skirting around and hinting towards this type of scenario. Correct me please if I am way off the mark here!

I have read a few (real) stories recently where the husband has encouraged the wife to do exactly that, and the feelings and emotions they describe are, well, undescribable!

Hwc

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Unread post by reese » Tue Mar 31, 2009 7:57 am

HWC,
You are absolutely correct with your assumption. I am terrified of letting her fall in love with a man, but I am also extremely secure with the fact that my wife loves me more than words can explain. It was her vision to call herself my slave...and I believe she really feels that way! Talk about a BIG THING.....my wife being my slave?? WOW! But I believe that her thought of being my slave is that her sexual MISSION is finding ways to stimulate me...and with each occurrance...the event REQUIRES more stimulus!! She gets off doing that...she gets off finding NEW ways to achieve that RUSH!! This is why my wife calls herself "my slave". In normal life..we have a mutually equal relationship. Sexually.....SHE needs me to feel that RUSH....and she desires to act out on my fantasies.

With ALL THIS IN MIND............and to answer your question HWC.........my wife and I have been sharing quite a few moments discussing the possible role playing events that can "TAKE US THERE'!

More in the next post...
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Unread post by reese » Tue Mar 31, 2009 8:05 am

PART 2...in my post to HWC.
Being terrified....its all about my emotions and feelings....I still have a very very difficult time letting go ....as much as I encourage it for my own sexual satisfaction...the TORMENT, ANGER, JEALOUSY, and DENIAL drives ME crazy most of the time!
I become another person as I am driven by these wild feelings when my wife plays a hot wife!
I love those feelings and I hate them! I ENVY all the posters that talk about how much they get off knowing their wife is away with their lovers. I read all the time in this incredible FORUM about men encouraging their wives to have their own lives with their lovers...WHY CAN THEY DO THAT BUT I AM UNABLE TO RELAX AND LET GO??

I want to try to be that man! For a while, I was able to put aside my hurt and despair and LET GO! The time with her past lovers...I tolerated my emotions...learned to deal with them...but once she was with Michael.....I changed! I became more possessive...more jealous than I ever was before. I love my wife so much for being patient with me after MICHAEL!
SHe put aside a lot of hotwife play due to my feelings after Michael. She choose a 21 yr old boy to play with knowing that HE would not challenge those feelings of denial, hurt, lonliness and anger!

But we are at a crossroad again! WE both know that we are working up to the point of her falling in love with a man who is not ready to destroy our marriage....but is willing to take her as his own...to take her away from me.....to completely deny me....!!
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by pasadena95 » Tue Mar 31, 2009 11:16 am

This is very risky behavior, maybe you can figure out a way to role-play this scenario so that it doesn't potentially damage or destroy your relationship. In other words, find a guy willing to act all this out with you but who also fully understands this is not for real. Maybe that is not sufficiently intoxicating for you, but it might be a whole lot safer.

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Unread post by aemn611 » Tue Mar 31, 2009 1:46 pm

The key to this whole scenario is the quality of the guy Mrs R finally picks. I could not move out of my house and let another man move in but I think Mr R can and he will hate doing it. To me that is going too far but I don't think it is for the Reeses. I have a concern for her daughter and how she is reading all of this during a move out secnario. Its amazing what kids absorb.

I think the Reeses need to play this game at whatever level does it for them however at some point you have to reach a limit and to step back like they did with Derrick just isn't satisfying. I can totally relate to Mr R and Mrs R desire for more excitement but at some point - and I would say after they have tried this, they may have to call a halt to this for a period of a year or so and it may take some therapy to handle the withdrawl. I only recommend this for their own sanity or it will continue to drive them crazy trying to put them selves in ever more increasingly very risky situations.

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Tue Mar 31, 2009 3:03 pm

guys/
we are rock solid/ my hubby and I.

if we decide to play out this scenario/ i guarantee everyone that THIS IS ONLY FANTASY.
dont misintrepret the meaning of all of this.
nothing and i mean nothing will get in the way of our marriage.

we can do this/ we have taken time away from this lifestyle/ especially most recently since Michael.
I havent had anyone with any significance in my life.

derrick isnt the one/
we both need to be challenged.

its all for fun guys.

nothing more.

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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by RGB49FL » Tue Mar 31, 2009 6:07 pm

Mrs. R, I agree with you completely, just for fun.

But you can find a guy to "date" for fun, to "fuck" for fun, to fall in "love" for fun, maybe even to have a fun second "marriage". Go on a fun "honeymoon" and really cuck Reese with this whole other man thing.

Might be very very interesting.

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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by mrs_reese » Wed Apr 01, 2009 5:32 am

Hi everyone!
Tonight, I am going to an after work hot spot frequented by MEN.
It is downtown, and I have been told by L that there are many men interested in the hunt for sexy women.
This place is very elegant, trendy and full of men.
I told my hubby that I am going there with L/ he is nervous but also full of anticipation.
I am going to take it slow/ but I also want work at getting out in the hotwife scene again.
I am going to wear a very tight skirt/ black high heel/nylons and a low cut top that shows off my ckgorgeous 36c's.
I want to find someone to sweep me off my feet/ It's time to truly cuck my wonderful husband. :whip:
Wish me luck!

xoxoxo

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Unread post by amalfi » Wed Apr 01, 2009 6:54 am

Good luck Mrs. Reese :whip:

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Unread post by hwc » Wed Apr 01, 2009 9:12 am

Thanks for the comprehensive replies, Reece. And good luck the both of you on thenext leg of your ongoing (and never dull) adventure!

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Unread post by reese » Wed Apr 01, 2009 10:05 am

MY HOTWIFE has informed me that she is 100% ready to start fucking with my mind! LOL!
I am so excited to begin our journey to total denial and cucking.
I know that soon...I will begin to regret this decision.
I am intrigued with the fact that I have these dueling emotions.
I know that they will overcome with me all the emotions that cause this sexual RUSH!

We plan on maintaining our marriage....husband and wife....being mom and dad....having the emotional support and trust of each other.

My wife wants to run with this...she has a lot of kinky ideas of how to cuck me..deny me..torment me...and then reward me.

We will enact our safe word again.......with a side bet...it either one of us have to use the code word....
the other will win a personal bet.....that is private...but it is a challenge for me NOT to use the word.

Ok..damn it...i have to tell all of you this...ONCE we both decide that her current soon to be relationship with the unknown lucky fucker is OVER......IF NEITHER ONE OF US USE THE SAFE WORD...WERE TAKING A VACATION.
If I use the word...i promised her diamond earings.
IF she uses the code word.............I get a Harley!
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Unread post by aemn611 » Wed Apr 01, 2009 11:17 am

reese wrote:MY HOTWIFE has informed me that she is 100% ready to start fucking with my mind! LOL!
I am so excited to begin our journey to total denial and cucking.
I know that soon...I will begin to regret this decision.
I am intrigued with the fact that I have these dueling emotions.
I know that they will overcome with me all the emotions that cause this sexual RUSH!

.....Ok..damn it...i have to tell all of you this...ONCE we both decide that her current soon to be relationship with the unknown lucky fucker is OVER......IF NEITHER ONE OF US USE THE SAFE WORD...WERE TAKING A VACATION.
If I use the word...i promised her diamond earings.
IF she uses the code word.............I get a Harley!
This is awesum - let me guess your code word will be "Diamond earings" and her's will be "Harley" LOL. I know this is going to be intense this time and so fun to watch from the outside looking in.

Best of luck to you both.

Aemn

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Wed Apr 01, 2009 12:02 pm

U guys and your safe words/
i have a new one/ HOTWIFE loves cock!!

LOL!

One thing that will be important to me/ my new potential lover must love my feet/ one of my sexiest parts of me! :whip:

Plus, I know that will really send hubby thru the roof!

Leaving in 30 minutes for the afterwork bar/ almost finished getting dressed!! :whip:

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Unread post by RGB49FL » Wed Apr 01, 2009 12:31 pm

damn, i would love to be in that bar. got to get a pic of you in that outfit.

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