Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[BallSpanking]

In fact..., how about a pic of you in your sexy "cum fuck-me" outfit??

[hwc]

I second that emotion!

[aemn611]

Ya know the Reeses are problem solvers that remind me of my wife and I. The concern I have is that Mrs R will settle for less than she could really get in a moment of haste to solve the problem. It kind of reminds me of the old story about the young bull and the old bull standing at the top of the hill. The young bull says "I'm going to run down into the pasture and screw me one of those cows." And the old bull says "I'm going to slowly saunter down there and screw all of them". I appreciate that Mrs. R is out hunting tonight but I hope her screening filter is on high so that she reaches her potential or it is just a nice evening of research.

Best to you both

Aemn

[mrs_reese]

L and I had a great time yesterday afternoon!
We arrived around 545pm.
We noticed an unusually large crowd of business professionals/ i never get out this early!
Most of the crowd consisted of men mixed with some professional woman.
At the bar, right away a man offered to buy us a drink.
His name was Robert. 44 yr old, 6'2? 220, muscular build even with his suit on.
He told me he was a corporate attorney for Ford.
He was a great conversationalist.
Funny/ witty/ even noticing my wedding ring.
Right away, I told him that I am free to see whoever I wanted.
He was intrigued and asked me to elaborate.
I kept it to myself and told him that maybe if he was good he might find out one day.
I left him shorty/ and mingled with L and a few of her NEW friends.
Robert came back to me and informed me that he was leaving.
Handing me his business card, he asked for me to call him one day and meet him for lunch.
As he left/ I fantasized about walking into his office with a overcoat on and high heels with nothing on underneath.
I dreamed of being on my knees as he was taking a conference call swallowing his cum.
Of course I was feeling very light headed after a few martini's compliments of Robert.

Our fun ended shortly after 7.

robert was my new discovery.
I met a few other men but robert had my interest.


Last night LATE/ telling my husband about Robert/ we had incredible sex!

[Softail]

IF she uses the code word.............I get a Harley!

And you NEED one! I'll let someone ride my wife, but NOT my Harley.
Some things are TOO PERSONAL. LOL

[RGB49FL]

A HW dreaming of being on her knees, sucking cock and eating cum. How it should be.

Glad you didn't settle, yet, Mrs R.

[mrs_reese]

rgb, you have such a kinky mind!!
Not sure if I want to lose that bet for a harley/ they are expensive!

Robert??? I havent called him yet/ not sure if i should!
He was very handsome/confident and cocky/ but respectful.

He is the type that I could really have fun with/ sophisticated/ classy/ and sexy eyes!

I asked hubby if I should call him/ of course he has told me TOO many times to call him!

I asked hubby to post a add on cl and have fun picking out a guy after reviewing the responses.
My only rule is that HE finds the guy WHO he thinks would fall in love with me!

I am not rushing into this/ I think I will give Robert a call at his office today.
I fantasized about going into his office today/ being on my knees again!
What is wrong with me??

Bye for now everyone!
Have a fun weekend.

[RGB49FL]

I am not rushing into this/ I think I will give Robert a call at his office today.
I fantasized about going into his office today/ being on my knees again!
What is wrong with me??

Mrs R, why not just call Robert and tell him exactly what you are thinking of doing? Why go through all the meeting for lunch, long discussion, bla, bla, bla.

You want to meet him basically naked, get on your knees in his office and suck him off. Why not just tell him that and see where it goes.

What's the worst that could happen? He backs out. At least you know you won't have to waste your time with him.

[BallSpanking]

I think Robert may pose a challenge to Ms Reese...., or perhaps even a risk.
He sounds like a mature, sophisticated, worldly man, than can introduce Ms Reese to the Sugardaddy concept.
More importantly, though, he might be smart enough, handsome enough, charming enough, and good in bed, to become an actual rival to her affections.
Be vewy, vewy careful.

[aemn611]

.....I hope, Mr. and Mrs. Reece, that you find the same pleasure from your journey that we found. It took us to places neither of us expected, and I am not sure that if I knew going into it what would happen, that I would have chosen it. Sounds like you may have the same curiosity about what you might find.

I thought this was a very telling and insightful post about going for powerful rich guys as nice as they may be - they are a very tough challenge for the hubby's and the HWs to deal with in the end. I would very much like to know what happened without highjacking this thread and hopefully the Reeses can learn from your journey.

[Softail]

Not sure if I want to lose that bet for a harley/ they are expensive!

Mrs R,
Nope, they are not. You don't have to buy "new".
You can get him a decent one for a relatively inexpensive price (assuming you loose the bet).
I paid $4000 for my wifes '02 Sportster w/very low miles, then $1000 on a "custom fitting" for her (then another $500
to repair it after she laid it over). Just look for bargains (Craigslist?) - lots of people are getting rid of their toys now.

Of course, you could be a dear and just buy him one "cuz you love him so much"!
Softail

[mrs_reese]

We love reading the comments from everyone.
JR graham, my hubby and I agree, we would love to read the follow-up to your amazing post.
Please write more!!
Use this thread, we want to HEAR MORE please!

Softail, RGB, AEMN,and Ballspanking, We value your input as always!

So after reading your posts/ I asked hubby if I should really GO for it with robert!
WE both understand the consequences but feel that our marriage is rock solid and that we can withstand the challenge.
We dont want to put too much thought into this/ I just want to see what happens.

I came down to this: either call him and tell him how sexy he was when I met him and that i cant stop thinking about a fantasy i have about walking into his office/ stripping naked and kneeling in front of him tasting his penis!

Or I could just call him and ask him out for a drink!

I went with the 2nd choice. I dont want him to get the wrong ideas about this hotwife!

I called his cell last night. Left a message. He didnt call/but then again/ it was past 10 when I called!

ON his business card, I was remiss to state that he wrote his cell number for me to call too/ in case i wanted to avoid calling his office.


I am waiting!!!

[roadrunner]

I really hate to hijack this thread. I was really only telling this story to show you that I can relate. Reading it again, I was going on and on. Why don't I start a new one.

I think starting a new thread to tell your story would be an excellent idea!

Please?

[RGB49FL]

Mrs. R, we support you always. But, when you are having your drink with him, bring up the fantasy. You really DON'T want him to get the wrong idea about you.

You want his cock and his cum. Let him know that. If he isn't into that, fuck him, or not actually.

Go for it, see what happens.

[hwc]

Reece & Mrs Reece,

Lovin' this thread!

... just to sum up, though, what do you feel individually, are the goals as Mrs Reece pursues Robert? What is the game plan, if you like?

I can imagine this is something you will both discuss on an ongoing basis, would just love to hear where your minds are at at the mo.....


Hwc

[aemn611]

.... Or I could just call him and ask him out for a drink!

I went with the 2nd choice. I dont want him to get the wrong ideas about this hotwife!

I called his cell last night. Left a message. He didnt call/but then again/ it was past 10 when I called!

ON his business card, I was remiss to state that he wrote his cell number for me to call too/ in case i wanted to avoid calling his office.


I am waiting!!!

Dear Mrs. R,

I think you need to decide whether robert will be another fling like Derrick or whether he will become a "candidate" in a larger game of finding the the perfect guy for you to become emotionally involved with and that you use to cuck and deny hubby.

Personally I hope you have the patience to make him one of many candidates in the larger game and when you have your drink with him explain the larger game and find out if he wants to be in the running. Go for the brass ring!

that's my .02

Aemn

[mrs_reese]

Sunday afternoon, Robert called me back telling me that he was very happy that I decided to call him. He told me that he was hoping that I would contact him. I asked him ONE thing! If he was ready to spend time with me and sweep me off my feet! Some of the things that we talked about last wk at the bar led me to that comment.
His comment back was " I am so excited about sharing my life with you"!

We talked for a while. I am a little apprehensive b/c I want to find out if HE is the one to start this transitional lifestyle with.
But I realized while talking to him that He is gorgeous/sophisticated/intellectual/willing to play according to my rules and WHO knows/ maybe he is the ONE and if not/ no bigdeal, I will have other opportunities.
RIGHT???
You must all realize that he and I talked a great deal last wk. He knows that I wanted to pursue a new life challenge by meeting a man to take me away from my husband. He seemed to completely understand me. He asked about hubby/ and I told him that this is our FANTASY/ that hubby and I are completely bonded in trust and love!

Robert and I are meeting tonight while hubby watches the final basketball game tonight.
I cant wait!!

[ucaneffher]

Sunday afternoon, Robert called me back telling me that he was very happy that I decided to call him. He told me that he was hoping that I would contact him. I asked him ONE thing! If he was ready to spend time with me and sweep me off my feet! Some of the things that we talked about last wk at the bar led me to that comment.
His comment back was " I am so excited about sharing my life with you"!

We talked for a while. I am a little apprehensive b/c I want to find out if HE is the one to start this transitional lifestyle with.
But I realized while talking to him that He is gorgeous/sophisticated/intellectual/willing to play according to my rules and WHO knows/ maybe he is the ONE and if not/ no bigdeal, I will have other opportunities.
RIGHT???
You must all realize that he and I talked a great deal last wk. He knows that I wanted to pursue a new life challenge by meeting a man to take me away from my husband. He seemed to completely understand me. He asked about hubby/ and I told him that this is our FANTASY/ that hubby and I are completely bonded in trust and love!

Robert and I are meeting tonight while hubby watches the final basketball game tonight.
I cant wait!!

Nice job the hw and I have also talked about her trying this out...not quite cucking me but finding a permanent boyfriend she can actually get attached to and most likely move in with, hope that isnt considered cucking, if it is then I guess that makes me one.

Good luck on your upcoming journey with Robert

[reese]

Hi everyone!

Just checking in.
I wrote to rbg49fl about my wife minimizing our sex this past weekend...as she told me that I have to start being weaned from her...that is so crazy to me! Why do I put myself through this?
But I love this approach when I am not horny.

Some of you might think that we are crazy...but i can honestly tell you...we dont have many more challenges left if our minds...this will probably be the ultimate.
I am emotionally trying to prepare for this....when I dont focus on my wife too much and what we are attempting to do...life is easier.

This will be the ultimate in cuckolding for us.
I am nervous..but I do know that ONCE we both achieve all the personal satisfaction and fantasy fulfillment....
we may be nearing an end to a lot of this hotwife fantasy play.

I am sure that We will never eliminate this from our lives.....we probably will be more focused on 3somes/ meeting guys at bars.....stuff like that.

BUT....as we approach this next fantasy........I am sure that WE both will push our buttons to the Max!

In terms of our children..........my wife is sharing her child on a more fulltime basis....with her ex. Meaning that they compromised that MOM is with her child more on a daily basis....more in the next post

[reese]

continued from last post;

My wife is allowing her daughter who only goes to pre-school to spend more time with her father on anightly basis.
Everything is working out better than expected. My step-childs dad works all day/ he is willing to spend most nights with his daughter/ mom will spend mornings/afternoons with daughter. \
We have told everyone that my wife has taken a job where she will be travelling a lot...........and we both have realized that WE may be spending time away from each other.

SO..over the past week, we have taken all the necessary steps to make our next journey more possible.
My wife is really into finding her next lover...........one who she will be able to live with daily.
Again, we are taking baby steps.
We have made bets over the safe word that We can use at any time.
Some of you may be wondering if WE are going to destroy our marriage...We wont...we have encountered so many obstacles to our marriage with hotwife play..but we come out much stronger once we "call it a day"!
She wants to live with her lover on a semi-fulltime basis..when she picks up her daughter she will come back to our home...but I will be away from work. I am going to have limited access to my wife. SHe will leave me "care bags" of her panties/stockings/ stuff like that to use on a daily basis.
ONce she finds her NEW MAN...........we will make the necessary adjustments. My wife along with her lover will make up the rules that I must follow completely! It is my understanding that she has already discussed a lot of this with Robert.
They will meet today to make some decisions.Robert understands that this isnt a game...and he must be willing to completely follow my wife's requests.
She is still deciding if there will be a contract where her lover will have a financial responsibility over her and completely deny me unless something is negotiated.

This will be a wild time in our life...........there is no timetable for how long we will live like this...........

again, its all fun.......we both realize that........and we both are committed to fulfilling our individual fantasies......

[SeaGirtCuck]

My wife is really into finding her next lover...........one who she will be able to live with daily.
Some of you may be wondering if WE are going to destroy our marriage...We wont...we have encountered so many obstacles to our marriage with hotwife play..but we come out much stronger once we "call it a day"!
My wife along with her lover will make up the rules that I must follow completely! It is my understanding that she has already discussed a lot of this with Robert.
They will meet today to make some decisions.Robert understands that this isnt a game...and he must be willing to completely follow my wife's requests.
She is still deciding if there will be a contract where her lover will have a financial responsibility over her and completely deny me unless something is negotiated.

This will be a wild time in our life...........there is no timetable for how long we will live like this...........

again, its all fun.......we both realize that........and we both are committed to fulfilling our individual fantasies......

One day all of this will end, as all things do.
I ask, have you honestly given any mature thought how all of this will end?

Why do you think that a woman who is a waitress living with another man, has the mental or emotional capacity or desire to make up rules that you must follow completely, that would also be good for you in the short, mid or long term with ?
Why would some guy named Robert have your best interests in mind beyond paying lip service to your wife so he could keep fucking her?

Adults who work as servants are notorious short term thinkers as a group, who make successions of wrong decisions.
If you think I'm wrong take a long hard look at any waitress who is 50 to 70 year old and ask yourself.
Do I really believe this is this how she really wanted to end up when she was 20 or 30 years old?
Of course not.

Once she moves in with another guy she has left you as she is no longer living with you.

If your wife's lover does indeed end up having financial responsibility over her the two of your have taken the most important step in a divorce, the economic relationship has been severed.

My guess is your wife is a relationship jumper and she is about to jump.

If you still want to giver her boyfriends blow jobs I would get as many blow jobs in a possible if I were you, because when the pussy leaves with your wife so will the boyfriend blow jobs, but on the bright side there is always gay bars for some new cock.

[mrs_reese]

I read my husbands post and I want to elaborate about something.
THIS IS OUR LIFE! AND we both love to play with our fantasies. My wonderful husband taught me how to explore my fantasies by giving me the freedom to pursue them. He has been my most loving and loyal friend though all of this. He may be kinky and a risky thrill seeker to some readers, but to me he is the man that i will spend the rest of my life with.
He taught me that NO owns me/ that I am a free woman despite the ring on my finger. HE taught me that honesty/integrity and committment are the most important characteristics of our marriage.
We will never wander too far OUT THERE to disrespect our vows and bond as a married couple!

This is fun. Be ready for a wild ride! Be careful to read what is posted! AS always, there is more to be understood behind the lines or despite the words that you read in our thread. The mind games are the greatest thrill for my husband.
And I love tormenting him to the point of no return.

Robert appears to be the player that I am searching for. Rich/Powerful/sexy/manly/confident/and willing to work with me.

We both hope that WE dont offend anyone. We both hope that you allow us the freedom and priviledge of experimenting with our hotwife play. I want to push my husband into a world that HE has never gone too before!
Forgive us if you annoyed by our actions. We feel that we have gained many friends in this incredible forum!
Please be there for both of us!
xoxoxo

[aemn611]

I think if Robert pans out tonight, it would be important for Mrs or Mr R to post what they think they know about Roberts situation - Married, divorced, girlfriends, kids or other personal obligations and his honest goals he has with courting Mrs R. Anything about his interests and attributes that particularly excite Mrs R. What sort of adventures does he plan to offer Mrs. R to try and totally sweep her off her feet?

Also will there be same room humiliation of Mr. R while they are having sex etc.? Or will Mr. R never be allowed to watch Mrs R. having sex with her lover?

[mrs_reese]

seacuck girl/ what makes you the all mighty know it all?

How dare you!

We choose to live through our fantasies.

Hubby puts cock in his mouth only at my urging and that is WHEN we are in another state of mind!
Does he put another mans penis in my mouth to intensify my orgasm? yes!
Does he crave another mans penis? Or want to go to the other side and be with men? NO!
Does he seek penis with or without me? NO!
Would he ever suck another mans penis if I didnt use mind games to do that? NO!
So back off on the gay bar/ and losing me once I move out and not having a cock to suck!
He wont ever GO there anyway! It takes a lot for him to do that anyway!
And the rewards are more than any man could ever imagine for my husband once HE does that FOR ME!

This is the lifestyle WE choose to live.
SO far it has only intensified our marriage in regards to our love/committment and honesty.

I serve b/c it gives me some time away from home.
I do not need to work.
I quit a good paying job to be a married wife at my husbands urging a few years ago.

He is financially successful.
We dont need another persons money!

This is our moment. If you dont like what we are doing then stay away!

[SeaGirtCuck]

seacuck girl/ what makes you the all mighty know it all?

How dare you!

We choose to live through our fantasies.

Hubby puts cock in his mouth only at my urging and that is WHEN we are in another state of mind!
Does he put another mans penis in my mouth to intensify my orgasm? yes!
Does he crave another mans penis? Or want to go to the other side and be with men? NO!
Does he seek penis with or without me? NO!
Would he ever suck another mans penis if I didnt use mind games to do that? NO!
So back off on the gay bar/ and losing me once I move out and not having a cock to suck!

If you dont like what we are doing then stay away!

You asked, seacuck girl/ what makes you the all mighty know it all?

Answer: The ability to exercise common sense combined with experience.
You are still young, feel free to ask anyone over 50, when they made their crucial mistakes that robbed them of their life desires and goals.

I am willing to bet you everyone of them will answer that the moment was, when they where positive that they weren't making any mistakes and they were between 27 and 37 and the die was cast and the game for all intents and purposes was over and the drudge began.

You've met them your whole life for example the guy that wanted to be scientist in high school ends up selling vacuum cleaners or the woman who wanted to be a actress ends up bagging groceries at the supermarket or how about those charming people working in real estate called realtors, mortgage brokers, home inspectors, etc.

In my entire life I have never met a young person of high school or college age who aspired to be a vacuum cleaner salesperson, grocery bagger, a realtor, mortgage broker, home inspectors etc.
It not that these are dishonest jobs as they are not, they are jobs that people end up in after they have made that crucial mistake and the die is cast.
You see the job picked them as that is all they could be once the damage was done.

It's just like husbands.
Have you ever met anyone who wanted a husband who would beat them senseless or an alcoholic/junkie and then not have the personal power to leave?
Many people end up there and the way they all did is the made that crucial mistake and at the time they were so sure they were not.

We live in very strange times where people feel that whatever they do is also free of consequence and if anyone says otherwise they tell them to fuck off and the consequences will never come home to roost, this is called magical thinking. The current world economic crisis is an excellent example of this.

You had a child with one man and left him for another and now you are looking to leave that man for yet another.
That is relationship jumping and if you like it and guys like, perfect and I support you in your choices past, present and future.

Ask any gay guy about any man who sucks cock other than a one time life event and they will all have the same answer.
Or even better ask any drag queen about the supposed straight guys they have sex with.
I guess the entire gay world is wrong about the guys sucking their cocks and your right, OK.

If your plan works, you may well be the first women in human history to move in with a guy and still hold an allegiance to the guy she left behind.
Sure you will, and I support you in this endeavor and will applaud you if you succeed in it and you should write a book about for it will make you rich.

As far as me liking what you are doing, I love it, as I love watching the theater of it and I also find it very funny in a strange kind of a way, with no risk to me, high risk to you.

It's like watching somebody putting their tongue in a light socket over and over again and they never know when the electric is turned on but they never stop doing it.
It is a very interesting thing to be the observer at such a show.

Have fun and don't spend to much time thinking about anything I have said.
There was and is no intent to disrupt the show currently on exibition, as the show must go on and the crowd goes wild.