Now, it's time to let the fun begin, lol.....Hang on Reese, this roller coaster is pulling out of the station. Kudos to you two..
Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
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So glad to see that all is well with you and hubby, Im glad you two took the time to reflect and re-asure each other of what you needed to confirm.
Now, it's time to let the fun begin, lol.....Hang on Reese, this roller coaster is pulling out of the station. Kudos to you two..
Now, it's time to let the fun begin, lol.....Hang on Reese, this roller coaster is pulling out of the station. Kudos to you two..
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
All is as should be. 
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I was in a very naughty mood last night. I met up with Robert at his favorite spot later than usual since he was working long hours. But since it's summer time, the weather is nice and it doesnt get dark till later.
8pm, hubby and I were at the bar waiting. I was eager to cuck hubby again in front of Robert and his friends. Since I havent been with Robert in a while, I wanted to prove to him that he will be the superior male making love to me on this night. I wanted Robert to prove to me that I should allow him to take control over me by putting hubby in his place in front of all his friends. I know hubby is a kink freak, but watching him transform from dominant lover to my cucked hubby is a big turnon for me! Knowing that this macho man will act that way for me also turns me on!
Hubby and I were waiting for robert. We shared a few drinks before R came into the room. Everyone saw hubby and I together. I made a point of that! I kissed hubby a few times/ but nothing intimate. I was looking all around the room, to make sure that if anyone noticed us, they would wonder why i wasnt paying too much attention to the sexy man standing next to me! I wanted to make a point that I was eager to find my lover. I wasnt interested in my hubby, and I wanted everyone to know that. Once Robert came to us, I immediately embraced him and kissed him affectionately. Looking around the room, i noticed a few glances from the crowd! Hubby went to get Robert a drink and stood back while We kissed and touched each other. I wasnt acting at this point, I was so happy to be touching Robert.
Holding his hands, kissing, i was in heaven! Soon, one of Roberts friends came up to us, they were a married couple. Robert introduced me as his girlfriend and did not introduce my hubby(on purpose). Once the conversation started, I told the couple that WE were sorry forgetting to introduce MY HUSBAND!
THe look on their faces was priceless. Needless to say, the evening was very sexy for me. I felt everyone watching us, Robert gets off on that as well. I think hubby was into this also/ he loves role playing, and I think it was just as powerful knowing that his wife was very slutty on this night!
We went back to our house and had sexy 3some sex/ hubby cleaned us off as usual!
I dont want to bore you with the details
But I did want you to know how much fun it was for me to cuck my MAN!
8pm, hubby and I were at the bar waiting. I was eager to cuck hubby again in front of Robert and his friends. Since I havent been with Robert in a while, I wanted to prove to him that he will be the superior male making love to me on this night. I wanted Robert to prove to me that I should allow him to take control over me by putting hubby in his place in front of all his friends. I know hubby is a kink freak, but watching him transform from dominant lover to my cucked hubby is a big turnon for me! Knowing that this macho man will act that way for me also turns me on!
Hubby and I were waiting for robert. We shared a few drinks before R came into the room. Everyone saw hubby and I together. I made a point of that! I kissed hubby a few times/ but nothing intimate. I was looking all around the room, to make sure that if anyone noticed us, they would wonder why i wasnt paying too much attention to the sexy man standing next to me! I wanted to make a point that I was eager to find my lover. I wasnt interested in my hubby, and I wanted everyone to know that. Once Robert came to us, I immediately embraced him and kissed him affectionately. Looking around the room, i noticed a few glances from the crowd! Hubby went to get Robert a drink and stood back while We kissed and touched each other. I wasnt acting at this point, I was so happy to be touching Robert.
Holding his hands, kissing, i was in heaven! Soon, one of Roberts friends came up to us, they were a married couple. Robert introduced me as his girlfriend and did not introduce my hubby(on purpose). Once the conversation started, I told the couple that WE were sorry forgetting to introduce MY HUSBAND!
THe look on their faces was priceless. Needless to say, the evening was very sexy for me. I felt everyone watching us, Robert gets off on that as well. I think hubby was into this also/ he loves role playing, and I think it was just as powerful knowing that his wife was very slutty on this night!
We went back to our house and had sexy 3some sex/ hubby cleaned us off as usual!
I dont want to bore you with the details
But I did want you to know how much fun it was for me to cuck my MAN!
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I had an interesting discussion with a Gf from the forum. She is someone who I respect and admire.
Our discussion led me to believe that I needed to make a personal testament to the readers who follow our thread.
I am not sure how much longer hubby and I will continue to actively pursue this lifestyle. He has changed. A woman could only dream to have a man who she calls her husband to be so attentive, loving and loyal to her! On top of all that, to have a husband take such a sexual interest in her after 5 years together is another dream come true!
But my husband has grown more jealous of my lack of attention to him. He remains confident and sexual charged but when I sense a change in his behavior, I usually take a time-out like I did this past weekend! I usually fall out of lust and sometimes love with my lover when he becomes pushy and demands more time with me. Or when he attempts to convince me to leave my hubby! Robert can be like this somtimes! Like most men in this situation I presume!
My hubby demands more attention b/c I think he is afraid of losing me! He wont necessarily tell me that, but his words and actions convince me that is how he is feeling! Am I correct baby??
With Robert, he is a dream come true! As of today, hubby and I are making a serious attempt to allow Robert to stay in our lives/ for me to spend more time with Robert. I want to discontinue parading around town trying to pick up available men. I want to see if WE all can make this work! But first, my husband and I must determine HOW to make this work!
I need to balance my love for Hubby and Robert! I know that hubby is adament of the fact theat HE loves the denial and the fact that I act slutty as another mans lover. I believe that he loves role reversal and acting like a cuck makes him especially dominant when he becomes my lover again!
The only problem is that we have to figure out the jealosuy thing with Hubby! At times, Robert too acts jealous!
Is it ME??? DO I make men go crazy like that?
Once I get too close to a man like Robert, I become afraid of falling SO deeply in love with him that I will lose my hubby !
That is the thing that I must work out!
Do you all understand me?
This lifestyle is not easy for all of us!
When the fantasy becomes complete reality/ emotions take over!
I know that hubby and I both admire some of our fellow OHW friends who have a poly relationship!
We may be too immature to live that life right now!
But we will continue to work together to find the answer.
All the while OUR marriage is stronger than ever!
At the end of the day/ my hubby is my priority in life!
All else comes after him!
But if we all can not figure out the jealousy issues, I will make all of this end!
Thanks for listening.
Ps, Robert and I will be spending some one on one time tomorrow. I need to be with him alone!
Our discussion led me to believe that I needed to make a personal testament to the readers who follow our thread.
I am not sure how much longer hubby and I will continue to actively pursue this lifestyle. He has changed. A woman could only dream to have a man who she calls her husband to be so attentive, loving and loyal to her! On top of all that, to have a husband take such a sexual interest in her after 5 years together is another dream come true!
But my husband has grown more jealous of my lack of attention to him. He remains confident and sexual charged but when I sense a change in his behavior, I usually take a time-out like I did this past weekend! I usually fall out of lust and sometimes love with my lover when he becomes pushy and demands more time with me. Or when he attempts to convince me to leave my hubby! Robert can be like this somtimes! Like most men in this situation I presume!
My hubby demands more attention b/c I think he is afraid of losing me! He wont necessarily tell me that, but his words and actions convince me that is how he is feeling! Am I correct baby??
With Robert, he is a dream come true! As of today, hubby and I are making a serious attempt to allow Robert to stay in our lives/ for me to spend more time with Robert. I want to discontinue parading around town trying to pick up available men. I want to see if WE all can make this work! But first, my husband and I must determine HOW to make this work!
I need to balance my love for Hubby and Robert! I know that hubby is adament of the fact theat HE loves the denial and the fact that I act slutty as another mans lover. I believe that he loves role reversal and acting like a cuck makes him especially dominant when he becomes my lover again!
The only problem is that we have to figure out the jealosuy thing with Hubby! At times, Robert too acts jealous!
Is it ME??? DO I make men go crazy like that?
Once I get too close to a man like Robert, I become afraid of falling SO deeply in love with him that I will lose my hubby !
That is the thing that I must work out!
Do you all understand me?
This lifestyle is not easy for all of us!
When the fantasy becomes complete reality/ emotions take over!
I know that hubby and I both admire some of our fellow OHW friends who have a poly relationship!
We may be too immature to live that life right now!
But we will continue to work together to find the answer.
All the while OUR marriage is stronger than ever!
At the end of the day/ my hubby is my priority in life!
All else comes after him!
But if we all can not figure out the jealousy issues, I will make all of this end!
Thanks for listening.
Ps, Robert and I will be spending some one on one time tomorrow. I need to be with him alone!
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Dear Mrs. R,mrs_reese wrote:.....I am not sure how much longer hubby and I will continue to actively pursue this lifestyle. He has changed. .....But my husband has grown more jealous of my lack of attention to him. He remains confident and sexual charged but when I sense a change in his behavior, I usually take a time-out like I did this past weekend! ......My hubby demands more attention b/c I think he is afraid of losing me! He wont necessarily tell me that, but his words and actions convince me that is how he is feeling!.........Am I correct baby??......... But first, my husband and I must determine HOW to make this work!....I need to balance my love for Hubby and Robert! .....The only problem is that we have to figure out the jealosuy thing with Hubby! At times, Robert too acts jealous!......Is it ME??? DO I make men go crazy like that?
Once I get too close to a man like Robert, I become afraid of falling SO deeply in love with him that I will lose my hubby !........This lifestyle is not easy for all of us!
When the fantasy becomes complete reality/ emotions take over!.....At the end of the day/ my hubby is my priority in life!.....All else comes after him!......But if we all can not figure out the jealousy issues, I will make all of this end!
.........Ps, Robert and I will be spending some one on one time tomorrow. I need to be with him alone!
What a thoughtful introspective post. The behavior changes in Mr R are unacceptable and you ought to seriously consider stopping. You two have played to the max, and the experiment in having a love affair apparently is too real and it feels like the two men want your affections too much. Robert must be amazing, even for you, and I suspect you know if you go any farther with him, there is no turning back and Mr R know knows this too at some level. You already have your answer from the post above as there appears to be no middle ground between the two men and if you continue it will be too hard for you not to fall madly in love with Robert at the expense of you marriage. It sounds like tomorrow night may be it for Robert and very difficult for you and I wouldn't blame you if you called it quits. I'm sure all of us would understand if you didn't want to post after that, but maybe Mr. R could let us know what happened in a closing post after tomorrow night.
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Aemn
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Hey all..............hang on tight...We are not going to call it quits that easily.
We just need to find a middle ground.
I am not perfect, I admit that my feelings of jealousy are over-whelming at times!
The funny thing is...the title of my original THREAD was all about jealousy!
I still havent figured it out!
But we have come a long way since those early days of hotwife play.
My wife was feeling very confused earlier today.
We spent some incredible moments last weekend.
I believe that she was feeling guilty after our time together.
Or maybe I confused her?
One way or another, WE will figure this out!
Tomorrow, she plans on spending time with Robert alone; I encouraged her to spend some alone time with him.
We are taking this one hotwife moment at a time!
Dont count us out yet!
We just need to find a middle ground.
I am not perfect, I admit that my feelings of jealousy are over-whelming at times!
The funny thing is...the title of my original THREAD was all about jealousy!
I still havent figured it out!
But we have come a long way since those early days of hotwife play.
My wife was feeling very confused earlier today.
We spent some incredible moments last weekend.
I believe that she was feeling guilty after our time together.
Or maybe I confused her?
One way or another, WE will figure this out!
Tomorrow, she plans on spending time with Robert alone; I encouraged her to spend some alone time with him.
We are taking this one hotwife moment at a time!
Dont count us out yet!
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
I found these last posts fascinating, and insightful.
Ms Reese acknowledges she would love to continue to see Robert if the jealousy issues can be worked out.
Mr Reese confirms his commitment in getting his jealousy under control, and would love to have a HotWife still.
To me the question was best posed by Ms Reese, and there's no answer to the question yet.
Could she fall hard for a man like Robert that has evrything going for him?
What happens her husband's standing when she spends a significant part of her affection on the other man?
It's delicious and fraught with peril.
Ms Reese admits to wanting to continue seeing Robert, but doesn't want to lose Mr reese in doing so.
Somehow, I think she can have her cake, and eat it too (though if that were me, I'd definitely cool the humiliation bit).
To me it shouldn't be a matter of diminished standing when two parts of a couple decide that sexual liberation is a good thing for the woman (too).
Now we call her a HotWife.
It is a beautiful thing to behold.
Ms Reese acknowledges she would love to continue to see Robert if the jealousy issues can be worked out.
Mr Reese confirms his commitment in getting his jealousy under control, and would love to have a HotWife still.
To me the question was best posed by Ms Reese, and there's no answer to the question yet.
Could she fall hard for a man like Robert that has evrything going for him?
What happens her husband's standing when she spends a significant part of her affection on the other man?
It's delicious and fraught with peril.
Ms Reese admits to wanting to continue seeing Robert, but doesn't want to lose Mr reese in doing so.
Somehow, I think she can have her cake, and eat it too (though if that were me, I'd definitely cool the humiliation bit).
To me it shouldn't be a matter of diminished standing when two parts of a couple decide that sexual liberation is a good thing for the woman (too).
Now we call her a HotWife.
It is a beautiful thing to behold.
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Really, they're not "unacceptable". They are simply difficult to deal with, given the context.aemn611 wrote:
Dear Mrs. R,
The behavior changes in Mr R are unacceptable
read my wife's thoughts and erotica at http://psyches-summer.blogspot.com
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Tonight, I am spending the night with Robert! I am excited. One day at a time is our approach with all of this!
I just want all of you to know that I enjoy cucking hubby b/c it give me some control and living this lifestyle where I cuck hubby/ it is so out of the realm or reality for all of us! By doing that, I can put all of this in its place!
I feel love for Robert but its not like the love i share with my husband. It is impossible for me to be intimate with a man without having feelings/ UNLIKE MEN!
xoxoxo!
I just want all of you to know that I enjoy cucking hubby b/c it give me some control and living this lifestyle where I cuck hubby/ it is so out of the realm or reality for all of us! By doing that, I can put all of this in its place!
I feel love for Robert but its not like the love i share with my husband. It is impossible for me to be intimate with a man without having feelings/ UNLIKE MEN!
xoxoxo!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Sorry if I take exception to that last statement, Ms Reese.
Men also develop feelings and emotional attachments to their sexual partners, if not immediately, then eventually...
Men also develop feelings and emotional attachments to their sexual partners, if not immediately, then eventually...
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I am sorry ballspanking. forgive me for being so insensitive.
I agree with you!
Ps. Robert and I are reading our thread. He is loving all of this!
I agree with you!
Ps. Robert and I are reading our thread. He is loving all of this!
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is it fair to say that i write this as roberts cum leaks from me?
where is my hubby when I need him?
xoxo
ps: I love being a hotwife!
Robert loves me being his hot wife tonight also.
too bad hubby was away watching the hockey and basketball games
where is my hubby when I need him?
xoxo
ps: I love being a hotwife!
Robert loves me being his hot wife tonight also.
too bad hubby was away watching the hockey and basketball games
Reese!!!!
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"I think therefore I am"
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
It appears Mrs R logged onto Mr R's acct to post - Not sure why she did that
I sense a cuck tease going on here. Mrs R intentionally had a private evening with Robert and taunts Mr. R with the fact he is not there to clean her up when she knows full well Mr R can't be - its Robert's evening and she is Robert's hotwife.
I sense a cuck tease going on here. Mrs R intentionally had a private evening with Robert and taunts Mr. R with the fact he is not there to clean her up when she knows full well Mr R can't be - its Robert's evening and she is Robert's hotwife.
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Mrs R has Mr R's password, and yes, you are correct aemn, Robert and I were reading from his account!
As I said before, I love cucking my hubby. It makes all of this more fantasy than reality for me and is easier to handle.
Having Robert with me as I opened MrR's account was fun and controlling!
Btw, we shared a nice evening together; Robert and I .
It was nice spending time alone.
Hubby was busy with his friends watching the Redwings and Magic play last night.
Those are his favorite teams in the finals.
Hubby and I plan on spending all weekend together with children.
Bye for now!
xoxoxo
As I said before, I love cucking my hubby. It makes all of this more fantasy than reality for me and is easier to handle.
Having Robert with me as I opened MrR's account was fun and controlling!
Btw, we shared a nice evening together; Robert and I .
It was nice spending time alone.
Hubby was busy with his friends watching the Redwings and Magic play last night.
Those are his favorite teams in the finals.
Hubby and I plan on spending all weekend together with children.
Bye for now!
xoxoxo
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I'd like to know Mrs. R's score on the test: http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=6906
I think this is funny as hell!
I think this is funny as hell!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Ms Reese,
Now that Robert is your BF (more or less), I was wondering how he would react to you cucking him with, say, a BBC instructor from the fitness club...?
Would you enjoy performing for Robert while a well-hung, BBC fitness instructor worked you out? (preferably bareback, so you'd have to set it up in advance)
Now that Robert is your BF (more or less), I was wondering how he would react to you cucking him with, say, a BBC instructor from the fitness club...?
Would you enjoy performing for Robert while a well-hung, BBC fitness instructor worked you out? (preferably bareback, so you'd have to set it up in advance)
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
I am very happy for both of you. Taking a load of cum from a friend is an act of love for your cuckhold hubby. It is only part of the normal human desire for procreation from apes for him to desire it. I have been turned on by this since I was a teenager and I know what a great line it is to cross to fuck other men for your husband. I hope he thanks you every time you do. You may ask him if he wants to lick your pussy after you return from a fuck with your BF. I was too shy to ask at first but it is another part of the normal human sexual response in many cuckhold men.
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Reece,
how do you feel about the possibility of Mrs Reece developing deeper feelings for Robert? What if she falls in love with him? Is this something that you would encourage or discourage your wife from doing?
Knowing that spending more ime together will most likely make this outcome more probable, does that make you want mrs Reece to spend more, or less time with Robert?
How would you feel if Mrs Reece tells you she has fallen in love with him?
Hwc
how do you feel about the possibility of Mrs Reece developing deeper feelings for Robert? What if she falls in love with him? Is this something that you would encourage or discourage your wife from doing?
Knowing that spending more ime together will most likely make this outcome more probable, does that make you want mrs Reece to spend more, or less time with Robert?
How would you feel if Mrs Reece tells you she has fallen in love with him?
Hwc
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Hey wolfman...Mr R here...thanks for your kind words.
Hwc....I know mrs.r has fallen for Robert and i do believe her when she tells me that it is so much different than our love. I am jealous at times with her feelings toward Robert, but I am resigned to the fact that IF I want to continue to reach my sexual HIGHS with my wife, then I have to LET go of my jealous feelings that are causing emotional confusion and heartache to my wife. I trust her...its that simple. As much as I hate knowing that another man will take her heart and mind away from me...it is also one of my greatest turn-ons...losing my wife to another man.
Every time she comes back to me with a sticky worn pussy...it drives me crazy...and everytime she comes back to me giving herself to me as a reward for my patience and the fact that I encouraged her to be a hotwife...well than...it makes it that much more worthwhile!
MrsR does love Robert...I dont like it..but I tolerate it!
Her response to me on a daily basis is all I need to be re-assurred that we own each other's hearts!
I am afraid of losing her, but I trust her!
ONE MORE THING...when I am able to withness their lovemaking....IT is amazing to watch the loving exchange b/w my wife and Robert. My jealousy and lust for her reach overload! As much as I hate her feeling that way, I also am driven with a desire to encourage it more and more because my SEX is off the charts as i experience all of that!
Hwc....I know mrs.r has fallen for Robert and i do believe her when she tells me that it is so much different than our love. I am jealous at times with her feelings toward Robert, but I am resigned to the fact that IF I want to continue to reach my sexual HIGHS with my wife, then I have to LET go of my jealous feelings that are causing emotional confusion and heartache to my wife. I trust her...its that simple. As much as I hate knowing that another man will take her heart and mind away from me...it is also one of my greatest turn-ons...losing my wife to another man.
Every time she comes back to me with a sticky worn pussy...it drives me crazy...and everytime she comes back to me giving herself to me as a reward for my patience and the fact that I encouraged her to be a hotwife...well than...it makes it that much more worthwhile!
MrsR does love Robert...I dont like it..but I tolerate it!
Her response to me on a daily basis is all I need to be re-assurred that we own each other's hearts!
I am afraid of losing her, but I trust her!
ONE MORE THING...when I am able to withness their lovemaking....IT is amazing to watch the loving exchange b/w my wife and Robert. My jealousy and lust for her reach overload! As much as I hate her feeling that way, I also am driven with a desire to encourage it more and more because my SEX is off the charts as i experience all of that!
Reese!!!!
"I think therefore I am"
"I think therefore I am"
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
In commenting on the fact that his wife has fallen for Robert, Reese makes a number of profound statements.
He suggests that it's possible for a wife to love her husband and another man simultaneously. My wife has done this several times during our long marriage.
Loving one person does not mean taking love away from the other person. Incredibly, in our case when my wife has loved another man, her love for me has increased.
One could argue about the relative importance or quality of the two loves. For instance, a husband might wonder: "Does my wife love me more than she loves her lover? Does she love me in a different way?" But having found that such questions add nothing to our marital happiness, I ignore them.
I believe that Reese is on the right path when he urges himself to let go of his jealous feelings--feelings which cause emotional confusion and heartache to his wife as well as to himself. In my life, jealousy has always proven to be destructive. Whereas living in the moment--by which I mean accepting the love that my wife gives me--increases the love that we share.
IH
He suggests that it's possible for a wife to love her husband and another man simultaneously. My wife has done this several times during our long marriage.
Loving one person does not mean taking love away from the other person. Incredibly, in our case when my wife has loved another man, her love for me has increased.
One could argue about the relative importance or quality of the two loves. For instance, a husband might wonder: "Does my wife love me more than she loves her lover? Does she love me in a different way?" But having found that such questions add nothing to our marital happiness, I ignore them.
I believe that Reese is on the right path when he urges himself to let go of his jealous feelings--feelings which cause emotional confusion and heartache to his wife as well as to himself. In my life, jealousy has always proven to be destructive. Whereas living in the moment--by which I mean accepting the love that my wife gives me--increases the love that we share.
IH
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Possibly polyamory in process here...
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Irwinhill.....my words exactly! Thank-you for sharing!
Last night, my wife and I were intimate and shared a few moments discussing our situation. We both agreed that taking this one day at a time is less mentally challenging. She is very comfortable with Robert in her life. As long as my jealous reactions are put aside, she wants to continue spending time with him. She re-iterated that she has 2 purposes for being a hotwife with Robert. She loves the way he makes her feel sexually and that I continue to gain sexual gratification when she is playing with him. Of course she loves the attention and freedom that she feels when she plays hotwife.
We both realized that this is what we want and we will do our best to make it work!
Tonight, my wife plans on spending the night with Robert and meeting him for lunch after he leaves for work.
While we were making love, she did a 360 and started telling me that I better enjoy her hotwife pussy b/c she is giving it to Robert tomorrow. Telling me how much she loves Robert making love to her made me explode quicker than I expected.
One thing that has happened to my wife since we started playing a few years ago is that she is much more kinkier than she used to be. Last night, she wanted me to pay special attention to her butt...touching it while licking her to orgasm, kissing and licking her back side is so kinky and erotic. Her flavor in all her hotspots are so tasty!
One day at a time.......not to steal the title from our friend, but that is our approach and it seems to be working.
Last night, my wife and I were intimate and shared a few moments discussing our situation. We both agreed that taking this one day at a time is less mentally challenging. She is very comfortable with Robert in her life. As long as my jealous reactions are put aside, she wants to continue spending time with him. She re-iterated that she has 2 purposes for being a hotwife with Robert. She loves the way he makes her feel sexually and that I continue to gain sexual gratification when she is playing with him. Of course she loves the attention and freedom that she feels when she plays hotwife.
We both realized that this is what we want and we will do our best to make it work!
Tonight, my wife plans on spending the night with Robert and meeting him for lunch after he leaves for work.
While we were making love, she did a 360 and started telling me that I better enjoy her hotwife pussy b/c she is giving it to Robert tomorrow. Telling me how much she loves Robert making love to her made me explode quicker than I expected.
One thing that has happened to my wife since we started playing a few years ago is that she is much more kinkier than she used to be. Last night, she wanted me to pay special attention to her butt...touching it while licking her to orgasm, kissing and licking her back side is so kinky and erotic. Her flavor in all her hotspots are so tasty!
One day at a time.......not to steal the title from our friend, but that is our approach and it seems to be working.
Reese!!!!
"I think therefore I am"
"I think therefore I am"
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
It sounds like Reeses have a workable arrangement. If I were Robert I'd make sure Mr R took care of Mrs R butt with his tounge while I was buried deep in Mrs R telling her how much I loved her. And Mrs R would say???????
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wolfman4455
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
I am in awe of Reese,
I have seen the pictures of Mrs Reese and she is the hottest woman on the planet. She is every man dream. Her fucking other men is an act of love for her husband. He should thank her every day. My first marriage was harmed by my lack of understanding about what we were doing sexually and why it turned us on. It is natural and primal to share your wife with others. I wish I knew then what I know now.
Her affair with Robert may be confusing for both of them, but if she feels too close she may want to bring another lover into the mix to give some emotional distance. Two or three are emotionally easier to handle because the relationship is not exclusive for any of them. The only real relationship that continues is that between her and her very lucky cuckhold husband. It can be hot sexy and incredibly fun if you realize the dfference between a wayward wife and a cuckholdress. A cuckholdress is being extra true to her husband by fucking other men, but the other men have no rights beyond what their cocks will earn them. As an example, one of my wifes FBs was a man she said she didn't even like but was safe, horney and aggressive with a big cock. She could fuck him bareback and then tell me how she hated him but came three times while he was fucking her.
I am supposed to be fairly goodlooking and I had a woman that I had had an affair with twenty years ago call last week to ask how I was. I know the code. That actually means, please fuck me again and don't tell your wife maybe we were meant for each other. She is goodlooking and actually knows Stevie Nicks, but I have learned that those kinds of relationships don't end well.
The only rule I have learned in a lifetime of cuckholding, is that the only exclusive trusting relationship is between the cuckhold and his wife.
I have seen the pictures of Mrs Reese and she is the hottest woman on the planet. She is every man dream. Her fucking other men is an act of love for her husband. He should thank her every day. My first marriage was harmed by my lack of understanding about what we were doing sexually and why it turned us on. It is natural and primal to share your wife with others. I wish I knew then what I know now.
Her affair with Robert may be confusing for both of them, but if she feels too close she may want to bring another lover into the mix to give some emotional distance. Two or three are emotionally easier to handle because the relationship is not exclusive for any of them. The only real relationship that continues is that between her and her very lucky cuckhold husband. It can be hot sexy and incredibly fun if you realize the dfference between a wayward wife and a cuckholdress. A cuckholdress is being extra true to her husband by fucking other men, but the other men have no rights beyond what their cocks will earn them. As an example, one of my wifes FBs was a man she said she didn't even like but was safe, horney and aggressive with a big cock. She could fuck him bareback and then tell me how she hated him but came three times while he was fucking her.
I am supposed to be fairly goodlooking and I had a woman that I had had an affair with twenty years ago call last week to ask how I was. I know the code. That actually means, please fuck me again and don't tell your wife maybe we were meant for each other. She is goodlooking and actually knows Stevie Nicks, but I have learned that those kinds of relationships don't end well.
The only rule I have learned in a lifetime of cuckholding, is that the only exclusive trusting relationship is between the cuckhold and his wife.
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Hi, this is my first post, though I' ve been lurking here for quite a long time.
Just an observation from someone considering the hotwife lifestyle: When threads cross bounderies they can have quite an impact on those who read them. This thread seems to be better suited in the cuck forum. This seems to be more of a cuck situation than hotwife. The casual way these situations get interchanged can cause confusion among the inexperienced. After reading a good amount of posts where things really get off tract we've decided to reverse gears around here and put this adventure on the back burner, at best.
So that could be a positive as well as a negative (depending on the final outcome and the reactions to the whole enchalada, of course).We have an interest in MFM adventures but I am unclear if that would define a "hotwife". We do not want a realtionship with a 3rd person, dating, phone calls, etc. We want a 2nd (or 3rd or 4th?) cock to play with her but that is all. Nothing else. Zero. Nada. If a robot would work for us we'd build one!
From my point of view an important part of hotwifing is the "wife" part. Hense, to us, without a husband a hotwife is mearly a slut. So all the talk about hotwives falling in love with FBs, and the FB calling the shots in the encounters really turns the situation to the off setting for us. In a way this site was intergral in getting us to take the steps to turn our fantasy into reality, but then just as quickly it was key in us reversing gears.
Sometimes it seems like I am lurking at the perfect site and sometimes not so much. Again, these comments are not meant to be negative, just observations.
Sorry if it apears I am trying to hyjack this thread - it is just that this is the thread that got tme to come out of lurker mode.
Peace
Just an observation from someone considering the hotwife lifestyle: When threads cross bounderies they can have quite an impact on those who read them. This thread seems to be better suited in the cuck forum. This seems to be more of a cuck situation than hotwife. The casual way these situations get interchanged can cause confusion among the inexperienced. After reading a good amount of posts where things really get off tract we've decided to reverse gears around here and put this adventure on the back burner, at best.
So that could be a positive as well as a negative (depending on the final outcome and the reactions to the whole enchalada, of course).We have an interest in MFM adventures but I am unclear if that would define a "hotwife". We do not want a realtionship with a 3rd person, dating, phone calls, etc. We want a 2nd (or 3rd or 4th?) cock to play with her but that is all. Nothing else. Zero. Nada. If a robot would work for us we'd build one!
From my point of view an important part of hotwifing is the "wife" part. Hense, to us, without a husband a hotwife is mearly a slut. So all the talk about hotwives falling in love with FBs, and the FB calling the shots in the encounters really turns the situation to the off setting for us. In a way this site was intergral in getting us to take the steps to turn our fantasy into reality, but then just as quickly it was key in us reversing gears.
Sometimes it seems like I am lurking at the perfect site and sometimes not so much. Again, these comments are not meant to be negative, just observations.
Sorry if it apears I am trying to hyjack this thread - it is just that this is the thread that got tme to come out of lurker mode.
Peace