That's what's important.
edit: Hugs to your friends and family who've had such a rough time lately.
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THAT is hot! It would have blown my mind too!Ky_Da wrote:
He slowly worked his cock into her pussy while she was catching me up on a few news events from her own job. She paused every now and again as his cock penetrated her, but soon enough he was sliding in and out of her easily. It fucking blew my mind. They were both seated so that they were facing me. They only had their clothes removed enough so that he could get his cock inside of her. They were both looking at me and we were still talking about the previous week’s events. Again, the casualness struck me.
Completely agree.There was something about their whole date which I found way hotter than any of their liaisons before.Maybe it was the non-sexual date with a romantic tinge,the casual familiarity of it all. Would have been hotter still had it been middle of the week,with Ky away.Jaimmee seems to have no self-control around Wade any more.Thats HOT. But I also believe Ky did the right thing by not asking Jaimee to go to Wade's during her vulnerable moment. That might have taken their connection to a whole new level .desertsub wrote:THAT is hot! It would have blown my mind too!Ky_Da wrote:
He slowly worked his cock into her pussy while she was catching me up on a few news events from her own job. She paused every now and again as his cock penetrated her, but soon enough he was sliding in and out of her easily. It fucking blew my mind. They were both seated so that they were facing me. They only had their clothes removed enough so that he could get his cock inside of her. They were both looking at me and we were still talking about the previous week’s events. Again, the casualness struck me.
... you're not helpingoffendedgame wrote:Have you considered buying a strapon or a dildo to practice on with Jaimee first?
I mean, you don't wanna be suck at it when you start sucking Wade's, and i don't think Jaimee would want that either..
Thanks for the reminder. I meant to read it but honestly forgot about it after a few days. I’ll look it up tomorrow.txrockdog wrote:Ky, hot update! Thank you for sharing so much with all of us. I mentioned it before, but you really should go read the story I mentioned in a previous reply on this thread. It is called Loving to Like by Bucky Duckman and you can find it on Literotica. Without giving too much away, the female lead is insanely turned on by the idea of her otherwise straight boyfriend sucking cock just because it turns her on. They go through the same issue of how far is too far and it really parallels a lot of what you and Jaimee are discussing. It is a very hot story and might give you some useful perspective about how to view your own masculinity while you have a cock in your mouth.
Sorry not sorryKy_Da wrote:... you're not helpingoffendedgame wrote:Have you considered buying a strapon or a dildo to practice on with Jaimee first?
I mean, you don't wanna be suck at it when you start sucking Wade's, and i don't think Jaimee would want that either..
The third and fourth parts are more directly applicable to cuckolding and how far to go “playing the game”. But what you hit on is exactly why I suggested it to KY. The guy who is willing to let go of his fears and doubts and do something scary just because it is something that will make his wife’s panties drip is the most masculine one of the bunch. Instead of losing respect for him, I think she would gain respect because of what he would be willing to do to please her.viking53 wrote:Just read the first part of "Loving to Like" which definitely gave a different perspective to the issue. Interesting that the conclusion was that Troy ending up feeling more manly by sucking off Alex because Molly wanted it and was turned on so much by it.
I think the problem with us guys is we only see things through a mans point of view. I would argue that only 20% or maybe less is sexual and the 80% is just daily normal life stuff. 80% is what Ky excels at and owns. Remember when Jaime was tired of dealing with Wades shit when Ky was away. Well real life is just that and Ky and Jaime are fit for dealing with this and for most of that other 20% as well. I really don't think Ky needs to worry and i think Jaime wants Ky to stop second guessing that fact. Sure she gets all hot and bothered thinking about other dudes... but when all that burns out and has lost its shine... she will still want the security of her man Ky... she wants to know he'll be with her when they grow old together and this cuckold thing was just a footnote in their lives.trdd wrote:Another great post Ky. I have to say that I have been reflecting on this and your latest story really highlights the dilema for many cuckolds. How can you be okay with your wife consistently being so much more excited thinking of another man?
I have been married a long time and I am sure that with the right man my wife would have all of the new relationship energy and would be more excited to go to bed with him vs me. It would be the same for me, with a new partner I would have all of that anticipation and mystery that just isn't the same within the context of an enduring, loving marriage. So I am saying that I recognize that a new lover has an energy and erotic connection that it is difficult to compete with in a long-term relationship.
Where I personally get hung up, despite how erotic your life sounds, is in just how far the dynamic has evolved between you and Jaimee. Perhaps it is a little exaggerated in your story but having your wife so much more turned on by other men than you would just be crushing to me. I suppose I am not a cuckold and my Reflections on your story seem to reinforce that. Many of the elements of the cuckold fantasy have an appeal but at the very heart of it I just can't see being able to tolerate that type of discussion that you had re the beach fantasy etc. The way Jamiee has grown to love pushing your buttons is super appealing to me because I have a submissive side. But not being the main person in my wife's sexual life is just more than I would ever want or be able to tolerate. This fetish is fascinating because of all the angles and variety to it. My reflection on your latest installment is that I suppose it's a bit odd I even come to this forum at all. But, the submissive angle definitely piques my interest and I certainly appreciate your writing skill and insights.
I'm grateful for your comments tfx. Seriously, thank you.tfx wrote:I think the problem with us guys is we only see things through a mans point of view. I would argue that only 20% or maybe less is sexual and the 80% is just daily normal life stuff. 80% is what Ky excels at and owns. Remember when Jaime was tired of dealing with Wades shit when Ky was away. Well real life is just that and Ky and Jaime are fit for dealing with this and for most of that other 20% as well. I really don't think Ky needs to worry and i think Jaime wants Ky to stop second guessing that fact. Sure she gets all hot and bothered thinking about other dudes... but when all that burns out and has lost its shine... she will still want the security of her man Ky... she wants to know he'll be with her when they grow old together and this cuckold thing was just a footnote in their lives.trdd wrote:Another great post Ky. I have to say that I have been reflecting on this and your latest story really highlights the dilema for many cuckolds. How can you be okay with your wife consistently being so much more excited thinking of another man?
I have been married a long time and I am sure that with the right man my wife would have all of the new relationship energy and would be more excited to go to bed with him vs me. It would be the same for me, with a new partner I would have all of that anticipation and mystery that just isn't the same within the context of an enduring, loving marriage. So I am saying that I recognize that a new lover has an energy and erotic connection that it is difficult to compete with in a long-term relationship.
Where I personally get hung up, despite how erotic your life sounds, is in just how far the dynamic has evolved between you and Jaimee. Perhaps it is a little exaggerated in your story but having your wife so much more turned on by other men than you would just be crushing to me. I suppose I am not a cuckold and my Reflections on your story seem to reinforce that. Many of the elements of the cuckold fantasy have an appeal but at the very heart of it I just can't see being able to tolerate that type of discussion that you had re the beach fantasy etc. The way Jamiee has grown to love pushing your buttons is super appealing to me because I have a submissive side. But not being the main person in my wife's sexual life is just more than I would ever want or be able to tolerate. This fetish is fascinating because of all the angles and variety to it. My reflection on your latest installment is that I suppose it's a bit odd I even come to this forum at all. But, the submissive angle definitely piques my interest and I certainly appreciate your writing skill and insights.
Could happen... but tbh i think you have as much chance of that as anyone else who does not play the game. Probably even less of a chance since you already recognize it could happen and before it ever got there you'd be communicating about it and what to do.Ky_Da wrote:tfx wrote:
You came close to touching on a topic my wife and I have talked a lot about, and that's the fact that this 'game' we like to play could very easily turn into a situation where she falls in love with another man and gets to a point where she would leave me - let's call it 'trading-up'.