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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by reese » Fri Jul 17, 2009 5:53 am

Kjeld...WOW! I am on your team bro...anything you need from me...let me know! Just give me a heads up. For mrs HOTWIFE kjeld.....your sexy wife can email wife anyday, she has a lot of followers and friends who she talks with a lot!

Xmarx!

I am honored that you would ask for my input of such a serious situation that may happen to your marriage.

First of all..............HONEST RULES! Make sure that you never break that bond of trust and honesty. Expect some rules to be broken, only b/c during the hotwife moment, it may be difficult for your wife to follow some rules that you have established. The heat of the moment is a wild ride for both of you! If there is a day that either person lies or holds back the truth, then your marriage will suffer the consequences. You will enter into a world of doubt, second guessing yourself, disrespectful accusations, and serious anger and emotional pain.
You and your hotwife(isnt that sexy to call her that?) must have a safe word that should always be honored. If you or your wife can not honor that safe word..... BACK out of a hotwife situation.. DO NOT play in this world!!
Part 2 on the next page.
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Unread post by reese » Fri Jul 17, 2009 6:07 am

Xmarx, Part2: Answering your question! To quote you, "Are the high times worth all of this that you would inflict the same thing on another husband? YES! Omg, the moments of exhiliration and intense orgasms are more surreal than anything that you will ever experience in your natural lifetime! If I could play in a fantasy world and be given a choice of being rich and powerful and dating any hottie in the world( hmm, meg fox makes this tempting)or have my life as it is with my hotwife in my life............Without a doubt, I swear to you, I wouldnt change a thing.
Now mind you, living this lifestyle, you should already that a "thing" for living life on the edge! You should already have some thrill seeking need.....you should should have NO homophobic tendencies, you should be a sex junky that needs MORE intensity with your wife as the years move along! Is this true about you? Can you agree to some of these questions?

I want to also ask this of you! Is your wife on board? IS she reluctant about being a hotwife? Patience is impt!
But if she is only playing b/c it makes you happy then you may reconsider moving forward until she is on board.
Bottom line................I can never turn back! I love the denial, the feelings of emptiness, the thought of knowing that my wife is SO into another guy.....the thought of my wife being slutty...the vision of my wife as she is getting ready to be with her lover......and when she comes back to ME.......the RUSH of orgasm is the greatest feeling in the world to me!
I never masterbate to anything other than my WIFE! How many husbands can attest to that fact after being married for a while???? OMG.............Xmarx...go for it!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by mrs_reese » Fri Jul 17, 2009 7:20 am

Hi everyone!
I havent been around for a few days!
I cant believe all the talk about the step daughter/mom situation with the active thread going on today!
So xmarx the spot, you are thinking of being a hotwife husband.
Tell your wife that I said; "I am her for you girl". If she needs to talk, let me know.
My hubby was right on with his feelings. I know because I have a first hand observation of his orgasms. Incredibly sexy!
He is such a freak to me. Panties, nylons, shoes, clothes, he gets off just looking at them if there were worn when i played hotwife. Have you read about the packages i give him when I am out with a boyfriend.
I cant believe how hard he is all the time. He is such a freak. But you know what? I love knowing that he is so intense with me! What wife wouldnt! I own his mind and his penis. I love it!
Good luck!

Hey kjeldsen2k8, my kinky fan, your starting to move into that grey area of hotwife husband. I cant wait for you to feel those crazy feelings that my hubby feels. Keep us posted.

xoxo.

No jared this weekend. NO Robert. I will be a boring housewife all weekend. My Alpha husband turned cuckold is being TOO alpha male lately. It is too difficult to convince him to be my cuckboy lately. I dont mind! Hubby being dominant and cocky is what turned me on to him in the 1st place. :roll:

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Unread post by X Marx Despot » Fri Jul 17, 2009 8:17 am

Thanks for the replies mr and mrs reese, its great to talk to REAL people who are into this lifestyle. BTW reese, your answer to my question was what I was hoping you would say, because I want this to happen for real.

For a more in depth look at my situation you could check my introduction thread which I included copys of my posts from cuckoldplace.com. But a quick summary here, she is into the idea. We like the idea of her having sex with black men, (I get the sense that IR is not as popular in this forum, but either way, that is where we are coming from) she was the one who told me shortly after we met that she thought black guys are hot and at that point I started down the road of the whole cuckold/hotwife idea. I was confused and jealous for awile at first thinking about her with another man, but I started to like it more and more. It took me nearly 5 years to really bring up the idea of it actually happening with her and she responded well, but more as fantasy talk.

Well, another 5 years after "coming out" and it is still fantasy talk mostly but she has admitted if the right guy came along that something could happen. It has been really tough but I have never been so patient with something in my life, I take it really slow and try to go at her comfortable pace. She is not that into the idea of posting a "sex ad" on AFF or craigslist, but she has enjoyed posting her pics on other forums and chatting with guys online. I am convinced that if the right guy made a move on her, she would go for it and I think this would be ideal. Problem is, when will that happen? Next week? Ten years from now? Never? Well, my new angle is trying to boost her confidence more so that she dresses sexier and puts herself in situations that would invite attention.

mrs reese, I appreciate the encouraging words you have for her but, for now at least, she doesnt know that I post in this site. If I am sticking with my "slow and steady" plan, letting her see just how into this I actually am would be a bit much...I think.

Gotta go for now, thanks for the replies!
X

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Mon Jul 20, 2009 7:11 am

Robert came over last night. My child was with her grandparents. My husband walked in on us as he was at the neighbors house having a few beers over the fire pit. As Robert was making love to me, I was sure to be very verbatrl with Robert. Telling RObert how big his cock is, how much I love him fucking me, how I want to have his baby( i said that only b/c its hot for all of us to fantasize about that/ even though there is NO chance that will happen in the real world).
Hubby started to stroke his cock watching us. I was really enjoying Roberts horniness and passion knowing that hubby was stroking his cuck cock next to us. I told Robert to cum deep inside of me, he waited for me to reach my orgasm first, as he let go, I felt so much passion for both of my men. Knowing that Hubby was going to lick our sex from me was even more exciting. Robert pulled out of me and lay next to the bed. I told hubby to lick the cum off his cock as he did. Next I told hubby to lick Roberts cum out of my pussy. I kept telling hubby that I want him to be a cuck all the time for me. I want Robert to be my only lover. Hubby was licking very deeply. As I reserved my most intense orgasm knowing that my man is licking my sex from me! As soon as I orgasmed again, I told hubby to put his cock in my mouth! As hubby pulled his mouth from my pussy, I told him that I only want robert to fuck me. Hubby put his cock in my mouth and soon orgasmed.
The moment was very intense. After it was all over, and hubby and I layed in bed after Robert left, I told hubby that I really didnt feel that way at all! My words were only for us to play with, Hubby admitted that it was hot to hear me talk that way and that he wasnt ready to give up my pussy

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Unread post by reese » Mon Jul 20, 2009 12:43 pm

Its still wild for me...never in a million years would I have thought that my wife....would encourage me and make me believe that it is a very sexy thing to lick cum off her lovers cock. I am sorry if I have let a lot of people down..but I have no desire to be with another male...but during select moments, my wife can convince me to do anything to her lovers cock..as long as she can get me off the way she does with her mind control and incredible body. Licking her pussy full of cum....fucking unbelievable....there is nothing in my mind that is hotter than that! We had a great night after Robert left.
Back to reality..watching television and finally falling asleep.
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Unread post by Sunlover » Mon Jul 20, 2009 10:05 pm

Where is the "On my knees, hands raised over my head and waving as im bowing down to you Reese" Your my hero, lol. I think no negitive or homophobic thoughts of your actions, If and when my wife ask my to do the same, I will be there doing the same thing, Anything a hotwife wants, a hotwife gets.
Keep it up brother, keep it and keep it real. :up: :up:

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Tue Jul 21, 2009 8:47 am

I am feeling very naughty right now. I am going to Robert's office later after lunch to give him some well needed oral sex, There is nothing hotter for me than knowing when I walk into his office, everyone will know that i am his married lover/ and they all know that I am here for one reason. When I leave after about 20 minutes, i am hoping that they will know that it was too quick for sex!
It is such a powerful feeling for me.

To my hubby, when you read this; how does it feel today, just when you thought that i was going to take it slow for a few days, I am going to my boyfriends office because i cant get enough of him! How does it feel knowing that you lost control over me? Knowing that I am your married wife and I will be cheating on you today!
You didnt give me permission today did you? Did you kwow that I would be doing this? I bet you didnt!
How does it feel to be a cuckold baby? Knowing that at times I prefer another mans cock!
I used to be all yours, now you will always share me! :roll:
sorry baby! :whip:

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Unread post by rypmar7 » Tue Jul 21, 2009 9:37 am

mrs_reese wrote:I am feeling very naughty right now. I am going to Robert's office later after lunch to give him some well needed oral sex, There is nothing hotter for me than knowing when I walk into his office, everyone will know that i am his married lover/ and they all know that I am here for one reason. When I leave after about 20 minutes, i am hoping that they will know that it was too quick for sex!
It is such a powerful feeling for me.

To my hubby, when you read this; how does it feel today, just when you thought that i was going to take it slow for a few days, I am going to my boyfriends office because i cant get enough of him! How does it feel knowing that you lost control over me? Knowing that I am your married wife and I will be cheating on you today!
You didnt give me permission today did you? Did you kwow that I would be doing this? I bet you didnt!
How does it feel to be a cuckold baby? Knowing that at times I prefer another mans cock!
I used to be all yours, now you will always share me! :roll:
sorry baby! :whip:

Very hot! Sounds like something my wife Lynda would do, although you wouldn't send me just a sexy message. I would hear about it from her after the fact.

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Tue Jul 21, 2009 1:41 pm

Just arrived home after spending about an hour going to Roberts office and then back home. Its funny, driving home reliving the memories of having a sexy older male lover who was so horny and excited to make me drop to my knees is his office/ looking up to him as I watched him cum in my mouth. Dripping off to the side of my mouth, i swallowed every drop of his delicious creamy cum, then taking myfinger, wiping it off my face and sucking it as I inserted into my mouth.
I loved the control over robert. He doesnt ever ask anymore if my husband is aware of me seeing him. He asks for sex from me more than my husband most of the time. I love satisfying robert, knowing that he is only involved with me.
Our agreement is that as long as I satisfy his urges a few times a week( a minimum) then he will not see anyone else.
Keeping him std free for me.
I do consider myself his girlfriend. And I want to continue to keep it this way.
Jared update: not much to talk about . He texted me a few times since we last were together, but he knows that i am busy with hubby and robert.

Poor hubby, he still has no clue that I saw Robert today. Its so sexy for me to cheat openly on my man.
Time to rest. Going to the pool with my child. Time to play mom. :up:

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Unread post by aemn611 » Tue Jul 21, 2009 3:37 pm

reese wrote:Its still wild for me...never in a million years would I have thought that my wife....would encourage me and make me believe that it is a very sexy thing to lick cum off her lovers cock. I am sorry if I have let a lot of people down..but I have no desire to be with another male...but during select moments, my wife can convince me to do anything to her lovers cock..as long as she can get me off the way she does with her mind control and incredible body. Licking her pussy full of cum....fucking unbelievable....there is nothing in my mind that is hotter than that! We had a great night after Robert left.
Back to reality..watching television and finally falling asleep.
Dear Mr Reese,

It seems that your desire to be cucked varies significantly from post to post and what I'm curious about is whether your desire is really changing that much or whether your wifes desire to cuck you and you accepting it is what is changing. We both know it turns her on to cuck you so she feels "taken" by her lover which is more romantic for her. I know when my wife was turned on I was turned on so I can totally relate to the desire to be cucked if that is what is turning Mrs R on. But some insight on who is driving the changing in cucking intensity would be interesting

Best,
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Unread post by reese » Wed Jul 22, 2009 5:50 am

Aemn my friend,

Another great question; if I may try to answer:

My wife loves the way it feels watching me crave her with an uncontrollable desire. That is the bottom line!
Over the past year, she has observed a shifting of my behavior as she teases me and denies me. She has experimented with her own version of hotwife play by doing the things she does to me. She has taken gradual steps toward her ultimate goal and that was and is to have me touch her lovers cock, taste it and even suck it whether it is before or after HER sex with the lover. I have known about her desire to watch me participate in bi play. I have allowed this to happen only because I want to give back to her. Afterall, OUR hotwife play started with my fantasies...and continues to be centered around my fantasies of my wife being slutty.....fucking other men....flirting.....seducing other men...and ultimately denying me as she spends time with her lover.
I am not a true cuck at heart! I never want to be another mans lover....or his toy as he controls my wife sexually. I never want to be denied completely of my wife's body. I never want to have my penis caged. My understanding of a cuckold may differ from others opinion, and that is the case for all of us I assume.

I like being cucked at times only because it enhances my sexual arousal......touching her lovers penis, licking her cum from her.....and even putting his cock in my mouth to lick their sex from it.........as odd as it may seem...in the heat of the moment...knowing that it makes my wife go crazy....feeling the powerful grip of her lover or my wife....DAMN! THere is no feeling like that in the world of hotwife play!


The shifting of feelings of my cuckold experiences is most likely because of ME! I sit back at times watching this WOMAN who I call my wife, and I wonder why in the hell does it turn me on so much to lose her to another man!!
And I hate that feeling at times....I miss her so much at times....I crave her so much....and when I have an opportunity to be intimate and sexual with my wife....sometimes being a cuckold just doesnt DO it FOR ME!

Yesterday....not having my wife....reading her posts.....knowing that she went to Roberts office to suck him off....I jacked off in my office.....after reading her first post. I came home and acted like nothing happened. WE were busy with marital duties..but after showering and laying down in bed...my wife told me that SHE was very bad this afternoon! She also asked me if I read the posts she left. She was rubbing her butt against my cock as we talked....and immediately....I started having incredible hotwife sex with her......fucking her knowing that she has a fulltime lover...knowing that she cheats on me a lot.....without my permission....

OUR SEX WAS INCREDIBLE LAST NIGHT!!!! NOTHING MORE TO SAY!
Reese!!!!
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Unread post by mrs_reese » Thu Jul 23, 2009 8:11 am

Tonight L and I are having a girls night out.
I am hoping to find some young hotties to dance with.
L and I have a bet, if I can find one guy to take back to our vehicle, and give him oral sex, she will let me use our strap on and let me have butt sex with her later!
MMMMM, I love being naughty!

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Unread post by aemn611 » Fri Jul 24, 2009 1:09 pm

mrs_reese wrote:Tonight L and I are having a girls night out.
I am hoping to find some young hotties to dance with.
L and I have a bet, if I can find one guy to take back to our vehicle, and give him oral sex, she will let me use our strap on and let me have butt sex with her later!
MMMMM, I love being naughty!

Hopefully Mrs R will give us a play by play of the evenings activities - She's had plenty of time to rest now and its her day off - unless she's back over to do Robert????

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Mon Jul 27, 2009 5:23 am

hi everyone!
i have been away for a while.
nothing much to talk about/ i guess i am boring right now! :shock:
the last time i went out with L, nothing happened that night. I didnt find anyone worth playing with. Plus, i just wasnt in the mood, hubby and I were in an argument. If any hotwife knows I do about arguments with the hubby; its not fun to play with another person if your mood isnt right! Being in an argument is not a good thing when you want to find a lover or play with another.

I am meeting with Robert on Tuesday. Maybe some of you can give me some idea of what would be fun to do tomorrow.
Cucking hubby? I think he needs a good cucking!
What do you think?
xoxo

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Unread post by Prairie Fire » Mon Jul 27, 2009 5:52 am

Blindfold your hubby, tie his hands. Then give Robert a sloppy blowjob right beside hubby's head so he can hear and almost be able to touch you. Or a blowjob above him so Robert's cum dripping down your chin will land on tied up hubby.

Good idea to ask us what you should do! I'm sure there are lot of people that have some great ideas! My wife once showed up at work just after giving head to a coworker.

Get up early in the morning/late night, go to Jared's house for a quickie and be back in time for hubby to wake up to an already laid mrs or call him while you are fucking Jared in the early am. Do you know where your hotwife is? :whip:

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Mon Jul 27, 2009 8:28 am

What could Ms Reese do???

Hmmmmm...

How about a Hawaii vacation with Robert for a week? ... Maybe Bali...! :whip:
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Unread post by hwc » Tue Jul 28, 2009 5:27 pm

I agree. infact, tell your hubby that you are going to plan a week/two week vacation with Robert, or even better, simply spend that amount of time living at his place as his 'wife'.

If that doesn't get Reece crawling up the wall, I don't know what will!

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Unread post by hwc » Tue Jul 28, 2009 5:31 pm

Reece, do you think you are ready to let your wife stop at robert's place for a fortnight?

You could ask her to play a game as Robert's wife for two weeks or so, doing all the things other married couples do, and she might even consider hurting you that much if you asked her really nicely...

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Wed Jul 29, 2009 7:19 am

Oh you guys and your suggestions!
I like the blindfold part, and I like the bali vacation.
More about that later.

I met robert last night. I wasnt able to meet him for lunch as I had a lot to do yesterday afternoon.
Making love to Robert is so nice. He is so much different than my husband.
He is at times too eager to have sex with me. Not as long lasting as my husband is.
Hubby was beside himself for some reason.
Asking me last night when i would be coming home.
I texted him telling him to masterbate to my panties that i left in the bathroom.
I was going to be too tired for more sex when I arrived home.

More later/ phone call.

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Wed Jul 29, 2009 8:57 am

Dear Ms Reese,

I would like to repeat my question to you, after you have had considerably more experience now as a HotWife.

Would you, could you, go back to plain vanilla sex with hubby only, now you have tasted the fruits of hotwifing? ;)
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Unread post by mrs_reese » Wed Jul 29, 2009 10:57 am

Ballspanking.
I would go back to vanilla sex if my marriage was at risk.
If hubby asked me to quit being a hw, I would.
One thing that many dont realize about me is that i love the idea of being married, I love being my husbands wife.
I have found many new and exciting ways of having sex, of playing with other men, living the lifestyle of a single woman; all of that is so exciting. I would miss that if I stopped being a hotwife.
But there is not or has never been ONE man to convince me that I want to be a hotwife for the rest of my sexual life.

I hope i havent spoiled the fantasy of some readers.

Now for an exciting update. I asked hubby if He would mind if i suggested a vacation with Robert.
For a while I have been against leaving hubby. But the more that I read about other hotwives leaving hubby at home and vacationing with their lovers, the more that I wonder if it would be fun for me to get away with Robert.

another note: robert has asked me if i would like to go to a swingers club with him. He wants to watch me with another man. He wants a sponteneous meeting with another guy, nothing planned out. I wonder how hubby would feel knowing that his wife's lover wants her to fuck another man for him?
Sounds very hot to me :whip:
what do you all think?

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Wed Jul 29, 2009 11:44 am

What do I think?

Nnnnnnnnnrrrrrrrrgggghhhh!

I also think you would love having alone time with Robert on a secluded, romantic beach in Bali. :whip:
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Unread post by tiggerdog77 » Wed Jul 29, 2009 3:23 pm

As a lover I can say that in my experience anything more than a weekend is pushing it. This is a lifestyle of fine lines. After a weekend I was tired of my lover and she of me and the husband had also had enough of missing his wife and the anticipation. I have learned not to do more than that.

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Wed Jul 29, 2009 3:49 pm

Whereas I can not say that Howard is categorically wrong, I think that everyone is wired somewhat differently.

Ms Reese had a very nice time with her lawyer BF in NYC, so that leads me to think that a nice South Pacific vacation, away from the kids, and riding his considerable cock for a fewe days of romance, could do wonders for her.

Maybe I just like pushing the envelope..., lol. :whip:
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