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[JeffBingham]

Thanks for the clarification, Breaker. You know we all are only trying to support you, even if we sound critical. Even if we see red flags, it's your life and your happiness...

Jeff

[Breaker445]

Thanks for the clarification, Breaker. You know we all are only trying to support you, even if we sound critical. Even if we see red flags, it's your life and your happiness...

Jeff

I get that and I appreciate that. Thank you!

[Guhunkadorn]

If it's a sizable and crowded dance club she'll be at next weekend you may consider attending wearing a disguise w/outfit which isn't your look and discreetly watch her activities. I think you'd find that very revealing, exciting and most likely arousing. Your look would have to be professionally done as you sure as shit wouldn't want to be called out.

[joel68]

Yeah, but if he got outed the shit probably would really hit the fan. It's a small world. Even if she didn't see him or her friend if he's met her, there could be someone else there that knows him.

But if she changed her mind and invited him to just be there as a voyeur, that would be kind of hot. Maybe as this thing progresses that may be food for thought down the road.

But it's an interesting idea.

[Calendar1435]

Breaker, it's great you had the conversation, thanks for all the detail. I'm happy that you're happy with the situation, as others have said, it still sounds one sided.

It seems you're having to fight just to get Mrs Breaker to keep up her side of the agreement... and all that involves is her letting you know when she's hooking up. She has no other obligation to you whatsoever, and no interest in having you be involved with her life outside your home. As FNQ put it, there's virtually no difference between the current deal and real infidelity. Except you know it's happening, once you confront her for confirmation.

I'm kinda surprised at Mrs Breakers contention that she doesn't want to even let you know when she's hooking up, as that will make it seem like her fucking Dylan is a big deal. Well it is a big deal, but she wants to downplay it, even though she's loving it, 'cause it might hurt your feelings. I get where she's coming from, but there has to be a limit to her getting everything her way, and giving you essentially nothing.

As far as we know, she's still told you nothing about the 3 times she's spent hours fucking Dylan. Yet she wants to be sure you don't pester her for details about her relationship with him (which you haven't done), so she goes behind your back instead.

"because she doesn't want to have to have this huge build up and having these high expectations while she is out or when she returns. Or me asking and pestering for details of everything."

What expectations, what pestering? From what you've said, after the first Tuesday, essentially nothing was said about the event. Just that she did it. And effectively no further information has been forthcoming.

Mrs Breaker appears to be building arguments/excuses on things that aren't happening, unless you're leaving stuff out about how you pester her for information all the time?

Anyways, I want the best for you and am just concerned that this doesn't seem like 'the best' situation. As strange as it sounds, I read your long post today and was worried for someone I don't even know, who says they're happy with the way things are going.

Thanks, Alex.

[newaussiecuck]

Hi Breaker, great job on the conversation. It does sound like it went very well. I would say it's a good start, but it needs to be the first of many such conversations. It's unrealistic to get everything resolved in just one conversation, but hopefully you two can build on it from here. It might become easier if it's a regular daily check-in or something.

[JeffBingham]

Breaker, look at the number of responses you've received in just the past 48 hours. Folks here care about you. You have laid yourself bare here for the past 2 years and we all feel like we know you and are your friends. Take that for whatever it's worth. But I doubt anyone will disagree with that opinion, even though we may differ on some other opinions on this thread.

Jeff

[FNQLivin]

Perfectly put Jeff. It sounds absurd, but I feel like I know Mr Breaker and I care about him and how this is going.

[TheHammer]

Is she different in bed since she has started fucking Dylan?

[BallSpanking]

Hi Breaker,

I have not commented on the state of your relationship, because I think you have a better idea than anyone here as to the condition of your marriage.

While there may be a lot of people who express concern, there is a WHOLE lot of projection of individual kinks, fears, conditions that are not necessarily appliccable to you.

I guess my view is that as long as this works for you and your HW, it may never suit many others, but then, it is your lives, and not anyone else’s.

Keep supporting her, and conversations like yesterday should be happening a lot, not isolated and sporadic.

[conflictedhubby]

Breaker has admitted as much that he doesn't share every detail with us, but all of us are going to form opinions based on what he has shared and share those opinions with him in turn here. I for one admire Breaker and strive to emulate his progress. Even though I don't agree with his current satisfaction on how Mrs. Breaker shares information, I respect his choices. Keep updating us Breaker and we'll continue waiting for updates with excitement, and hopefully the varied bits of advice you receive will help in the long run. Keep up the great work!

[60dCommon]

Hey - thanks for the update. Sounds like this wasn't a five minute chat, but like you both had a chance to really talk about how you're feeling?

Dunno if you're in the mood to write about it, but I remain interested in the non-bedroom aspects of your Femdom/FLR. You hinted that your wife has been more assertive and commanding since her first hookup with Dylan - examples? What about you? Are you still feeling fulfillment in your role as primary homemaker (or is that overstating it)?

Also curious about your gym schedule. Have you resumed your old evening training time? Has your wife been direct about having Dylan over while you're out?

One more question - others have asked too - is Dylan your wife's date for the upcoming night out? If so, how do you feel about your wife's friend's knowing more about her beau than you? I was in that situation for a year or more. It was almost unbearably arousing, but not sustainable, at least for me.

[Bayless]

Good Evening Breaker,

I know this is the three zillionths time I have brought this up in the last six months, but it really is, in my opinion, the bottom line in a wife sharing relationship. Has there ever been a discussion between the two of you regarding whether this, in her mind,is a sexual or emotional relationship ? I firmly believe that the both of you need to openly discuss what her conscious picture is of the future of where you both want this to go. With a partner as inexperienced as Mrs.B, my concern is if this is not well discussed, or even ignored, then emotions will win out. She will be on a cloud with Dylan and you will be out of the loop.

If you agree with the importance of this topic then take a stand in your conversations with her, and don’t allow her to laugh or tease her way out of the discussion. If she gets pissed, she will get over it, and you can bring it up again the next time you talk The ball is in your court. Suck it up. We are pulling for you.

[shawnm]

Breaker, if you don't mind, would love to know the following:

1) Have you had sex with Mrs Breaker after their first date?
2) Have you gone down on her? If yes, does her pussy look swollen
3) My kinky mind would really love to know how big Dylan is, how long does he fuck, and what positions do they fuck in! If I were in your place, I would go crazy for these details. But obviously you have your plans and are happy with very few details.

Sorry, if any of the above has been posted earlier, then I seem to have missed that.

Look out mate and once again congrats for the journey. Every journey is not the same and there will indeed be hiccups, but with proper and ongoing communication, both with enjoy what they want.

[newaussiecuck]

3) My kinky mind would really love to know how big Dylan is, how long does he fuck

To get you up to speed, from the information posted about the 3 known times they've fucked the shortest was 2 hours, the longest was 5 hours!! Yes, Mrs Breaker has noted that he has a LOT of stamina. He's also bigger than Breaker but we don't have measurements of either of them as a reference. I think it's an understatement to say that she's enjoying her times with Dylan.

[shawnm]

To get you up to speed, from the information posted about the 3 known times they've fucked the shortest was 2 hours, the longest was 5 hours!! Yes, Mrs Breaker has noted that he has a LOT of stamina. He's also bigger than Breaker but we don't have measurements of either of them as a reference. I think it's an understatement to say that she's enjoying her times with Dylan.

Thanks for the update. No wonder, he must be giving her rock solid fucking & orgasms, that she ended up going twice after the date and that too for super longer durations. And he has to be super amazing, otherwise Mrs Breaker wouldn't have ended up going for so long in such a short time, without even informing breaker about the same. In the last couple of months, this thread has held my interest like none other and truly feels like Breaker is a friend. He has taken us really well along with his journey. You have good wishes of tons of cucks, bulls, and hws and others here, Breaker. May you achieve all the cucking success that you wish for

[newaussiecuck]

Hi Breaker, I 2nd Jeff's comments. So many people posting so many different opinions. But I think we all have something in common, we all feel like we know you and we all care about you and Mrs Breaker.

In your discussion last night she mentioned a reason she's not sharing details with you is to spare your feelings. It just occurred to me. Perhaps you could attempt to explain to her a little about what you get out of the cuckold kink. For many the emotional pain of having a wife prefer to sleep with another man is a huge part of the kink. Many like to be taunted, teased and have it rubbed in their face about how better the lover is. How his cock is bigger, better stamina etc etc.

You can try to explain to her that while she might think she's doing you a favour by sparing you the pain of hearing the details about how better her lover is, by not allowing you to experience that pain of jealousy she's actually taking away from you the joy of being a cuckold.

I'm not sure if that applies to you or not, but I understand that many cuckolds find pleasure in that emotional pain of having a wife who much prefers sex with another man.

It might help to remove one reason anyway as to why she's not sharing details with you.

[newaussiecuck]

We've all glossed over this detail. She's fucked Dylan at his house/apartment at least twice now!! Wow!

Today is Valentines day where I am, tomorrow for Breaker, Mrs Breaker and Dylan. I'm wondering who's cock Mrs Breaker will be riding tomorrow. It will be 4 nights since her last hook-up with Dylan. She's due for another good fucking!

[realcucklife]

So glad to hear you are having loving dialogue about it.

[wocka-wocka]

She still hasn’t told you much. She now seems to have reluctantly agreed that she will at least tell you when she’s seeing him. And you have happily accepted that. To me, she’s still not giving you anything really in return. And the lack of information about him, what he’s like,what he does, what they do is a big big worry. She’s basically free to form this emotional attachment to this man and you’re totally in the dark. She’s having an affair and the only difference between this and conventional infidelity is that you know she’s doing it.

I’m happy for you if that’s what you really want, but it seems that each time it’s always you doing the most of the compromise.

x2

[Breaker445]

Thanks all for the responses. Lots responding so sorry for the lack of direct answers to some of the questions, but I'll respond to what I saw. As for her upcoming night out at the club, it's just with one of her girlfriends, it is not with Dylan. The hot thing is she is clearly going to be getting hit on and I am curious to see if she takes that anywhere, it really pushes my jealousy buttons knowing she will be dancing with someone while wearing her leather pants, pants that I would love to dance with her in.

So her and I have had sex since their nights, we did the night of our talk. She brought it up in a nonchalant way of, 'You and I haven't had sex in awhile have we?' sort of like 'Oh yeah! you!' the way she brought it up was sort of funny because it was clear why we hadn't. I told her it had been awhile, which it had been probably just over a week. That night did lead to bedroom fun and the hottest part was feeling the umm difference?

Last night we were lounging on the couch and I was massaging her feet. I brought up the possibilities of a hot valentines day night and she sort of grinned and said maybe. I asked if she had plans with him and she said she did not and she said there hadn't been anything planned between them. I went back to asking about Friday night, I brought it up in a light way asking her if she ever got her hair done that night. I sort of jokingly brought up the obvious signs that why I would think she didn't get her hair done. She said she did, but went to his place afterward. Even though I knew this my goodness it was hot to be there rubbing her feet hearing her tell me that! Instantly my imagination ran wild and I felt extremely submissive to her. Feeling I was on this sudden roll of luck I asked how long she was there. She thought for a minute before thinking aloud before giving me an uncertain amount of time, but it was like 2 hours. Again, a major gut punch feeling but extremely exciting as I was there at the end of the couch attending to her feet while hearing these little details. Feeling my mouth starting to get dry I asked how many times? She chuckled and said, "Babes!!" I could sense a little embarrassment from her and she replied, "I don't know!!!" I brought up being there for two hours is quiet a bit of time that it had to be more than once. She let out a laugh before this amazing teasing confident look overcame her and she said with a satisfying tone, "It was more than once.." she paused and gave me this intoxicating look before raising her foot up toward my mouth like to say, 'focus on my foot now' I gave it a kiss and I literally about passed out right there as I couldn't believe that moment. I had a headache from the rushing of excitement and emotions. She laughed after seeing me kiss her foot, and then she brought up an unrelated question and I took it as understanding it was time to change the subject.

It was a very hot moment. Her body language along with what she did tell me just blended so well together and I felt so submissive to her it was incredible. Like I said, I had a headache from the rush of everything. I thought we were in for a hot night in the bedroom, but we didn't and my hopes is she was saving it for something tonight.

[shawnm]

That's really awesome update. Seems things are happening fine and communication has definitely shown good results. It seems clear that she isn't hesitant to provide updates and details, but she has to be clearly asked and probably asked twice and she does seem to share the details.
I guess being very candid with her will work out just fine.
Keep on asking and slowly it will become easier for her to share details once she understands that your cuckold drive is heightened when she shares specifics.

That night did lead to bedroom fun and the hottest part was feeling the umm difference?

What difference?

[JeffBingham]

That's really awesome update. Seems things are happening fine and communication has definitely shown good results. It seems clear that she isn't hesitant to provide updates and details, but she has to be clearly asked and probably asked twice and she does seem to share the details.

Dude, what are you reading that the rest of us can't see? The only info he was able to pry out of her was an estimate that it lasted about 2 hours and it was "more than once". That's your idea of being willing to share details? It isn't anywhere close to what I would consider details. Vague generality, at best.

But again, if Breaker is cool with it that's all that matters.

[TheHammer]

Wonder if blowjobs or anal is also happening?

[BallSpanking]

I would love to know if she has begun to develop a taste for sucking Dylan’s cock?
Does Dylan ask you to suck his cock, baby? Do you like doing that for him?
I doubt she will tell you unless you ask her.