Should a hotwife remove her wedding rings POLL

[frank r]

Never and i am the cuckold!

[jolly roger]

The first time we did it after we got engaged, she didn't have her ring on, as she thought it was unappropriate, and I didn't want to ruin the night by asking her stuff that may upset her out of doing it.
Our next time together with another man was a week after the wedding in our honey moon, and she forgot it on, and I could'nt stop staring at her fucking that guy with her ring on.
Next time was only 6 years after, and it was on because the guy asked her to keep it on, but tbh, it wasnt that a thrill for me.
I mean, them having sex was amazing and I loved every moment of that amazing night and morning after but her having the wedding ring on wasn't much of an issue for me anymore.

with her lover she takes it off because he thinks she's cheating on me and she doesn't want him to know that I know, or that it is a fetish/kink of ours.

[c_takeme]

I always have my engagement ring and wedding ring on. It has often given rise to some unusual looks from others when I am flirting or out on dates, but I am not embarrassed about how I live my life. My relationship with Steve is what matters to me - not what others may think.

Kisses
C

[Don Jetman]

At times L surrenders her rings to her Dom when she's with him, but it's a ritualistic offering. She's found that the best men in bed are the ones who aren't afraid to approach her with her rings on. If they take the time to show they're genuinely interested in her, she'll tell them her husband shares her before they fuck.

Wearing her rings does eliminate a lot of potential partners, but she likes to be "won", and that means a guy with confidence, originality, and a sense of humor who isn't afraid to get to know her regardless of whether she's wearing her rings or not. It's her "quality vs. quantity" filter.

Don

[NJOY2_0]

@amansreach

So, I see her wearing of her ring as a win-win-win for all of us.

So well said that all three of them can win when she wears her ring at all times especially when she is with The Bull.

[Kays cuck]

God no. The pics I have of my hotwife having sex with another man with my ring on her finger are hotter because she's wearing it. Neither of us want her to take them off for hotwife activities.

[Des 31]

I would have no problem with my 32-year-old wife removing her wedding ring for any reason, but she has never done that. She always wears her engagement and wedding rings and her Mickey Mouse watch she was given by her parents as a pre-teen (although we have had that watch refurbished twice by a jeweler and a few bands replaced since we have been married).

Dependent upon what she deems a man's preference, though, she doesn't necessarily tell him she has my permission and encouragement. If she thinks he would feel better thinking she is cheating, she lets him think that. Her regular guys know that I approve. She has learned over time that some men like knowing that, but some don't. As long as she enjoys the sex, I have no preference about her choices in those matters.

[bradisalpha]

At times L surrenders her rings to her Dom when she's with him, but it's a ritualistic offering. She's found that the best men in bed are the ones who aren't afraid to approach her with her rings on. If they take the time to show they're genuinely interested in her, she'll tell them her husband shares her before they fuck.

Wearing her rings does eliminate a lot of potential partners, but she likes to be "won", and that means a guy with confidence, originality, and a sense of humor who isn't afraid to get to know her regardless of whether she's wearing her rings or not. It's her "quality vs. quantity" filter.

Don

Don, your wife has this figured out !! The guy with the confidence, originality and sense of humor, disregarding if she is married or not, will also be her best fuck !! Pansies, wannabe’s, beggars, wimps are weeded out. Good for her !!

Personally, I won’t approach a woman without wedding rings on because the same is true in reverse. The woman with the rings that has confidence, originality and a sense of humor will also be the best fuck !! She also will not be afraid to watch her husband submit, which sometimes begins simply with me dancing with her while he sits and watches.

To me, a woman without rings is either single or trying to be single.. either way, they are expecting a man to slobber all over them trying to fuck them which many times leads to disappointment for one or both of them. Way too much time is spent with no return on your investment !!!

So, give me that strong, confidant, hot woman with her wedding rings on.

Just my personal tastes ...

Brad

[Des 31]

At times L surrenders her rings to her Dom when she's with him, but it's a ritualistic offering. She's found that the best men in bed are the ones who aren't afraid to approach her with her rings on. If they take the time to show they're genuinely interested in her, she'll tell them her husband shares her before they fuck.

Wearing her rings does eliminate a lot of potential partners, but she likes to be "won", and that means a guy with confidence, originality, and a sense of humor who isn't afraid to get to know her regardless of whether she's wearing her rings or not. It's her "quality vs. quantity" filter.

Don

Don, your wife has this figured out !! The guy with the confidence, originality and sense of humor, disregarding if she is married or not, will also be her best fuck !! Pansies, wannabe’s, beggars, wimps are weeded out. Good for her !!

Personally, I won’t approach a woman without wedding rings on because the same is true in reverse. The woman with the rings that has confidence, originality and a sense of humor will also be the best fuck !! She also will not be afraid to watch her husband submit, which sometimes begins simply with me dancing with her while he sits and watches.

To me, a woman without rings is either single or trying to be single.. either way, they are expecting a man to slobber all over them trying to fuck them which many times leads to disappointment for one or both of them. Way too much time is spent with no return on your investment !!!

So, give me that strong, confidant, hot woman with her wedding rings on.

Just my personal tastes ...

Brad

Brad's position makes sense to me. A few men have asked my wife to marry them, and she promptly broke off those relationships. I think Brad's philosophy is the most common among extramarital sex partners.

[Don Jetman]

At times L surrenders her rings to her Dom when she's with him, but it's a ritualistic offering. She's found that the best men in bed are the ones who aren't afraid to approach her with her rings on. If they take the time to show they're genuinely interested in her, she'll tell them her husband shares her before they fuck.

Wearing her rings does eliminate a lot of potential partners, but she likes to be "won", and that means a guy with confidence, originality, and a sense of humor who isn't afraid to get to know her regardless of whether she's wearing her rings or not. It's her "quality vs. quantity" filter.

Don

Don, your wife has this figured out !! The guy with the confidence, originality and sense of humor, disregarding if she is married or not, will also be her best fuck !! Pansies, wannabe’s, beggars, wimps are weeded out. Good for her !!

Personally, I won’t approach a woman without wedding rings on because the same is true in reverse. The woman with the rings that has confidence, originality and a sense of humor will also be the best fuck !! She also will not be afraid to watch her husband submit, which sometimes begins simply with me dancing with her while he sits and watches.

To me, a woman without rings is either single or trying to be single.. either way, they are expecting a man to slobber all over them trying to fuck them which many times leads to disappointment for one or both of them. Way too much time is spent with no return on your investment !!!

So, give me that strong, confidant, hot woman with her wedding rings on.

Just my personal tastes ...

Brad

L still enjoys a "boyfriend experience" now and then when she's in the mood, but mostly she needs a man who is completely unafraid to approach her when she's trolling for sex. And don't get me wrong - this isn't something she does all the time. But often when she travels by herself on business, or even at home when we're in the mood to have a guy do her as a married woman, what would be the point, or the fun, or the game, of having her remove her rings? We want a guy to fuck her in spite of her husband possibly finding out, or especially if I'm there with her. As a couple playing this game, we don't want a vanilla guy who might be scared or put off by his "morality". L and I both want a sex machine who can make her feel like a woman, pleasure her, and either ignore me or have me in the same room and be proud that he might be making my wife cum louder and longer than I can.

Even in the most edgy situations, which we do enjoy at times, there is still a thin line that we don't like crossed. We accept that her lover may be superior to me in bed, and that she may respond to him in ways that both surprise and humiliate me to a degree, but respect is the key that runs through it all. Ultimately, it's respect for L and me, our kinks, and our limits, which often take time to digest. It's a kind of empathy that often takes time to culture on the part of her lover (or Bull) to make us both happy (and cum). Then sometimes we get lucky and strike gold when they meet.

It never fails to surprise me when a guy hits on her when I'm there, or comes to our table in a club and asks her to dance. It wasn't that long ago when a guy asked her to go home with him as they danced, and even apparently didn't mind that I came along to watch when L asked. It's happened for years, even when we were dating. As innocent and even child-like as she appears at times, it's the "bad boys" who are never afraid to approach her, ignore me, and just expect her to leave with them. Bikers, rude and arrogant types, fearless men who seem to know that trying and failing is better than not trying at all. They aren't L's type at all, but there are times when she melts then and there in front of me. I can see it in her eyes, and even her body language. For years I've seen it, knowing she's probably wet for them, weighing the outcome or price of actually abandoning me and letting them fuck her senseless. She's admitted as much later, and it both excites me and fills me with angst.

Sometimes she just wants a man to "handle" her, an aggressive, confident, and yes, even a bit arrogant guy who has a cock that won't fail her needs or fantasies. But these are always one-timers. Risk and danger is hot at the time, but she wants a safety net after. Then, when she needs it, it's on to the next guy who can win her body with enough effort to get the prize - rings, open blouse, girlish seduction and all.

[misskay]

God no. The pics I have of my hotwife having sex with another man with my ring on her finger are hotter because she's wearing it. Neither of us want her to take them off for hotwife activities.

Babe, my ring will always stay on. You and me . . . always. Plus the pictures are pretty hot

[Kays cuck]

God no. The pics I have of my hotwife having sex with another man with my ring on her finger are hotter because she's wearing it. Neither of us want her to take them off for hotwife activities.

Babe, my ring will always stay on. You and me . . . always. Plus the pictures are pretty hot

I am the luckiest cuck ever. Thank you, Miss.

[Bartleby]

My wife does not wear a wedding ring, but in the spirit of the question: No.

It is important to me that lovers know that she is with me and that i know and approve of her infidelity. Otherwise I feel weak. A cuckold is not a weak person, on the contrary.

I also don t want a lover to get false expectations. The way my wife approaches men could easily make them think that there is a possibility for them to win her as a long term partner. I don t want that.

However, if she knew it will only be an ONS and its easier for her that way, it would be ok if she does not mention me. Hasn t happened yet, hopefully will in the future.

[analystguy27]

I would never consider removing my wedding rings as a precursor for sex with any man. I'm a married woman when it starts.... with whatever that might imply (possibly danger?), and I'll be a married woman when it's done. A man not mature enough to cope with that idea should look elsewhere.

I may tweak the scenario to suit MY whims. I might say that my husband knows about such behavior and will be told everything.... or I might give the appearance of a wayward wife cheating on a clueless husband ; if a prospective partner doesn't like anything he see's, he's free to walk -- as am I.

Diane

That is how it should be. The husband who is as much a part of the relationship is the primary and he derives his pleasure from it and if the fuck buddy cannot accept it then he needs to just pack his bags and go.

[SailorGuy]

My wife absolutely wears her wedding ring when she is with her lover. ( She also wears a beautiful necklace he gave her a long time ago. ) I think there wouldn't be near the passion if my wife was pretending to be single. The fact that the ring I put on my wife's finger years ago occasionally touches another man's cock - and sometimes some of his cum runs down my wife's hand and over the ring - is exciting as hell for me.
I wish I had known I was a cuck the day we married, and that we had known my wife's lover. I tell my wife now that if we had the wedding to do all over again we would have had her lover come to our suite the night of our wedding and he would have cucked me right then and there. Before I could make love to my wife for the first time! Man, that would have been awesome.
But as it is he has been my wife's lover for 20 of our 30 years together. That's pretty awesome too.

[hotsusan]

I always wear mine, she insists on it and would never let me be with anyone else. She is too jealous. She wears it when she feels like it sometimes with a date, but not always

[mrandmrsbusty]

she should keep it on, it has major significance to us

[sara c]

Whether I’m with a lover, a cuck, a couple or in an orgy. I NEVER remove my wedding ring. I’m a married woman. I never advertise that but I never hide it either. When I’m on my back f-cling a young guy and my arms are wrapped around him my wedding ring is on. When I’m holding and sucking another cock and his cum flows over my hand my wedding ring gets covered with cum too. When I’m in an orgy moving from man to man my wedding ring is visible. When I’m riding another woman’s husband my wedding ring is on. I may have an open marriage, but I’m still, first and foremost, a married woman.

[canadianwittol]

Leaving the specific "wedding ring" part of this aside, I can tell you in the 10 years we have been at this that we've gone through a number of phases.

At first, my wife never told lovers that I knew about it, she always played like she was having an affair behind my back. This was mainly to insulate my pride against any judgement from her lovers.

I could go into great detail on how we changed over the years but to make a long story short, in the last two years my wife has become not public per se, but relatively open about our relationship. She dates on Tinder and her profile says she is married and she's looking for NSA sex. Her profile doesn't use the word "cuckold" although she has described me in conversation with her dates as a cuckold and incredibly, more and more men seem to have an idea what that is! And rarely, by the way, does anyone really care.

I'd like to think that we've moved in that direction because there has been a developing mainstream awareness of this kink and others, but truthfully I think the biggest change has been within her, and within me as well; we're much more comfortable and confident in living our chosen lifestyle.

[Johng1953]

Never if normally worn, hot girlfriends probably don't wear a ring anyway.
The point of the lifestyle is an otherwise attached woman seeing other men. To remove the rings misrepresents that and disrespects the husband or fiancé and the marriage or engagement.

[xucked]

Now from a fantasy PoV, it does add to it, to see your wedding ring on her hand wrapped around someone's else's cock

But beyond that people are attaching far too much meaning to what's just a symbol.

Many women don't always wear one anyway, they're still married just as much as someone who does & won't remove it

[iloanmywife]

Leaving the specific "wedding ring" part of this aside, I can tell you in the 10 years we have been at this that we've gone through a number of phases.

At first, my wife never told lovers that I knew about it, she always played like she was having an affair behind my back. This was mainly to insulate my pride against any judgement from her lovers.

I could go into great detail on how we changed over the years but to make a long story short, in the last two years my wife has become not public per se, but relatively open about our relationship. She dates on Tinder and her profile says she is married and she's looking for NSA sex. Her profile doesn't use the word "cuckold" although she has described me in conversation with her dates as a cuckold and incredibly, more and more men seem to have an idea what that is! And rarely, by the way, does anyone really care.

I'd like to think that we've moved in that direction because there has been a developing mainstream awareness of this kink and others, but truthfully I think the biggest change has been within her, and within me as well; we're much more comfortable and confident in living our chosen lifestyle.

Good note, canadianwittol. I can appreciate your wife's progression. I think a lot of wives, my own included, found it easier in the beginning to play the cheating housewife. It was easier to meet men who were willing to have an affair with her behind my back than it was to find men willing to date her with my knowledge.

The opposite has also been true. My wife has met men who were aware of cuckold relationships and wanted to make sure that she wasn't simply cheating. Before a first meeting or date she'd sometimes take a selfie with me with some indication of my knowledge and consent. Mostly though, she just got more comfortable embracing the fact that she's happily married and also has sex with other men.

That said, we both found that we missed that earlier "cheating" dynamic. She knows that she can have guys on the side whenever she wants, but lately that sort of play has been slow (we've mostly played as a couple) and she let her personal dating profile expire a while ago. This past weekend she asked me for some recent solo pictures of her, tastefully censored or cropped, that she can use for her new dating profile. That's all I know or care to know, except for the electric sex that we always have whenever she's "cheating." I could feel the energy in the room change as soon as she asked me

For OP's original question, she's always kept her ring on, even -- or especially -- when having an affair. She's a married woman, after all.

[blind sided hubby]

I would say 100% of guys don't care one way or the other if a woman wears a wedding ring or not. All he is thinking about is the sex he is about to have or had. The women on the other hand feel totally different about the whole thing, for them there is great meaning attached to a wedding ring. She may wear a wedding ring to humiliate her husband during sex with her lover. She may also wish to show it off while stroking a lovers cock or grabbing a lovers butt. This is usually done in the presence of the husband to show him that he is no longer the sexual center of their relationship and is in fact secondary to the relationship the wife has with her lover.
The wife may wish to show the ring in pics or videos of her lovemaking with her lover or lovers. When the wife is in control, she will do these thing to show she is dominant in their relationship. She probably knows she is humiliating hubby and uses the ring as a tool in her dominance over him.

[Jenky]

The wedding ring is one of the biggest turn ons for me and if she's not wearing it, I ask her to so I can cum on it.

Once I remember I asked her to remove it from her finger and place it on the top of her clit so we could send a pic to hubby of both ring and pussy covered in my cum.

She loved it, I loved it, hubby loved it.. win-win-win (the kind of situations I like to get myself into and for which I love this lifestyle)

[Mustang1]

I think it’s hot that a wife can go out and have as much fun and cum as she wants. Just bring some home. If the guy wants to fuck her at her place even better. She has more outfits to play in and all the comforts