My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

[solstice]

Has there been a change in the constitution to grant employers the right to snoop, if I am going about my life in a legal manner, it seems invasive to check my movements without my knowledge. the UK not having a written constitution seems in this instance to be a better system: When there is evidence of injustices, an act of parliament can be enacted to right a wrong, although it does not happen all that quickly.

[Des 31]

Interesting update, Des!!

I think most of the readers of this thread are interested in the ¾ of the story you were considering deleting as well as the ¼ you thought was important, so keep writing what YOU want to write and we'll keep reading what we want, and we'll all be happy!!!!

So, a "movie star", eh?? I'm sure Gigi loved hearing about that comment!! I'm sure you were quite pleased with her compliment.

I'm looking forward to hearing all you care to write about her sexual romps this week. I'm sure they are just as hot as ever.

Rascal

Thanks, Rascal. Then I’m glad I didn’t delete all that. I’m up earlier than usual this morning. I was awakened by an early call from Gigi who said she might be a little later getting home than anticipated. She got out of bed, left Derrick sleeping, and phoned me from another room. She said she needed to give “The Talk” to Derrick. That’s something that happens at times. I’ll get around to explaining that later after hearing how her night out went.

I agree with rascalnvixen, I love the full picture of what you all get up to. I’m sorry to read of Jean”s break up. Last I remember both Jean and her husband were free to stray when he was on the road but didn’t talk about it to each other. I thought when she joined the navy that it would strain the relationship but it seems the husband may have already moved on.
How does Gigi feel about being the public face of the bank considering her social media aversion?

I regretted learning of that too, Tracey. My wife and I think things would have turned out differently if the two had better communication, but neither Jean nor her ex-husband could bring themselves to talk with the other about their need for sex with others; secrets came about between them about her husband’s developing relationship with his office manager. Those things happen to many couples who find themselves drawn into the spiderwebs of secret extramarital affairs.

Gigi doesn’t mind public media but Facebook-like or Twitter-like media are different animals. Many people who engage in those tend to post personal information that can harm their social standing, and respondents to their public posts can say things that prove embarrassing. She doesn’t want our private lives known to the world. Ourhotwives(dot)org is also a form of social media but limited to those of us with very specific interests.

Has there been a change in the constitution to grant employers the right to snoop, if I am going about my life in a legal manner, it seems invasive to check my movements without my knowledge. the UK not having a written constitution seems in this instance to be a better system: When there is evidence of injustices, an act of parliament can be enacted to right a wrong, although it does not happen all that quickly.

Hi Solstice. I’m pretty sure from what I’m told private investigators in the UK have about the same latitude as those here in the US. A few less ethical sorts have been known to go beyond their legal limitations at times as have other professionals in many fields of endeavor, but I’m sure that isn’t the norm.

Most need not be concerned about companies checking up on the credit or insurance companies checking up on the conditions of their homes and the like. Invasion of privacy, particularly from surveillance cameras that seem to be everywhere and corporate data mining, is a common complaint here in the US. I think the people who complain most about private investigators are marital cheaters and people who violate their employment rules, but I don't see any alternative solutions for the people they harm. Because all that won’t be of interest to most, I wrote you a PM about Gigi’s general (non-personal) information I have been told at times about what PIs do and can’t do.

If Gigi doesn't have plans for us later today, I may be back a bit later with whatever narrative she has for me when she gets home.

~ Des

SIDE NOTE: After responding to members above, I received a Private Message from another member that proves a point I have mentioned at times in the past. He had performed an internet search for information that seems perfectly to match my wife and me. He sent me the link, and it's all pretty close. That isn't the first time I have been told that and each past message concerned different couples or individuals.

Circumstances in our lives and what we do for a living are not unique in a nation of some 330 million. Gigi actually knows three non-local people who easily fit the pattern and occupations and our personal lives. We have received a few PMs over our years at this board from some who believe they know us personally, live near us, or have met my wife at her bank. None of those suppositions have been us. This one concerned something I of which I had written that is very close to that in which we engaged and more. As much travel as I have done, the news item in the member's link occurred in a city I have never visited and don't know the woman or the bank in the news article.

Like other members here, there are a few things about us I don't reveal. (The PM is appreciated. Enjoyed reading that.) And - something worth mentioning - the comparisons of what I wrote and the news item sent to me involved a remark that had been intentionally changed slightly in my write-up. I had initially altered the wording to avoid identifying us; that wasn't the first time I have had to do that and I'm sure it won't be the last. It never occurred to me the remarks in that update could somewhat fit others that closely so I have.

~ Des

[Tracey52]

Did Gigi end up going away with Derrick to the conference? Seems that Derrick is becoming overly enamoured with Gigi. Can’t blame him really. Who wouldn’t want to date a celebrity?

[Des 31]

My wife thought last night’s dinner out with Derrick, his ex-wife Marjorie and her live-in business partner Chase went rather well. Marjorie and Chase were already seated at a booth when Gigi and Derrick arrived at a new upscale restaurant she and I haven’t before attended. I was home and didn’t expect her back until this morning.

Gigi guessed Marjorie to be near her age, perhaps a couple years older, and is said to be great looking, with brown hair to her shoulders, openly conversational, and easy to befriend. Marjorie’s boyfriend and business partner Chase is perhaps a decade older than either woman and presents a refined, elegant manner that would appeal to any woman; he’s said to be a few pounds overweight and in early stages of balding, with thin blond hair streaked with gray strands. Gigi considers him to be attractive and charismatic.

As they awaited serving and while dining, each of the four revealed more about themselves. My wife typically provides little personal information to strangers about her job or our marriage, but the conversation allowed her to be comfortable with her dinner partners. Marjorie mentioned her fascination that Gigi is married and fucking her ex-husband. She said, “I know what that’s like. Derrick probably told you Chase and I were involved almost a year before the divorce.” He had not, and my wife remarked, “Is that the reason for the split?”

The woman laughed and said, “No, Derrick and I are fine as friends but our personalities are too different for us to live together.” She went on to say Chase wasn’t the only man in her life then or now, and he’s fine with that. Derrick shrugged and agreed with Marjorie about the differences between them.

Marjorie was silent a moment, then confessed she had thought Gigi looked familiar when she first walked up to their table; but upon Derrick’s introduction, she remembered her name from the newspaper. She said, “You’re a banker, right?” Her remark was like a final step for all to be even more candid in their conversations. The woman went on to talk about two other men she dates. Derrick didn’t until that moment know about that but responded he was glad to hear it and hoped all continues to go well with her and Chase. Chase surmised that had Derrick been as understanding about Marjorie’s needs, their marriage might have lasted. The other two laughed and said even that wouldn’t have helped their relationship. It had been going downhill after about six months of marriage.

The woman glanced at her boyfriend and said, “Should I tell them?” He grinned and said, “Sure.” She said the two of them have “open-minded friends.” Her eyes swept from Derrick to Gigi and she said she would be glad to introduce them to their friends if they’re interested and would be happy to host my wife and Derrick to their home for a foursome if they wish.

Gigi smiled and said she would think about it but chose not to admit she is a moderately experienced swinger as mentioned in these pages at times past.

Marjorie remarked Derrick had mentioned to her my wife’s proclivity to always have a joke handy for every situation. Gigi laughed and told this, although there’s no truth whatsoever to it: My neighbor visited his psychologist who told him, ‘Three or four nights every week, my wife goes to Curly’s Bar and picks up any man who asks her. I’m going crazy. What do I do?’ His Shrink said, ‘Take a deep breath and relax.” Then he asked,”Where exactly is Curly’s Bar located?”

The couple and Derrick roared in laughter, causing some nearby patrons to look over from their tables at the cacophony. “Good one,” Chase said, “I need to remember that.”

Chase insisted on picking up the check as they parted. Marjorie expressed her joy at meeting her and would like to again get together socially with my wife and Derrick. While walking to their separate cars, Marjorie added it would be nice to meet Gigi’s husband sometime as well.

As Derrick drove Gigi to his home for the night, he remarked had Marjorie been more like her they would still be married. My wife thought that may have been a bit over the line but didn’t respond.

He didn’t bother turning on the lights as the two entered his home. He kissed my wife deeply. She reacted by reaching to unzip his fly, pulling out his erect penis and stroking it as he removed her clothing.

My wife was on her back in his bed within a minute. Turning her head from the pillow as he stood alongside her, she panted in excitation at the sight of his raging erection. She leaned aside and took it into her mouth, her head bobbing against his groin until she said, "I want to fuck you." He knelt atop her and guided his cock to the mouth of her cunt. She lifted her hips to allow him easy access and his dickhead parted her pussy lips. As his tool slid into her opening, she cried out, “Oh god, yes!” He thrust mightily into her. Her legs wrapped about his flesh, her heels rubbing at the back of his thighs as he fucked her. Her hips gyrated in rhythm with his thrusts. She screamed in the fervor of the moment. Derrick’s eyes were glazed over in excitation.

By the time she got this far into her tale, I was fucking her wildly and gasping in passion. I breathed, “Is he bigger than me?” She smiled, knowing I would eventually get around to asking that, and said, “I’m afraid so. Derrick is seven inches and thick as a cucumber.” I whimpered. “Oh my god.” How had she not before told me that? I said in an embarrasingly whining tone, “I know you liked it.” She rolled her eyes back as if in thought and said, “Yeah, all but one thing he said to me and the way he said it.” I asked what that might be.

She went on, saying he murmured, “I love you.” Other men have said that to her in the heat of passion but almost always the momentary feelings of each dissipate as she and the other are coming down from their climax. But something in his tone was more sincere than she has usually experienced. Gigi decided they would have to have what she calls “The Talk” when their sexual union had attained orgasms for each. She admitted another likely reason for saying nothing at the moment was that his tool felt fantastic at the moment it was slamming into her like a battering ram. She smiled and said, “I love your hot cock in my pussy.” I’m sure that comment was entirely sincere.

She climaxed with a outcry before he. He turned her to her knees and entered her from behind. Her head rotated madly. She moaned, “You’re so fucking goood.” They banged madly another quarter of an hour before he cried out he was about to cum. She pleaded for him to ejaculate inside her. His body stiffened and eyes shut tight as his lava erupted into her cunt. As she has pleaded when they previously fucked, he pumped a few more time to give her the last droplets of his birth fluid. If she were able to become pregnant, which she isn’t, I’m sure she would soon be expecting his offspring.

Spent, he collapsed alongside her, kissed her fully on the lips and their arms intertwined. Gigi sat up, her back to the headboard and a leg bent with an arm resting on her knee. She said to him, “I liked your saying ‘I love you,’ but you must know our relationship is only sexual. I’m committed to my marriage.” She went on with a practiced spiel that their relation is for fun and physical release. A few men have before asked her to move in with them or marry them. She told him that’s not going to happen and added, “This isn’t my first rodeo.” She readily broke off two past relationships over emotional bonding that developed by men who had fucked for her weeks or months. There’s more to that “Talk,” but it all centers on the same theme. She can feel love for others with or without sex, but tells guys it isn’t the same as that with her husband. It ends with various versions of, “It could be said I’m being less than honest when I don’t admit having sex with other men. But I don’t lie to, or intentionally deceive, anyone.”

He apologized and said he understood the reality of their relationship and hadn’t meant it to come out that way. Gigi doubts the accuracy of his comment. She’s sure he meant “love” to be understood in the classic sense; but she had felt the need to make her position clear if their relationship is to carry on as it has.

By then, the dinner and fucking had pushed the time an hour past my wife’s usual bed time. She closed her eyes and fell asleep in ten seconds flat. She was awakened in the early morning by Derrick’s tongue lashing her clitoris like a warm, soft whip. She glanced aside to his bedside digital clock, its numbers glowing at 2:14 a.m. She moaned and sighed as he mouthed her hot spot. Within a minute, an oncoming orgasm raged through her body like a runaway train. She cried out, ”Oh fuck!” Her body shuddered as a mind-blowing climax detonated in her cunt. She whimpered, “I need your cock.” They fucked again and, upon awakening late this morning, yet again as the morning sun streamed through the bedroom’s window. While telling me this, she smiled and said, “I guess you could say I got a lot of Derrick-dick during my stay-over.”

They skipped breakfast when getting out of bed around nine this morning but sat together at his dining room table and talked over coffee. He again brought up their conversation - her “Talk” -from the evening before. She gave him an expressionless glance as she said candidly their relationship could never be more than friendly sex. He agreed but couldn’t promise he wouldn’t again say he loved her when hotly fucking her. She laughed and said, ”That’s okay. I love you too at those times.” He liked that.

As Derrick got into his car to drive her to our home, he said, “Let’s do this again soon.” She grinned, pressed her lips to his, and said, “I’d like that.” She phoned me when no more than a block from his home. Saying she was on her way, she joked, “So you can get the woman out of the house now.” I heard Derrick chuckle from alongside her. She knew unequivocally I was home alone. He didn’t get out of the car as Gigi walked in the door this morning but instead backed out of our driveway and drove away.

We fucked as she went on with her long narrative of the previous night. I was cumming long before she got around to telling me about their morning talk. We went to lunch at our usual diner and returned home for the day. Her talent at relating her sexual experience had me bushed as if I had been the one who had repeatedly fucked her. I thought I was one-time and done, but she had a follow-up act.

I told her to thank Derrick for me the next time they talk on the phone or get together. She responded, “I’ll first thank you, Kemo Sabi.” She pulled me by a hand to our couch, unzipped my fly and went down on me. I didn’t last long. She swallowed my sperm, wiped a hand across her lips, and said, “You’re the perfect hubby.”

I don’t mean to brag, but I think so too.

She had two more items on her talking-points agenda. In the past, weekends were mostly restricted exclusively for two of us, but that’s no longer an issue of importance to me. She suggested scheduling Friday and/or Saturday nights for her to get together with any of her guys. Her work days are anticipated soon to be more demanding through the rest of this year and perhaps beyond; that may not negate every evening, but it assuredly will be more difficult for her to plan impromptu sex most of the time. She smiled when adding she and I can fuck any night we wish. She asked that I think about it, but I agreed her suggestion is logical and feasible.

She returned Jean’s phone call for the next 45 minutes and, when about to walk out the door with our grocery list to the supermarket an hour ago, she said she had something she had forgotten to tell me the previous week. Tomorrow afternoon, her boss’ wife Mary is driving up to visit their kids at their military academy for three days. Surrendering to his invitation, she plans to stop by his home Tuesday after work. The bank closes at four. Lately, thanks to my assistant Samantha handling more responsibilities, that’s also the time I have most often been leaving the office. Gigi and her boss will be fucking, but she plans to be home around eight that night.

I nodded devotedly and said, “Great, I hope he does you good.” But then, he always does. She has never expressed a grievance about his big cock. When I once asked how hot it was with him, she said, “Well, what’s not to like? I have told you ‘he has it all’.” I know that. They’re good together.

My head was still spinning from all she had unloaded on me today. So I forgot to ask what she and Jean talked about. I can't think of everything when she's telling me about nights like this.

~ Des

[Tracey52]

Great weekend held by all. Gigi’s stamina is amazing.

[rascalnvixen]

Thanks, Des!!! I'm glad you took the time to write the full story!! When you give us all those "unimportant details", it's almost like a porn movie playing in my head as I read your story!! You do a good job writing all the stuff you tell us!

Rascal

[Suchen Zucker]

I would think carefully before agreeing to her idea of reserving her weekends just for her and her lovers. With the number of keen studs she has on-the-side I would think her weekends will be booked solid for months in advance. Meanwhile, making love to you could become regulated to being just another part of a standardized workweek.

Sure you might get more opportunities to fuck her if she is home at night during the week, (and not out getting sexually satisfied elsewhere), but I would be worried about the possible negative effect it could have on your relationship. Her looking forward to the weekend could take on a whole new meaning if it now means not only releasing her from the grinding workweek, but also from her not-so-sexually-fulfilling husband.

Furthermore, if a huge part of your and hers excitement with the lifestyle is the "impromptus sex" that can happen any day of the week, then wouldn't this take away from that? I would think this would degrade your enjoyment especially since her present-day, never knowing, playful roguery will transform into an appointed time every Friday she "clocks out" of her safe, conventional work and home life with you for a fun weekend away from it all. What happens to the mystery and the magic if you and she both know what to expect every weekend?

So she is dangling sex with her after she gets home tired from long and stressful workdays, her mind likely occupied with worries and thoughts about her new position and what her plans are for the next day. Of course, she will also be thinking about the upcoming weekend. She will need your loving care and support and I know you will be there for her. She's a gorgeous, intelligent and amazing woman, but I believe she stands on your shoulders.

-Suchen

[Scotch98]

Great Update Des, and so love the detail. I can sure understand why Derrick fell in love w/ Gigi but sure he will back off that as much as he can to continue to be w/ her. She is such a treasure!!! Should be interesting if or when they get together w/ Derrick's ex and her Hubby. Might be interesting to find out what Gigi and Jean talked about. I'll bet it was Very interesting. Have a great week and thanks again for sharing your adventures w/ us........Cheers

[rascalnvixen]

I think Suchen made some good points!!! Not that ALL of them will be an issue, but worthy of consideration.

Rascal

[Des 31]

I would think carefully before agreeing to her idea of reserving her weekends just for her and her lovers. . . (abridged)
-Suchen

I think Suchen made some good points!!! Not that ALL of them will be an issue, but worthy of consideration.

Rascal

I thought so too. We will soon be finding out how that goes, and each of us is willing to adjust when either finds a problem with our plans. As those who have been following us a while know, we have needed to change directions before in our seven years at this. It takes a while each time to get it right, but we're always working at it.

Thanks for the suggestions. You both could be right about that and, if so, I'm sure you'll be reading about that here.

~ Des

[Asterix42]

I would think carefully before agreeing to her idea of reserving her weekends just for her and her lovers. With the number of keen studs she has on-the-side I would think her weekends will be booked solid for months in advance. Meanwhile, making love to you could become regulated to being just another part of a standardized workweek.

Sure you might get more opportunities to fuck her if she is home at night during the week, (and not out getting sexually satisfied elsewhere), but I would be worried about the possible negative effect it could have on your relationship. Her looking forward to the weekend could take on a whole new meaning if it now means not only releasing her from the grinding workweek, but also from her not-so-sexually-fulfilling husband.

Furthermore, if a huge part of your and hers excitement with the lifestyle is the "impromptus sex" that can happen any day of the week, then wouldn't this take away from that? I would think this would degrade your enjoyment especially since her present-day, never knowing, playful roguery will transform into an appointed time every Friday she "clocks out" of her safe, conventional work and home life with you for a fun weekend away from it all. What happens to the mystery and the magic if you and she both know what to expect every weekend?

So she is dangling sex with her after she gets home tired from long and stressful workdays, her mind likely occupied with worries and thoughts about her new position and what her plans are for the next day. Of course, she will also be thinking about the upcoming weekend. She will need your loving care and support and I know you will be there for her. She's a gorgeous, intelligent and amazing woman, but I believe she stands on your shoulders.

-Suchen

Totally agree. Weekends are about quality time unencumbered with work or coming home tired. That's why everyone looks forward to Friday. TGIF, it's time to kick back and enjoy. If work weeks are going to get more demanding, there will be little quality time available for the two of you. Giving weekends away is in effect giving away prime time and the opportunity to do things together, and that's a very slippery slope,

Surprised Gigi suggested it. Was she joking or was she serious?

She had two more items on her talking-points agenda. In the past, weekends were mostly restricted exclusively for two of us, but that’s no longer an issue of importance to me. She suggested scheduling Friday and/or Saturday nights for her to get together with any of her guys. Her work days are anticipated soon to be more demanding through the rest of this year and perhaps beyond; that may not negate every evening, but it assuredly will be more difficult for her to plan impromptu sex most of the time. She smiled when adding she and I can fuck any night we wish. She asked that I think about it, but I agreed her suggestion is logical and feasible.
~ Des

[Des 31]

Totally agree. Weekends are about quality time unencumbered with work or coming home tired. That's why everyone looks forward to Friday. TGIF, it's time to kick back and enjoy. If work weeks are going to get more demanding, there will be little quality time available for the two of you. Giving weekends away is in effect giving away prime time and the opportunity to do things together, and that's a very slippery slope,

Surprised Gigi suggested it. Was she joking or was she serious?

Hi Asterix. Yes, it's our plan for a while. She and I will have evenings together and at least one of our two weekend days off work. It makes sense to us. But - as Suchen and RascalVixen also surmise - it might not turn out the way we think. If it doesn't work out, she and I will reconvene for adjustments to our schedules, so I'm not concerned about it. We're flexible to change when problems arise.

If not, that won't be the first time we come to realize our plans aren't as good as we thought they would be. An example of another sort may come about this week. So I'll probably wait until the weekend to get around to reporting how this week has gone. And next week, I'm likely to be traveling again for a couple of days - so, at this moment in time, who knows what she may be doing those nights? She doesn't yet know either; unanticipated events and opportunities persistently come about in our lives. One of those is the reason for that temporary avatar with the remark about bowling. The good part about those unexpected happenings is that I like surprises (if they "good" surprises).

~ Des

[rascalnvixen]

Traveling again?? Are you taking your secretary with you again?? I think you might end up fucking her, your assistant, like Boss man fucks his assistant!!!! Hahaha, just kidding, but you never know what may happen with sexually liberated women!!! Looking forward to hearing about your and Gigi's week!!! I'm gonna bet it will have something to do with Derrick at YOUR house!!

Rascal

[solstice]

Rascal writes: I think you might end up fucking her,

Our Des is made of sterner stuff, if he says fucking his secretary is not in the general plan, It is unlikely to happen.

[rascalnvixen]

Rascal writes: I think you might end up fucking her,

Our Des is made of sterner stuff, if he says fucking his secretary is not in the general plan, It is unlikely to happen.

Solstice,

That was a joke!!!! I refer you to the next sentence after the one you quoted. It clearly states that I was kidding.

Rascal

[Tracey52]

Classic journo promo Des. Getting us to anticipate what’s coming. Well I’m drooling. Making us wait until the weekend (esp when it gets to me nearly a day earlier) sucks though.

[Des 31]

Classic journo promo Des. Getting us to anticipate what’s coming. Well I’m drooling. Making us wait until the weekend (esp when it gets to me nearly a day earlier) sucks though.

I'll get there Tracey. At the moment, Gigi isn't yet home from her boss' home, so there's a story in the making. I'm sure they're not sitting around, say, eating pancakes while she's there. In the meantime, maybe this is an addition worth mentioning. You decide.

Meanwhile, here’s a minor occurrence I didn’t mention about Gigi’s Saturday night out. I suppose most realize that when writing about my wife’s escapades, it isn’t feasible to include every moment . But a post I came across by a member at this site’s Cuckold board reminded me of a minor incident this past weekend. At the time, I didn’t feel that was worth including when writing about my wife at dinner last Saturday with her newest guy Derrick, his ex-wife, and her boyfriend. That joke written in the Saturday night piece about the “psychologist” came about following the encounter because it was vaguely relevant at the moment.

But since, that Cuckold board member posted a message saying he suspects some husbands may enjoy their wives having sex with men the husbands don’t like. Perhaps some do, but that’s happened to me and I didn’t like it all. She and I occasionally come across him in social circumstances. I’m politely non-confrontational when that happens. He and my wife easily converse in friendly, non-sexual ways.

Last Saturday at the restaurant. about which I wrote here, he spotted Gigi and her comrades several tables away before she had noticed him. He left his date a minute or so and walked over to their table to exchange a few cordial words.

I won't again go into the details of his and my wife’s sexual times together for the reason a more detailed narrative can be found elsewhere in our thread. I had detested the guy since college, but circumstances once came about that resulted in his fucking my wife. She and I had already agreed she could have sex with other men, but at that particular time I felt she was fucking too many and too often. I was concerned she might have symptoms of nymphomania and suggested she talk with a counselor. Of all those available in our city, she chose - before I knew about it - that guy who had set up his psychology practice in our town. He was fully aware I was her husband.

Against his profession's ethics, they were soon fucking hotly and often. I don't object to any with who she wants to have sex, but that one irritated the hell out of me. He was telling my wife he and I were tight buddies in college; it could be said he and I were somewhat like friends at first until I and others began to realize what he was really like. We continued to put up with him but he’s a difficult guy to like.

I put up with it for a while but eventually told her the guy is an untrustworthy, temperamental egotist and a habitual liar and that he and I had fallen out of favor when I was in my last year of college where the two of us were then graduate students. Fortunately, she began to put together things he had told her and realized all his claims of his athletic and personal achievements couldn't possibly be true. After one more encounter as a parting fuck on friendly terms, she broke it off amicably without telling him of my objections to his particular dick being inside her. They occasionally come across the other in social situations and in a chummy way but are no longer fucking.

While they were carrying on their sizzling affair, I was at home steaming with irritability but admittedly jerking off at times. I withheld saying anything to her for some time for the reason I didn't want her to think I was jealous of the relationship or that I had changed my mind about our semi-open marriage. My made-up term, "semi-open," is meant to say she had my approval and encouragement to fuck others, but she insisted I not.

I’m not saying some husbands and boyfriends won’t find it exciting if their wives are fucking their arch-enemies, but that didn’t work for me. Maybe that’s just a submissive cuck thing, and I won’t tell others how to live their lives. But I feel any husband who thinks it would be hot for his wife to fuck someone he really doesn't like may wish to first think how he's likely to feel if she gets around to doing that. I can imagine a few men I prefer to avoid but wouldn't complain if she wanted to have sex with them, but that particular guy was over the top for me.

As rewarding as being the husband of a hotwife is, there are bound to be some downsides to that as with everything else in life at times. I offer that unpleasant experience as my evidence. I humbly suggest herein to wannabes who wish to follow a path like ours to keep in mind that nothing in life is perfect. You’ll need to be flexible, understanding, have good communication, and be willing to take with grace the blows that will inevitably come. It isn’t for everyone, but on the upside, it has all worked out rather well for the two of us.

(As a sidebar, I should mention he had quickly concluded she wasn't a "nymphomaniac" - which he told her is a questionable condition anyway - but instead a woman who had come to realize she needed more sex than provided by her husband. Sex in many marriages becomes routine and even boring. Her desires, he said, is recognized as common among both sexes in marriages and a primary reason a sizeable percentage of married people cheat on their spouses. The guy is a jerk but I'm sure he's competent in his profession. In my reporter-days, I encountered two psychologists who seemed more nuts than most troubled people I have known; I came to suspect some mental professionals’ own emotional problems may be a reason many chose that field of study.)

~ Des

[Tracey52]

Hi Des, thanks for taking the time to respond. I wish I could type as fast as you obviously can so I could write more. Alas I’m a one finger typist on my iPad. A couple of points. Firstly, as expressed by many here, never think that some detail is not of interest to your readers or not worthy of mention. We eat this stuff up. No detail is too small or irrelevant. Since we can’t know who you really are it’s the only way we feel we can get to know you. Case in point, I remember everything you wrote about this psychologist at the time you posted and couldn’t believe your restraint. I think your were mistaken by not revealing your misgivings to Gigi at the time so that she had to figure it out for herself. I’m confident that while Gigi has the freedom to choose her own lovers, she wouldn’t want to disrespect you by choosing someone you despised. If I was in your position, it would rankle me no end knowing that he has had sex with Gigi and still thinks he’s the man; not to mention the huge breach of ethical standards. Shows what a tool he is, although Gigi could probably turn Obe One to the dark side. I know a few psychologists also, and I agree they’re all nuts.
Stay in touch, especially on these lonely weekends on your own. Black humour or sarcasm their, take your pick.
As always love your posts.

[Des 31]

You're welcome, Tracey. Maybe this weekend, I also might get around to explaining that temporary "bowling" avatar. Gigi seems to have a new hobby but I'm unsure whether she will really stick to it. There are only so many hours in a week.

Thanks for your remarks.

~ Des

[solstice]

Tracy writes: Since we can’t know who you really are it’s the only way we feel we can get to know you. No detail is too small or irrelevant.
I agree with Tracy, no detail is too small, I have no wish to know who you (Des) are, but if I believed in luck, I would consider you the luckiest Bloke on this forum, and Gigi is a fortunate wifie (Aberdeen dialect) could constant fucking add to life expectancy? ... if so you should get some action soon, I'm sure your wife has no desire to be a young widow.

[rascalnvixen]

You're welcome, Tracey. Maybe this weekend, I might get around to explaining that temporary "bowling" avatar. Gigi seems to have a new hobby but I'm unsure whether she will really stick to it. There are only so many hours in a week.

Thanks for your remarks.

~ Des

OMG!!!! I just had a vision that I can't get rid of!!! Are the bowling pins that Gigi uses shaped like penises with testicles at the bottom for balance??? Can you imagine a rack of 10 of those at the end of the alley??

Sorry, when this stuff hits my brain I just can't keep it hidden!!!!

Y'all have a good day!!!!

Rascal

[snooper56]

Des,

I think you need to sit down, breathe deeply, collect your thoughts and then tell us how you really feel about the psychologist.

I remember early in your story when you talked about him and what happened, but I think this is the first time you've really let go on these pages. Hopefully you feel better!

Waiting for the next chapter and the bowling story.

[Tracey52]

I reckon that bowling avatar depicts a 300 the perfect score in ten pin bowling.

[Des 31]

This is a somewhat different week for us and I'll update what that means in a day or two as time allows. Last night, Gigi and I were awake in bed a bit later than usual and had an intimate conversation about a few different guys. We were casually fucking at the time, but the tone of our conversation was more like two people sitting together and talking about ordinary happenings. One might think there's little more I could possibly know about her, but it seems that often when we find time to talk like that, I learn something new about the way she thinks and feels.

For the past seven years, she has had, and has now, multiple sexual partners. However small the differences among them may be, she said each offers her something the others, including me, do not. She and I have a good sex life and committed marriage but every man provides her with certain emotional and/or physical gifts that others don't. We're all individuals, each different from others in some ways, and she tells me she loves what each gives her. I love knowing she receives what she needs to satisfy her mind and body from her men. As she went on about that, I realized I already knew it instinctively. When I'm around at times she is with other men, their mutual attraction or extent of emotional bonding is obvious in the way they kiss and interact. Her eyes and facial expressions say it all, whether they're fucking or just in intimate conversations.

Personally, I'm easy to please. My excitation and enjoyment are derived from knowing she loves all their dicks in her and we're each pleased in our own ways with that. I think our mutual agreement that she chooses her own men has much to do with the sexual and emotional satisfaction she shares with them. I don't suggest where, when, how, or who she wants to fuck. It's mostly all for her and that works for the two of us. My role is to be a good husband for my wife and, thanks to her, I think I have become pretty good at that.

~ Des

[solstice]

I don't suppose that Gigi has any real secrets she withholds from you, there is no point, I wonder if in the past she weight up whether to tell you of some of the intimate conversations she had with her guys? as your reactions have, I guess seldom been if ever, negative.
I know in the past she has read your postings, and in one occasion stepped in with replies in your absence, It would be unnatural if she did not from time to time take exception to some of the detail I feel privileged to read here :does she ever read the threads of the few that follow a path similar to yours?