Are you going to get verified?Aushotwife89 wrote: ↑Sat Aug 28, 2021 4:32 ammy husband has told me he gets off when i am enjoying myself and having an orgasm. we haven’t done anything yet, is this a thing? do guys like watching their wives orgasm in front of them? wouldn’t he be jealous?
yes i think so? i’m not sure i’ve posted enough things. i’m unable to pm army guyafagehi7 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 07, 2021 8:43 amAre you going to get verified?Aushotwife89 wrote: ↑Sat Aug 28, 2021 4:32 ammy husband has told me he gets off when i am enjoying myself and having an orgasm. we haven’t done anything yet, is this a thing? do guys like watching their wives orgasm in front of them? wouldn’t he be jealous?
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Aushotwife89 wrote: ↑Fri Sep 17, 2021 3:14 amyes i think so? i’m not sure i’ve posted enough things. i’m unable to pm army guyafagehi7 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 07, 2021 8:43 amAre you going to get verified?Aushotwife89 wrote: ↑Sat Aug 28, 2021 4:32 ammy husband has told me he gets off when i am enjoying myself and having an orgasm. we haven’t done anything yet, is this a thing? do guys like watching their wives orgasm in front of them? wouldn’t he be jealous?
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Hopefully we soon have a new VHW!
Powerful statement!!! I would assume both of you are getting what you want from your being a hotwife?? Is your hubby happy that you're a hotwife? Is he happy FOR YOU? How grateful do YOU feel for his support?James Elena wrote: ↑Wed Sep 22, 2021 2:46 pmWhy? Because it is the most generous gift a husband can give his wife--to allow her to explore her sexuality honestly and safely. Sharing your wife with another man is the hottest, most sexually charged activity a husband and a wife can engage in. As a verified hotwife of over 14 yrs I can tell you that my husband and I are closer now than at any time in our 40+ yrs of marriage. Sex with my long-term lover just keeps getting better, we continue exploring our sexual 'dark side', and we aren't stopping any time soon.
Oh please!debbie321 wrote: ↑Fri Oct 15, 2021 4:34 amI asked the site admin about that, this is what I was told, someone called armyguy wants to give me assignments and send pictures to his personal email so he can stroke his cock. Wait, what?
Sent: Fri Jun 11, 2021 11:59 pm
by armyguyot1
I like to see at least 10 posts and you have exceeded that. When you feel ready I give you an assignment. I t will be a full body picture with the face optional. It will be somewhat complex and specific and you will send the picture to my personal email so I can manipulate it and post it in the Lady's Lounge. You hubby has to have his own account as he is not allowed to use yours. You will need to turn your camera down as we don't have much room on the site.
Hi!
Sent: Thu Jun 10, 2021 12:24 pm
by debbie321
Hi, I'm new here, made a few posts, would like to know what the requirements are to be properly registered. Not sure if I'm a Hotwife or not but husb and me have a lifestyle that seems to fit well with this forum!! TY Debbie
Did he ask for a naked picture of you? NO! 
Debbie?2inUPMichigan wrote: ↑Fri Oct 15, 2021 6:01 amOh please!debbie321 wrote: ↑Fri Oct 15, 2021 4:34 amI asked the site admin about that, this is what I was told, someone called armyguy wants to give me assignments and send pictures to his personal email so he can stroke his cock. Wait, what?
Sent: Fri Jun 11, 2021 11:59 pm
by armyguyot1
I like to see at least 10 posts and you have exceeded that. When you feel ready I give you an assignment. I t will be a full body picture with the face optional. It will be somewhat complex and specific and you will send the picture to my personal email so I can manipulate it and post it in the Lady's Lounge. You hubby has to have his own account as he is not allowed to use yours. You will need to turn your camera down as we don't have much room on the site.
Hi!
Sent: Thu Jun 10, 2021 12:24 pm
by debbie321
Hi, I'm new here, made a few posts, would like to know what the requirements are to be properly registered. Not sure if I'm a Hotwife or not but husb and me have a lifestyle that seems to fit well with this forum!! TY DebbieDid he ask for a naked picture of you? NO!
I certainly didn't send anyone a naked picture and I'm verified.
If you have been reading this site then you already know who armyguyot1 is. Pretending he is some random guy is absurd.
We take verification assignments very seriously and the process is in place for a reason. We do not rubber stamp anyone. There is no guarantee that someone will be verified just because they request to be a VHW.
Great answer and I could not have said it better. We do it just because we love it - aren’t we lucky not needing to over think it.nvr2old wrote: ↑Thu Aug 09, 2007 3:39 amI remember reading all the reasons on the original thread and exclaiming "yeah, this is why we do this!" Now suddenly as my fingers hover above the keyboard, my mind is pretty much blank. Others have said it so much better than I can. The reasons are numerous and are swirling around in my mind...pretty much in a jumbled up mess right now, but they ARE there.
What started out as my fantasy has become a very intense, hot reality for the both of us. At this time all I can do is to point out is the benefits we have reaped. She has become a very sexual woman who is filled with self confidence, and I have a rejuvinated sex drive that I figured was gone forever. We have established a level of communication that most couples would find bewildering and an excitement with each other that is pretty much unheard of after so many years of marriage. I have given up on trying to really understand exactly why I love seeing her with other men and am just basking in the fact that it is really happening to us.
Yep - very well said. We have been together for a long time and swinging and sharing keeps us young.dinoo wrote: ↑Tue Sep 07, 2021 1:48 amlisamyhotwife wrote:
"If you are truly partners on this path it is an incredible and erotic journey that can keep you young and your relationship exciting. I have been with my wife 44 years now and would not trade this life for anything."
Could have been written by myself.
We agree. Great answer.Gavriloprincep wrote: ↑Mon Mar 15, 2021 2:52 amI think there are several psychological aspects involved. I dont get off on the cuck humiliation part. I have been a bull and have shared as a stag. When i am with my HW, i often pretend i am that "new guy" having sex for the first time with this smoking hot wife. And imagine what she feels if it were her first risque affair. Makes each time feel like the first. So we have sex on average of 5x per week (allowing for illness, kids, pregnancies, etc). And in over 12 years it has felt like 5x52x12 (>3000) firsts. Now, watching and seeing the real thing turbo charges that high. The key is that we know who we love and have loyalty, and longevity. We always put each other first and realize that the "sport" sex for fun is different than the "love" sex of a deeply connected couple. That is my perspective which may be at odds or different than others but it has worked for us.
I agree - it is such a high. We and I get a bigger kick out of new guys and strangers than a regular - having tried both.SailorGuy wrote: ↑Tue Nov 03, 2020 8:16 pmI'm 60 and I've tried and had a LOT of "highs" in my life, and NOTHING compares to the high of my beloved beautiful wife making love to another man. It has been a win-win-win for us for over 20 years. The same lover for my wife all this time. He is a stud who gives her the best sex of her life hands down. It makes both of them happy and it makes me ecstatic. It has made our marriage stronger too. It's been wonderful, the best thing that's ever happened to us.
Knowing that its a woman for real its so much better.Aushotwife89 wrote: ↑Fri Sep 17, 2021 3:14 amyes i think so? i’m not sure i’ve posted enough things. i’m unable to pm army guyafagehi7 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 07, 2021 8:43 amAre you going to get verified?Aushotwife89 wrote: ↑Sat Aug 28, 2021 4:32 ammy husband has told me he gets off when i am enjoying myself and having an orgasm. we haven’t done anything yet, is this a thing? do guys like watching their wives orgasm in front of them? wouldn’t he be jealous?
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And it is so interesting that this should be so, when you consider the "script" of jealousy and monogamous faithfulness we are raised with about marriage and relationships. I mean, back in high school if one's girlfriend ( or boyfriend, whatever ) was seen even talking to another guy it was seen as a threat: he might try to steal your girl from you! And you go through all this for the high school and even college years, lots of relational highs and lows and drama and great sex, etc. THEN you "settle down" into a marriage and that one partner for the rest of your life, all safe and secure. And then you find yourself ( in my case ) wanting your safe and dependable wife to have sex with another man - what?? Where did THAT come from?? The very thing you feared in high school - heck, just even talking to another guy - and here you are wanting her to not only talk to another guy but go to bed with him? How can this be??Hildasw wrote: ↑Mon Nov 01, 2021 12:27 pmI agree - it is such a high. We and I get a bigger lick out of new guys and strangers than a regular - having tried both.SailorGuy wrote: ↑Tue Nov 03, 2020 8:16 pmI'm 60 and I've tried and had a LOT of "highs" in my life, and NOTHING compares to the high of my beloved beautiful wife making love to another man. It has been a win-win-win for us for over 20 years. The same lover for my wife all this time. He is a stud who gives her the best sex of her life hands down. It makes both of them happy and it makes me ecstatic. It has made our marriage stronger too. It's been wonderful, the best thing that's ever happened to us.
