Wife Impregnation

[subguy80]

For me - and probably others, im a great father, a great husband, have a very good job and provide for my family. I’m not a world beater in bed but im ok. But i’m still a cuckold because my wife fucks another man, and i’m happy for her to do so. But ultimately, i dont feel the need to ‘submit’ to another man, just because they happen to basically be a walking dildo that my wife likes to use.

I dunno why, and it might just be a phraseology thing, but it really irritates me when i see things like ‘all cucks should’ or ‘its a cucks duty...’. No. Lets get it right. You may feel its ‘your’ duty as part of ‘your’ journey, but we’re all cucks and you dont speak for all of us.

I agree 100% with your comments. There are many varieties of cuckolds and you should not feel pigeonholed into one niche. However, if I might ask, do you get any "enjoyment" out of your wife's playing? Do you ask for details? Do you make her trysts part of your lovemaking? In other words, do you get some erotic enjoyment out of it? Or, do you simply want her to be happy and to enjoy her sexuality and that is your motivation? I'm just curious. Thanks.

[Des 31]

For me - and probably others, im a great father, a great husband, have a very good job and provide for my family. I’m not a world beater in bed but im ok. But i’m still a cuckold because my wife fucks another man, and i’m happy for her to do so. But ultimately, i dont feel the need to ‘submit’ to another man, just because they happen to basically be a walking dildo that my wife likes to use.

I dunno why, and it might just be a phraseology thing, but it really irritates me when i see things like ‘all cucks should’ or ‘its a cucks duty...’. No. Lets get it right. You may feel its ‘your’ duty as part of ‘your’ journey, but we’re all cucks and you dont speak for all of us.

I agree 100% with your comments. There are many varieties of cuckolds and you should not feel pigeonholed into one niche. However, if I might ask, do you get any "enjoyment" out of your wife's playing? Do you ask for details? Do you make her trysts part of your lovemaking? In other words, do you get some erotic enjoyment out of it? Or, do you simply want her to be happy and to enjoy her sexuality and that is your motivation? I'm just curious. Thanks.

Those comments cover the field for us. Our marital sex life is rather normal but my wife loves that other men fuck her at her choosing. I can't respond to the poll because my wife had a tubal ligation and cannot get pregnant. If she could and another had impregnated her, I would have accepted it as my own. You both make good insights.

~ Des

[PANTIES]

We would have wanted her to have her first lovers baby. The three of us discussed this and agreed he would and she wanted his baby. I wanted a boy and she wanted a girl. The night we decided this is what she wanted her BC pills were discarded.

I had to wear a condom when I had sex with her for two years while he tried to impregnate her. It didn’t happen and now it’s too late.

Pauline

[Des 31]

Wives becoming impregnated during sex with men to who they aren't married is a common happening. Most men will prefer they impregnate their wives. But the more important part is that the husband accepts the child as his own regardless of who the father may be. A child's welfare is more important than any man's ego.

[toshare]

We want children and have agreed she can get pregnant by any man she wants. She said she’d like to have my baby but also thinks she’d like another man to impregnate her. It’s for that reason I pull out until she tells me to say in. While she’s not been having sex w anyone she really likes but has been talking to a new guy and she told me he’s beautiful and he could be the one she will want his baby.

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Des I fully agree with your statement…. Wives becoming impregnated during sex with men to who they aren't married is a common happening.

Married couples in the Hotwife lifestyle should be reasonable and mature enough to realize if the wife gets pregnant by another man fully accept and love the child just as if the husband is the biological father

[veub]

Wives becoming impregnated during sex with men to who they aren't married is a common happening. Most men will prefer they impregnate their wives. But the more important part is that the husband accepts the child as his own regardless of who the father may be. A child's welfare is more important than any man's ego.

Women getting pregnant while unmarried is common. Married women getting impregnated by a man other than their husband is very rare.

[Des 31]

Wives becoming impregnated during sex with men to who they aren't married is a common happening. Most men will prefer they impregnate their wives. But the more important part is that the husband accepts the child as his own regardless of who the father may be. A child's welfare is more important than any man's ego.

Women getting pregnant while unmarried is common. Married women getting impregnated by a man other than their husband is very rare.

Of course, you're right. But the other side of the coin is that most married women don't engage in extramarital activity to the extent as our hotwives and for that reason, it will remain a rare occurrence. This website is for people like us, not a typical newspaper advice column. My wife had a tubal ligation for other medical reasons, so pregnancy isn't one of our concerns; but I can understand the concerns of couples of similar age whose wives prefer fucking random men without condoms or other birth control methodology. And, as anyone can see in these pages, impregnation by others happens in this way of life.

Even if my wife were able to become pregnant, neither she nor I would want to live our lives any other way.
~ Des

[goyse]

I don't know if it adds to the discussion or not but I raised another man's child. Initially, I believed the child was mine but an unusual sequence of events led to me finding out that in fact, my daughter was not my child. Did it make any difference?

As far as the child was concerned and my relationship with her, it made no difference at all to me. It did however lead to a lot of discussion between me and my wife - now ex-wife and then life went on as if nothing had changed for around fifteen years. My grievance was not that it happened. It was that she was aware but didn't tell me. She hid the truth from me! That hurt but then after a while, it raised something in me that nothing else could have achieved a sexual excitement that still stimulates me many years later even after she decided that she wanted to live her life with someone else.

I have read most of the comments and statements here and of course, we are all different as are the way we view this important issue. Today I have different relationships and with those relationships came other children none of which are mine. Did it make any difference? No, not at all. Each is a child of a woman I love so I see in them part of that woman that I care so much about so I love them just the same. That was the same situation with the daughter of my ex-wife.

So the point that I make is that if the relationship is strong and you care and love the woman you will accept her child/children no matter who provided the sperm and you might even get a kick out of it. Does it make any difference to the child? Yes, well, it could but then around ten per cent of men are not aware and even the children don't know unless a decision is made to tell them so it need not.

If a couple makes a decision to allow another man to impregnate the wife then great, go for it if that is what you both want. If it happens by accident and you are both aware she is having sex with someone else then man up and accept it. If she is cheating as my wife had been then the decision is still yours but my advice is to accept it, smile, be happy that other men find your wife sexy enough to want to bed her and the product of sex can be new life so no one should be too surprised if a child comes along as a result.

My take on it is that jealousy, agro and rejection have no place in a hotwife/cuckold relationship so get on with it. If a child or children become part of that then look to it to raise the level of excitement with the relationship and get on with your life while loving your children and the child of the woman that you love.

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

And is the guy who impregnates her going to leave about $250 K in trust just in case your marriage ends unexpectedly so there is money to raise and educate the child? If you aren't planning on those kinds of things as well, you are not planning at all.

BRILLIANT POINT.

[R_H_NC]

Des I fully agree with your statement…. Wives becoming impregnated during sex with men to who they aren't married is a common happening.

Married couples in the Hotwife lifestyle should be reasonable and mature enough to realize if the wife gets pregnant by another man fully accept and love the child just as if the husband is the biological father

What's the status of your pregnant (by Steve) wife? You announced the pregnancy on 1 July but suspected she was pregnant weeks before that.

[Liamlion]

What I’m about to say is entirely true... about 6 months ago I found out that I was infertile as a consequence of a genetic defect.

I’ve been with my girlfriend for nearly 10 years. She’s known about my cuckold fantasy for several years and whilst we’ve spoken about it she’s never really pursued any interest in it.

The fertility issue is a real strain on the relationship. She is desperate for kids and I’m not keen on a sperm donor.

I saw a meme today of a black bull with a white couple holding a mixed raced child and i sent it to her over WhatsApp (she was out of the house at the time). I messaged her some more suggesting we take the leap into cuckold and that maybe it may help us find a sperm donor more organically and allow me to engage with the idea more. I think my issue is one of control. She was agreeable and said she would start looking for a possible play partner.

[PANTIES]

The idea of having a long term lover impregnating my wife is something we wanted to happen versus a sperm bank. We chose the guy we wanted to impregnate her and he was completely on board and assured us he would not interfere with the child. I wanted a boy she wanted a girl so I was agreed she would have two of his babies.

It didn’t happen but this was our choice to have him give her two babies. We are all adults and the great thing about living in this country we can do whatever we want.

Pauline

[Filou]

I'm sure if we are honest all the men out there realize that there are stronger, smarter, better looking males out there who would gladly fuck his wife and impregnate her for him.

I am no George Clooney, but I am also not bad looking as well. I am quite sportive and my net income is well inside the top 1% of my country.

Now - by your definition I should be rather a bull than a submissive ? Damn ! I knew there was something wrong all those years...

[raymond213]

It's one of the chances you take. That your wife will get pregnant

[Filou]

It's one of the chances you take. That your wife will get pregnant

If you are not really dumb that is no chance someone will take.
However: There is also the folk responsible for the practical pearl index beeing much higher than the theoretical pearl index. I'm sure they will take the chance gladly.

[Betamale89]

My wife and I are now proud parents of a beautiful baby girl, but I am not the biological father. That matters not even the slightest to me, both she and my wife are perfect and I'll love and care for them all the same. My wife still has her bull and other dates (though much less thanks to omicron now), it's possible, or more likely almost certain that our family expands. But again, I won't be the bio father.

[raymond213]

Living in this Lifestyle is one of the chances we take. As my wife was on the pill. She preferred bareback sex. We started in the 70s where there were less chance of catching VD

[Foxyguy]

I think many husband’s need to let go of the outdated mindset that it is mandatory that only the husband can get his wife pregnant and have a family, including myself

If the wife has a beautiful and healthy child father by another man and raises and loves the child isn’t that what is more important than oh my gosh who is the biological father

I completely agree.

[Reno1]

Every real man must admit that the only reason they want their wife to get pregnant with them, is that they want to see themselves replicated in some way. Unless you graduated first in your class from Harvard, or played in the NFL, or been in a movie there is no reason for your wife getting pregnant with you when she can find a stronger, smarter, or better looking guy than you to impregnate her for the simple fun of getting to fuck her while you sit and listen or watch. That goes ten times if you have any genetic weakness in your family history. You will have children that are better than you, which should be your goal, and a happy wife. And all you hurt is your ego. Remember they don't breed racehorses with the sperm of losers.

[bluebells]

My wife cheated on me and tried to have another man's baby. I have never known such humiliation in my life. By dumb luck she didn't get pregnant. She still messages him privately. They have a bond and he is her Dominant Bull.

[JMNBABE]

What about the husband wearing the bulls used condom inside out or

wife snowballs the husband and then he goes down on her or

wife drools cum on husbands penis and then they have sex.

I know this is an older post, but this is still our most intense fantast and all three of these suggestions are things we have discussed, fantasized about, or even tried!!

CW

[coupleoxford]

We've never gone out with the intention of my wife getting pregnant by another man but we've had the conversation that if it happened then we would both be fine about it. It's just one of those things we wanted to get out of the way so if it did ever happen then it wouldn't become a problem.

[gordon921]

Every real man must admit that the only reason they want their wife to get pregnant with them, is that they want to see themselves replicated in some way. Unless you graduated first in your class from Harvard, or played in the NFL, or been in a movie there is no reason for your wife getting pregnant with you when she can find a stronger, smarter, or better looking guy than you to impregnate her for the simple fun of getting to fuck her while you sit and listen or watch. That goes ten times if you have any genetic weakness in your family history. You will have children that are better than you, which should be your goal, and a happy wife. And all you hurt is your ego. Remember they don't breed racehorses with the sperm of losers.

So conversely if the wife has some genetic weakness you should go fuck some other woman and bring the baby home, like that'll go down well

[elina]

My wife and I are now proud parents of a beautiful baby girl, but I am not the biological father. That matters not even the slightest to me, both she and my wife are perfect and I'll love and care for them all the same. My wife still has her bull and other dates (though much less thanks to omicron now), it's possible, or more likely almost certain that our family expands. But again, I won't be the bio father.

Congratulations to you.

I love your attitude,
please keep supporting Your Wife and enjoy bringing up your daugther.
Must be wonderful to spend time with the baby while your Wife is out being satisfied by Her bull and other dates.

Sincerely
elina