Tom, Jasmine & My Step Dad (Has a Bully/Rival ever fucked your wife) Update

[SomeoneCuckMe]

if she falls in love with another guy who will be better in bed, nothing will keep her with you. Do you know it's the beginning of the end?

There is nothing I can do. Im learning to live with the fact thats its possible but Its what she needs to live her life and not live with regrets. Thats her biggest fear. I will be here for her no matter what. If her path moves away from me, I will be heartbroken but what can I do? Tell her no? Shes already made it clear that we dont have a future if I stop her from it.

[SomeoneCuckMe]

If she made you understand that you have no future, why be in it ?? It's like waiting for a sentence

I didnt tell him he has no future i told him i need to experience things and he needs to accept that. sorry but its the harsh reality and its tough for me also. i just dont want to hide from the fact we both know i could develop feelings down the line. doesnt mean my feelings for tom go away. its an obstacle we will face if it happens. one we will face together. my feelings for tom will never vanish. i just want to catch up on the stuff ive missed out on in life and he knows that too. Jas x

[SomeoneCuckMe]

from the horses mouth lol. well, not a horse, a beautiful pony!! haha that was Jas. Not sure if she will ever reply again but I told her what I was doing and she wanted to read. So congrats for getting her attention Ketchup!!!

[SomeoneCuckMe]

I'm sorry but I read a lot of Tom's words about how you assured him that you would not fuck with Steve then that you would not fuck with a colleague from work and everything was a lie so I find it hard to believe your words

Please dont come on here to make digs at my girlfriend mate. We are both going back on things we have said. Its just a confusing time for all involved.

[SomeoneCuckMe]

GUYS!!! JAS JUST SAID IT WOULD BE FUNNY AS FUCK FOR HER TO DO A Q&A FOR YOU GUYS!!! IM GOING TO SHOW HER HOW TO ANSWER QUESTIONS ON HERE WITHOUT MY HELP AND TELL HER TO DO IT FROM WORK TOMORROW WHEN SHES BORED!!! LETS SEE WHAT SHE SAYS

[SomeoneCuckMe]

OKAY GET YOUR QUESTIONS IN FOR JAS!!! SHES GOING TO ANSWER THEM ON HER LUNCH TOMORROW WHICH IS AT 2PM UK TIME! SHE SAYS ASK HER ANYTHING YOU WANT. FUCK THIS IS GOING TO BE FUN.

[john jasson]

Ditch the Leon side of the story - that just went too far too quick and left you nowhere to go.

That's curious advice considering Leon is the "bad boy" that Jasmine is wetting her knickers the most over? Not quite so easy to ditch him considering she has a mind of her own, wants control, and is not some little bunny who can be pushed around to Tom's whim. Not to mention that Tom also gets off on her being with Leon too.

He's implying that my life is fake lol.. Don't bother reacting to it mate. These people are bored.

Yeah. I've always loved it so much when I write about stuff that's happened in real life, only to have some wannabe who never posted anything of substance and probably never actually did anything in hotwifing beyond wanking in front of a computer, start rubbishing my genuine experiences as made up. How the fuck would they be experts in how weird and wonderful this life can be when they never lived it? They maybe bored, but they're certainly borING. Nice to see you back, anyway, Tom.

Maybe Jas could feed the occasional tasty morsel about her new "cheat" guy onto the thread, and you can read it at the same time as the rest of us!! She seems like the kind of girl who won't be able to leave OHW alone now she knows we exist!! Ah well, we can hope!

[john jasson]

Questions for Jasmine (Re Leon):

Hi Jas, Have you managed to make things up with Leon yet? Do you think he will go along with having you laying the ground rules and having much more limited time with him? He sounds a bit macho to take kindly to that, and you like him taking charge. If he insists on more for him or nothing at all, are you willing to negotiate a compromise that might stretch Tom's tolerance? (Say he wanted you living with him a full week now and then, or holidays together while Tom stays at home. That kind of thing, so long as he recognises that you and Tom are the couple.)

Tom said you'd been in touch with him, but it was just chitchat. Was that: "Hi how are you?" type chitchat, or "Hi, I'm really missing your big cock." type chitchat?

Will you still encourage him to humiliate Tom when you are together and join in with that humiliation like you did the first night with Leon? Is Tom's deep humiliation still a hot thing for you that you want and are allowed to pursue, even after your reset?

[nekkedoutdoors]

Wow, Tom & Jas together on the board. So many questions!!!

[rascalnvixen]

There's no doubt this will be very interesting!!! Can't wait to hear more from Jas!!! I think it will be great to hear about these issues from a young lady's viewpoint. She obviously repressed a lot of feelings in her time with Tom and now she has been released. So the thoughts about her release and new sexual freedoms will be very compelling, I'm sure.

Rascal

[mick_flow]

Hey Jas, Tom! - glad to hear you guys got to reconnect, it’s so important.

One of the crazies, and most erotic moments I’ve shared with my wife was a result of both of us playing with others. It started of course with me wanting her to have sex with others. That was amazingly hot, what I enjoyed the most was the expression on her face, how I could see she was enjoying it. I remember watching her with a friend at a hotel in Dublin. I’m sitting in the chair and they are on the bed kissing and rubbing each other. He stopped and pulled away. Looking directly into my wife’s eyes, and holding her gaze, he slid his hand down between her legs. Deftly sliding his fingers inside her panties. He played with her. I could see her mouth open, she moaned slightly. She didn’t break eye contact. He kept this up for about 30 seconds, but it felt like 5 minutes. Removing his hand he brought it up to his mouth and without breaking eye contact with her placed his fingers in his mouth. The thing I remember the most is her moan, and the look in her face. A look of lust, of pure want. She was craving him. She kissed him so hard, pushed him back on the bed and went for her man. Me? - I was sitting there in the chair watching the single hottest thing on the planet, my wife craving another man, wanting to be his.

It quickly progressed, like Tom, to something more. I wanted her to not just have sex with someone else, but I wanted her to give herself completely to them, to be theirs.

She spent more and more time with “the one”, I loved it, it was hot knowing she wanted him more than me. On the odd occasion we’d make love she tell me she was thinking of him. Wanting him. Every time she’d tell me this, I got harder and harder. Feeling like I was going to explode though my own skin! - my wife would comment on this, comment on how her love for another man, made me grow inside her.

But eventually the time alone, well, it’s not much fun to be honest. The real fun is the details, is having my wife back and hearing the details. When that wasn’t happening it wasn’t fun. So I started looking for another women. My wife hated it at first, we had rows of course. But what’s good for the gander, is good for the goose! I met an amazing women, with who sex was different, better, hotter, more kinky. I loved it. The bit that got me was the smell, smelling another women on me, I’d forgotten what that was like. It led to an amazing night.

Coming back from time with my girlfriend, and my wife with her boyfriend, we (me and my wife) find ourselves in bed. Kissing, I wanted the details and we start having fun, a replay of what we’ve done in the past, her telling me she wants another, is in love with her boyfriend, how he’s better than me. How’s she’s thinking about being with him as I’m inside her. And god I’m loving it. Until she says, what about you and your girl, you’d rather have her, wouldn’t you?

Dear god, she was right. She asked “you don’t want me do you?” And I answered “no, and you don’t want me either?” And my wife said “no, I don’t”. She was dripping, and I was so hard. One of the most erotic nights of my life.

So Jas, Tom, is this adventure strictly a one way street? Only for Jas? Or will you let Tom play too ?

[AstaSilva]

Obvious question, would she ever consider (if its the absolute most perfect guy she ever met) letting him knock her up?

[irreverent]

Great that you're doing a Q&A, Tom and Jas. I guess my question is for both of you.

It's about when you were having a talk a few days back, about how to make your relationship to work. Jas, you said that you needed to have full control to make it work for you. I guess this applies to when to meet your lovers and what you do together. Do you think you would want to extend that control to other areas of your relationship? As in moving towards a female led relationship (FLR)? Tom, would you want that?

[Chrislydi]

Excuse the preamble as I'll eventually get to the question ...

Loving the honesty, the charting of a far more realistic way forward, a possible future roadmap which allows for a few breakdowns and even, god forbid, the ultimate write-off. However it seems to me far from a car crash waiting to happen but a far more sensible way forward. Tom stated that the risk of losing you is a big part of making the experience 'special' for him too, but what seems unchangeable now can easily alter as reality changes attitudes.

At the moment Tom seems more than happy with the current LS where he stays faithful while you are allowed to experience many others..He is in effect agreeing a free hall pass to date and fuck while strictly rationing his own 'less than great' penetrative sex (with rubber on too!) to once a week.

At last the question....

Would you ever conceivably contemplate a similar license for Tom to fuck other girls if his current attitude changed dramatically and in the event he strayed could or would this be a deal breaker for your future relationship?

[realcucklife]

Congrats on being on the same page and communicating more.
Some of your early games seemed to touch on denial and humiliation games common with cuckolding, had you heard of cuckolding or this type play or did it just happen organically?
Are you doing research on pages like this to get an understanding of the type of things you can do that might allow you to push more boundaries that will be fun for both of you?

[mundyman]

I hope Jas is ready to answer the questions that will come her way.
Here goes:
Do you see yourself being in this lifestyle through your life? That this is not a phase you’re going through but rather the beginning of you developing the personality and desires you’ve always had and now learning how to live in the lifestyle?

Do you see Tom as your equal, or will he always be beta boy to your alpha type lovers?

Are you a size queen, I.e., you seek and need large cocks attached to dominant lovers?

What are your limits as to what one of your dominant livers would make/want you to do?

Would you swing with your lover if that’s what he wanted?

[nekkedoutdoors]

Hello, Jasmine. Thank you for taking your lunch time to answer questions. Not sure how this is going to work, If questions are to be submitted prior or if you are going to take them during your lunch. I’m gonna gamble and post now to avoid being lost in the queue. It will be outstanding to hear your take on the situation. I am a huge fan and am really pulling for the survival of your relationship to each other. You are to be applauded for your willingness and ability to end things the way you did with Leon and return home to Tom. I understand that situation with you living with Leon is because of a lack of Communication between you two and you thought you were doing what Tom wanted. And I think you kinda were doing what he wanted, just he doesn’t really know what wants at times. Seeing as is Tom is very impulsive and doesn’t take the time to think through what the repercussions that certain actions could have on your relationship. I think it’s up to you be the level headed one and slow things down so you two can discuss what those repercussions could be.

Someone else already asked about you and a Female Lead Relationship (FLR) so I’ll refrain from asking again. My question is, When you were with Leon were you in contact with any of your friend group. Did or does any of them know what had transpired with you and Tom? Did you or were you concerned about running into any one you know when out with Leon and his friends? Were you in contact with Steve at all during your time with Leon and was he aware of the situation at the time?

One more question, little more personal, I'm asking this because Leon seemed to have such a dominant personality and seemed like he would want his peer group to know of his dominance over you. Did Leon share you with friends or suggest he might want to at some point?

Jas, I truly hope you and Tom are able to hold on to the love you shared prior to everything taking place. I know life will be different and your relationship will continue to evolve, but hold to that love for another. Please be open and honest with one another, communicate, communicate, and communicate some more.

Best wishes to you Jas & Tom

[chastity_boi]

Loving this thread and glad you have both talked things through. The Q&A is a great idea. So here my question for Jas. Tom craves humiliation from you and your lovers and you seem to enjoy it too. So far you have had him suck cock, watch, eat cream pies and is going to be limited to once a week sex and only in a condom, while your lovers enjoy you bareback. What other humiliations or restrictions do you have planned for Tom and how far do you want to push the envelope with this? Best of luck to you both and I look forward to seeing how your relationship evolves.

[SomeoneCuckMe]

Hey guys just figuring how to work the site xx

[nekkedoutdoors]

Hi Jas!

[rascalnvixen]

Tom & Jas,
If you are trying to figure out how to make this question and answer arrangement work, I would strongly suggest that Jas get her own account so that it is easy for your readers to understand who is posting what on the thread. Other than that, Jas would have to state at the beginning of her posts that it is her that is making the comments and not Tom. Just my suggestion for you to consider or ignore.

Rascal

[SomeoneCuckMe]

if she falls in love with another guy who will be better in bed, nothing will keep her with you. Do you know it's the beginning of the end?

Its not the beginning of the end for us its the start of something we never imagined before. We just need to know what we want in life and thats healthy. The unhealthy thing to do in my honest opinion would be to ignore obvious needs and have regrets in life. We are so young! xx

[SomeoneCuckMe]

Questions for Jasmine (Re Leon):

Hi Jas, Have you managed to make things up with Leon yet? Do you think he will go along with having you laying the ground rules and having much more limited time with him? He sounds a bit macho to take kindly to that, and you like him taking charge. If he insists on more for him or nothing at all, are you willing to negotiate a compromise that might stretch Tom's tolerance? (Say he wanted you living with him a full week now and then, or holidays together while Tom stays at home. That kind of thing, so long as he recognises that you and Tom are the couple.)

Tom said you'd been in touch with him, but it was just chitchat. Was that: "Hi how are you?" type chitchat, or "Hi, I'm really missing your big cock." type chitchat?

Will you still encourage him to humiliate Tom when you are together and join in with that humiliation like you did the first night with Leon? Is Tom's deep humiliation still a hot thing for you that you want and are allowed to pursue, even after your reset?

Hey Leon and I are talking again and its fine. He has to accept that hes not Tom and Tom is not him if you understand. I think he will be easy to persuade lmao I LOVE the fact hes macho and love that he takes charge in the bedroom If he refuses to accept that I decide when and where, he will just have to go im afraid! Hes fucking sexy but I can find another and I know that. We just talk like normal, hows your day etc he tells me he misses me a lot lmao I miss him too but my relationship with Tom comes first. We just crossed wires somewhere down the line but i think its sorted for now. I Love humiliating Tom lmao its the biggest turn on for me and obviously having these sexy men chase me haha. Thank you xx

[SomeoneCuckMe]

Hey Jas, Tom! - glad to hear you guys got to reconnect, it’s so important.

One of the crazies, and most erotic moments I’ve shared with my wife was a result of both of us playing with others. It started of course with me wanting her to have sex with others. That was amazingly hot, what I enjoyed the most was the expression on her face, how I could see she was enjoying it. I remember watching her with a friend at a hotel in Dublin. I’m sitting in the chair and they are on the bed kissing and rubbing each other. He stopped and pulled away. Looking directly into my wife’s eyes, and holding her gaze, he slid his hand down between her legs. Deftly sliding his fingers inside her panties. He played with her. I could see her mouth open, she moaned slightly. She didn’t break eye contact. He kept this up for about 30 seconds, but it felt like 5 minutes. Removing his hand he brought it up to his mouth and without breaking eye contact with her placed his fingers in his mouth. The thing I remember the most is her moan, and the look in her face. A look of lust, of pure want. She was craving him. She kissed him so hard, pushed him back on the bed and went for her man. Me? - I was sitting there in the chair watching the single hottest thing on the planet, my wife craving another man, wanting to be his.

It quickly progressed, like Tom, to something more. I wanted her to not just have sex with someone else, but I wanted her to give herself completely to them, to be theirs.

She spent more and more time with “the one”, I loved it, it was hot knowing she wanted him more than me. On the odd occasion we’d make love she tell me she was thinking of him. Wanting him. Every time she’d tell me this, I got harder and harder. Feeling like I was going to explode though my own skin! - my wife would comment on this, comment on how her love for another man, made me grow inside her.

But eventually the time alone, well, it’s not much fun to be honest. The real fun is the details, is having my wife back and hearing the details. When that wasn’t happening it wasn’t fun. So I started looking for another women. My wife hated it at first, we had rows of course. But what’s good for the gander, is good for the goose! I met an amazing women, with who sex was different, better, hotter, more kinky. I loved it. The bit that got me was the smell, smelling another women on me, I’d forgotten what that was like. It led to an amazing night.

Coming back from time with my girlfriend, and my wife with her boyfriend, we (me and my wife) find ourselves in bed. Kissing, I wanted the details and we start having fun, a replay of what we’ve done in the past, her telling me she wants another, is in love with her boyfriend, how he’s better than me. How’s she’s thinking about being with him as I’m inside her. And god I’m loving it. Until she says, what about you and your girl, you’d rather have her, wouldn’t you?

Dear god, she was right. She asked “you don’t want me do you?” And I answered “no, and you don’t want me either?” And my wife said “no, I don’t”. She was dripping, and I was so hard. One of the most erotic nights of my life.

So Jas, Tom, is this adventure strictly a one way street? Only for Jas? Or will you let Tom play too ?

There is not a chance that Toms gets another woman lmao I wont let that happen! Im jealous!! He has zero interest in other women too. He just gets a kick from me being naughty xx

[SomeoneCuckMe]

Obvious question, would she ever consider (if its the absolute most perfect guy she ever met) letting him knock her up?

Lmaoo Imagine what this would do to Tom!!!! I dont think he would like it lmao but I dont have any interest in that side of things tbh as it stands. Tom & I will have kids eventually. I might tease him about this prospect lmao Thanks for the idea x