Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

[slenderfish]

I'll post cast members soon.

Ms. W = (skincare girl birthday party May 2022)

Ms. R = (tall blonde model who has sugar daddy billionaire on the sly)

Ms. H = (friend of Ms. R)

Ms. K = (pantygate fame, blonde Daisy Dukes type, deep in the "danger zone" of the hot/crazy matrix)

SW = Slenderwife

SF = Slenderfish (me)

Mr. B = (6'8" Ivy League basketball player, SW cheated with him Sep 2020 but SW maintains they did not have sex)

Mr. S = (SW's choice of 6'9" hunky man for her first hotwife experience; they got together late 2020 had sex multiple times, etc. but he did not dote on her so she cut him loose)

Mr. M = (SW's first effort at using her sexual power as a hotwife to seduce, she fucked him for sport in Nov/Dec 2020; they had dated over 15 years ago and he had expressed fidelity to his post-divorce younger girlfriend but SW found it an ego trip to get him to sleep with her)

Mr. G = (SW's longtime personal trainer, a hunky black man who she initially described to me as "the most handsome black man I ever seen in person")

Mr. J = (New guy black man whom SW danced with and got his number this past Saturday night)

Mr. E = (handsome acquired yacht in early 2021 to score women)

Ms. MC = (Mr. E's girlfriend summer 2021 to present, made move on SW in July 2021 but SW didn't like it and considers her a "slut")

Ms. Ch = (former playboy model)

Ms. M = (SW friend who encouraged her to lap dance, pole dance, the only person to see the Mr. B cheating security video)

Mr. Handsome = (childhood best friend of Mr. E)

Ms. T = (private luxury jet pilot, went out with Mr. E for a minute)

Ms. I = (friend of SW and SF, lives in Europe)

Ms. Norse = (wife of Mr. Handsome)

Mr. C = (Mr. Italian)

Ms. J = (recent new friend of SW; I got her together as friend of SW after she spurned Mr. E)

[william70]

Mr. B = (6'8" Ivy League basketball player, SW cheated with him Sep 2020 but not proven they had sex)
Please pass on any discussions you and SW have when she reads this. Has this come up during therapy? If not, why not?

[slenderfish]

Mr. B = (6'8" Ivy League basketball player, SW cheated with him Sep 2020 but not proven they had sex)
Please pass on any discussions you and SW have when she reads this. Has this come up during therapy? If not, why not?

Good question.

We are moving toward this discussion with the therapist. Not quite there yet.

My point is if a married woman sneaks a guy into a "girls' party" while the husband is out of town, and actively hides this fact from her husband, and then after all the girls go home he stays overnight (with her in our bedroom), it's cheating. She maintains it's not cheating if they didn't have sex.

But remember this was the catalyst for my telling it straight to her that if she chooses to cheat, then we divorce. If she instead is willing for extracurricular activities to be hotwifing, then we can both embrace it and make it work. So she gave it a go and about 20 months hence, here we are.

[slenderfish]

Sounds great.
But I’m not sure about her.
Are there a discrapencies between her in normal mood and a drunk mood in case what she do and how she rate the men?
You know she has the phone number of this guy, but she may not go out with him in a next day.
Maybe she will call him but this is a stranger and she saw him while drunk.
I think the best time was just after the dance.
Just take them to car/uber and go to hotel.

Red wine SW and regular SW are, indeed, different.

It's just what it is.

[slenderfish]

Im interested to know if you observed from a distance anything else she was doing (kissing, whispering, touching, etc.)?

I believe at one point the one guy (the one who gave her his number) had asked her something provocative in her ear, and she shied away from him for a little while after that. But by the end of the night, she was back dancing with him and got his number, etc.

[slenderfish]

Fish - when is the birthday?

Birthday is this month. Ms. I is our house guest for the duration.

The parties have already begun; did a lunch party on Friday and then dinner that night with my son, and then went out big on Saturday night (as described above) and then another party again Sunday (yesterday) which was an afternoon party at my friend's house with about 30-40 people, catered, etc. (he hosted it); and also a nice birthday dinner last night at a fine Italian restaurant with SW's niece and a couple others.

Today is basically quiet, tomorrow a dinner party at a friend's house, Wed is boys' night party for my bday with the broader group of guys (at an outdoors bar/restaurant that has massive steaks and live music), Thursday is a wine tasting followed by dinner party at a hip wine bar/restaurant in town with some other couples, Friday is the calm before the biggest party on Saturday night.

SW and I still suffering a bit from post-COVID fatigue but will manage.

Note that just about the entire cast of characters (from the list above) will be attending on Saturday night (including Ms. K of Pantygate fame), except for Ms. H and Ms. M, out of state. Also except Mr. S and Mr. M., who are also out of state and are out the picture at this point.

And if SW follows up on her promise/invitation, the guy whose phone number she got on Saturday night.

[TheHammer]

Is Mr. G attending the party?

[Mr Mrs Cream]

Im interested to know if you observed from a distance anything else she was doing (kissing, whispering, touching, etc.)?

I believe at one point the one guy (the one who gave her his number) had asked her something provocative in her ear, and she shied away from him for a little while after that. But by the end of the night, she was back dancing with him and got his number, etc.

When you be alone with SW It will be a good foreplay to talk about what he said.
I think SW needs some % of wine to start her good mode and tell you what he said.
You may be also clear with her that such details turn you on.

Hope you will hear from her more details about her anal experiences with this ass guy you mentioned.
But I can not imagine SW talking about how Mr. XXX e.g. was puting his finger inside her butt hole and all the details around it like usage of the lube…
And also what she felt during anal sex and if he did cum inside her.

I think such SW story should be recorded.
You may use iPhone or Apple Watch for that case.

In my case while being on date with hotwife sometimes between the rounds I ask her to call the cuck.
Then she shares the details which is very erotic.
Before that I recommend a cuck to record the call using an app.
I know it is in use many times.
It also the way to make cuck more cock focused when hotwife is going into the details how she is touching and blowing my cock, how the precum tastes…

[slenderfish]

Is Mr. G attending the party?

Yes, Mr. G is attending the party. I will go back and edit the list and add Mr. G. Thanks for catching that one!

[KyGrappler80]

That's a lot of sexy characters in that cast. I look forward to hearing the actors and actresses who would play each of those people

kidding, sort of

[slenderfish]

As a fun side note, despite my warning him away from her for being deep into the hot/crazy scale, Mr. C has started dating Ms. K (pantygate).

He invited her as his date to the birthday barbecue shindig on Sunday afternoon. SW was shocked to see her! I was in many ways happy to see her, she's so damn easy on the eyes.

SW said that I must tell him that he may not bring Ms. K as his date to the big birthday party this upcoming Saturday. I told SW that his invitation is clear that he may bring a guest, and if he chooses Ms. K as his guest, then so be it!

And I told SW that I agree it's a colossal mistake for any man to get involved with Ms. K, and that I'd warned him and will do so again and again.

[slenderfish]

Ms. K is fabulously beautiful.

Ms. K is also terrible. Her longtime best friend Ms. M ended up moving away from our area, out of state, in part to get away from Ms. K.

But not before Ms. M confided the following to SW:

1) Ms. K is dating a married man and got him to pay some of her bills. That's how she measures a man's interest. She also got him to allow her to use his vacation home a couple hours' drive from here, and when he called her suddenly to let her know his wife and kid are on their way and therefore Ms. K has to depart, she became angry and moved all the furniture and artwork around in the vacation home, just to "fuck with his wife".

2) Ms. K is desperate to have a baby. She has begun using a turkey baster to retrieve fresh condoms from her youngest boyfriend after their sex, and insert his sperm, unknown by him.

3) Ms. K has progressed in her job at a major industrial enterprise, with the strength of her ongoing liaisons with her boss who is married with kids, etc.

4) Ms. K is very unstable and needy, that's why she has to have a stable of men who "compete" for her and pay her bills, etc. According to Ms. M, she has confided that "all the men want to fuck me, especially all my girlfriends' husbands".

5) During one of our summer parties in 2020, Ms. K asked me to take her out to the dance floor and dance. She then warned me not to "dip her" because she is "not wearing any panties under this short dress" and then she asked me to take her (alone) up to the rooftop deck to show her the view. We were up there just a few minutes and then SW suddenly popped up the stairs, and asked what we were doing. I was unaware of the Ms. K stuff. Apparently some of the other women always watch Ms. K like hawks, because they know of her shenanigans, and told SW she should go up to the rooftop deck just to be sure. Ms. K was banished from our parties after that night.

What is my responsibility to my friend on this?

[afagehi7]

Ms. K is fabulously beautiful.

Ms. K is also terrible. Her longtime best friend Ms. M ended up moving away from our area, out of state, in part to get away from Ms. K.

But not before Ms. M confided the following to SW:

1) Ms. K is dating a married man and got him to pay some of her bills. That's how she measures a man's interest. She also got him to allow her to use his vacation home a couple hours' drive from here, and when he called her suddenly to let her know his wife and kid are on their way and therefore Ms. K has to depart, she became angry and moved all the furniture and artwork around in the vacation home, just to "fuck with his wife".

2) Ms. K is desperate to have a baby. She has begun using a turkey baster to retrieve fresh condoms from her youngest boyfriend after their sex, and insert his sperm, unknown by him.

3) Ms. K has progressed in her job at a major industrial enterprise, with the strength of her ongoing liaisons with her boss who is married with kids, etc.

4) Ms. K is very unstable and needy, that's why she has to have a stable of men who "compete" for her and pay her bills, etc. According to Ms. M, she has confided that "all the men want to fuck me, especially all my girlfriends' husbands".

5) During one of our summer parties in 2020, Ms. K asked me to take her out to the dance floor and dance. She then warned me not to "dip her" because she is "not wearing any panties under this short dress" and then she asked me to take her (alone) up to the rooftop deck to show her the view. We were up there just a few minutes and then SW suddenly popped up the stairs, and asked what we were doing. I was unaware of the Ms. K stuff. Apparently some of the other women always watch Ms. K like hawks, because they know of her shenanigans, and told SW she should go up to the rooftop deck just to be sure. Ms. K was banished from our parties after that night.

What is my responsibility to my friend on this?

You need to have a man to man and warn him... Especially about the turkey baster approach. Doesn't matter how hot she is, this is more dangerous than a dumpster fire next to a fuel truck. I would take an intervention approach, make it very serious so he understands the gravity of the situation. Also tell him you will be saying that "I told you so" if he proceeds. Just wrap up any current obligations and cease and desist... And FFS, don't start fucking her... That good crazy pussy will throw all reason and logic out of the window.

Save him as you would want to be saved... Think about it, he could end up paying child support for the next 18 years plus dealing with her craziness and things like denying access to his kid, brainwashing his kid against him, etc.

[slenderfish]

You need to have a man to man and warn him... Especially about the turkey baster approach. Doesn't matter how hot she is, this is more dangerous than a dumpster fire next to a fuel truck. I would take an intervention approach, make it very serious so he understands the gravity of the situation. Also tell him you will be saying that "I told you so" if he proceeds. Just wrap up any current obligations and cease and desist... And FFS, don't start fucking her... That good crazy pussy will throw all reason and logic out of the window.

Save him as you would want to be saved... Think about it, he could end up paying child support for the next 18 years plus dealing with her craziness and things like denying access to his kid, brainwashing his kid against him, etc.

I've done this twice but been careful not to divulge the dirty elements which were shared with me in full confidence. I know him, at this point he would think it most appropriate to ask her about these things so she may have a chance to rebut. And then all hell will break loose!

So I'll continue to warn him. I have told him with no uncertainty to guard his swimmers no matter the situation.

It's all good fun until it gets serious. That is, until someone gets hurt. He does not need an 18-year hurt.

[Long Lurker 34]

I'll post cast members soon.

Ms. W = (skincare girl birthday party May 2022)

Ms. R = (tall blonde model who has sugar daddy billionaire on the sly)

Ms. H = (friend of Ms. R)

Ms. K = (pantygate fame, blonde Daisy Dukes type, deep in the "danger zone" of the hot/crazy matrix)

SW = Slenderwife

SF = Slenderfish (me)

Mr. B = (6'8" Ivy League basketball player, SW cheated with him Sep 2020 but SW maintains they did not have sex)

Mr. S = (SW's choice of 6'9" hunky man for her first hotwife experience; they got together late 2020 had sex multiple times, etc. but he did not dote on her so she cut him loose)

Mr. M = (SW's first effort at using her sexual power as a hotwife to seduce, she fucked him for sport in Nov/Dec 2020; they had dated over 15 years ago and he had expressed fidelity to his post-divorce younger girlfriend but SW found it an ego trip to get him to sleep with her)

Mr. G = (SW's longtime personal trainer, a hunky black man who she initially described to me as "the most handsome black man I ever seen in person")

Mr. J = (New guy black man whom SW danced with and got his number this past Saturday night)

Mr. E = (handsome acquired yacht in early 2021 to score women)

Ms. MC = (Mr. E's girlfriend summer 2021 to present, made move on SW in July 2021 but SW didn't like it and considers her a "slut")

Ms. Ch = (former playboy model)

Ms. M = (SW friend who encouraged her to lap dance, pole dance, the only person to see the Mr. B cheating security video)

Mr. Handsome = (childhood best friend of Mr. E)

Ms. T = (private luxury jet pilot, went out with Mr. E for a minute)

Ms. I = (friend of SW and SF, lives in Europe)

Ms. Norse = (wife of Mr. Handsome)

Mr. C = (Mr. Italian)

Ms. J = (recent new friend of SW; I got her together as friend of SW after she spurned Mr. E)

Sf - Correct me if I'm wrong, as I could have threads mixed up, but was there a woman you were sort of seeing at one point?

[slenderfish]

Sf - Correct me if I'm wrong, as I could have threads mixed up, but was there a woman you were sort of seeing at one point?

No, nothing on my side. I've observed women around from time to time, SW's friends, who seem to have a of an affinity for me, but I have never pursued any of that. Ms. S was a bit provocative at one time, but I never took the opportunity to pursue or even tease it out.

[aztd]

Great story, beautiful lady. How many encounters men has she had as a hot wife.

[afagehi7]

You need to have a man to man and warn him... Especially about the turkey baster approach. Doesn't matter how hot she is, this is more dangerous than a dumpster fire next to a fuel truck. I would take an intervention approach, make it very serious so he understands the gravity of the situation. Also tell him you will be saying that "I told you so" if he proceeds. Just wrap up any current obligations and cease and desist... And FFS, don't start fucking her... That good crazy pussy will throw all reason and logic out of the window.

Save him as you would want to be saved... Think about it, he could end up paying child support for the next 18 years plus dealing with her craziness and things like denying access to his kid, brainwashing his kid against him, etc.

I've done this twice but been careful not to divulge the dirty elements which were shared with me in full confidence. I know him, at this point he would think it most appropriate to ask her about these things so she may have a chance to rebut. And then all hell will break loose!

So I'll continue to warn him. I have told him with no uncertainty to guard his swimmers no matter the situation.

It's all good fun until it gets serious. That is, until someone gets hurt. He does not need an 18-year hurt.

We'll be interested to see what he says. hopefully he is smart enough to realize that you are telling him the truth. Wild and crazy pussy has a way of blinding us. He has money so preggo will be extremely high on her agenda and if she is the type to turkey baste without the guy knowing, he doesn't stand a chance. He'll be a father, she'll use the kid against him and make sure the kid hates him... SOP for batshit crazy.

[solstice]

Slenderfish writes: I'll post cast members soon.

A cast of thousands (almost) thank you for the list it can be difficult to remember all your friends

[slenderfish]

Great story, beautiful lady. How many encounters men has she had as a hot wife.

One serious encounter with Mr. B which is "under protest" by her as noted above (she claims there was no sex), which was after I'd asked her to consider becoming a hotwife but before there was any mutual agreement/understanding. Some prior lead-up encounters that looked and felt to me like she was up to something, but these were all just that, leading up to the undisclosed overnight sleepover when I was out of town.

A few times after that with this new Mr. S whom she selected "out of the wild" to try it out. She'd met him before, found him tall and handsome, and decided to pursue once she got her mind around the hotwife concept.

A one-off with Mr. M whom she'd dated many years before, and whom I'd assumed she was still holding in enamor because of her years-long efforts to see him and keep in contact with him on the sly, but which I always stumbled onto. The one-off was during a long weekend/week when she was meeting Mr. S but had an open night and ended up seducing Mr. M.

Not sure how to count the above, but pretty much three separate guys.

[setv4]

Have a Very Happy Birthday SF!!

[slenderfish]

We had our session with the therapist yesterday. The normal flow was interrupted by a bit of an emergency between SW and me.

I may have mentioned that Mr. Italian showed up to the Sunday afternoon barbecue party with Ms. K as his date. He knows Ms. K through SW. He also knows all about pantygate (he was there) and that SW has banished Ms. K from her life.

Apparently SW still holds quite a bit of energy about Ms. K and the pantygate night. Earlier this week, SW asked me if I believe Mr. Italian will be inviting Ms. K to my big birthday party. I said I do not know, but that I'll see Mr. Italian on Wednesday at boys' night, and find out. So I did. He did invite her and intends to bring her.

SW freaked out and said "no fucking way" etc. I said that my friends can bring whomever they like, that the invitation (from SW) included the invitee plus one guest. And that it is the responsibility of the person bringing the guest to determine the suitability of the guest and their appropriate behavior at the party. So Mr. Italian may bring Ms. K and that I will remind him of her difficult history with SW and that he should take extra care to be sure there is no issue at the party.

SW disagreed and said she will not attend the party if Ms. K is in attendance.

I was flustered and was out of solutions, and therefore suggested we address the issue with our couples' therapist.

[veub]

Just my opinion:
She has a perfect right to decide who will attend event at her home and can exclude anyone to whom she has an objection.
The Italian guy should be told that he is welcome but if he brings K he will not be allowed in.
I can't believe this is even an issue.

[Roadtripking]

Verb,

Please note: not long ago Mr. E had a party on his yacht and SW demanded SF get Mr. B (making Mr. B an extra plus one) an invite to the party knowing full well that Mr. E had no desire to allow Mr. B ever to attend any party hosted by Mr. E. But now when a guest with a invite “plus one” to a party SW is cohosting with SF, SW makes ultimatum over a “plus one”.

I would never have asked Mr. E if Mr. B could attend his yacht party. I didn’t think that was appropriate. On the other hand, if Mr. E had invited a woman to his yacht party with a “plus one” and she brought Mr. B, then Mr. E could either refuse to allow either person to attend, possibly throwing a wet blanket on the whole party or Mr. E could show grace and class allowing Mr. B attend.

I wonder what Miss Manners would say.

[afagehi7]

We had our session with the therapist yesterday. The normal flow was interrupted by a bit of an emergency between SW and me.

I may have mentioned that Mr. Italian showed up to the Sunday afternoon barbecue party with Ms. K as his date. He knows Ms. K through SW. He also knows all about pantygate (he was there) and that SW has banished Ms. K from her life.

Apparently SW still holds quite a bit of energy about Ms. K and the pantygate night. Earlier this week, SW asked me if I believe Mr. Italian will be inviting Ms. K to my big birthday party. I said I do not know, but that I'll see Mr. Italian on Wednesday at boys' night, and find out. So I did. He did invite her and intends to bring her.

SW freaked out and said "no fucking way" etc. I said that my friends can bring whomever they like, that the invitation (from SW) included the invitee plus one guest. And that it is the responsibility of the person bringing the guest to determine the suitability of the guest and their appropriate behavior at the party. So Mr. Italian may bring Ms. K and that I will remind him of her difficult history with SW and that he should take extra care to be sure there is no issue at the party.

SW disagreed and said she will not attend the party if Ms. K is in attendance.

I was flustered and was out of solutions, and therefore suggested we address the issue with our couples' therapist.

Sounds like a brat... She can't chill out for this once at your birthday. Maybe you should stop letting her invite Mr B or someone you don't like.

I'm sure the therapist was on your side. Plus it's too late to reject Ms K, she should have told you well in advance